The problem I keep running into in this sub is guys basically saying "If she's attracted to me, everything else doesn't matter". Thing is, baseline attraction means "I can fuck you and NOT be repulsed by it", but what guys really want is women overwhelmed with lust and thinking with her vagina....which is not the norm. If a woman is on a date with you, she's most likely already thinks you're baseline attractive....unless you kept advertising your money but that's an easy fix if you're worried about being used for resources: DONT PAY FOR DATES!

Also, this means men are just as picky as women. They're just picky about different things, such as INSTANT SEXUAL GRATIFICATION. The key is picky guys pretend their type of woman is the norm just because he picks to gravitate towards women like that.

Same thing when guys say "Women will even date guys they know are cheaters and felons!", you see that alot because you like those women. You're not paying attention to the women with common sense who dumped those guys by date 1. You're paying attention to the women who think with their vaginas. It's obvious WHY that's appealing. Because having someone ignore all your red flags just because your mere presence is desirable is the fantasy. It's very popular in romance fiction.

Thing is, realistically two things are happening:

1. He's not a mediocre guy.
2. She's dumb and impulsive in general, not because his mere presence made her that way.
3. Alternatively, if she knows he's a red flag, she wants him short term too and then distances herself from her personal life. Thing is, 1 still has to be true.

Just because a woman CAN see herself fucking you doesn't mean she's not vetting you for other things. The problem I see with too many guys is impulsiveness. Too many want to think "Pussy now, consequences later". Well, women typically dont have that luxury (neither do most men, but especially not women).