Only male incels are shamed

Icy-Turnip8985 · 2023-11-06T07:07:47+00:00

Absolutely right.

The moment men mention women in their frustrations people cry "don't you blame it on women and start working on yourself, incel". People saying they are sick of men whining and complaining.

But when women lament about men it is rather "i am sorry for my fellow men behaving this way", some people wanting to get in her pants and women supporting her all the way.

Inbalanced in both directions.

Society is dogshit.

masterkey8 · 2023-11-06T07:50:47+00:00

Men who have complaints about women or dating are shamed with language like incels.

Women don’t like confrontation. Whenever their mistakes are pointed out, they deflect and shame men with buzz words like incel, misogyny, sexist etc.

They believe that nothing is wrong with them and all the issues associated with dating must be the fault of men.

I mean in all those tiktok’s about women complaining about dating, you wont find a single TikTok where a woman admits her mistake publicly, it’s always in the ballpark of “How men can improve to date me”.

Knight_of_Templar · 2023-11-06T07:44:57+00:00

I believe a better term for female incels would be spinster. Most of the women complaining about how hard dating is are spinsters.

NCC-1701-1 · 2023-11-06T08:59:49+00:00

Modern dating dynamics were created by women who only chase the top 5% of men. When they are complaining they talking about not being able to get one of those top 5% all to themselves, the rest of us simply dont exist in their minds. Defeated by mathematial reality it all only works for mostly those top men, everyone else is unhappy. The fat ugly women of course become feminists and are celebrated even though they are mostly worthless.

I am not an incel but I understand it. We must become a more supportive group with each other, its all we got.

antifeminist3 · 2023-11-06T20:41:09+00:00

Feminists have conflated male incels with 'hating women'. I've seen two videos of self-described incels on youtube. Both were above average looking but had severely low esteem and shyness. And both knew this and blamed no one.

It's a product of feminist misandry.

bnhncnyc · 2023-11-06T09:32:27+00:00

Women are not shamed for anything at all nowadays. They have leeway to do literally anything they want, even commit murder, and get away with it completely.

Acousmetre78 · 2023-11-06T13:47:06+00:00

It's wired how women say men are sex obsessed when all they seem to value is how much sex a man can get or not

Infinite_Procedure98 · 2023-11-06T11:34:53+00:00

Let's remember the one who coined the term "incel" was a woman, talking about women. This is all ridiculous.

Incel (/ˈɪnsɛl/ IN-sel) is a portmanteau of "involuntary celibate".[1] Originally coined as "INVCEL" around 1993 to 1997 by a queer Canadian female student known as Alana, the term rose to prominence in the 2010s as it became closer associated with an online subculture of people (mostly white,[2] male, and heterosexual[3]) who define themselves as unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one.[4][5][6]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

WeepingWillow_Lotus · 2023-11-06T09:09:36+00:00

Yes and it annoys me because half them have absolutely no idea what incel means, just like they have no idea what misogyny is. They just hear a word and run with it.

NibblyPig · 2023-11-06T16:59:00+00:00

Incel men were traditionally guys that get told if they're Nice Guys women will like them, so they often become doormats for women. Recently though it's difficult to find women because the media has terrorised women into being scared of men, and the only way to break through that is to be chad enough to elicit positive emotion that overrides the panic.

Incel women as you describe are basically women that coast by on their emotions and feelings, 'empowered' by society that tells them they can do no wrong and they're god's gift to humanity. This means they don't look at things objectively, they just gorge on their emotions, which means fucking high value males on tinder. Since the women are lower value, but high value males are happy to fuck down, women are surprised to find they don't want a relationship with them.

hottake_toothache · 2023-11-06T15:11:27+00:00

People don't care about men.

danielm316 · 2023-11-06T20:21:36+00:00

Incel is the new n word.

Spins13 · 2023-11-06T08:13:53+00:00

The word incel initially referred to women. It was only later that it was attributed to men and the counterpart femcel exists now

movementmerit · 2023-11-06T11:34:05+00:00

If they get casual sex then they literally aren't incels. They are complaining about dating life.

Incel means involuntarily celibate.

Deutscher_Ritter · 2023-11-06T13:07:13+00:00

Remember:

When men can't date they are incels

When women can't date they are just asexual

No_Assumption_5864 · 2023-11-06T11:00:07+00:00

That's because female incels don't call themselves femcels, but instead they prefer to call themselves radical feminists

DaCodZombies · 2023-11-06T07:53:48+00:00

High IQ, its astonishing how FEDS isn't banned yet.

Angryasfk · 2023-11-06T08:53:35+00:00

Ah but those women are “victims of patriarchy”! Double standards across the board. And they have the gall to claim we have them.

Aimless-Nomad · 2023-11-06T08:18:03+00:00

You should rename the title to "Only men are shamed"

APA770 · 2023-11-06T14:26:05+00:00

...and that is why men should slutshame women.

RichLong77 · 2023-11-06T09:13:09+00:00

Homeless men have girlfriends. I saw a couple the other day and I thought of incels.

noone_thing · 2023-11-06T16:17:04+00:00

Female incels acting like 1930's men

If it's okay for them, then was it really that bad for men back then?

Sea2Chi · 2023-11-06T18:21:23+00:00

That's actually somewhat of a recent change.

