Receiving random OnlyFans/nudes advertisements from women are just as disrespectful as unsolicited dick pics

atriptothecinema · 2021-07-10T17:43:33+00:00

I'm a minor and this happens all the time to me. It's disgusting.

ImplementNational165 · 2021-07-10T16:57:08+00:00

I want to see porn and nude when I actually want to see it. Not in the middle of the day out of nowhere. Totally agree with you

TwinSong · 2021-07-10T17:54:24+00:00

You think that's the half of it. Just a few days ago i got a message from a random woman on reddit advertising her of and asking if she could "dominate me and turn me into her sissy" (whatever the hell that means). When i told her i was underage she said it didn't matter and that "its just a number"

theOverword · 2021-07-10T16:45:15+00:00

Bruh. You have thousands of nsfw subreddit. So why pay for porn? You can type boobs into Google and you will get better results that only fans

truuuuuuuuuck · 2021-07-10T14:56:21+00:00

the only OF girls I've met are not even attractive and it baffles me people pay to see them naked.

BrickDaddyShark · 2021-07-10T17:29:50+00:00

Im a fuckin 16 year old and I’ve get them all the time. Its fucking sexual harassment but Ive reported it and nobody does anything.

thoushallbeanon · 2021-07-10T14:33:40+00:00

100% agree with you mate. It’s one of the growing numbers of double standards that this fucking alt feminism is pushing.

McFeely_Smackup · 2021-07-10T17:04:39+00:00

I don't know about everyone else here, but I've never in my life sent a dick picture to a woman, unsolicited or otherwise. I've gotten nudes sent to me from so many women I couldn't even remember them all if I had to.

just a few weeks ago I got a random text from a women saying she was going to be "back in town" and wanted to know if I wanted to come over. I responded that she had the wrong number and that I didnt' know her, and she sent back some nude photos asking if I "wanted to get to know her".

Lui_Le_Diamond · 2021-07-11T00:48:39+00:00

I had a random woman connect with me through Snapchat via phone number with a topless pic

austin101123 · 2021-07-11T00:50:34+00:00

I disagree, I think it's worse. With my experience as a bi man, I hate the fucking onlyfans and fake shit I receive much more than dick/ass pics I get on grindr (even when I have it that I dont want pics). At least these guys are being real with me and want me, unlike the women who are just trying to grab my money and not do anything real with me.

0ofs · 2021-07-10T17:53:50+00:00

its funny how feminists have no issue with women manipulating and taking advantage of men for their money

a_kat123 · 2021-07-10T17:44:24+00:00

Yea women now a days are fucking hypocrites. Theyre out here literally saying theyd be fine with their daughters doing this shit. "As long as she is confident." They also see nothing wrong with 13 y-olds having only fans. Wouldn't mind if this world just ended now. Im a woman myself and agree with nothing women now a days are doing. Theyre the same ones who talk shit about men. I have had maybe 2 issues (im 24) where a man was being creepy towards me. From what i have seen, mostly women initiate sexual shit more than men even do. 😆

Selvadoc · 2021-07-10T20:25:49+00:00

Never thought of that way. Good point!

DanteLivra · 2021-07-10T18:44:58+00:00

Yep, it is disgusting.

2021-07-11T11:55:06+00:00

Yeah but no one cares and nothing will happen cause it's a female doing it plus to a male 2 reasons

Albanath · 2021-07-11T11:38:48+00:00

Report them to the IRS or corrisponding tax office. Fixes that nicely.

OriginalFinnah · 2021-07-11T09:34:55+00:00

I saw this post and immediately got mad because half of the girls on Tinder and Bumble that get kicked off of Tinder and all the other dating apps are just on there to advertise their stupid f****** only fans that I'm not going to ever pay for I'm not a Simp. a bunch of them don't even put that they're advertising for it they just put their stupid f****** Snapchat and now I have a bunch of Snapchat hoes begging me to pay for their only fans

ModsGetPegged · 2021-07-11T09:14:37+00:00

I'm also tired of seeing cosplay posts on SFW subs, only to check out their profile and see onlyfans. Like they make skimpy cosplays and post them on clearly SFW subs for the sole reason of advertising their porn. If they were actually into cosplay, they'd post from an account not associated with porn. Fuck them.

Tom6187 · 2021-07-11T08:15:46+00:00

Worse, because they're trying to make money out of you.

