This is just sad

Summerisle7 · 2020-07-10T17:02:20+00:00

Ah, the lashing out at the person who tells her she was worth more than that. Textbook.

S3mirmis · 2020-07-10T17:03:46+00:00

My husband is a total POS and its OTHER WOMEN'S FAULT!

The Pick-Me Queen, y'all.

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-07-10T17:25:35+00:00

My soon-to-be ex husband also did this, but we were both about to get out of the military. He got a job in another state and he needed me to sell the house while I finished my service (his service ended 4 months before mine ended). Never had a wedding or honeymoon. Never actually proposed. Got our rings at Sam's club the day of. He said that we would have a real wedding, honeymoon, and new rings eventually. He never wore his ring.

This is a very military thing.

thialson · 2020-07-10T18:39:55+00:00

“You don’t know our situation”

You...literally just told us the situation.

Avisimara · 2020-07-10T17:10:34+00:00

The "situation" is clear: This guy only wanted marriage because it was required by the Navy. He didn't get down on one knee and propose with a ring. He didn't give this woman a proper wedding ceremony/reception. And now she's complaining knowing good and well that it was her fault from the beginning, for tolerating this nonsense behavior. Very sad indeed.

RadarFemef · 2020-07-10T17:27:40+00:00

Oh wow, she sounds like a pickme and proud of it. 🤮

galian84 · 2020-07-10T18:01:32+00:00

This is just sad. And the guy didn't want to marry her because he loved her, but for benefits. Makes me think of my best friend, who I adore, but one day she admitted that her husband never proposed to her, and she didn't even know they were engaged for a few weeks.

She just mentioned that she would like to be married one day, and he was just like "okay let's get married then." He didn't even tell his family for awhile, either.

Some women think that all that matters, is that they have a man. Very cringe 😬

dntbfllikeidid · 2020-07-10T20:07:23+00:00

I mean, she DID marry the scrote anyway, didn’t she? So, it IS actually “her problem for saying yes to that”. Lol

Shaakie · 2020-07-10T19:07:26+00:00

What a trashy person, honestly.

Myplummms · 2020-07-11T03:45:03+00:00

She's still defending him after he treated her like this? It's like a raccoon guarding trash!

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-07-10T22:37:38+00:00

He would’ve been dropped so fast smh

PanItWitMe · 2020-07-11T01:08:59+00:00

Dude you JUST told her your situation.

Rdrses · 2020-07-11T05:36:50+00:00

That's....not even true about the navy? What? Does he think he's funny?

hypathiaofalexandria · 2020-07-12T03:40:10+00:00

I told my now husband when we first met (after a nightmare abusive marriage) that I would never get married again in my life and he better never ask. When I changed my mind, years later after I realized that it was possible to actually have a normal relationship and I was pregnant, and I couldn’t really figure out how to tell him that I did want marriage so I decided to propose to him. Its just a funny story now. We are still together 10 years later. But this kind of bs proposal is shitty and thoughtless. Its a life time commitment, not something you just arrogantly expect will happen.

learnsayr · 2020-07-10T19:51:27+00:00

He told her, did not even ask her for marriage,

baldheadedo · 2020-07-11T09:52:41+00:00

She’s mad but that commenter is right. No one told you to say yes to that

Title	This is just sad
Author	PossibleCook
Upvotes	455
Comments	43
Date	July 10, 2020 4:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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