I went on about 10 dates with this guy over about 4 months. He seemed ok but kind of closed off. That was my main red flag. He invited me over to his apartment and I saw mail with a females name. Thinking he lived with a woman I did some social media snooping and the girl used to be him. I'm not sure if I can continue dating or not. I guess it's understandable but it feels off, not because of the trans thing but because how easily he made up stories about growing up a boy. He even showed me pictures. Information he offered up without me even asking about his childhood. What do you guys think?