Half way through 2015, how's your progress?

ppvknifefight · 2015-06-07T21:01:52+00:00

I'm 29. Been on more dates this year than I've ever been on in my life. Once I've started putting myself first, women have been simple to deal with. I've always Feared fighting and confrontation, so I signed up for Muay Thai.

I was an auditor for five years, and I hated it. Got fired. Thought about my "failure" for a couple days. Now I'm sure that I'll never have a job again. RP gave me the confidence to pursue self employment.

I've put on ten pounds of muscle/fat. Cleared my debts. Became an avid reader. Built a social circle full of interesting, successful people. Started a podcast. Started a self development website, a craft beer YouTube channel.

A late bloomer, in virtually every category, but it doesn't matter. I'm on the path of masculinity now, and I'll never go back. Thanks to you all.

creepyguy13 · 2015-06-07T20:56:01+00:00

Positives:

Getting my GPA up and working harder in the classroom.
Formed some substantive relationships with people.
Got a better job.
Volunteered.
Stopped giving a fuck about the girls.
Got up and did things instead of thinking about doing things.
Stopped using my race as an excuse for everything.
Got back to where I used to be in the gym.

Negatives:

I'm basically still a beta with the chicks.
Not the best saver of money.
My biggest problem is that I have no plan, I'm graduating in a year and the only reason I'm finishing is because im about done. My major is pretty much bullshit and I wish I could restart but I'm trying to do research to see what I'm gonna do.

Last year was horrible for me. I went to a new place and that week somebody in my family committed suicide. I'm kind of the rock in my family and everybody kinda just forgot about me. Was really depressed. Beginning of 2015 I told myself I was going to change. I just happened to find TRP right after that and reading it is really helping me out.

OneInAZillion · 2015-06-07T23:18:39+00:00

All of the negatives you listed are ripple effects of your porn addiction.

andretti_confetti · 2015-06-08T04:54:18+00:00

6 months clean from cocaine

Lost my virginity

Got a 3$/hr raise

Got accepted into college, studying I.T & business

Have finished over 10 books

Just in the final stages of buying my first car (Infiniti)

The bad: Plateauing hard in the gym. 6'1 155lbs and trying to force myself to eat as much everyday. Meal prep is consistent here and there.

Got to stop being so materialistic

Stopped taking flying lessons, need to get back on it ASAP

WazzuMadBro · 2015-06-07T22:44:03+00:00

Landed an amazing job as a restoration tech/sales rep making 4k a month+commission. 7-9k a month. Money I never thought I'd make.

Also started bouncing to just make extra cash while being out and not spending it. I'm pulling more ass as a bouncer than I did going out to the same places. Meeting tons of people and making friends.

Took up motorcycling and have a sick black triumph tbird. After my shift last night I walked into a late night Denny's style restaurant. Hot blonde gymnast sitting with 2 mega betas eye fucks me, as I go to walk out since the wait was 20 min we make eye contact, I wink at her, she jumps up and asks where I'm going. I say home so I can drink, then smile and ask if she's coming. She did, was rubbing my cock the whole ride home. Slammed shots and fucked a bunch.

Its gonna be a great summer...

_Navarro · 2015-06-07T21:38:02+00:00

Oh yes, this could be a very positive exercise

-Positives

Finally came out to my parents about my terrible situation at college (lack of motivation, energy, and results). It felt like losing 100kg at once. l have since had some coaching lessons with a recommended profesional that also treated a cousin of mine, and the results have been pretty good.
As a result, l have changed my major for next year, re-examined my work process and starting having things going on for myself (a driver's license and a bilingual certificate, for starters)
Started mantaining eye to eye contact while speaking and talking louder that usual. Considering l had zero eye contact with anybody in my life up until now this has gone great, although sometimes l keep forgetting.

-Negatives

All this progress has been exclusively for myself, so my environment progress is still at zero. Hopefully that will change come September when the new course begins and l get a clean slate.
My daily excercising has been stronger that it was last year, but still no gym. l could go to one in theory, but it would drastically alter my already tight schedule for the day. l will look into it though.
Still too much time wasted dicking around and doing what l shouldn't be doing. This is terrible for progress, but my stupid brain keeps thinking it needs even more room to breathe.
Once l focused on getting everything back on track l stopped coming back to this place. "It's fine" l thought, "l already know the basics". Don't think that for a second. The whole point of medication is to keep using it.

I have achieved around twice as much as l have in the last 2 years (which l thought were inmense progress) and yet it feels like l haven't done shit in the grand scheme of things. l guess that's the way this things work, gotta keep going.

laere · 2015-06-07T23:16:44+00:00

26yo

Positives:

-More social thanks to where I work. Still some social anxiety, but not as bad as it used to be.

-Lifting, trying to minimize fuckarounditis, so built a home gym to keep it timely, and consistent.

