Things my suspected high quality man does.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-02-28T19:16:47+00:00

Everyone, she said "suspected" hvm. Stop needlessly nitpicking this wording. It actually is the wording we all settled on months ago here. Op got attacked both for saying that he's high value (not what she said) and also for not saying that he's high value.

Please be constructive.

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shinyjewels · 2021-02-28T18:19:52+00:00

OP I'm glad you found someone who treats you with respect and kindness, but mostly I'm glad you caught the DCIS early. Wishing you all the luck :)

TheDameWithoutASmile · 2021-02-28T20:09:14+00:00

My best wishes for a speedy and healthy recovery for your surgery! I'm glad you seem to have found someone to support you during this time!

pancakejourney · 2021-02-28T19:32:18+00:00

It sounds absolutely wonderful so far! I hope one day (when I actually want to give dating another chance) I will finally find a man who does such things for me. I'm a really passionate and caring person and it was always killing my spark that I got depressingly little in return.
Sometimes I would send packages to my Ex with self baked cake in jars, his favorite meat items from my country (I'm vegetarian) and game codes so we could play something together due to our long distance relationship and much more.
One time he didn't even bother to open the package for 5 days after he received it lol and got pissed at me when I expressed frustration about it.

Suspected high quality man sounds the perfect way to describe it.
I hope it will turn out as a true high value love story.

sadlibrarian · 2021-02-28T19:56:22+00:00

He sounds amazing ❤️I hope he stays that way! Also love the last point. A man who embraces traditionally feminine traits is wonderful. Best of luck with your treatment!

kiripon · 2021-02-28T23:33:37+00:00

he sounds just like my guy. this was such a nice read, i know how wonderful it feels and im glad you found it too! my partner and i have known each other for 3 years, dating 2.5, and not a thing has changed. he somehow keeps showing me more and more love in different ways, keeps outdoing our anniversary dates and regular dates from the last one, even began apprenticing this year at a lucrative trade after which he mentioned MY dreams of moving to the PNW and running a homestead which he said he will fund for us to get to that point after continuously supporting my not-so-lucrative but personally fulfilling hobbies and dreams : ) feels very good inside to have someone truly appreciate you. a good partner that loves you will SHOW you he loves you and cares and thinks about you. i hope he turns out to be the true HVM you deserve!!

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-02-28T20:07:07+00:00

Sounds wonderful! I'm also glad you cought those damn cells early. The best of luck to you! ❤

Villanelloh · 2021-02-28T21:27:46+00:00

Wow all the signs are good. I'm happy for you and I hope your surgery goes well x

pinkmacaroons · 2021-03-01T07:49:31+00:00

So happy for you OP! Aside from the masectomy (good luck with that!!!)1 I can relate to all the things you listed.

Some additional things mine does:

*I have a pretty severe case of leaky gut and have to do this extremely restrictive diet for 6 months. Cant have gluten, sugar, lactose, wheat nor eggs. He went out of his way to find me some great recipes and diet approved snacks. Last weekend he found some glutenfree baker and bought over €30 in bread to stock my freezer with.

*Whenever he sees something he thinks I’d like he just buys it for me. Nothing major but just small thoughtful gifts.

*He always replies to my texts within the hour, let’s me know if he won’t be able to respond in-depth. Even though I don’t care about these things but to him it’s a basic form of respect. Same for his whereabouts. I always know where he is even though I rarely share my own whereabouts

*He was extremely excited to meet my friends so I told him he could join us within the last hour of our Galentine night. He went out of his way to make sure my friends’ cups were filled at all time, showed genuine interest etc. My friends adored him

*He always gets teary-eyed when I tell him I really like him

*His friends, family and even exes knew about me within our first weeks of dating

*He takes care of my dog and is really sweet with him

*He’s very honest and also discloses things that could potentially harm the way I view him because it’s really important to him that I know exactly who I’m dating instead of being bamboozled by some idealised version of him

He also dislikes porn.

I often catch myself thinking this is too good to be true or “How did I deserve this”. But then I remind myself that all of this is “normal” or at least should be. I should be appreciative but not impressed.

pickadaisy · 2021-03-01T02:56:54+00:00

I love that you said “suspected”.

I want to wish you the best in your fight against cancer. 💛

chickenery · 2021-02-28T21:11:19+00:00

That’s awesome. Thanks for sharing!

2021-03-01T00:31:41+00:00

How sweet ❤️ I am glad things are going well for you two. It’s refreshing to hear happy stories

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SmoochOrSmother · 2021-03-01T02:34:41+00:00

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kirandcheese · 2021-02-28T21:02:49+00:00

Wishing you a speedy recovery for your double mastectomy surgery. My mom went through breast cancer in the past and it was the most frightening thing for me. Thank goodness, it was only Stage 1. My heart goes out to women who have had mastectomies.

AntinatalistChick · 2021-02-28T22:55:03+00:00

It's cute 🙂

alien665 · 2021-03-01T00:55:06+00:00

Thank you for sharing he definitely sounds like a keeper :)

dzgata · 2021-03-01T03:27:34+00:00

Aw I’m happy for you OP 🥰 he sounds good so far, I hope things only improve for you moving forward

OkChocolate7617 · 2021-02-28T19:25:38+00:00

I’m happy for you sis! I hope your relationship continues to be wonderful, and you continue finding him to have HV qualities.

Also this is a nice list of qualities for others to look out for in a suspected HVM. Gives me some hope :)

2021-02-28T20:48:15+00:00

Thank you! Great post

papadanku42 · 2021-02-28T19:50:39+00:00

Sounds wonderful but never stop vetting ! My NVM was like this in the first few months (he's a narc, it was lovebombing).

Fingers crossed for you that he's an actual HVM !

Agirlwhosurvived · 2021-02-28T23:19:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing 🤗

throwRA8935747835 · 2021-03-01T13:57:46+00:00

Congrats with your man, and most importantly, battling the cancer! I wish you all the best 💕

My boyfriend has recently noticed that I like my tea to a different temperature than his, so he warmed his mug in the microwave to ensure that "we would both be able to drink our tea at the same time" instead of him finishing before me 😂 It is the most ridiculous thing, but I love how attentive he is.

2021-03-01T14:03:53+00:00

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Asizella · 2021-03-01T16:54:36+00:00

Thank you for sharing your green flag examples! I love these sort of posts.

Candid_Check_4843 · 2021-03-01T04:11:01+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing! He sounds amazing. I'm really happy for you ❤

shutup201 · 2021-03-01T05:23:06+00:00

I hope he stays this way or gets better. Also, best wishes on your surgery.

oscine23 · 2021-03-05T06:19:30+00:00

I started dating my guy around the same time and he does the same things. It feels amazing. I'm still vetting him, of course, but so far so good! Best of luck with your surgery!

2021-02-28T18:32:11+00:00

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Title	Things my suspected high quality man does.
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Date	February 28, 2021 6:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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