If TRP doesn't work, what's you method?

TheRedRustler · 2015-02-15T18:23:09+00:00

1) Work out. Honestly no one wants to sleep with a fat slob. Male or female.

2) Clean up when you go out (Nice clothing, good hair cut, shower shave)

3) Dont get attached to the out come, sometime you will get lucky some times you wont. When you dont, dont take in personally, dont blame the girl, dont blame your self.

4) Dont view sex as conquest, its not. its something people engage in to have fun. But dont settle. if you dont want to sleep with a girl you find unattractive dont.

5) Go to a place where there are people like you. if you are a hipster go to a hipster show, if you are clubber go downtown. Being around like mind people will help a lot.

6) Go talk to people. Learn how to flirt. if you get anxious of that take some classes to help with.

7) Get some self confidence.

yeah some of that may be redpill but it was common sense long before redpill

misterdirtyfister · 2015-02-15T14:51:49+00:00

1) Take amphetamine

2) Talk to lots of bitches until you get lucky with one

[deleted] · 2015-02-15T21:57:17+00:00

Its impossible because TRP is coming from an unfalsifiable position. If you offer any advice that sounds even slightly like "improve yourself" someone will swoop in and say "aha! Thats what TRP says to do! Checkmate"

I think both TRP and TBP can agree on the efficacy of basic principles of self improvement ect. Where they differ specifically is in whether pledging allegiance to neoreactionary internet forums really actually counts as "improving yourself".

obstinatebeagle · 2015-02-16T01:38:10+00:00

Be a "nice guy", and one day someone will definitely like you for just being yourself.

ROFL.

namae_nanka · 2015-02-15T02:47:15+00:00

Achieve enlightenment and be re-incarnated as a robust high school jock.

GayLubeOil · 2015-02-15T10:38:18+00:00

You misogynistic shit lord. You think women want anything to do witb your filthy paynoos! Flith! Why would an enlightened daughter of Eve want anything to do with you shit scum!

Thats the blooper strategy in a nutshell hope that helps

lesslucid · 2015-02-16T01:00:27+00:00

Most men aren't going to "achieve the volume of sexual conquests they desire" because a lot of men desire a lot of sex, and the number of women who have similar levels of desire is relatively low. Traditionally this mismatch between supply and demand has been "corrected" through prostitution; the simplest way to have more sex is to pay for it. If you're not willing or able to do that, well, you're in competition with all the other men who want the same things you do, and the answer is, "be attractive, d.b.u", or to put it in different terms, have something to offer those women which they are going to want, or - less ethically - create the appearance or impression that you're offering something they want, then welch on your end of the bargain.

Aerobus · 2015-02-16T00:43:04+00:00

When I first discovered PPD, this is the question I asked. I read the comments, searched for prior threads regarding the topic. I tried to find a better method because so many non-RP people complained that TRP hates women.

I never found a good enough competing ideology.

purple_lock · 2015-02-15T06:38:46+00:00

I've been seeing a lot of posts here from bloopers stating that TRP doesn't work and that there are better ways to get laid.

You have?

blinks

The advice about bettering yourself physically, dressing well and doing well in life is all good. You'll also find this advice in the general sphere outside trp.

Confidence, teasing, being a tiny bit cocky, behaving as though you have other options are all good.

It's the crackpot stuff that could negatively affect you and turn you so bitter that it hangs on you like the stink of that dog turd you once stepped on.

rooktakesqueen · 2015-02-15T14:05:38+00:00

Step one: stop viewing sex as a "conquest." Sex is a mutually enjoyable activity for two or more consenting adults.

This step is key, because it's what allows you to get past the block that many RPers have around having sex with people who are not conventionally attractive or who have had many partners in the past. If sex isn't about "conquering" and securing your social legacy, it's just a very pleasant pastime, why have these hangups at all?

Once you've gotten past this, your dating field just increased in size about twentyfold. :)

Or continue down the path you're going. Use techniques to ensure you score with HB9+'s. Women who you despise, women with whom you can't actually form an emotional connection because your entire relationship is built upon your masks, pretense, and lies, and because you have nothing in common, since her only qualifying criteria was her appearance. All so you can add some notches to your bedpost and someday wake up to realize the notches mean nothing and you spent your empty, hollow life judging your own self worth based on how well you "conquered" an illusion.