-Diet, cut out as much junk food as possible. I am currently losing weight. I use MFP to keep track of my meals. Very nice to know what I am putting into my body every day; my calorie intake, deficit, macros, etc. Changes your entire perspective on dieting.

-Adopting small little disciplines , reading for an hour or two every day about subjects I enjoy. Also started doing little things I'd never do such as brushing my teeth, cleaning my face, making my bed, meditating, etc.

-Used to have issues with alcohol, and have cut that down to once every week, or every two weeks. Working on trying to get it out of my life for good. But going from day to day binge drinking to once a week is fucking huge progress for me.

Negatives:

-Porn/Masturbation is still an issue, I know a lot of people go cold turkey, but it really is hard to quit, or I am just not trying hard enough. Still working on it.

-Although my job has helped me improve socially, it's a typical dead end job, and I've fallen into a comfort zone. For some reason I keep thinking it's the end game, but I need to really kick myself in the ass and find something self-sustaining.

-Video Games. I've been going into periods of not playing them and focusing on better things, then falling back into them. Again It's something I really need to try harder at eliminating.

-Women. Not important right now.

Definitely could be doing better, and I know I can do better, but I am proud of the progress I have made this far. I just need to avoid getting complacent.

rynadrk · 2015-06-08T07:20:44+00:00

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Kyuzo_ · 2015-06-07T21:09:56+00:00

Finally got off my ass, started lifting weights and spinning plates.

Working on finding a better job.

Life is fucking good this year

_psylock · 2015-06-07T21:09:39+00:00

Keep in mind I'm heavily depressed with anxiety and panic problems.

I set a solemn goal for myself to burn off my small gut and get a six pack.

I run 20 mins 2x a day now, and I'm consistent with it unless I get ankle pain
I have my diet under control now, sticking to my calorie plan
I went to an employment office to hopefully get a job
Got a nice haircut

It's not much but it's a start.

DatoWeiss · 2015-06-08T01:15:36+00:00

26 got one year left of school to get my BS in Physics. I am 6ft and 200lbs and actually lost strength this year. I am currently at a 365 bench 495 squat and 545 dead lift However - I picked up my mile time from 8:30 to a 6:00 and have begun climbing mountains. I have climbed Mt.Whitney, Rainier, Middle Teton, Washington, Mt.Elbert and a number of other less prominent peeks. I have kept on with reading the classics and am almost finished with any given list of whatever influential books. I continue to hone in on my writing and music skills. I had a girlfriend (HB 9) who turned out to have a serious drug problem - I helped her detox and got her into the right programs and then left her. It's been hard. I am on my way gentleman and every day is a struggle but I trust that I will make it and you will know of me before the end.

-Dave

miss_sogony · 2015-06-07T21:32:24+00:00

Got a well paying internship.

Got better grades.

Starting to better my fashion.

Still can't be fucked with women.

unpluggedoasis · 2015-06-07T22:03:41+00:00

Found a better paying, more exciting/fun job Started 5x5 in February and have been consistent ever since - MUCH better shape than I was before just need to loose some fat and get definition.

Dating life still sucks but I know that my SMV is increasing steadily.

akc151 · 2015-06-08T03:44:41+00:00

I'm 21.

Positives: Finally internalised what I've spent the last 12 months reading here on TRP. Slept with the same number of girls in the past 6 months as I have in the entire rest of my life. Doubled how much I lift on the big 3 and lost 5kg body fat (now sitting at 12-14%). Finally taking my studies seriously and improving the relevant practical skills. Moved out of home, became financially responsible, started volunteering.

Negatives: Having a lot of anger related to TRP principles. Have become significantly, significantly less social.

Zeparic · 2015-06-08T04:08:35+00:00

Considering there's so much that still needs to be done stopping now just to congratulate myself seems masturbatory.

Instead I think I'll give anyone who reads this comment my own insight on how to achieve some forward momentum for a path of success.

Remember, until the day you drop dead your SMV will always be the thing you need to focus on. Looks, Money, Status, these things are what life is about, it's what happiness and self-fulfillment revolve around. Consider dividing up your internal goals from your life goals. Your internal goals are the things you're going to be consciously rectifying on a daily basis; like your habits, your demeanor, and your mentality.

Each applicable theory you learn on this subreddit needs to be implemented with constant discipline through out your days.

We are creatures of habit, and habits need time to be constructed and deconstructed. This is what I did.

I bought a calendar and wrote down two activities in which I would set as my focus for development. For example:

Monday - Posture & Tonality.

Tuesday - Meditation & Stoicism

Wednesday - Emotion Control & Amused Mastery

Thursday - Power Talk & Dominance

A lot of the information given here is useful, but without applying structure and a template in which you can incorporate and in turn incept these habits into your life you will find little to no change or success.

