WHERE’S THE LIE?

girludontbringhome · 2020-11-16T00:08:11+00:00

Dating straight men is so counter-intuitive. I kept pursuing and working hard for what I wanted career-wise, and I was rewarded. If I applied the same logic to dating though, I would just be taken advantage of. It really confuses me.

2020-11-15T22:44:33+00:00

This why you should NEVER feel bad about keeping your standards sky high. Never compromise, never settle, never give into social pressure.

Twolipz_78 · 2020-11-15T22:54:57+00:00

Well I know for me it was (and still kind of is) working on childhood trauma and daddy issues. The “need” for external male validation and approval that I thought I couldn’t live without.

eatchickpeas · 2020-11-15T22:15:37+00:00

seriously though i dont get why straight women are straight. its a miracle tbh. despite how low the bar is for men, despite all the abuse and suffering they place on women we collectively still dont go on murderous rampages or outright hate men. ive never heard of a female school shooter who got upset about being rejected from a date. you can walk into any book shop and buy books about men murdering women. rape in my country is endemic despite the tired mantra that 'men ProTect wOmEn'. heterosexuality feels like a conspiracy at times

vntgRN90 · 2020-11-16T04:44:14+00:00

Even worse: being attracted to a gay man. When he's so fabulous but will never like you lol. Cruel. And straight men who can actually like you are just horrible.

99power · 2020-11-16T02:39:34+00:00

My lesbian friends are trying to rehabilitate me out of it and yet 😂

fermata102 · 2020-11-16T03:30:01+00:00

This is one of those funny Memes I want to share publicly but would immediately be branded as problematic

libralia · 2020-11-15T23:20:12+00:00

Yup, Color me coo coo bird because this is true. I giggled to hard at this. 🤦🏻‍♀️

FadeToLife · 2020-11-15T23:35:23+00:00

I’m a gay woman who spent way too much of my life trying to be straight for my parents views. My best advice is “don’t”’ I’ll be the first to say women can be just as grimey but they’re much more likely to give you an outlet.

Hmtnsw · 2020-11-15T22:15:35+00:00

Dead.

hiphopanonymous98 · 2020-11-15T22:54:26+00:00

This!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

emtoots · 2020-11-16T02:12:50+00:00

And there is no known treatment. I feel like we need a specifically colored women abs month of awareness!

Lizard301 · 2020-11-16T01:20:14+00:00

Girl, YAAAASSSSSS!

tasdron · 2020-11-16T02:28:32+00:00

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha omg

Title	WHERE’S THE LIE?
Author	desertwildfire
Upvotes	2216
Comments	38
Date	November 15, 2020 8:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jut3f7/wheres_the_lie/
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