Asking him out first, asking for his number, initiating most texts, initiating asking for exclusivity, etc.

For me personally, this got me used. Badly. After he used me for what he wanted, he seamlessly bridged to the woman he actually wanted that he wasn’t planning on using. At the beginning, I asked for his number (he already had my Instagram but still), initiated when we would hang out, initiated exclusivity talk (he agreed to exclusivity, turned out to be a lie), initiated talk about maybe having a real relationship later on (he future faked after agreeing to this).

Been an awful experience. And I’ve heard many experiences like mine, where the guy just goes along for the ride at the expense of the woman who ends up used and heartbroken. Because why would he turn down free, easy sex on tap?

I’d like to hear your experiences.