Texting is a time suck, but guys would rather message back & forth for days than talk on the phone. NOTE: I should’ve ignored after his objection to the call. (Sharing as a learning opp to stop communication when sudden bad behavior emerges, no matter how promising it seemed before)

ThatsWhat__I__Said · 2020-09-04T04:30:30+00:00

"Hearing a person's voice for the first time in person is part of the magic"

What a crock of shit.

This dude is clearly a catfish just looking for some attention.

cupcakedreamz · 2020-09-04T03:40:01+00:00

These guys are complete wastes of time. They will drag their feet, they want nothing serious yet will try to manipulate ✋

43rdaccount · 2020-09-04T03:37:51+00:00

ugh why are they so scared to call, it's just easy

voodo2020 · 2020-09-04T08:45:49+00:00

Um that guy is probably living with a girl lol

Wtfpwned69 · 2020-09-04T03:52:09+00:00

Not really a “talk on the phone before meeting” type of guy? I have never heard of that one before. But I’m sure he would be the type to bang on the first date. Bye and Block!

Platipus6 · 2020-09-04T04:22:27+00:00

"I'm doing absolutely nothing and you seem busy, CALL ME"

😂

PeriAntoinette · 2020-09-04T05:47:01+00:00

I would have ghosted/blocked him right after he uttered "hard to get". I have a pet peeve for writing paragraphs to explain myself when they reveal themselves to be dicks, I simply won't. He's not entitled to an explanation. Good riddance.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-09-04T03:07:25+00:00

Jesus, what weirdo. Delete, block.

daisy_0720 · 2020-09-04T15:41:52+00:00

I have no patience for this bullshit. I'm a working adult, not a fourteen year old. I don't have the time to text inane crap back and forth all day.

You want an adult relationship? Then communicate like a fucking adult. Pick up the phone and call. Have a conversation of substance. Don't waste my time.

The amount of grown men that operate in this way is truly staggering. Literally the biggest turnoff. It's so weak and avoidant, to hide behind a screen because they're terrified of any kind of meaningful communication or running the risk of rejection.

Come back when you're prepared to be men.

Milobear27 · 2020-09-04T08:57:40+00:00

Any man that uses the 😘 emoji belongs in the trash. It’s almost as bad as 😏

Also I’m so sick of men that are frightened and nervous. Good god have some confidence. All this texting confidence with the stupid kissy face but can’t actually speak up. Loser. And it is such a damn time waste! And least the over sexualized f boys can be unmatched quickly. But the back and forth for days sh*t is annoying af.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-09-04T11:10:01+00:00

I hope you have him blocked. I cringed at those extra paragraphs you sent explaining yourself. I would've angrily blocked by that "hard to get" comment. It was so condescending.

keep_my_stuff · 2020-09-04T10:14:57+00:00

your energy is so good :) sensing that he'd be dragged into the phone call and graciously letting him go while you are very clear, not mean at all but still free up your time to do your thing! Inspiring. Please post more queen shit like this in the future, for recovering people pleasers like me!

K80L80 · 2020-09-05T03:07:49+00:00

Wym, he said he talked to someone for an hour?! And he can't call you?

Also what's up with his comments on the movie, I feel like he just read a bunch of reviews to fake it, who gives weird ass stats like that.

cosmic-rebirth · 2020-09-04T07:17:00+00:00

Honestly, this guy seemed very engaging and interested in you and the movie. Not everyone has to want to talk on the phone, there's nothing LVM or HVM about that.

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