Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?

alreadyredschool · 2018-01-22T16:58:51+00:00

There are two solutions.

Become the best you can be.

Become contend with what you have.

LifterofThings · 2018-01-22T16:55:09+00:00

There isn't a solution. There are no guarantees. Read all the things, consider all the perspectives, and as an individual man with your individual value system, decide which calculated risks you're willing to take knowing that sometimes you're going to draw the short straw.

Dubslav_von_Chekem · 2018-01-22T16:53:09+00:00

Calm down. Shut the fuck up. Sit down.

What are your goals? Then lay out a plan to get there. What are the milestones? Who holds you accountable? What are your back ups? What are the risks?

Do. Not. Panic.

squidracer · 2018-01-22T22:17:42+00:00

I hangout in the mgtow sub more then the others. There are definitely some depressed people there but going mgtow doesn't mean you don't still have sex. I currently have two fwb.

It's just about staying out of the court system. Those guys helped me through some difficult times and many of then are good dudes.

Edit: there also seems to be quite a few suicidal men that end up in that sub. I like to think they find the supportive community they need

blackedoutfast · 2018-01-22T17:09:07+00:00

get off the internet and stop watching television. go outside and meet some normal people. make new friends. have fun. enjoy life. eventually realize that all the shit that you're worried about really isn't worth worrying about.

SlimLovin · 2018-01-22T16:53:58+00:00

/r/TheBluePill is not part of the "manosphere."

We exist to giggle at Terps. We do not have a philosophy or even a BS "praxeology" based on nothing like TRP.

We believe in nothzing, Lebowski.

de_ja_pon · 2018-01-22T21:47:22+00:00

What about loneliness though, and sex, and forming a functional bond?

For me, I'm not getting that anyways, and the cost is too much for what I can pay. Women don't care if I'm lonely and don't care about "functionally bonding" with me unless they can take valuable things from me. I don't want to go get valuable things to give them because I want to actually be liked for me and not the things I can give them.

What about passing a (biologically enslaved) to be part of a community or family. I mean, apart from people going celibate, how does it help? Aren't natural 'asshole alphas' being enabled if men are just striking?

It's more that betas removed themselves from the equation. The asshole alpha is not going to take care of you, that used to be the beta who'd get fooled into doing it. Now more betas are checking out, because we don't want to clean up and be responsible for your mistakes, especially in an era where feminism is basically cheering women on to do whatever they want regardless of what kind of damage it can do to men that they care about.

Electra_Cute · 2018-01-22T16:53:41+00:00

Those are all groups of insecure people blaming their insecurities on others, nothing new. The "solutions" any of them propose are all sick and twisted, they usually involve calls for despotic social reprogramming.

despisedlove2 · 2018-01-22T17:00:58+00:00

The traditional compromise between male and female imperatives ended with the legalization of recreational divorce.

There are no normative solutions for men that offer any degree of legal safety. What you list above are only some of the responses to this post marital reality.

songofmelancholy · 2018-01-22T16:52:24+00:00

why does there have to be a solution? can't people simply observe phenomena and provide criticisms without having to intervene and fix it?

wtknight · 2018-01-22T18:54:19+00:00

Men and women need to start liking and respecting each other. There is too much of men and women using each other to deal with each other’s personal psychological issues.

newName543456 · 2018-01-23T06:17:38+00:00

TBP is manosphere since when?

Also:

r/TheRedPill have become really obsessed with the victim narrative.

Not sure where you got that from...

AutoModerator · 2018-01-22T16:50:07+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Princeso_Bubblegum · 2018-01-22T18:07:18+00:00

the blue pill is a strand of the manosphere?

Entropy-7 · 2018-01-23T00:26:46+00:00

Have a will that coincides with reality.

ReluctantSlimeball · 2018-01-24T15:02:13+00:00

Swaggering around the club caring only about yourself is a ‘solution’ to sexlessness.

the_calibre_cat · 2018-01-22T18:32:20+00:00

The solution is M.G.T.O.W, a little bit of T.R.P, and probably some homosex. Most men from now to generations in the future will probably live miserable lives, unfortunately, since their identity and happiness is almost certainly strongly correlated to whether or not they can acquire female attention and companionship.

We can't force women to get with men and maintain our values, so... men will just have to live shitty lives, and find some fulfillment elsewhere. Unfortunately, I'm fairly certain that our need for female attention is biological, so that isn't going away until it's evolved out of us... and seeing as how the men who live in the future will be descended from men who manage to pull a female, I'd just have to say that R.P.'s 80/20 rule is going to come to pass.

We have to learn to not need women, the same way women already learned to not need men. And, frankly, I think it'll be harder for us, if not totally impossible because of the aforementioned genetic issue.

Doom_and-Gloom · 2018-01-22T19:19:14+00:00

MGTOW is the denial phase of inceldom.

Maikowski2 · 2018-01-22T16:58:32+00:00

The solution is for everybody to decide for themselves. Because you won't change the world in your lifetime, no point in voting etc but you can turn your life around if you adopt certain lifestyle or basic look at life in general. I chose a bit from TRP, a bit from MGTOW, a bit from MRA and have my own solution that fits my priorities and needs.

notworthmuch20xx · 2018-01-22T17:09:55+00:00

Solutions for these subreddits don't real

justtypingcuz · 2018-01-22T19:48:16+00:00

Mgtow advocates for men to avoid marriage and ltrs. Not to be celibate for the rest of your life (although there's nothing wrong with just avoiding bitches completely i guess)

Just fukk a bunch of sluts then dump them by the side of the road If you're the type to get lonely.

If so many guys weren't such huge simps and dudes stopped caring so much about what women thought about them they'd soon realize that men don't need bitches either. I think having lots of sex partners will help a guy get to this realization sooner.

BearSaint · 2018-01-23T02:58:41+00:00

The terps claim over and over you can't use knowledge (terperville) to gain a marriage with a super cute girl you love (blooperville).

OK. Ask yourself why. Why can you not use knowledge to marry a beautiful woman, put buns in that oven, and be a true patriarch who fully supports women's right to choose (feminism)?

Why? Why? Lol I'll tell you why. It's because 95% of terps are delusional losers and 99% of terps who claim they want a marriage are liars. Why can't you? Sure maybe you cheat on your wife once or twice. Just don't tell her or hurt her with it. She knows she's getting your best.

Title	Could anybody explain a 'solution' from different strands of the manosphere?
Author	FulkOberoi
Upvotes	1
Comments	144
Date	January 22, 2018 4:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7s71t0/could_anybody_explain_a_solution_from_different/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/could-anybody-explain-a-solution-from-different.263897 https://theredarchive.com/post/263897

Comments