Take it slow. Be patient. Be consistent. Mastery is acquired after the toiling and hard work. Structure your habits and you will succeed.

Edit: And one last thing be EXTREME. Cut off as much masturbatory activity as possible. Cut out music, cut out drugs, cut out the internet if you must. Corner yourself into doing the right thing, build the habits of a Red Pill Man. Be radical, cut out all the bullshit.

Even here you should filter out the things that are wasting your time. If you've already internalized a concept on TRP, or it's a topic that isn't actually helping you in any way, ignore it. There are truths which even if you become aware of you wont actually be awakened to until the required experience presents itself. So don't waste time on things that wont aid you in your journey.

ChangingSZNs · 2015-06-08T01:36:40+00:00

Since January 1, 2015:

Conquered my anxiety/depression
Lost about 10 lbs
Dropped from 16/17% bf to 12/13% (Trying to get down to 10%)
Quit weed and alcohol completely
Started reading regularly again
Improved my wardrobe
Looking to pick up a new hobby (really interested in woodworking)

I've still got lots to improve but I know I can achieve it.

Before swallowing the red pill I was inconsistent in the gym, supplementing workouts with weed and pizza and bingewatching Netflix.

I've changed for the better and I have this community to thank.

TheSliceman · 2015-06-07T21:57:54+00:00

Set a very demanding (almost unrealistic) 3 year plan in January. After 6 months, I am right on track. Its almost surreal, but I cant step back and observe because the second you do that is the second you slip.

A very, very good year so far.

elatusa · 2015-06-07T22:09:43+00:00

Positives

got myself a cool place
got 2 raises, top 5% now
got a 2011 sports car
saved nice 5 figures, 0 debt
lost 20 kg of fat (now at 84 kg, 187cm), gained some muscle, abs showing (no bread or anything sugar, fasting lunch to breakfast, lots of protein, green tea, gym 4-5 days a week)
improved sleep, testosterone level high, lots of new body hair, looking better than ever in general
learned to take care of myself (not just gym, everything matters - clothes, accessories, teeth, haircut / grooming, nails, posture, everything)
getting lots of attention from females wherever I go, had quite a few lays but don't really see it as an accomplishment
started drawing again, doing lots of different shit "I didn't have time for" before
got lenses
no TV, no video games, no LTRs, no porn

Negatives

most people from "before" are gone from my life - wasn't my decision
still smoking and not thinking about quitting tbh
can do better with money (and time lost on parasitic social activities)

TomMorrow2 · 2015-06-07T23:12:58+00:00

On a career track to six figures, go to gym almost every day, ended relationship. Kind of in monk mode atm

zikkitzo · 2015-06-08T07:13:31+00:00

Great idea for a thread!

Positives:

Bought a house!
Set a solid 60%/40% relationship with my LTR. We are both happier for it.
Added a lot of muscle to my frame.
Expanded my wardrobe to include things worth wearing.
I've met a genuine Red Pill guy and after broaching the subject carefully he is going to help get my negatives down.
Watching way less porn.
Reading more books.

Negatives:

Still find approaches hard, and having an LTR means if/when I practice, I can only let it go to a point before I have to eject.
Upper body gains have been slow and hard fought. My left wrist occasionally decides it can't support weight without extreme pain, pretty much killing all push chest and arm exercises.
Finally over 6 figures/yr salary, stock grants on top of that.
Still having issues viewing myself as others view me, making seduction, persuasion, and making friends somewhat more difficult then it should be.
Too much reddit.

KingofFerretPowers · 2015-06-07T22:47:28+00:00

I've completely cut out carbohydrates (for the most part) and trying to adjust to a paleo-ish diet. Probably dropped a few pounds in the past two weeks. Trying to go from 18 to 10-12 percent body fat. Also riding 45 miles a week to work on my bike and doing cardio. I quit smoking and limited my drinking to a few a week (you get drunk off one drink on this I swear). I'm hellbent on those abs. I know looks don't play nearly as much into female to male attraction, but I find that once I accomplish my goals with my body, my confidence will skyrocket.

BlaiseDB · 2015-06-07T23:58:52+00:00

Decided to wife up with a Chinese woman 14 years younger than me. She immediately gains weight and cuts her hair.
Got a herniated cervical disk (C6) that has totally fucked up my right back, shoulder and arm. Must fix so I can lift again.
My video game comes out in July. Six-figure royalties are expected.
Planning on opening a restaurant next year.
Low work load gives me time to study history, philosophy, the life of Tesla, and design more games.

cmiovino · 2015-06-08T14:07:11+00:00

Additional comment for OP away from my story I posted.

Cut out all 'PMO' as the NoFappers like to call it. Just try it. Try a 'reboot'. 90 days, nothing. I guarantee you'll see a change.