That, you can also do.

YaBoiTibzz · 2015-02-15T03:20:45+00:00

BPers don't have an alternative because there isn't one. There is an alternative way to live your life, alternative ways to behave, etc., sure, but not alternatives that will get you laid just as much. This is why BPers tend to be guys who, through luck of circumstance, genetics, etc., have been able to get action without having to make any conscious changes, or guys who just don't consider getting laid to be a priority.

wuboo · 2015-02-16T01:37:02+00:00

I'm a fan of learning through trial and error. I'm not taking a generic solution off the shelf; it's a custom fit for me.

gregariousnefarious · 2015-02-16T19:20:11+00:00

Get interesting. Be witty. Treat women the way you would like to be treated (with basic respect and no kid gloves, but also without unconditional trust). Become friends with women (without planning to sex every last one you think is hot). Join some co-ed clubs or organizations, so you prove that you're invested in things other than hitting the bar. When you meet a woman you're attracted to, chat her up about a mutual interest, and invite her to do something cool. Like, not something inane, come up with something awesome. My first date with my amazing BF was a screening of "assembly line porn" put on by the local film club; lots of cool footage from industrial settings set to awesome music. It was memorable and different, and since we both think machines are sweet and it was a bit outside the norm, it built rapport between us. Doing unusual things you both will like builds that sense of private awesomeness you two share.

Also, don't treat her like a piece of meat. You don't have to be some old fashioned gentleman (in fact I don't recommend it at all), but it would be good if you put forth energy that if you two were to get it on, it would be because you're turned on by both her body and mind.

EDIT: If you're just looking for casual sex, almost all the same things apply, just be up front about wanting to have a fuck buddy and nothing more. If she balks, shrug and try someone else.

Carkudo · 2015-02-15T09:33:11+00:00

Not a blooper but it all boils down to

Be attractive
Be attractive
Don't be unattractive

TRP is only somewhat related to attractiveness. A valid strategy would be to simply identify which factors of attractiveness are under the individual's control and improving them in hopes of there being a tangible effect.

As for a strategy that would help anyone get laid and work universally - no such thing exists. Some men will always be loved and sexed without having to lift a fingers, while others will spend their whole lives struggling and will never experience as much as an intimate hug or kiss.

CursedLemon · 2015-02-16T17:22:47+00:00

If you just want to stick your penis in a vagina, then TRP is definitely the way to go. But it's kind of a "scorched earth" policy after a while.

LaLaJoy · 2015-02-17T02:25:11+00:00

That's a lot like a stupid person asking how to get into Harvard without cheating.

MissPearl · 2015-02-15T17:23:49+00:00

Largely speaking the advice I've given to guys that works is to make them focus on eliminating the belief that they are unattractive, since I noticed a lot of people who have relationship troubles tend to tune out a lot of less pushy interest because they think they are fundamentally unworthy.

squirrels33 · 2015-02-16T01:39:29+00:00

Perhaps you could start by not defining your self-worth based on sexual conquests, or even based on relationships? Be confident in yourself and have life goals that aren't centered around women. Also, spend your free time working to accomplish something that's actually important, instead of just chasing instant gratification. There's nothing sadder than a person whose life is wasted in pursuit of temporary reward, such as sex. Women can tell when you don't respect or value yourself as a human being.

Whisper · 2015-02-18T00:18:34+00:00

You're making the basic mistake of assuming that TBP cares, or could possibly care, about any problem you have.

If they caught themselves caring about your problem, they would immediately take steps to correct their thinking.

Their answer, insofar as I can discern it, is that if you want to get laid, ever, or if you want to have a wife someday who won't divorce you, or children someday who won't be taken from you, then that is your problem, and you figure it out for yourself, there, buddy.

Which is essentially what TRP is.

TBP does not care if men are happy or unhappy, healthy or unhealthy, wealthy or poor, fulfilled or unfilled. It cares only that men be moral, according to its definition thereof, and if they are not moral, then they must be made so with the stick, never the carrot, and if they are moral, then why give them anything more than what they already have?

You don't ask Le Marquis what the peasants should do about the shortage of bread. He doesn't care. He only cares that they not riot and smash his fine new coach.

Title	If TRP doesn't work, what's you method?
Author	whystoppnow
Upvotes	8
Comments	132
Date	February 15, 2015 2:26 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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