This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniable

MattyAnon · 2023-07-27T17:10:59+00:00

Midlife Dating: Where Have All The Good Middle-Aged Men Gone?

From the article we can infer that "good" means "willing to commit to one middle aged woman and her baggage with very little sex entirely on her terms".

Our needs change as we age.

Haha.... yes they sure do.

Now let's look at what is being offered to the men in this article.

For me, it's the vision of sitting beside my person years later in a rocking chair and feeling blessed and safe to have him beside me.

Offered: She will sit in her rocking chair.

By then, my man will see and cherish my pure heart over my fading beauty

I'm not sure what this "pure heart" is, exactly. She's been "the other woman", so not sure where the purity is in that exactly.

Another classic is......

[he] is not bothered by my past

Well hang on a second, I thought you just said you had a pure heart? Oh, what's that you say..... you have a pure heart NOW but you need your previous indiscretions overlooked from when you were young and hot?

And.....

[he] doesn't need a special occasion to .... do something extraordinary

In the ENTIRE article.... the only thing on offer is her "fading beauty" in a rocking chair, with a past that must be overlooked.

So yeah, I'm not seeing what I'm getting in exchange for my commitment and resources.

Entheogeneration1111 · 2023-07-27T23:18:19+00:00

To play devil's advocate - as I'm getting older I'm a lot more attracted to stability, no tantrums, and lack of craziness than I used to be when I was younger. Crazy bitches repulse me now

throwitdownman · 2023-07-28T05:17:03+00:00

If you give these women a time machine, or if plastic surgery / nutrition / lifestyle / exercise gets post-wall women to look competitive with 20 year olds, they will 1000% go back to competing for Chad rather than find a sucker. They’re just hamstering that the best option available now is what they’ve always wanted.

Why would post wall women go for Chad, knowing she has 0 chance to keep him? Young girls do so because they hamster they have a chance to keep him, older women know they are a pump and dump at best. For a post-wall women, deep down she knows she offers nothing and is on eggshells, knowing there’s a chance Chad walks after ONE comfort test. For a younger girl, there is a chance Chad will at least try to pass a comfort test.

grass_cutter · 2023-07-28T01:34:00+00:00

Kinda sux for divorced midlife women, esp if they are fat and frumpy.

They need to downgrade, fast, and take any man with a job, working dick, and basic manners.

Anyway ... for us younger guys that are still in the game --

Even this woman 'in her prime' would have impossible standards for the so-called 'good-man' - he could be a sensitive adonis, who is handy, masculine, but a feminist, and makes 7 figures, and -- STILL come up short because his job is 'boring' or he 'drinks' or whatever. Some American women are nuts ha.

videogames_ · 2023-07-27T15:09:36+00:00

Yeah it’s true. Learn the behaviors and seduce with this in mind. Black pill imo is dangerous because it assumes you have no control. I’m average looks, average height, and not white. I still got dozens of hookups through sheer will and appealing to the niche that likes my look. Use this info to help your dating life.

392686347759549 · 2023-07-27T17:25:19+00:00

What does this prove exactly? It's just a random journal entry by a random person with almost no following.

abramN · 2023-07-28T16:13:41+00:00

I remember dating this one girl that wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, wanted me to make changes to my appearance, go along with her agenda, etc. When I asked her what I get in return, she said "me!" I remember discussing this with my mom, who said "well that's everything isn't it?" I was very troubled by this. I think it's a fair question! WHAT AM I GETTING OUT OF ALL THIS? Maybe it used to be you got a supportive woman who welcomed you warmly when you got home, and children that respected and valued your labor. Home was sanctuary. It's not that way anymore. Now it's screaming kids who demand even more and a nagging wife and no sex or even affection.

I hope I can reverse some of this with my sons - teach them to ask what they're getting out of a situation. Ask them to consider the source of the "truths" that they're hearing about male/female relationships, and who benefits from that truth. Cui bono? Is it your mom that's telling you to put women on a pedestal? Is it the girl that you're trying to date?

It'll have to start with the next generation, and it's on all of us to change the pattern.

AriesAsF · 2023-07-27T19:44:36+00:00

Doesn't everything the author said apply equally to men tho? Don't men just chase hot pussy and easy sex in their youth and then settle down as they age, get wiser and look for different qualities in a longterm partner? Isn't that just called growing up? There's no ah ha! moment in this, just basic common knowledge

4ktx · 2023-07-27T20:47:06+00:00

Chads not always a bad boy. Chads have been exposed to female nature, so they act accordingly.

Black pill isn’t the truth. Because women bang for benefits all the time. Women will bang u for promotion or to exert dominance over another women.

Blue pill is a myth because women get with men they don’t like all the time.

BurnDownTheMission68 · 2023-07-27T15:24:12+00:00

Can we stop labeling everything as some kind of pill?

When someone labels something “Blackpill” it implies incel loser.

There is only truth and bullshit.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-07-28T00:38:21+00:00

What is this? Black pill talk on trp?

Hierarchy! /S

With Instagram tinder seeking arrangements TikTok, the internet has made the value of looks of their boyfriend more valuable to women as a means of showing off her own status.

Traits that women value vary in weighting, and social media is the biggest thing to affect women's preferences since well the day marriage was invented.

Instead of showing off the biggest engagement ring to her friends in person, she can show the most vacations and tallest boyfriend to the whole world on Instagram.

Trp is adapting to it, it seems. It use to be bannable to mention black pill at all.

Not advocating for.it, just stating some observations

FormingStar · 2023-07-28T14:30:46+00:00

Later on, these middle-age women will tell you that beauty is beauty regardless of age. What these women don't understand is that no matter how hard you they try to coerce and brainwash men into thinking that having a vagina is enough, deep down men still prefer a young, fertile, beautiful wife/girlfriend with no emotional baggage that a they can build a family with. As men, we should look at these women intent (in a meta way) rather than listening/reading to what they say in a literal sense.
The message of this article is similar in a sense to the popular Instagram reels on the topic of relationship. The reels are mostly created by women, trying to re-frame the terms of a relationship according to their terms and conditions but they are doing this in a more broader way. "My boyfriend upset me. Look at what he brought me to make me happy again, a gucci bag. What a good boy"

Opening_Tell9388 · 2023-07-28T15:21:14+00:00

Bro fuck yeah! Medium.com is where I get all my research papers and facts from.

never_nic · 2023-07-27T15:38:00+00:00

Wow someone who their entire life didn’t know what the fuck they wanted says women only want looks, guess the blackpill is proven! Pack it up guys.

Whenever someone posts something like this, I feel like they don’t go outside, they don’t talk or pursue real women and all interaction with the outside world is through the Internet

CoolKid2326 · 2023-07-27T17:37:24+00:00

remember when this subreddit was good?

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