If you feel you have a porn addiction, you probably do. This is leading to your anxiety, laziness in the gym, and general lack of motivation. By seeing girls and jacking off to a screen, your primitive mind is thinking "Hey, I just got laid and spread my seed. I must be doing good in life. Time to conserve and not push myself."

fakeAk · 2015-06-07T23:53:44+00:00

24 y/o, found TRP in October.

+no more mr nice guy (learned to value myself, learned to say no, learn to stand for myself,...), going to gym for 3 months now, going to dance course, more outgoing, had a hookup using TRP knowledge, learned how to talk with girls, got more self-confidence, started to look out of my dressing style, started to face my stutter (actively looking for possible solutions). These are out of my head.

-still wasting a lot of time on internet and on video games, not eating healthy (I mostly eat homemade food but I still a lot of sweets), stil socially awkward when sober (mostly im just quiet), no major life-long plan, still a lot of procrastination when need to study/work on projects.

Overall much better than before TRP, when all I needed were videogames and being alone.

DestroyAllBarriers · 2015-06-08T00:36:58+00:00

Positives:

Started lightly working out and trying to fit a decent workout into my schedule.

Started reading things that improve me intellectually.

Started working on relaxing.

Working on social anxiety through my workplace.

Scheduling every hour of my day.

Making slightly more money.

Setting goals and seeing them through.

Negatives:

Sometimes I still feel hopeless bit I get up and continue the work anyways.

My inner game is still lacking.

I have no idea how the fuck I'm going to find the money to fix my dental problems for at least a few years which inhibits my social interactions greatly. People really look down on bad teeth.

I still get to easily stressed and am to sensitive.

Metalaggeddon · 2015-06-08T01:31:17+00:00

Been rp before I knew what it was, but I like an own your shit weekly so here it goes. Also OP, you should edit to ask everyone to also post what they need to work on most. It's good to remind yourself in a safe atmosphere.

Put on 15lb so far this year, 5'10, 200 even now. Need to move to a gym with free weights beyond 50lb. Hopefully kettle bells too.

Graduated one degree, a year to go for 2 more.

Helped my brother get over guys bp traits. He's naturally got the genetics and is becoming a full Chad bit by bit. "He's a doer not a reader, so he just needed a path, motivated himself like fire"

Got rid of the stupid nickname. Screw that noise.

Business got fast tracked. Advisors, grant, growth, new employees. Perfect. Should be my primary income by end of college.

My most needed improvement, freaking comfort tests. Ltr is getting depressed. Need to balance doing me with at least making her feel wanted. "I've never compromised in relationships this is new for me. She's worth it, so far anyway."

Second most needed improvement. Quit reddit. It's an addiction. I'm not addicted to anything except measurable improvement and reddit. Reddit is taking up almost an hour a day I could be reading. "Used to cover about 2000 pages a week. Now its provably under 500."

Third improvement. New wardrobe. This shit don't fit no more.

Thanks op, needed to share this.

qwertyidgaf · 2015-06-08T01:37:12+00:00

Really got off track. Swallowed the pill last year but got pretty jaded with this sub and self-improvement last couple months. I'm buying in again, re-entering monk mode, doing No Fap and planning for the future.

ggolemg2 · 2015-06-08T01:55:55+00:00

34, working hard on improving myself, 180'd my mental state, working out, dieting, changed my image, changed my life. I am happier, my wife and kids are happier. There's still a long road ahead of me but I'm actually working on it proactivley. Thank you TRP.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2015-06-08T02:50:40+00:00

What weak music did you listen to?

sbdragonfruit · 2015-06-08T04:35:55+00:00

Broke up with my toxic ex-girl and got over her.
Secured a decently high paying job at one of the big tech giants ($70k + bonus)
Have three reliable plates: a cute 22 year old with huge boobs and an incredibly meaty pussy; she sucks like a champ too. A cute 28 year old with the tightest pussy I've ever felt. A 37 year old lady that runs two bars up in Maine. A fun chick to be sure.
Focusing on cycling and getting more ripped by the day. Not giving a fuck about women and focusing on me, me, me.

NightGod · 2015-06-08T04:45:01+00:00

Positives

Graduated cum laude with my BS in Operations and Information Management (20 years after fucking up my first run at school)
Shifted a five-year old on/off plate-ationship into an LTR after she improved a couple of things that used to bother me
Just accepted a job related to my degree on the other side of the country in the city I've spent the last 8 months wanting to end up in for more money and benefits than I expected
Got serious about financial responsibility. Bills have been paid on-time (no exceptions), credit score has jumped over 50 points since this time last year. Savings aren't where I want them to be yet, but new job will easily fix that.

