Another "it was the past" post!

frikabg · 2020-05-11T11:20:34+00:00

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Honest_Solution · 2020-05-11T11:21:31+00:00

Not just one, but MULTIPLE gangbangs. This isn’t a woman you bring home to meet mom, much less marry.

peguy2000 · 2020-05-11T11:20:51+00:00

You cant make this shit up

I wish women were more honest about themself. If youre a whore or a slut be honest about it so people know who theyre in a relationship with. If that woman was honest about her past this wouldnt have happend in the first place

asdf333aza · 2020-05-11T14:06:07+00:00

Oooh guys it gets WORST!!! I checked the original sub.

Apparently, she had a bf at the time. And she CHEATED on him to go get gangbanged MULTIPLE TIMES and it was in fact recorded and there are videos of it floating around. The old bf who she cheated on was the one who sent the video of the gangbang to her now husband.

This girl is the absolute epitome of a slut in disguise. The entire marriage should be annuled and she should have to pay damages to this guy. His reputation and respect have been damaged and she flat out lied abd committed fraud their entire marriage. No one respects the guy who wifed the town slut.

NetherIndy · 2020-05-11T12:00:37+00:00

Unspoken... "and I had been weaning him down to once-a-month fifteen minute sex before he found out".

idcawom · 2020-05-11T11:30:12+00:00

It's a farce. They demand honesty and genuinity from us, but they can't stop lying through their teeth.

silly_birb · 2020-05-11T12:38:59+00:00

That's why feminists push to emasculate men, they knew the day men would not accept sluts as wives.

All the "toxic masculinity" was just planning ahead.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2020-05-11T12:29:40+00:00

For a few crimes, there are no statute of limitations. If you are caught and convicted, then you will suffer the consequences regardless of how much time has past and how much you have changed your life and behavior.

There is NO statute of limitations on being a wonton THOT and town bicycle. The 'dating' period is a vetting period. It is the time to determine if a woman is worthy of your time, money, and commitment. If she is "wife" material. Women know this and think that keeping their secrets will keep them safe once you wife them up. She lied about her past and assumed that the statue of limitations had run out after a mere 8 years.

Pussy pass denied.

This is marriage under false pretense and should result in instant divorce. As in the judge signs the paperwork the next morning. Do not pass go, do not collect half of the assets. Go straight to somewhere else.

yeshdufuga · 2020-05-11T13:02:08+00:00

I'm in college now and where the fuck are these girls doing gangbangs???

Rottinghere · 2020-05-11T13:17:17+00:00

Take a moment to think about all of the guys out there who are married to high-mileage cum dumpsters and have never found out about it (and who never will).

It's enough to send shivers down your spine...

Unfigured · 2020-05-11T12:51:32+00:00

He could not give informed consent since he didn't know about her thottery.

nanotron55 · 2020-05-11T13:02:30+00:00

"multiple gangbangs" has entered the chat lmaoo

aborto-de-cuy · 2020-05-11T13:21:44+00:00

Reading the post, it just so happens the woman cheated on his boyfriend while in college, did multiple gangbangs and to top it all off, this was all recorded. The man found out because her ex sent video evidence after 8 years together. Great story.

asdf333aza · 2020-05-11T14:00:42+00:00

Multiple gangbangs?? MULTIPLE?! This dude married a pornstar. Probably videos of her on pornhub right now.

He will never wash that disgust off of himself. He thought she was special. He thought she was all for him, but it turns out she was just one for all. Literally a community fuck toy. Just the leftover scraps from numerous dudes.

How much time and money has he spent and how many times did he bend over backwards for a piece of pussy that she was giving out for free to multiple guys at the same time just a few years ago? Absolutely disgusting.

UltimaterializerX · 2020-05-11T13:45:59+00:00

Women will think he’s leaving her because he hates women, when in reality he’s leaving because she’s a liar. The husband already knows this isn’t the only thing she’s lied about.

KDE_Fan · 2020-05-11T13:50:19+00:00

Nothing says "My past empowered me and I'm proud of it" like hiding it from someone you profess to love.

Broncoli · 2020-05-11T13:16:36+00:00

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Buchwild · 2020-05-11T14:30:19+00:00

Look at how the post it worded. You read through it and you're supposed to give this girl sympathy. My husband mad at me, he yelled, he wants a divorce! Then at the very end she slips in, I may have been in a few gangbangs. She's a manipulator, plain and simple.

Eloquenttongues · 2020-05-11T13:52:51+00:00

BROOOO. She dropped a fucking bombshell in that last sentence lmao

alexinfinite85 · 2020-05-11T15:16:49+00:00

Odds are good she gives him excuses for months on end resisting having sex with him and him seeing her go full hog with a bunch of dudes all at once was the final straw. Imagine how insulted and degraded he must feel being forced to beg for sex from his wife only to find out she isn't naturally sexually low key, she just doesn't find him as sexually arousing. Whelp, you don't get to keep your marriage if you're not feeding it

MC_Batsy · 2020-05-11T13:17:09+00:00

Agh! These gosh darn CONSEQUENCES!

toolate4redpill · 2020-05-11T16:21:38+00:00

The rub to situations like this is she's usually a total prude with her hubby. Woman did gangbangs and likely will only have sex with hubby with the lights off, missionary style.

