“We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”

pink_lioness · 2020-08-23T17:09:46+00:00

Ah yes the classic: the only thing worse than sexual harassment and assault is hurting men's feelings by talking about it.

Avoiding_existence · 2020-08-23T16:04:24+00:00

"Sexism is fun" sure bud, get back to me when you're denied a job, discredited, disrespected, or attacked by women because of this "sexism"

eveninghope · 2020-08-23T16:24:20+00:00

Yeah, dude's got a point. Sucks to be held to some modicum of accountability, when women literally cannot walk alone in public without being harassed. I feel for the guy.

MakeURegret · 2020-08-23T16:27:57+00:00

Wow if this affects your mental health then men truly are the weaker sex. As if women don’t hear 10x worse on a daily basis.

strangerinthealps_ · 2020-08-23T16:31:18+00:00

He could have deleted every line of this and replaced it with “waaaaaaaaaaah.”

AyemHerself · 2020-08-23T18:36:39+00:00

If your go to response is to do "absolutely nothing" and belittle a woman for her feelings, rather than call out other men to be better, you are part of the problem. "Not all men" my ass.

What_u_callme · 2020-08-23T18:49:36+00:00

Sounds like the kind of man who was standing next to Sen Yoho when he called AOC a "fucking bitch" and did nothing.

A man who is part of the problem by refusing to stand up to the men who violate women.

Chi_shio · 2020-08-23T19:56:37+00:00

Sure, maybe you've done nothing wrong, but what are you doing to make it RIGHT?

YOU are still walking behind a girl in the night, because YOU would never rape her! Who cares if she is scared? I mean, it is not YOUR fault, right?

YOU still get loud and bend over women in arguments or raise a hand. I mean, it's HER fault she is intimidated since YOU would never hit her, right?

YOU still try to talk to women that are alone. Why should she be uncomfortable? She is with YOU and who doesn't like a little small talk while waiting for the night train? SHE is the sensitive one for not wanting to talk to you since you've done NOTHING wrong!

You ARE doing it wrong.

YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THE WOMEN YOU ARE HARASSING WITH THIS BS.

YOU ARE ARROGANT AND SELFISH PRICKS WHO INVALIDATE OUR FEELINGS AND YOU ARE NOT AS INNOCENT AS YOU SAY YOU ARE.

ThePurpleLamborghini · 2020-08-23T16:43:41+00:00

Do males ever get catcalled or harassed on the streets? I’ve heard of fricking UNDERAGE girls just walking down the street and men catcalling them cause they only care about what’s in between the legs. I bet you 10 dollars this guy has never gone through none of that.

textbasedpanda · 2020-08-23T18:27:34+00:00

Imagine parading your insecurity around like this tho.

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-08-23T20:47:02+00:00

Talked to an LVM who tried to slide "men being oppressed too" into our conversation and I was just like "nah." He then pulled the "Oh right. What do I know? I'm just a dumb man, right? Clueless." card.

"Amazingly self aware, though." Block.

Rockypoo13 · 2020-08-23T21:40:48+00:00

Sooooo.... we should shut up about violence and assault against women because it might hurt a man’s feelings? Wow.

2020-08-23T16:27:48+00:00

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AmyQueenofWands · 2020-08-23T21:30:51+00:00

IMAGINE BEING PUT IN A BOX BASED ON YOUR GENDER

Every day I care less about the "men's mental health crisis"

It doesn't fucking exist. You know what their crisis is? It's their impulsiveness and violence. It's what causes them to commit horrible acts against others AND themselves. They aren't more sad than women as a whole. It's just that when women go through deep depression, they internalize it, maybe isolate themselves, maybe get into drugs if they don't get the help they need. When men go through deep depression, they murder their wife and kids and jump off a bridge. THEY BUILT THAT BOX.

Fuck. I just had a close friend go through horrible trauma because her fiance had a massive manchild meltdown and threatened to hurt himself, left an extremely hurtful "suicide note" (basically "my life sucks my job sucks my family(fiance and dog) sucks. bye") Now he's in a hospital eating jello while her life crumbles around her and I can't even comfort her because I'm just so mad for her.

I'm sorry this went ranty. I can't talk about this with people who know me

adajoana · 2020-08-23T20:04:18+00:00

Men are not oppressed, but maybe they should be.

MalloryDame · 2020-08-23T22:10:05+00:00

If the shoe fits, buddy... What is it with men needing to always chip in with "nOt Me ThOUgH" like if you don't see yourself represented in the statement, why even bother to reply?

It's like someone driving past a pasture, sees lambs, parks their car, goes up to the farmer and tells them "but I don't eat lambs!" then drives off leaving a very tired farmer in their wake.

plummyjellyfish · 2020-08-24T04:19:45+00:00

Everything bad that happens to men is because of other men.

Didn't get custody? It's because patriarchal ideas include the concept that women make better nurturers than men, men should be out making money rather than looking after kiddies.

Got drafted? Old men start wars and force young men into the meat grinder.

Feel the pressure to repress your emotions? That's because men think emotions are feminine (except for rage and lust), and they police the hell out of any man who steps out of the box.

What the fuck do you want us women to do about problems that men cause? Jesus Christ.

mrspinster · 2020-08-23T22:22:04+00:00

"I'm a victim, feel bad for me :(." Why does this sound like it was written by my ex lmao.

juliet-elia · 2020-08-24T04:23:56+00:00

I'm sorry my fear of being raped, stalked and killed at night made you uncomfortable Jason.

ItsFreezen · 2020-08-23T23:48:40+00:00

I'm not giving him the benefit of the doubt. Has he ever catcalled, watched porn,degraded women online?..... ah probably.

PanzramsTransAm · 2020-08-24T01:13:45+00:00

Literally no one is stopping them from getting therapy or working on their mental health??? They act like there’s a mean woman at the door who won’t let them in to their therapist’s office.

--wellDAM-- · 2020-08-23T23:02:10+00:00

Second flu by: cry bitch. I got some $$$ to dry your eyes

mostdefinitelynturs · 2020-08-23T23:44:16+00:00

Itkindais? Itskindanot

Eine-frau · 2020-08-24T00:32:50+00:00

How about you (it kinda is) tell men to stop being sh*tty so that they won’t make you look bad.

oasisreverie · 2020-08-24T03:46:59+00:00

Imagine thinking you're so innocent that you've never done anything wrong.

Title	“We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”
Author	theperfectsunflower
Upvotes	300
Comments	33
Date	August 23, 2020 4:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/if5o3g/were_oppressed_too/
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