Negatives

Been slacking on the gym and put on some of my hard-lost weight (I'd like to blame school, and that was at least somewhat of a factor, but there was definitely some elements of me being a lazy asshole). Weather is nice now, though, so I'm back to working out in my backyard
I've burned through a couple of old relationships with people I've known for years-this might actually be a positive, but it's still annoying to lose that base. The impending move eases this discomfort somewhat, though.

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OunceOfYourRage · 2015-06-08T09:14:04+00:00

i just turned 20. so far

POSITIVE- quit most social media, basically went off of the grid.

started filling out more job applications taking voice over classes

started reading no more mr nice guy as well as the Art Of Mackin by Tariq Nasheed, and 48 laws of power

did better this semester

less depressed

Drinking more water

better at making speeches

feel like ive gotten funnier

Cons - Social anxiety. i am on the autism spectrum so making conversation was always hard for me. i was always awkward as a kid and too shy to even talk to women. i never had much of a male guide. father committed suicide when i was 12. i had 2 brothers but it wasnt easy to pickup their advice as things were easier said than done. they didnt get my social fear.

i need a gym membership as well as a diet but im broke. and that revolves around to filling out job applications.

im not great with pulling good conversation out of my ass. i dont know what to say or talk about. i feel like a jackass most of the time. i believe in myself but im stumped.

my sleep schedule is fucked up. i pull all nighters and sleep during the day.

too much time i spend on the computer and playing video games. i remain too stagnant and i want to change these things myself. but i feel like a mammoth in tar.

i feel like i have no friends. no real close friends anymore. most left after depression/high school. so im stuck floating in my head. and i have no one to talk with most of the time.

fell asleep next to a cup of soda. woke up to my phone submerged in that cup.

HellhoundsOnMyTrail · 2015-06-08T10:15:22+00:00

Positives:

Kept on the diet, lost 20 lbs. Started gaining weight again but that was coming from doing 5x5.
Ex went crazy after a mushroom trip and started fucking everything that moved. Cut her out as well as some other women I was friends with and realized they were using me just as much as she was.
Started therapy to deal with some of my anxieties and low self worth. It's a mindfulness based therapy(ACT) and correlates well to my already pretty firm meditative practice. I dig it.
Started a krav maga class. I had watched youtube vid in November that had CCTV footage of a stabbing. Freaked me the hell out realized how vulnerable I was. I feel a lot better now.
Quit smoking pot. This was pretty easy when your ex starts banging your dealer.

Negatives

Still have the job and I hate and don't really feel on my path. On the flipside at least i know what I want to do.
Living in the ex's moms basement. I know, not good. We had done it so we could save for travelling. Of course, she never saved a dime. Anyway, I need to get the fuck outta here before I even think about dating again.

CrookedSmileeeee · 2015-06-08T10:26:49+00:00

Got Ripped

RXRob · 2015-06-08T10:31:07+00:00

Got my wrestling at a level where promotions are reaching out to me.

Tightened my finances more.

Clamped down on the diet and got back to the weights. A stranger called me ripped last week.

But there are a couple of negatives.

I'm down to one plate. I feel like I'm too busy to date anybody.

My house is a mess. See the excuse above.

Henry_Beastman · 2015-06-08T10:41:37+00:00

Positives:

Implemented a new daily planning system
Saved a lot of dosh
Quit my boring-ass job
Came to Japan
Worked at a farm
Learned the language (still way to go!)
Fucked a whore (still costed less than a girlfriend)
Traveled around the country

Negatives:

Here and there struggling with the pointlessness of life
Still watching porn
Consistency issues

All__fun · 2015-06-08T15:12:45+00:00

My positives:

Consistently hit the gym 3x a week
Improved my dancing (Ballroom Salsa, Cuban Salsa, bachata and merengue)
Graduated from College, Bachelors Info Systems
Should be receiving a call this week for a full time position, 50k
Improved my Spanish Speaking, (pimsleur & Learning Spanish like crazy)
I've read around 7 Books already

My negatives:

Still not that successful with women, but I know that will come
Not too much money in the bank.
Still chubby, I'm around 22% Body Fat.

stealthcreeper · 2015-06-08T15:53:02+00:00

Social anxiety. This has been something that reared its ugly head in the last few years. Always looked at people with anxiety or depression as weak people, but suffering from extreme sweating in public situations is something I haven't been able to fix. Grew up VERY blue pill, and with a lot insecurities about myself and my interaction with women, however, I thought I overcome that in the last few years when I genuinely gained confidence and dated multiple women.

Wanna get rid of it? Get rid of all the other negatives in your life...

Video games

Being inconsistent in the gym

Not picking up fighting or MMA

And mainly...porn addiction.

If you erase all this negatives the social anxiety will vanish.

