PSA: Vasectomies aren’t always reversible.

Monster3gamez · 2022-07-01T07:04:08+00:00

The success rate stil drops over the years and even if u connect them there is no guarantee there be eny life in them sacs

Adanu0 · 2022-07-01T08:47:52+00:00

I'm amazed that I'm seeing calls for mandatory Vasectomies in some of the mainstream corners of the internet, including fetlife of all places, to 'show solidarity with women'.

Just goes to show you how little these feminazis give a fuck about our reproductive options.

Viesegel · 2022-07-01T06:17:05+00:00

If the woman wants to avoid getting pregnant, it also not obvious that the man should be the one to get a vasectomy. There's no guarantee that her current partner is the only man she will have sex with for the rest of her life.

If she never wants to have children again, she should be getting her tubes tied instead.

WeEatBabies · 2022-07-01T10:30:27+00:00

PSA, Feminists are bad faith actors here telling you to get a vasectomy, they know it does almost nothing to protect you from parenthood, for they have been passing laws for decades to be able to force men into fatherhood weather they use condoms, get vasectomies or fully abstain :

While married, if a woman falls pregnant the child is legally yours, even if you have a paternity test done and genetically it's not yours, legally : it is.

Not married, no problems, feminists came up with common-law marriage : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage

Example ... FTFA : "In Nova Scotia, a couple must cohabit for two years in a marriage-like relationship, and may not have been married to another person during this time."

And that's a married without a pre-nup at that!!

Forced marriage is considered slavery by the U.N., but it's OK when feminists do it!

Also those feminist who like to lecture people on consent, keep denying it to men by law : https://petition.parliament.uk/archived/petitions/124524

So even while raped, we still have to pay child support.

That's in the U.K.,

In the U.S. you have : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hermesmann_v._Seyer

Feminist already had a kid and was unable to secure child support, no problems, all she needs to do is roommate with a dude for a while and tell the court the guy became a fatherly figure for the child, ... and boom : Child support.

Child support payment not big enough cuz shared custody, punch the guy in the face, if he merely pushes you to get away, he violated the violence against women's act, ... boom full custody, more child support! That's true even if he has it on video, ... god help him if there is no video!

Men have 0 reproductive rights and we never had any!

P.S.: I'm pro-choice, .... and men should have access to the same "Safe heaven laws women have to forgo their responsibilities" But feminist won't let us, and to what extent does child support and alimony affect men?

To a full 20% of the GDP, stolen from men, given to women : https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/71-222-x/2008001/c-g/desc/desc-h1-eng.htm

Theinevitablethanos6 · 2022-07-01T09:54:25+00:00

and yet all we see now is saying men should get on why not women get their tubes tied.If they won't why should men.

brokedown · 2022-07-01T13:17:40+00:00

The default state is that vasectomies are not reversible, not the other way around. Whoever started suggesting it made sense as a temporary measure was either very ignorant or very evil, because now it's popping up on low iq facebook memes.

RandomofEmbers · 2022-07-01T06:57:12+00:00

That vasectomy stuff.

From medical and practical perspective, it is much easier for women to just take birth control, wich is reversible, and mostly safe (I know about side effects but you should pick your pills under the guidance of gynecologist, no exceptions).

But, looks like it is typical strain of though. "If something bothers you, just cut it off". Not unlike circumcision.

Wich is absolutely idiotic mindset, if you ask me.

Roro-Squandering · 2022-07-01T09:47:58+00:00

One of the things that's been driving me the most nuts about the recent abortion controversy is all the false equivalencies that have been popping up relating abortions to vasectomies. Like I'm seeing guys making clout posts on Facebook about how they got snipped. Literally calling the procedure 'perfectly reversible' (it isn't)

If abortions were as likely to cause irreversible infertility as vasectomies people might make different choice. Obviously either of these procedures can be performed if the person is fully aware of the risks but I'm tired of them being put as equivalent when they aren't the same and don't serve the same purpose.