Lendari · 2021-07-10T19:49:23+00:00

I've always enjoyed the hypocrisy pushed by feminists that criticizes pornography as being degrading to women but simultaneously glorifies (female) sex workers as being strong and brave fighters against the patriarchy.

Life-Secret · 2021-07-11T05:41:00+00:00

Spam definitely. As disrespectful? Depends if it contains explicit images or text.

SkyfoxSupaFly · 2021-07-11T05:28:03+00:00

I agree whole heatedly. Unsolicited sexual advances are not cool.

OtherLeadingBrands · 2021-07-10T17:48:14+00:00

Honestly tho, this! Sexual harassment is sexual harassment

drfusterenstein · 2021-07-10T22:03:35+00:00

Is there not some option to turn off DMs from random people or something like that?

Wondering if we all bulk report here https://www.snap.com/en-GB/safety/safety-reporting then it might make Snapchat do something.

a_kat123 · 2021-07-10T19:30:39+00:00

Its sucks that girls call me a bitch/cunt because i dont agree with sex work and i believe theres better, healthier ways to express yourself or be confident and make money too.

ApprehensiveMail8 · 2021-07-10T19:32:58+00:00

Yes!!!

"I'm just just doing this to make money" shouldn't be an excuse for sexual harassment, sexual battery, stalking, or rape.

Littleboypurple · 2021-07-10T19:18:13+00:00

I have a Twitter account that I use to follow various artists and stuff I enjoy snd for a while, the random followers I was getting were nothing but, E-girls or Catfish accounts. Like alright, I hope you like looking at the art a gay furry enjoys.

AnjaLittle · 2021-07-11T05:50:52+00:00

As a female, I know you guys don't care what I have to say but I read your posts for a very personal reason and a lot of times I agree with you. Also I apologise ahead because I am German and English is second language. I have a fans site (not onlyfans) but I NEVER send anything unsolicited. I am penalised for that however...because it negatively effects our "engagement." There is so much pressure put on us to do this by the companies (sometimes it is them sending out not even us). On many sites you actually must go to the settings to disable auto posts/messages, tweets etc. If you send to wrong person such as a minor...the company does not take the fault the girl does and it is up to her to prove so. I NEVER auto respond or send to anyone unsolicited on social media to strangers (I only send to guys/girls I know and trust) because I don't know if they are under age but also because it is EXACTLY like you sending a dick pic random to a girl. I also don't want to send something to a stranger and get them in trouble at their work or with their wife. I am not defending this practice at all and I think it is rude but also illegal in some countries as it should be. I appreciate you share of your perspective though. I am definite to discuss this issue with my other girlfriends who do this. Thank you for letting me share.

Alistair_TheAlvarian · 2021-07-10T23:23:54+00:00

I am a minor, I regularly have this happen to me, it's mildly annoying to be quite honest.

God-Is-Love · 2021-07-10T23:03:31+00:00

I'm a gay woman and could not agree with you more. And as a past victim of sexual abuse it can be really triggering, especially when unexpected.

imagineyeeting56 · 2021-07-10T21:02:02+00:00

I’m 13 and this happens to me a lot. Absolutely disgusting

ElegantDecline · 2021-07-10T19:23:41+00:00

OnlyFans is essentially an exploiter and pimp-of-sorts of young vulnerable women and men.

OF reminds me of The stories of Caligula. The powerful mighty Roman Emperor that forced all of the senators' wives to whore themselves.

That's what OF does... it takes advantage of the economic squeeze and lack of competitive alternative income to pressure/force well-raised classy people into cam-whoring themselves for cash. It's disgusting.

There are very thin lines between allowing people to whore themselves and pressuring/forcing people to whore themselves by giving them cheap access to high speed internet while making the cost of living impossible to pay with a starter job. They leave these women (and men) with no choice. In fact, many cam whores on OF are doing it as a SECOND job just to afford rent. Worst part is, OF takes a big cut out of these young men and women's pay. They are literal pimps of cam whores. And the landlords that these cam whores pay rent to every month and where they do their cam whoring are LITERAL cam whore pimps and hosts too. This is sex trafficking all around. A whole bunch of industries profiting off some of the world's most vulnerable under-advantaged young people whoring themselves to the highest bidders.

When OF cam whores and their patrons try to defend OnlyFans, to me it sounds like the typical "Yeah, but MY pimpdaddy treats me RIGHT! He buys me jewlry, held my hand when i have abortions, and even took me on a trip to Jamaica!" It sounds like every last cliché poor lost sad whore soul i've ever heard trying to excuse their own abuse.