Just to see that negatives create more negatives.

ex:

A lot of web surfing = inertia for porn abuse (thus creating social anxiety)

Wasting time with video games and tv/web = inertia for laziness (thus creating inconsistency in the gym and a lack of motivation to learn a martial art)

criveros · 2015-06-08T16:19:38+00:00

Lost about 20 lbs of excess weight and have put some muscle, got a fuck buddy, developed a stronger frame. I go out 4 nights a week, and have more success with women than ever.

Master1176 · 2015-06-08T17:21:16+00:00

GOOD: Have a good LTR. Making more money Reading more books Have been lifting for 4 months, and wardrobe is MUCH better.

BAD: Have cut down on porn, still not enough Shoulders and pecs are great, abs and legs still need work Too materialistic, spend too much money

BIGGEST NEGATIVE: I'm still so ANGRY!!! Women hit on me out of the blue now, and I'm such a dick to them. I know, AWALT and all of that, but still. I don't hate all women, but western females under 25.... some of the worst human beings our civilization has ever produced.

TeoLolstoy · 2015-06-08T17:27:29+00:00

What the hell is beta music?

jx234 · 2015-06-08T17:30:27+00:00

Nice to see some self-criticism for a change. Often people make themselves out to have understood life so well that I feel like asking them "then why are you here?"

Muddpup64 · 2015-06-09T00:44:03+00:00

Curious, but what do you consider "beta" music?

rep12 · 2015-06-08T01:29:58+00:00

Tomorrow I'm moving house. I'm finally leaving the people that make me unhappy. I will no longer feel unwelcome in my own home. I have askTRP to thank for that decision, endless gratitude to the guys helping others out over there.

Also the weather here is starting to heat up prompting me to wear a pair of shorts I've not seen since last summer, my quads were almost too big to wear them. Feels good to notice progress in such an unexpected way.

BigG123 · 2015-06-08T02:08:41+00:00

Just curious, what do you qualify as "beta" music?

xviperzero0 · 2015-06-08T04:22:00+00:00

Improved myself by lifting and eating much better. I can see through all the bullshit that all women are like. TRP gave me tons of confidence to do me and not act like a fool around other people. I truly appreciate what this sub has made me become.

The only problem I have is having no balls to approach women during the day time. I do not why I just can't walk up to them and start up a conversation.

choicemeats · 2015-06-08T05:28:43+00:00

After four months of TRP reading--

Pros:

I went on a date the other day and had fun. I wasn't nervous going into it--it was with a girl I knew but hadn't seen in a while. Worth a second date ask, which I did. But also still talking to other women on the side as I come out of monk mode.

-Have been taking my training more seriously and have consistently been breaking PRs in the gym as of late. My diet leaves a bit to be desired, but I'm cleaning that up too. I've been cleaning up my facial hygiene (more frequent haircuts, shaves) as well as my posture and demeanor (i.e. everything we learn about voice and movement as a man, here). There have been noticeable returns on investment here.

-Job performance has been much better and I'm trying to put myself in situations to get ahead of my peers.

-I have been much better about budgeting and sticking with that budget. My spending is way, way down and I am paying down credit debt in large chunks. I'm about to hit a stretch where I will be able to save larger amounts and pay down more debt, which I am really looking forward to.

Cons:

-I still have a huge porn problem. I've been "medicating" by being out and doing things but once a day I get the shakes, basically. But then I'll be good for the rest of the day. Or vice versa, i'll be solid in the morning but before bed have a hankering.

-as mentioned, my diet could be better and it's hampering gains and my physique, and I need to fix it.

-I'm still talking to other women, but I haven't asked them out, so I'm not really the winner here.

So I would say about 50/50, I'm doing alright.

cmiovino · 2015-06-08T13:05:38+00:00

27, started TRP in February after a dying 3 year LTR exploded with her cheating on me with some guy from Australia. He paid to come see her, I held on and was a bitch. They had been communicating for six months after a summer trip they met in Europe on.

January - Sucked balls. Depressed. Couldn't think of a way out.

February - Bought a GoPro and decided my life needed more adventure. Started filming hiking at state parks, going on more trips, and exploring. Also joined Reddit and found TRP.

March - Prepared to dive deep into my current calling in life - cars. Got numbers for my car, modified it more, took it to the track more. Met more people, go more involved, started filming it too.

April - Started lifting heavier and eating better. In May/June, even upped this more. Reconfigured my home gym and made a chart to increase weight over the next 12 or so weeks. Started making pre-made food tupperwares for work. Also started going out everyday at lunch hour to the local college for approaching experience. After 2-3 weeks, I was getting in 5 approaches a day, 1 or so resulting in a number. No real 'dates' or follow ups.