For a long time being an "old maid' or "spinster" was a shameful thing.

Mothers would threaten their daughters with that future if they didn't shape up and figure out how to attract men.

The rise of more people being happily child free has changed that somewhat and the idea that if women don't have kids their life is a waste is going by the wayside.

fuckthemoddsofreddit · 2023-11-06T16:07:12+00:00

I've been banned from other subs and forums just for speaking on the subject. Called an incel and shamed and banned. its a joke.

Society doesnt want rejected men to speak. They want us to shut up and pay our taxes.

Otherwise_Amount9854 · 2023-11-06T13:40:42+00:00

And while we're already at it: why is no one telling sexist women to touch grass?

hero_killer · 2023-11-06T18:13:20+00:00

Incel women are the modern feminists.

Those people are full of negative emotions and society has them labeled as something good and necessary as a response to nonexisting men domination and a patriarchal society.

Vova_Vist · 2023-11-07T03:24:29+00:00

"not being able to be in relationships with men they want" men they want is a Chad and Chad doesn't want sub5 women

plumberack · 2023-11-06T11:54:27+00:00

or just go to AWDTSG fb groups. They have over 3 million women posting photos of men who rejected them.

AggroPro · 2023-11-06T12:26:54+00:00

Nailed it. Femcels is a thing now. Good observation.

Vova_Vist · 2023-11-07T03:22:45+00:00

female incels barely exists, maybe some disabled girls only can be incels or completely mentally ill ones like full blown out schizophrenics

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2023-11-06T16:18:56+00:00

I don't think those are equivalent at all.

HenryCGk · 2023-11-06T15:37:58+00:00

Something something keys and locks,

The wokeies are incredibly based if you translate what they say in to nomal English.

barkmagician · 2023-11-06T16:53:52+00:00

to speak from a neutral perspective. its a fair double standard. the same reason why sluts are being shamed and playboys are being praised (and for the record, no i dont praise playboys, but a lot do).

as a man, preserving your bodycount is easy while raising it is a challenge
as a woman, preserving your bodycount is a challenge while raising it is easy
challengers are praised while an easy route is shamed.

Q: But wait, isnt it unfair if men can f_ck around without being shamed? Actually yes they do - if they take the easy route to getting laid (by hiring prostitutes).

A: The male equivalent of a slut would be men who racked up their bodycount by hiring prostitutes.

you dont need to charming to be a slut = you dont need to be charming to hire a hooker
you can be fat and still be a slut = you can be fat and still hire a hooker
you can be a loser and still be a slut = you can be a loser and still hire a hooker
you can be broke and still be a slut = you can be "somewhat" broke and still hire a hooker

SO YES YES YES. Men with high bodycount do get shamed (assuming they got it the easy way).

As for the incel shaming, yes it is fair but it is quite sad. Since men dont generally shame the ugly women who are unable to get a huband.

masterkey8 · 2023-11-06T07:42:54+00:00

Men who have complaints about women or dating are shamed with language like incels.

They rather shame and guilt trip men into submission than try to fix their own issues and work on themselves. They never like to agree that they are at fault even if they are unable to find a partner or unable to secure a date.

They always like to believe that nothing is wrong with their ways or themselves but the fault of men, that they cant find a partner.

Ill-Effect-8348 · 2023-11-12T10:30:26+00:00

Yes bc female incels are nonexistent

DrewYetti · 2024-05-24T13:17:55+00:00

An example of cognitive bias as whenever women complain about dating society has to change but when men complain about dating they have to change and get on with it.

Also I refer those female incels as feminists.

OldTrapper87 · 2023-11-06T16:42:31+00:00

Contrary to the feminist propaganda men and women are not the same nor do we complain about an issue the same way.

Women are more likely to put up with an abusive husband and a man is more likely to live in a bush beside a cougar rather than put up with a crazy abusive partner.

Because of that I do not tolerate whining from my fellow men. If want to complain about something I will help you fix it but I don't want to hear anyone complaining just for the sake of complaining that's women do.

As for the word incels I've be call it before and I find it very derogatory

Local-Willingness784 · 2023-11-07T01:04:38+00:00

i mean, is inceldom (being unable to get a relationship despite of wanting to be in one) really a problem for women?

i have no idea about what women complain in social media, nor do i want to know but from my corner of the internet inceldom seems to be a pretty gendered issue, as in, is a mens issue.

adding that the women (with all kinds of looks) that i know in real life complaining about all the male attention that they get and stuff like that, the number of sexless/lonely/single/in Suffering women may as well be non-existent.

Igualdad23M · 2023-11-09T18:17:12+00:00

Swinging pendulum effect doesn't exist. Societies tend to reinforce what already are overtime. This is why in the XVI century in Portugal, used to speak portuguese and today still speaking portuguese instead of speak russian, by "swing pendulum effect".

A society who traditionally has shamed men for not getting laid won't suddently give way to a society where men are not shamed for not getting, but instead will create new words (aka incel) to shame men, in other words reinforce what already are.

This is how societies work this is why culture even exist, if societies continuously "jump" from X values to Z values we couldn't even have societies and cultures as a concept.

Title	Only male incels are shamed
Author	EfficientSimplicity
Upvotes	527
Comments	87
Date	November 6, 2023 7:02 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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