Been there, didn't get done like that

Uhtred_McUhtredson · 2020-05-11T17:12:28+00:00

I’d rather stay single for the rest of my life and just fuck around than settle down with someone like this.

Unfortunately I almost did.

aych001 · 2020-05-11T12:43:04+00:00

What are the disadvantages/detrimental effects of a divorce for a woman? I thought there aren't any! She seems to be scared for some reason.

2020-05-11T13:08:39+00:00

Her kid(s) will be bullied at school like no others...

Ons_Duiwel · 2020-05-11T14:06:11+00:00

"...multiple gangbangs..."

Fuck...

yuvrajsama · 2020-05-11T14:28:21+00:00

Multiple gangbang 😮😈🌚 . Multiple partners 😈🤤 . She really enjoyed life 🤣

Thetrvler · 2020-05-11T14:30:13+00:00

I’m literally crying from how hilarious it goes from 10 to 100 in the last sentence.

KelvinRuss · 2020-05-11T14:41:47+00:00

Queen of the gang😁😁😁

The infamous started Crying, doesn't work anymore please.

MattyK414 · 2020-05-11T16:28:43+00:00

Like Leykis said- They like everything that you like, just to get a commitment.

SpamFilterHatesMe · 2020-05-11T16:55:18+00:00

I bet he's pissed because for those 5 years she was giving him "I won't do that" bullshit and insisting on vanilla sex while keeping him dry

I found out more in comments:

So, reading through comments, you cheated on a bf, had group sex multiple times, it was recorded, you lied to your husband when he asked about your past, and he found out because the ex you cheated on back then sent him video proof.

The man found out his wife is a liar, cheater, participated in group sex, and saw the amateur porn clip all at the same time. It would take a miracle to come back from that.

akihonj · 2020-05-11T14:05:45+00:00

Wow the edit says it all really, she's been run through more times than a fencing practice dummy and now she just wants to forget all about it. While her husband has to live with knowing that anything he knows about her everyone else knows too.

Gman3152 · 2020-05-11T14:08:10+00:00

Damn man. That's why I won't get married

SuperVeryDumbPerson · 2020-05-11T14:00:06+00:00

Those whores are also selfish. Like, this man has been with her for i don't know how many years, unaware of what kind of bitch he married because she decided it wasn't worth mentioning. He wasted so many years of his life, put so much effort in an unworthy relationship, wasted a chance of finding a better parter and probably spent a good amount of money on the relationship too. No empathy for these whores, only shame

crapamoly123 · 2020-05-11T16:19:32+00:00

Him: "Honey. I know we have been married for give years, but before you find out some other way, I wanted to tell you something. I used to be gay. I sucked hundreds of dicks. I did all sorts of unprotected sexual acts in alleyways, and rest stops. Too many to count. But that is in the past. I love YOU now and I was US to work"

Her: (go ahead. take a guess what she would say. I dare you)

2Th3Top · 2020-05-11T15:30:25+00:00

You don't, this is why you always share your past with the one u plan to spend your life with. Ur past and your choices will always come back to haunt u. The best thing u can do is make sure ur partner already knows. Also, fk her for ruining his life.

Uhtred_McUhtredson · 2020-05-11T17:47:53+00:00

There are two possibilities.

One is that she enjoyed the gangbangs and was really into them.

The second is that I’ve met women in life who are so... dumb, I guess? So dumb that they will do anything a man tells them to do, even group sex. I’ve seen it.

Neither of these possibilities are good for the husband because either his wife is a nympho for anyone but him, which will haunt him for the rest of the marriage, or his wife is so stupid and lacks agency to such a degree that a plumber or a delivery man could convince her into unprotected sex while hubby is slogging it away at work.

Dude has no choice but to cut bait.

Can you also imagine how they explain this to the in-laws??

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2020-05-11T14:31:43+00:00

She drops like the edit like it's nbd.

TeddyTMI · 2020-05-11T15:53:49+00:00

No problems other than your entire marriage being based on lies and phony expectations. Guy is getting ready to establish a family and instead of the mother of his children learns he married to the whore.

StingRayFins · 2020-05-11T18:13:01+00:00

The "it was the past" excuse doesn't work in ANY circumstance that I can think of... not sure how they think it can work with being promiscuous and irresponsible.

BoxofMistakes · 2020-05-11T19:16:07+00:00

Every woman I've dated turned out to be a whore after it was over. I mean after I left or we broke up I find out all the shit she'd been hiding. If women were honest no one would think of them as anything but a cum rag.

FurryRepublican · 2020-05-11T21:08:25+00:00

I'm no seeker of the Virgin Mary, but Jesus Christ I wouldn't want to marry a woman who was a participant of MULTIPLE gangbangs.

