The word you're looking for is 'Rape'

Tedesche · 2018-08-09T12:39:59+00:00

I’m happy this has 14k karma on r/pics.

Mr_Gerral · 2018-08-09T13:12:08+00:00

He was "acutly embarrassed".

"My son was drug raped?" Ohhh, that youngster is always getting into trouble!"

BlueZir · 2018-08-09T13:22:10+00:00

This needs to be pushed hard, it's inexcusable sanitisation of language based on gender. A man who drugs a woman and fucks her would never be called a seduction. By definition you can't legally "seduce" a minor in the first place.

When it comes to rape, women are unquestionably priveleged.

The /r/pics response is very heartening, though.

KevHawkes · 2018-08-09T14:41:17+00:00

I'm so fucking done with this.

I've seen so much shit going on, regarding women actually assaulting men, and no one cares, because a woman doing it is "empowering" and "showing she knows how to get what she wants", and if a guy simply insists (in a non forcible way) it's fucked up and he's a rapist. This is bullshit.

And then people say stuff like "men don't get raped" or "women suffer much more" (as if that changed the fact it's wrong) without realizing that men are just forced to stay quiet because of judgement. When a woman suffers it there is an entire international network of people to support her, treat her trauma and help punish the rapist. When a guy is raped, however, people just laugh, call him a faggot or bully him for not wanting it. Or even worse, say it's impossible to have happened. This is bullshit and people should learn about this crap to learn sexual abuse is not so black-and-white

p0rnpop · 2018-08-09T12:15:13+00:00

Since demanding they call woman on boy cases rape seems to be failing, maybe it's time to start demanding that man on girl cases to be called seduction, sexual trists, and what what ever else they call it when it's a woman on boy case.

the2xstandard · 2018-08-09T12:18:21+00:00

When a man does it:

Andrea Constand, 45, who came forward to say that Cosby drugged and sexually assaulted her in his home in January of 2004... The comedian, who is 80, faces a maximum 10-year prison sentence for each conviction, and a fine up to $25,000.

Also when a man does it:

Prosecutors on Wednesday charged a 21-year-old Lincoln man with two counts of first-degree sexual assault of a minor after police say he had sex with a 15-year-old twice in January... On Wednesday, Lancaster County Judge Thomas Zimmerman appointed the public defender's office to represent Tomka, who faces up to 50 years in prison on each charge.

UNLIKELYME · 2018-08-09T15:34:37+00:00

In the UK it's rape only if the victim is penetrated with a penis. So, the paper can't for legal reasons call it a rape.

But why call it a seduction? Isn't there better words like "used him"? Or if that' too risky, why not "had sex"? Seduced means, doesn't it, that boy played somehow along. And that sounds derogatory.

Lallo-the-Long · 2018-08-09T16:00:41+00:00

The young man was "acutely embarrassed" by what had happened. Um... I think she means traumatized?

hammyhammad · 2018-08-09T17:10:11+00:00

I got banned from r/feminism for cross-posting this there

Daddy_0103 · 2018-08-09T14:04:02+00:00

Good that this made it to the front page on /r/pics

This needs attention.

Imnotmrabut · 2018-08-09T12:19:38+00:00

Effacing the Male.... She's just a Criminal Femme Fatal imitating Mrs Robinson and he should be grateful.

--Edog-- · 2018-08-09T18:44:04+00:00

I didn't realize drugging someone was part of "seduction."

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2018-08-09T16:53:44+00:00

Isn't Cosby on trial for "seducing" adult women this way?

MGTOWThrowaway777 · 2018-08-09T14:56:16+00:00

I posted my experience to that thread by replying to a guy who didn’t believe men could be raped. His responses were exactly the reason men’s experiences are under reported.

guillemqv · 2018-08-09T15:28:43+00:00

The good thing is that the whole thread is calling out that bs and saying that it was rape.

