"If a man sleeps with a lot of women, he's stud. If a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she's a slut. That's just the way we're wired.

Women find commitment valuable, but men find sex valuable. You wouldn't want to marry a guy who has already proposed to three of your friends, would you? Similarly, a man wouldn't want to sleep with a woman who has slept with 3 of his friends."

I call bullshit, RP.

You place an incredibly high value on sex and act as though having sex with someone is even comparable to offering to spend the rest of your life with them.

Would you, as a man, be okay with marrying a virgin who has already proposed to half your social circle? I think not. Because most normal people place a high value on commitment.

Men and women both value commitment. To say that only women do and that it is somehow a "trade-off" over valuing sex is just garbage that makes no sense.

The one and only reason you feel uncomfortable when you discover your girlfriend has had 50 cocks inside her is because you're insecure. That's your problem, not hers.

I should know. Last week I was looking at pictures of my husband on Facebook and found one of his ex's. She was freaking gorgeous. Like model-status beautiful.

As in she is LITERALLY A MODEL and does it for a living.

I instantly felt it. The insecurity. The jealousy. "Is he just settling for me? He could do so much better. How am I supposed to know he actually wants me for me and won't leave as soon as something better comes along? He has obviously had way better."

And guess what? I got over it. I didn't let my insecurity ruin my relationship or make me think less of myself. I moved on and realized that whether or not my husband has fucked 10 or 100 or 1000 women doesn't matter because I already know him and I don't need a statistic to tell me who he is.

"But statistically speaking, women who have had over x partners are 3 times more likely to get a divorce!"

My response to that is: WHO THE FUCK CARES? What kind of idiot reads a statistic and thinks to themselves, "I've known this person for the last 10 years, but they happen to fall into this particular demographic that this statistic refers to, therefore I will toss everything I already know about them out the window and assume they are actually evil!"

That's like dating a Black man, reading a stat that 50% of Black men eventually go to jail, and divorcing him because, "That's just the way you're wired, Black guy. It is inevitable that you will one day go to jail because I read this stat on the internet that said a lot of Black guys do that, so BYE!"

Statistics only work when they're applied to a large population, NOT AN INDIVIDUAL.

I can't stress that enough. Let me repeat it one more time: Statistics do not work when applied to an individual.

So instead of reading a bunch of statistics on the internet, how about you head out and actually MEET a girl outside of a bar / club / Tinder and see for yourself. Don't judge people you haven't even met based on a freaking statistic.

By the way, that's why people say that you're sexist. You're the first ones to cry misandry whenever someone points out that 90% of rapes are perpetrated by men ("Not ALL men are like that!), but the second a stat comes out that decries women it's "Red-Pill Truth".

And to those that still disagree, I ask: What about when a very attractive man is able to have sex with whoever he wants, whenever he wants? A man who is so so attractive, it is as easy for him to get sex as it is for most women.

Would you look down on him and call him a "slut" because it's "too easy" and "not an accomplishment" when he fucks a bunch of women? After all, according to TRP, it's only repulsive when a woman has sex with a ton of men because it's "easy" for her. What about when it's "easy" for a man? Is he a slut, too?

EDIT: After-thought: You are, of course, allowed to have your preferences. There's nothing wrong with you if you'd prefer a woman who hasn't been around. You are not morally obligated to be attracted to anyone.

All I'm saying is, if you go around sleeping with whoever you like and call a woman a slut for being the same, you're probably a hypocritical asshole who lacks introspection. That is assuming that you are using the term "slut" in a derogatory manner.