May - Started online dating and made a 'badass' TRP style profile. Started messaging short, fun, repetitive story-line copy and paste messages. Played around, got numbers, met up with a few and even went back to this very attractive girl's place after going out all night drinking, exploring our city, and being awesome. First time since the breakup I pulled back to a girl's place. She's since sent 'bra' pictures holding a beer, and other clothed, but provocative pictures. Also, was out at a happy hour for my buddy who was leaving work. Felt really good interacting with everyone. Chatted up some girl there, thinking her boyfriend was there too. Turns out, the guy wasn't her boyfriend. She was however engaged and had a kid. Didn't matter. Still escalated and drug her around to different parts of the bar and out to some loft area. Held hands, touch each other... eye opening TRP experience. Then she had to leave as she was with another group. Didn't get a number, but didn't really care to.

June - We're only 8 days in, but since school is out at the local college, I've started approaching on the streets here in our big city. Anxiety was there at first, but after 2-3 days, I got much better and the practice from the college kicked in. Recently just met a another solid girl via cold approach - first time ever I actually had fun doing it. Likes hiking, state parks, some things I actually enjoy. Hope to meet up again this week. Also have another girl sitting in the wing for a meetup who works at our local hospital as a nurse.

Currently I plan on to keep going out each day. 5 approaches a day. Continue with the lifting and eating more (skinny guy). And continue filming and working on my Youtube Channel. I've gotten a ton of feedback and have gotten much better after a few months. People now ask me all the time at car meets and events about the next videos or to film their cars. I really really enjoy it and love having a certain persona around it.

Six months ago, that girl was the center of my life. We were together every weekend and my real life purpose died. I stopped going to car stuff, stopped hanging out with my guy friends, and stopped meeting new people. I stopped adventuring and trying new things. I've really turned it around.

I also completely cut out porn. It makes you lethargic and really screws with how to create intent and relate to women. I've noticed increases leaps and bounds above what I thought was possible in short amounts of time after cutting it. My focus is on cars, meeting new people, lifting, and my career. I now have a passion for going out and meeting women along side my major callings.

I really have to keep a keen eye on not getting too attached to one girl after having success....... this will be my downfall and always has been. I'm aware now.

Thanks, TRP.

reupiii · 2015-06-08T13:36:09+00:00

Positive

lifting consistently, added 10 more pounds for a total of 15 pounds in 8 months. And my diet is perfect now.
addictions: got finally rid of weed and tabacco. Very little alcohol.
sports : increased frequency, now 6 times a week
job : much more efficient since I quit weed. Doing tests for starting a business on the side
social : reconnected with old friends, gone to a few parties. Manageable social anxiety now (used to be awful because weed)

To be done

social : keep improving, more exposure, and meditation seems to help
game : get back in the game, dry spell about to end but that's not enough. I need to start approaching
addictions : my last one is the internet, I was wasting hours on reddit and other shit. Much better since last week, I need to keep going.
wardrobe : mine is shitty now, but I need 10 more pounds before buying stuff.

Overall a huge improvement since last october when I started to clean the mess that my life had become. Discovering TRP in january has been a major step, I learned/read everything. I need to apply it now.

gardens4lyf · 2015-06-08T17:29:22+00:00

positives:

no longer an orbiter
ran my first marathon
made progress in the first year of my PhD
made a lot of progress with women in general, a lot of girls are attracted to me, i've been on a lot of dates and i've started to adopt an abundance mentality without actually having abundance
working towards beating approach anxiety. each day that goes I approach more and more and slowly bit by bit the anxiety crumbles, though it still persists for now..

negatives

no lays in 2015 so far, and 0 plates since swallowing the pill
been unsuccessful so far in my quest for a six pack. i've been close a few times now but need to get past the food binges for sure. at least my gym sessions are tight
haven't gotten back into muay thai yet
made no red pill friends
had a few friends turn their backs on me

boredepression · 2015-06-08T18:09:19+00:00

34 m. Learning to hold eye contact. Working on IDGAF and being stoic under pressure. Have made some progress. Dressing better. Often in a suit now. Lost 25 lbls. Need to loose 25 more. Working out and benching 160lbls for 15reps; up from 120 when I started 2 months ago. Goal is 275lbl. Trying to learn to read women - have a long way to go but slowly learning to recoginze a few things. Internalizing the abundance mentality. Persuing a few projects that could financially boost me. Confidence and self-respect are up. Sex with the wife is better. She is enjoying the newfound muscles and stamina.