Mad_Hatter_92 · 2022-07-01T12:34:24+00:00

To all you angry women… there’s only 2 acceptable methods of preventing pregnancy while also being fair to both peoples bodies:

Use a condom

Don’t have sex

Few-Past6073 · 2022-07-01T16:16:04+00:00

Any dude right now who's getting their balls snipped for a whiff of pussy is pathetic lmao stand your ground fellas

DueLearner · 2022-07-01T11:32:11+00:00

Had a vasectomy last year. They told me on average vasectomies had a 60% successful reversal rate.

MNCPA · 2022-07-01T11:39:11+00:00

If you don't want kids, then get a vasectomy. If you want kids, then don't get a vasectomy.

Life is about choices. Some choices are irreversible. It's your body; it's your choice.

youropinionsaredumb · 2022-07-01T09:54:14+00:00

Vasectomy-haver here. Decided to be childfree in my early 20s and couldn't trust the women I was dating to respect those wishes. Not just does fertility drop off, but the antibodies that cross the blood barrier to attack the sperm (if they have nowhere to go, they become the body's enemy) can also cross the blood barrier in the brain and become a contributing factor to dementia.

I do everything I can to mitigate the risk, but the procedure is ultimately very risky in the long term if you get it done as a young person. I just never expected to live long anyway, and whatever happens, happens.

pappo4ever · 2022-07-01T14:46:33+00:00

There is something very dark going on. It's becoming 'trendy' to perform a vasectomy. Literally self-sterilization, promoted by women and specially feminists.

Who in their right mind would do this? except if you have 5 kids already. It sounds to me like some big social-engineering stuff going on.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2022-07-01T14:01:50+00:00

Bin saying this for years and years. Any plastic surgery. Or any surgery for that matter. Has about a 40 procent chance to not be reversible. Or can be but not even close to the same degree it was before. Why you dont make permanent choices for temporary feelings

5fingerdiscounts · 2022-07-01T15:49:38+00:00

Good thing I’m to scared to have sore balls I’m not gunna get it lol

McFeely_Smackup · 2022-07-01T16:28:22+00:00

When I had my vasectomy done, my doctor made me sign a form that said I understood that vasectomy was permanent. He refused to talk about reversal in any way, and stood his ground on "permanent".

Anything less and the doctor is opening themself up to lawsuits

binkerfluid · 2022-07-01T16:29:31+00:00

yes but im told "its the right thing to do" as some kind of dumb symbolic gesture for some reason lol

GG1312 · 2022-07-01T17:11:03+00:00

Vasectomies are now also being downplayed on it’s effects and the chance of reversibility by women and then by men who had it done.

It’s women that want something from men, then the obeying men who couldn’t care less do it to satisfy other women and then it’s the rest of men who are convinced by women and the men who got it done. That’s how something unacceptable becomes a norm.

I have already heard a lot of things about vasectomies. Most of them include phrases like, “It’s just a snip!”, “It doesn’t hurt at all!”, “It is much less invasive than getting your tubes tied!”, “Vasectomies should be mandatory”, “We should have this be done at birth”, “If it takes getting a vasectomy to please my wife, then I’ll take it.”, and more.

Do any of these phrases sound similar? Does discussions about circumcision ring a bell? It’s the same fallacy again folks.

marks1995 · 2022-07-01T18:54:18+00:00

This needs more attention.

No doctor anywhere will tell you to get a vasectomy if you ever plan on having kids. It is not a temporary procedure. They "might" be able to reverse it, but it should never be counted on.

Igereth · 2022-07-01T21:12:38+00:00

that's true. Sadly abortions are no easy simple solution either. https://www.compasscare.info/health-information/abortion/abortion-risks-and-side-effects/

Temporary_Spend_3111 · 2022-07-02T01:36:36+00:00

I personally want to be sterile

rditusernayme · 2022-07-01T15:10:42+00:00

Does something to cause self to be sterile.

Reads a PSA that says: be warned - you may be sterilised!

Seems like someone missed the point, and I know it wasn't me...

anon16162838401 · 2022-07-01T09:53:06+00:00

Yes, but being on birth control for years has a severe effect on womens reproductive organs as well. The onus should not only be on women to put hormones into their body to prevent pregnancy. This needs to happen on both sides.

r0wbutt · 2022-07-01T07:31:05+00:00

Then don't get one. But you're not owed pussy just because you have a dick and you're horny. If women that don't want kids won't fuck you, find another outlet.

