Will the trans community affect dating preferences?

xennope · 2021-10-11T21:42:38+00:00

Left wing people are going to left wing. That said trans people are like 1% of the US population. They aren't going to have an affect on dating preferences.

NockerJoe · 2021-10-11T22:03:40+00:00

My trans friends have great difficulty dating. From my experience with trans writers the only trans people who can consistently do well are trans women who present as near 100% female but may or may nor have a dick. Those people can coast on male thirst like cis women and there are plenty of dudes who'll go for a chick with a dick.

But all the other groups? Forget about it. FTM's seem to have a lot of issues. Same for more masculine nonbinaries and the more openly queer people who like loud colors and crazy aesthetics common in that community.

If you could pass for a white girl on Tinder, sky's the limit. If not, tough shit. Thats just how it works.

huhwhatokok · 2021-10-11T22:09:19+00:00

If people are rejected for being short/ugly/a certain race then the trans community should be able to stomach being rejected for being trans. Call it transphobic if you want.

KirthWGersen · 2021-10-11T21:13:00+00:00

We can't control who we are attracted to, so no.

It is like saying more people will become gay if you legalise homosexuality.

Devourer_of_felines · 2021-10-11T21:36:44+00:00

Nope.

As an example similar rhetoric came out of body positivity and fat acceptance movements and that had no effect on the dating market in spite of theoretically representing a much larger portion of the population.

simeneta_two · 2021-10-11T21:19:43+00:00

No. Twitter doesn’t represent real life and you can’t change someone’s sexuality.

Progressives will virtue signal about trans people on the internet while continuing to have their own preferences in private.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-10-11T22:01:12+00:00

No. Contrary to popular belief, shaming everyone by calling them a "transphobe" for not wanting to date trans people isn't going to make anyone suddenly want to date trans people.

SaBahRub · 2021-10-11T21:13:12+00:00

Nope

If people want to, they will; if they don’t, they won’t

purplish_possum · 2021-10-11T22:00:05+00:00

It's a non-issue. It's a world I don't play in.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-10-11T22:00:36+00:00

Trans people are pretty much entirely irrelevant to dating. People will date who they date. Who cares, aside from apparently.... you.

Emervila · 2021-10-11T22:10:36+00:00

Everybody is entitled to preferences and has the freedom to choose, say otherwise and break that means rape in terms of sexuality.

the biggest fail in the T agenda is the pushing against freedom. You can't force people into anything.

Even if T-Woman are woman or T-men are men, every single person is free to choose who they want to sex with and you can't change that.

Mimoxs · 2021-10-12T01:15:25+00:00

Trans people make up a miniscule portion of the population, <1%. Not enough to make an impact. Even 1% would be impacting but they're even less. They're just a very loud minority which gives the impression of being greater in number and effect than they are.

Most people don't want to date them and they can't force us to, no matter how upset it makes them. The only impact it will have is a lot of being getting annoyed and maybe harassed like what you see with a lot of lesbians now due to trans pushiness, but in the end most people, especially men, will be more likely to not put up with that.

Boondoggie7777 · 2021-10-12T01:20:38+00:00

We're in the growing pains period with a lot of controversy.

But I think things will calm down and more straight people will start to identify as mostly straight and date trans people.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2021-10-11T22:01:18+00:00

For example, many trans activists are actively declaring “genitalia preference” is inherently violent & massively transphobic. Examples of this would be a straight biological male not wanting to date a trans girl because she has a cock & balls. Or a lesbian not wanting to date a trans woman because she does not like “girldick”.

These people are idiots. The majority of people who are either transgender or transsexual or even nonbinary are rather disgusted and disturbed by these "activists". Frankly, they're barking mad.

Other that these whackos on Twitter, who probably have a hobby of staring into the sun, most trans people aren't going to care if someone will date them or not. There's already plenty of people who will. Heck, I've dated men and women, but greatly prefer the look of penis. So I'd be far more likely to date a non-op transwoman or a man vs a non-op transman or woman. Nobody gives a shit. Nobody wants to be on a date with someone who is forcing themselves to pretend to like their genitals.

