My friends will ask me how to deal with particular situations with their girls, when we are hanging out, and I only have one answer: "never give a fuck about her problems or the problems in the relationship, it'll work itself out, just do you." They usually don't get it, and neither do the people on askTRP who want one liners curtailed for each of their individual situations in regards to women. The irony is, they only have to do one thing; never give a fuck, and it'll work itself out. They bitch and moan about problems, that aren't really "problems." Nothing is really a problem, it's just life. You have a sensitive conditioning, and you act like a bitch. Here's your desensitized piece of advice; "quit your fucking whining."

When you have the perfect mixture of IDGAF and, "I do give a fuck, but only about myself," you have yourself a man women desire. The hard part, when you become aware that you've lost this touch or never had it, is finding that perfect mixture.

His career path, height, facial symmetry, and style, are all just the extra points in either direction. They won't make or break him as much as this will. But, a man like this, he can make women wetter than a seal. You want her to stick around and be truly attracted? This is your baseline, and about 15 minutes into a conversation, she knows whether or not she wants to fuck you. The guys who aren't so good looking are laughing right now and in denial. They think; looks this, looks that. But they're wrong. You can be as attractive and jacked as you want, you will eventually make her nauseous without these traits. She may fuck you because you're a 10/10, but if you're a beta, she will find out quick, and you can bet your ass she'll be playing phone tags with some real alphas that don't give two fucks about her or her life.

Robust mother fuckers who are rough around the edges. Scrubs, inmates, military members who could care less about their lives, so never mind hers, and look the part too. I know, I've been around most of these scumbags my entire life, I, in turn, became one, to an extent. Growing up in a shit neighborhood with bad friends has its benefit. You harden. You know sluts when you see them, your friends ask you why you didn't fuck her. You get shown what it's like to live life without a filter. When you're intelligent, you can see through this, still make something of yourself, and stay out of jail. I guess you could say you're angry for no reason, kind of like you have to be. Maybe your parents were alcoholics and it pissed you off, maybe you want money and don't have it, so it pissed you off. Regardless, this anger sort of fuels you when you come from a fucked up area.

There is a difference between caring about people and their opinions, and caring about yourself. IDGAF isn't the end all, it's important you care about yourself if you want to have a decent quality of life. It's real application comes into affect when you speak about the lives of others. I can't tell you how many of my old friends envy the life I lead because I did focus on my career instead of getting arrested for drugs, or sitting around for a decade not doing jack shit. They do care about themselves, they just didn't have the tools to fix themselves, they didn't have self awareness to notice they did, and they didn't have opportunity. They had anger, and in turn a deranged subconscious.

This is exactly why it doesn't matter what walk of life you come from, you can be alpha if you're ugly, if you're a druggie, a prisoner, or a successful CEO. The common trait all these alpha men will hold, is the ability to harness a lack of empathy or care for others, and a great deal of care for themselves.

Once you change this dynamic, and have an imbalance, you are qualifying yourself to her and other people. When she/people can see you do this for her/them, much more than you do for yourself, her/their subconscious can only assume one thing: "I am better than him, he must be insecure and not worth what I am." And if her hamster finds this out, it will go wild. It will inform her that she isn't reaching for enough. People want to be around people better than them. She wants something better, more exciting, fuck... even a project man she can work on and turn into a good boy who will finally behave, just for her. That to her is pure satisfaction.

It's only practical to her, that a man beyond her reach, would treat her as if she is far below him. Finding this perfect mixture within, and the self awareness to see it all, is what will truly lead to the eventual death of the beta within and a successful alpha who holds the world by the balls.

Quit focusing on women, quit bitching, what are you, going to die if you stopped the two? I'm quite sure your mind and body can handle much more. You just don't have the proof yet because of your sensitive conditioning.

Fuck the past, I am talking about today, and your future.