Fair-Lie7125 · 2022-07-01T12:18:35+00:00

Forcing women to carry a pregnancy to term because a small portion of religious extremists want that is pretty damn bad, but you mf out here talking about a half serious response to a decision that is going to affect millions of women in a terrible way. I think you all would be better off if you all stopped with this manosphere shit

IronEagle1337 · 2022-07-01T11:06:24+00:00

That is actually really good news. If you are having doubts, you shouldn't get one in the first place. If you do want to become sterile, it's good to know there is a bigger chance for it to be permanent.

suprmmman · 2022-07-01T14:09:18+00:00

umm either way I'm getting one if abortion is outlawed. The LAST thing I need is being trapped into paying child support the rest of my life because my FWB lied about being on the pill.

thealphateam · 2022-07-01T16:43:29+00:00

Its so rare it works that at the Dr. off I had it done at they had a small tack board of babies born after a reversal. It was rare.

Warder766312 · 2022-07-01T17:05:37+00:00

Yup, though just because the tubes have been cut doesn’t mean you can’t still get the sperm from the testicles for Fertility treatments. It’s not as fun, cost more money and I don’t like the process of getting them out.

Obviously this is still not a guarantee so don’t do it unless you really don’t want kids.

Chaelhitshismum · 2022-07-01T18:17:15+00:00

I'd freeze some sperm ngl

dontwakethellama · 2022-07-01T19:05:35+00:00

I had my vasectomy consultation earlier today. The doctor specifically asked "you're ok that this is not reversible and you won't have kids, right?".

I was happy that he was straightforward and also wasn't trying to sway me by emphasizing different parts of the sentence (i.e. You're SURE you're ok that this isn't reversible?)

gamerlololdude · 2022-07-01T19:28:40+00:00

You can still extract sperm from the testicle and do IVF.

So it doesn’t really make you infertile.

Plus people can always adopt if they want to try the raising a human project, there are so so many kids that need a home.

OCDbeaver · 2022-07-01T19:42:45+00:00

I've never heard anyone say its always reversible. Who says that? Certainly noone doing them says that I don't think.

Lice138 · 2022-07-01T20:24:35+00:00

I wouldn’t count on having it reversed. If you know you’re never going to have or want kids, go for it. It’s the same mentality as cutting off your arm for views because “they can reattach it at the hospital “

DarthDragon117 · 2022-07-01T21:53:21+00:00

Vasectomies are weird in that they can be both permanent and not. Some last forever, some may or may not be medically reversible, and some reverse themselves! Who would trust a procedure like this that isn’t 100% effective?

pooky311 · 2022-07-01T22:18:21+00:00

Even if they were, femnazis would still claim that men can’t be trusted. I wouldn’t even entertain the possibility to go under the knife to please those who can’t be pleased.

2022-07-02T01:46:00+00:00

Do not ...... I repeat do.not be in a relationship with a woman that bugs you about one or demands. If they give you an ultimatum then kick their butt to the curb.

2022-07-02T02:30:30+00:00

This shouldn’t even have to even be said. If you think for one second this is something people should consider for birth control, you’re a fucking dumbass cuck and don’t even deserve children anyway

BaaGoesTheSheep · 2022-07-02T02:49:32+00:00

They are rarely reversible

Skywarriorad · 2022-07-02T05:23:25+00:00

“Have boys get vasectomys when their young and they can reverse it when theyre ready for a family” kill the population with that logic wtf. Like, AT LEAST 10-15 years from childhood to adulthood. Not to mention even longer if they wait till theyre ready for kids(likely another 6-10 years)

Dark-Hatter · 2022-07-02T10:11:05+00:00

What I don’t get is women have all these options when it comes how they prevent/handle a pregnancy. But one just has its sphere of influence reduced, not taken away, and all of a sudden… they demand men go for an option that most doctors say not to look at if you’re not entirely sure. A woman can get an IUD, condoms, plan b, pills, adoption, hysterectomy and much more and because SOME states may ban abortion, you want men to get medically neutered?? When all we have are condoms??

That doesn’t seem fair…

Title	PSA: Vasectomies aren’t always reversible.
Author	National-Aardvark-72
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Date	July 1, 2022 5:44 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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