Lesbians and straight dudes don't like dick...they shouldn't be told to like it. Gays and straight gals don't like pussy...they shouldn't be told to like it. You can't change your sexuality, you can only repress it or force yourself to get married to someone you're not attracted to (like some fundamentalists do). Telling people that their sexuality is wrong is not what the LGBTQ community is about. These people are just dumbasses.

mackenzie013_02 · 2021-10-11T22:30:27+00:00

I don’t think it will impact dating at a large scale. However, what it can do is, some individuals might start thinking about their own preferences and attraction.

I saw a very handsome/attractive trans man. I didn’t think he was trans at first, and then when I realized he didn’t become any less handsome, but I did start questioning whether I’d date him. I don’t think you can force away the preference for certain genitalia.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-10-12T01:24:44+00:00

My gf is trans and I can say it probably won't have a huge effect on the dating market, if you're attracted to trans men/women it'll become more socially acceptable, as far as the non binary stuff, same, you're attracted to what you're attracted to at the end of the day

herefortheparty01 · 2021-10-12T03:06:07+00:00

If they tell me their pronouns I’m automatically uninterested.

DaphneDK42 · 2021-10-12T00:46:33+00:00

What is it with trans USA? You seem to have gone completely trans crazy. There are like, what, 324 trans people in the entire USA. Its such a miniscule minority that it will have no effect on anything.

I personally couldn't care less about trans people. I don't want to date or have sex with a trans woman - because its a man. But you do you.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2021-10-11T22:14:07+00:00

Phobia mean scared .

Cis men/women are not scared of the trans Community they are not turned on once they know the situation , their natural biology finds that individual unattractive. Fact of Nature .

Just because individuals choose to be another sex , biologically doesn't mean that everybody else has to observe them that way.

You can't force attraction.

DazzlingTie4119 · 2021-10-11T21:09:52+00:00

I think so I think Trans people will become less of a fetish and more normalized

Orange_Paisley · 2021-10-11T21:37:19+00:00

One of my lil nieces just got married to a trans man. Love is what it is.

Gabrielvrape · 2021-10-11T21:46:09+00:00

To a degree no, but straight women are trying to get straight men to date trans women though. These next couple of years are going to be very interesting young men have to be careful and check who they are fucking because trans women are not going to tell you they are trans, so you have to be careful.

Overall no I do not think it will affect anything at all, because nobody is trying to date those people.

Sultmaker_9000 · 2021-10-11T22:29:44+00:00

The points you make aren't relevant and won't happen. Court cases will become interesting when a man wants to claim he was tricked. And God knows how degenerate men's behaviour is going to increase when we see the percentages of trans people reach Thailand levels, which is inevitable once it's becomes increasingly accepted.

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snowcakey · 2021-10-11T22:31:15+00:00

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SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-10-12T02:38:50+00:00

Probably not to any significant degree, trans people make up around 0.5% of the population.

Broad preferences in dating usually change silently over time, not through vocal movements. For example, a few people point towards the loud “fat acceptance” movement as a catalyst for overweight women seeing success in dating. What’s more likely is that public health in certain areas of the US declined to a point where the majority of people in that area are overweight, and their preferences change as a result. If we were to see changes to attraction in the trans community, they would have to make up a significantly higher portion of the population than they do now.

over348 · 2021-10-12T02:54:03+00:00

I don't think so

Jonny2266 · 2021-10-12T04:03:46+00:00

It will likely only change for closeted queer and bisexual people who may be more open with their preferences than previously, but maybe that change was already happening. I don't think conventionally straight people in general will change their innate sexualities to accommodate trans people except maybe to pay lip service in some leftist circles, but I don't think most non-LGBT leftwing people really buy into it either in practice.

upalse · 2021-10-12T05:17:59+00:00

Yes. Zoomer males are barred from interacting with women except by stringent sexual selection, so they turn prison gay.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-10-12T03:11:20+00:00

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HumanNumber348 · 2021-10-12T13:29:39+00:00

I often find myself in trans spaces, and I have never ever heard anyone claim genital preference is transphobic. Not once, not even online.

Title	Will the trans community affect dating preferences?
Author	snowcakey
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Comments	68
Date	October 11, 2021 9:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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