It's absolutely horrific how we've allowed the environment to become this way. Many men and women who are graduating out of high school and college are left with few other choices. And worse of all, every few days, allegedly, many OnlyFan models try to literally whore/escort themselves to their members. apparently it happens a lot and accounts get sometimes suspended over it, but allegedly not always

sigmamalestacker · 2021-07-10T17:37:55+00:00

That's why I invested in ad block to trigger the feminist.

Car_stealer · 2021-07-11T12:10:10+00:00

Lol, the amount of requests I receive from people with OnlyFans and other platforms is disgustingly high.

Awildhufflepuff · 2021-07-10T21:06:18+00:00

I'd be willing to bet kids are their biggest audience in the first place

hopingforabuse · 2021-07-11T04:19:45+00:00

100%

PeteyMax · 2021-07-10T21:53:22+00:00

I was thinking something similar recently. If a woman receives an unsolicited message on social media, there's a good chance it's a real fellow with a legitimate interest in her. Were she single, she could probably strike up a relationship with him. When I receive an unsolicited message from a woman on social media, it's almost always either a scammer or a prostitute. Which do you think is worse?

TheGreatIllien · 2021-07-10T23:17:20+00:00

Wow. The amount of people disagreeing with you is disgusting. Holy fuck will some women go to insane lengths to justify themselves.

DouglasWallace · 2021-07-10T22:43:25+00:00

Complain about it to authorities. Loudly and insistently. Because only when men do this can those authorities even count the times it happens to men.

I know you might not think it a big enough issue to bother anyone about .. but unless we all do, we can't hope to have a balanced society.

IguanaHam · 2021-07-10T18:30:48+00:00

I don't mind receiving those, the same way I don't mind samples at the store. If they monetize their bodies and don't mind to be treated as merchandise. That is on them. I think about that when I try to see a bigger picture to hide my morality too. I know it is not a correct or good way to express that. I am not making a statement or trying to open an argument. To get back to the point. It is true that it is just as disrespectful. But for both sexes seems to be normal. It just depends on us as human beings to be respectful to one another. If you are talking to a lady, like I would too, we wouldn't sent unsolicited pics because of our values. But you'd be surprised how much some of them ask for the pics after throwing hints.

Dibutomas · 2021-07-15T02:10:37+00:00

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BuildingAggressive82 · 2021-07-14T17:35:05+00:00

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https://discord.gg/43QjqqfWtu

noral101 · 2021-07-10T22:18:04+00:00

Yeah but I'll still look at them

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Women_Hate_Short_Men · 2021-07-12T01:41:13+00:00

at least a dick pic wouldn’t include begging for money

2021-07-11T21:53:11+00:00

No, it’s more rude, because they’re asking for money at the same time.

2021-07-11T20:33:52+00:00

This I can agree with. I also get the random "JoIn My OnLyFans" messages and it's as gross and as annoying as unsolicited nudes.

GivePuppiesBazookas · 2021-07-10T18:29:29+00:00

They also solicited prostitution like crazy. I am pro sex work, but the fact is it's illegal right now and nothing happens to these women literally selling sex.

Greg468 · 2021-07-11T17:43:43+00:00

I and one of my male friends have received unsolicited nudes from women

This stuff is pretty common sadly

OriginalFinnah · 2021-07-11T14:02:19+00:00

You're the ignorant one who brought up dictionaries

L3tum · 2021-07-11T10:50:35+00:00

I'm always saddened to see when someone reaches out to me and I think "Hey, maybe a new friend. Maybe more" and then look at their profile and see that they're just another OF account.

wawabubbzies · 2021-08-16T22:52:58+00:00

Agreed. This sh— is getting out of hand. There should be laws against sending people your nudes and masturbating videos (unless they ask for it and are not minors).

Inked_Rebel99 · 2021-10-27T13:10:53+00:00

As a content creator on OnlyFans, I NEVER send content to anyone unless they specifically ask for previews, and even then they are all censored. I completely agree that a female OnlyFans content creator sending unsolicited nudes to promote herself is just as disgusting and off-putting as a male sending unsolicited dick picks. Sadly many women don't see it that way.

DrZombieZoidberg · 2021-07-11T09:16:12+00:00

Honestly while it is an issue, I personally don’t think it’s as bad as sending dick pics. One is an offer to pay for sexual content, the other is flashing, which is an online form of genuine assault, punishable by actual laws.