The bad. Wow this list is long. My going out with work mates pissed off the wife and I didn't hold frame properly. Have a lot of work to fix that shit. That said, Holding frame has been very difficult; Im struggling with the difference between being loving with her and holding frame. Going out was a drain on the finances. Have to find another way to accomplish meeting people. I want to try bouncing but the wife does NOT like the idea :( so maybe I can try uber? Still agressive which makes stoicism hard to accomplish. Have a hard time finding alone time to work on me. I havent been as regular with my workouts as I should be. I do get in once a week and have lengthened the workout since its only once a week, but I want to make it 3 times a week. My keto diet bit the dust for the last month. MUST get back to it! Need to find a new job/tweak this one where Im not expected to work evenings without additional pay so I have more time to devote to me or at least make more.

xinhoj · 2015-06-08T19:03:39+00:00

Assets:

Found TRP in January and began unplugging immediately
I now understand that my previous sexual successes were not dumb luck but the result of attractive behaviors on my part; and that my previous sexual/relationship failures were the result of unattractive behaviors on my part; which led to
Recognizing the oneitis I'd had for my ex and the extremely logical reasons why our relationship collapsed, which led to
Hooking up with 2 girls after recovering from oneitis
Lost 10 pounds by resuming keto
Recognizing that I typically treat my social anxiety in large/unfamiliar groups with alcohol, leading to
Reduced spending on booze & weed
I'm pretty sure one of my trivia teammates is a red piller, or at least aware of the manosphere. First rule of Fight Club, etc.
Greater acuity for tone & body language, so for instance now
I make women break eye contact first now, part of a general trend towards being
A little more DGAF
I take cold "Navy" showers now, saving both time and water
Started playing golf
Better at holding frame, in the workplace at least, which led to
Successfully negotiating a new pay rate for one of my jobs
Stopped watching porn...mostly (see below)

Neutral:

Shifting music preferences: I've come to enjoy hip hop more. My previously-beloved 90s-Alternative Pandora station is suddenly a nest of beta triggers. And I had to put my dishwasher on notice that the next time I hear Linkin Park or Evanescence or Vertical Horizon during a dinner rush, I'm dropping his fucking phone in the deep fryer.
My new year's resolution was to see how much beard I could grow in one year. Overall my SMV has taken a hit but the girls who do like it, REALLY like it. I occasionally see this one girl at the bar (she usually has at least one or two orbiters in tow) who can't keep her hands out of it when she sees me. I enjoy her attention almost as much as I enjoy AMOGing her orbiters by reminding her (in front of them) that we've scheduled a "date" to braid/cornrow it once it grows out some more.

Liabilities:

Still buried in debt; credit cards maxed out
Every time I think I'm getting ahead financially, another aw-shit happens and I'm right back where I was before, in part because
The restaurant I work for is struggling due to a combination of regulatory hurdles, managerial incompetence/alcoholism/blue-pill victim complex, and resulting low employee morale (there's a longer post to be written about this topic but I'm still collecting data)
Shitty car, shitty wardrobe, currently too broke to fix both
I still struggle with approaches, unless I'm absolutely sure of success. This leads me to aim for the low hanging fruit.
Beta relapses after previously mentioned hookups, taking a break from the game until I can get my head right, probably connected to
Me every day: "I'll start lifting once I can afford to buy some weights."
Still spending too much time sitting in front of a computer on Facebook and Reddit, resulting in
My morbid curiosity getting the better of me and watching mattress-girl's video, breaking my 5-month-no-porn streak

Things to Improve:

Committing to more physical activity
Committing to less computer time
Committing fully to keto; I find myself slipping carbs in when I know I shouldn't
Breaking out of the "comfort zone" more frequently
Finding an actual full-time job instead of part-time/per-diem gigs
Day game/holding frame with girls
Seal the deal with that girl I mentioned under "Neutral"
Practicing speaking with a deeper voice (I try to imitate Roose Bolton from Game of Thrones but unless I consciously do it I revert to my somewhat squeaky register)

foldpak111 · 2015-06-08T01:11:56+00:00

Avoid listening to sad bullshit music by playing trap mixes. Makes you feel like a drug lord instead of some Ryan Adams esque little bitch in scarcity.

I'm gearing up for something big, though. I'm moving out (the people I'm with are toxic and pro feminism, a serious violation of personal boundaries), gonna get some room mates in the downtown area where I'll be working full-time as a security guard (12.00 an hour to walk around graveyard hours so little mental energy expended to focus on the bigger picture). Then I'll spend 4-7 hours after that learning entrepreneurialism.

In terms of dating, I've just gotten back into it and macked on Starbucks employee's and the responses were positive. One even approached me. Get eyefucked in the computer lab by cute foreign chicks a lot, but never made a move on them (quiet environments are stifling so that's a wall I'd like to break through). Latina ran into me downtown at night and I had a Chad thundercock moment but don't ask because I don't know what came over me (hashtag beastmode). This is where I'm gearing up to make my biggest change.

In terms of fitness, I won't lie to you. I quit for like 3 months, but I'm getting back into it. I'll need the testosterone boost and mental clarity to compete in the sport of business.

I hope everyone else is killing it or gearing up for it, because we aren't meant for normal shit lives. Real men push the limits of human endurance. I love you all.

Title	Half way through 2015, how's your progress?
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Date	June 7, 2015 8:18 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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