RobDog101 · 2018-08-09T20:11:36+00:00

Bill Cosby's only crime was being a master "seducer", apparently.

melodiousmeow · 2018-08-10T00:52:40+00:00

This is infuriating. Not even in a men’s vs women’s rights issue. This is simply wrong.

functionalsociopathy · 2018-08-09T15:25:17+00:00

Aaaaand one of the mods locked the comments. looks through mod's history wow, stay classy r/pics admins

Palerthanghosts · 2018-08-09T18:19:02+00:00

I would like to see the headline if it were a man doing it to a 14-year-old girl. Men and women need to be held to the same standard.

chambertlo · 2018-08-09T23:41:48+00:00

To these people, it’s only rape when men do it.

SSDan007 · 2018-08-09T16:47:50+00:00

"The youngster" vs "alleged victim". Very telling beyond the obviously misleading title.

Major_Languid · 2018-08-09T17:44:54+00:00

Read the first full paragraph on the second half. It’s quite disturbing imo.

vman4402 · 2018-08-09T19:39:36+00:00

I found the article online. She received 2.5yrs in jail and will be on a sex offender's registry for 10 years.

https://www.metro.news/woman-gave-boy-14-drug-so-she-could-seduce-him/1176348/

unicorn_feces33 · 2018-08-09T20:10:23+00:00

So glad this got as many upvotes as it did on a big sub

fasterfind · 2018-08-10T01:10:31+00:00

We have a seduction culture. Not a rape culture?

TheShShCreature · 2018-08-09T16:13:13+00:00

Honestly so glad to see this blow up on r/all like it did.

ChatMan13 · 2018-08-09T21:39:12+00:00

Legally it is not a rape it's a seual assault so journalist can't use the word rape without exposing themself to repercussions here

This is due to the legal definition of rape : "Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim."

So now tell me more about the "rape culture" and society not punishing rape for a specific gender ..

2018-08-09T16:26:09+00:00

This is actually on the front page of /r/pics. Surprising

TheGreenPlumbBob · 2018-08-09T19:30:36+00:00

More specifically, date rape.

IncendiaryBullet · 2018-08-09T23:34:54+00:00

2 years and 5 months in jail.

If this was a male that raped an underage girl, you could be sure that the 2 would be turned into a 20.

atred · 2018-08-09T17:20:22+00:00

What did he wear though?

Titanjaw · 2018-08-09T22:20:20+00:00

Comments full of rape apologists

Morganthium · 2018-08-10T03:24:25+00:00

Wtf is this English

RaptorsCdwoods · 2018-08-10T13:39:30+00:00

So according to the last few sentences in your first paragraph, you are the second statement.

But no, context actually does not matter. If an adult fucks a child, it’s rape 100% of the time. The only way the could have sex and it not be rape for the women is if the student raped her but he didn’t. So she 100% raped him.

Also find it very hard to think she didn’t know he was a student and underage, when she is a goddamn teacher. She probably saw that kid every day. She absolutely knew he was underage and it’s 100% sick and disgusting she would have sex with him under any circumstances and it’s 100% sick and disgusting you are defending her.

And his maturity level is obviously pretty low if he is at a party drinking, the person who supplied him with alcohol should also be arrestedAnd her maturity level is also low if she is having sex with a kid.

You are either a kid who doesn’t understand how this is bad because hot teacher, I was the same way when I was a kid, or a disgusting person who need to seriously consider getting some help because what you are saying is wrong and could negatively affect your life.

Imnotmrabut · 2018-08-09T12:15:01+00:00

Effacing the Male.... She's just a Criminal Femme Fatal imitating Mrs Robinson and he should be grateful.

Imnotmrabut · 2018-08-09T12:15:22+00:00

Effacing the Male.... She's just a Criminal Femme Fatal imitating Mrs Robinson and he should be grateful.

Imnotmrabut · 2018-08-09T12:18:27+00:00

Effacing the Male.... She's just a Criminal Femme Fatal imitating Mrs Robinson and he should be grateful.

Imnotmrabut · 2018-08-09T12:19:10+00:00

Effacing the Male.... She's just a Criminal Femme Fatal imitating Mrs Robinson and he should be grateful.

CptMisery · 2018-08-09T12:47:12+00:00

I was a 14 year old boy once. I need to see pictures of both people before I would call it rape.

Title	The word you're looking for is 'Rape'
Author	incognitoshadow
Upvotes	2596
Comments	113
Date	August 9, 2018 11:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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