VioletFoxx · 2021-07-10T15:37:46+00:00

I don't think feminists would disagree with this exactly, knowing how it feels to open a "surprise" picture. Seeking out nudes or sexual content where consent is mutual or the arrangement is transactional is totally fine, but springing nudity or sex on someone is wrong, irrespective of gender. I'm confused as to why there is a connection here with feminism.

Tristynxx · 2021-07-15T11:08:13+00:00

Men do this shit all the time… but when woman do it it’s advertising like a porn company/business men do it to get validated and be creepy.. not the same period

oafsalot · 2021-07-10T21:50:25+00:00

I'm just annoyed that people won't send them to me! More pxx please.

Whiteliesmatter1 · 2021-07-11T01:39:31+00:00

Let’s not play their stupid games. Neither are that bad. It’s potentially very annoying. Let’s put them both in that category.

If an unsolicited nude triggers disgust, it’s a sign of an extremely regressive attitude towards sexuality in my books.

MRM have divulged into some sort of competition for who can whine harder: them or feminists.

realvmouse · 2021-07-10T19:12:08+00:00

It seems like a more reasonable argument is "Women sending unsolicited nude genital pics is just as disrespectful as men sending unsolicited nude genital pics."

It seems like you've intentionally conflated text-based invites with photos as a motte-and-bailey argument. In other words, here among other MRAs you want people to silently accept the assertion that all invites are just as bad as dick pics, and because invites are so common, you want to make it sound like there is an equally strong problem on both sides, between dick pics and onlyfan invites.

But you know in reality it's not the same severity of issue-- photos vs text inviting you to view photos-- so you sprinkle in a little bit of "some women have sent me nudes" so that when people point out the obvious differences between photos and text invites, you can retreat behind that claim. Of course, when confronted, you'll have to acknowledge that it's not nearly as common for women to send pictures of themselves masturbating as it is for men to send out dick pics for women, but then you'll only insist that when it happens, it's just as bad. Which, sure, everyone agrees, but of course we're talking about something that happens rarely vs something that happens commonly now. But then, back here among your supporters, its back to conflating the issues and acting like they're both as severe, which lets you pretend the problem you face is just as bad AND just as common as the problem women face so often on social media.

Every feminist including all of them that hate this sub agrees that unsolicited pictures of genitalia and/or sex acts are wrong and should not take place.

Everyone, even you, when you're being honest, should agree that a text-based invite to view an onlyfans page isn't as serious as a close-up picture of an erect penis.

Once you realize those two facts, you'll see that your title and this post serve no purpose at all. It's only in your mind that your view conflicts with the view of feminists or the general population, when in reality everyone sees it the same way.... EXCEPT when you try to assert (and here is where this post mirrors nearly everything in this subreddit) that here is an issue where men have it just as bad as women when it comes to unsolicited sexual messages.

If you just wanted to explain that invites to onlyfans are offensive, without wrapping it up in a persecution complex and trying to score points in the men vs women arena, then your post is absolutely worth sharing in any subreddit where it fits, and you have my support (and that of nearly all women too, including very committed feminists!) But we know you'll never do that, because you care very little about those invites, and instead are motivated almost exclusively by a desire to discredit women's concerns about dick pics.

YoushkenandEmken · 2021-07-10T14:52:29+00:00

I swear I've seen this before.

xMoody · 2021-07-10T16:46:38+00:00

l m f a o. so you followed some chick who sends nude snaps out and you're trying to use the fact that she sends nude snaps out (which is the reason you followed her in the first place - you cant just get random snaps from people you arent following/friends with)? no wonder this sub is a joke

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Xizziano · 2021-07-29T20:15:28+00:00

Especially when their dating profile doesn't hint to them being an internet whore but a nice normal girl. You 2 match and the first thing she sends you had to do with seeing nudes from a suspicious link. This should be considered false advertisement

melodymariez · 2021-08-17T00:51:54+00:00

disrespectful fer sure plus most of these are fake accounts using other peoples contents which is wrong as well

buttgole · 2021-07-10T19:38:27+00:00

No. Onlyfans is a porn/nudity website which is purely sexual. Girls receive unsolicited dick picks on dating apps which are not the same as onlyfans.

sparkybooman27 · 2021-07-10T19:20:58+00:00

Not as offensive as someone’s greasy cock in your PM’s. But yeah it’s definitely offensive

Title	Receiving random OnlyFans/nudes advertisements from women are just as disrespectful as unsolicited dick pics
Author	DivineFalchion
Upvotes	3103
Comments	403
Date	July 10, 2021 2:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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