Taguroizumo · 2020-05-11T16:28:52+00:00

Multiple gangbangs.... Nuff said

MattyK414 · 2020-05-11T16:31:08+00:00

NEVER believe a woman who says that she'll open up over time. On that note- always be ready to cut her off when she starts taking things away.

kamexon · 2020-05-11T17:33:55+00:00

Ah, the nonchalant "I just had lil gangbangs here and there why am I in the wrong here" has arrived

BenGasEmGarrison · 2020-05-11T19:58:44+00:00

My favorite posts are when holes try to hide their past and get exposed. It’s getting harder and harder to cover up the truth carousel riders.

Shdwfx__ · 2020-05-11T14:07:41+00:00

The funny part is though, that the guy probably left because she lied about it for 5 years (or at least kept it a secret from him), while she think he left because of her past.

bigdaveyl · 2020-05-11T15:24:53+00:00

One thing I want to know is this:

Over the relationship, did hubby ask for "similar" treatment, if you know what I mean?

Because I could see this being a large bone to pick and a lack of respect and trust: wife was willing to put out and willing to do more deviant things with random guys (probably to impress/keep them) that they are no longer with, yet won't reciprocate him.

There's stuff my wife isn't a fan of, but she does it to please me (and the reverse is also true).

I find a lot of people want the good stuff, but don't want any of the consequences. Another example is I know of a few people that claim to be into polyamory, but some of the boundaries don't make any sense. For example, if a man and woman are married (or otherwise in an LTR), they have a rule where they can't bring any of their opposite sex partners home. I mean, if you're going to be in that lifestyle, own it for Christ sakes.

tiberiuswaldorf · 2020-05-11T17:45:17+00:00

The format of her post mirrors how she views her life. "Multiple gangbangs" is a goddamn footnote to her.

MrHistoryLesson · 2020-05-11T18:48:49+00:00

Dis-fucking-gusting.

"What can i do to fix this?" What a dumb whore hahaha

DKS6 · 2020-05-11T19:31:30+00:00

Gangbangs huh? Yeah, there’s the door.

escape777 · 2020-05-11T17:20:45+00:00

At that stage I bet it's more of her being a prude in the bedroom and a pain the ass in life in general for a 5 year marriage to break. Oh she wont do this or this even when he's the one bringing in the dough and all she does is sit on her ass, and then he finds out she did all that for free and even more so whoaa puts a whole new perspective.

I almost dogged a bullet recently, way long ago in college I knew a girl who was somewhat of a pain but still pretty and she was nice to me. We dated, and one time she told me to kiss her but no further without marriage, I didnt cos I wasn't so sure of the relation. I was a little wise but mainly really career oriented so lucky there. Then one day she really pissed me off, by making me walk a long way while I was sick, just because she didnt want to come to my house, and had dropped her laptop off with me to declutter from viruses, well I found some weird snaps of her in a towel and the pic weren't taken by her and the fact she made me walk while I was dirt sick did it for me. We broke away and left it. I came to the states for my masters and now am employed in a large mnc and it's been pretty fine. Well recently someone pinged me on my birthday well what do ya know it's her, found out she's doing well but is bored of the job etc, we both are hitting 30 now. So pretty much with me moving to the states and being an introverted workaholic, I am a fairly lonely person, not that I want company but you know you do miss someone to talk to at times. So, we pretty much are chatting everyday and it's fine and she is really trying to delve into my relationship status, well so I delved back, found out she's slept with some people but the relations haven't worked out and she reminded me of the time she asked me to kiss her etc, and again here I am non-committal, I am in the states she's back in india and I dont see it flying, so I said let's be friends here and we'll see if tomorrow changes anything. Well what do you know suddenly chatting daily isnt possible, she's busy, also replies are now one word instead of the essays I had before. Well around this time the covid 19 issue starts and she pings me saying her office isnt letting her stay at home and her travel has a lot of public exposure, and we have a banter on this with me saying life is more imp etc. Well one night she says she's getting on the bus and its pretty late there so i thought I'd be thoughtful and call her so i try her number 2 times no pick up, mind you it's just been 5 mins since her message came. So I send her a message asking why she isnt picking up the call and also I say this is getting irritating trying to chat with you. And well she replies 3 hrs later with a "We can just be friends and I won't chat everyday", and I was suddenly reminded of the crazy that I had forgotten. I quickly wrote back a "there was no further expectation than friends" and I dont see us going anywhere and have blocked her since. Wow imagine trying to screw with me with literally 2 oceans in between us and there has been literally nothing physical between us.

Didn't notice it became huge, sorry for the rant. But, yeah be careful my friends, there a lot of crazy out there.

Griever114 · 2020-05-11T19:45:34+00:00

Replace it with a man and:

I cant even look at him anymore
He is going to be a bad influence on my kids
He is gonna cheat on me.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-05-11T13:43:30+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

BraveNewNight · 2020-05-11T19:42:25+00:00

That edit. Holy Moly.

;D

ToolorDie · 2020-05-11T19:50:51+00:00

That edit lmao yikes

Snake10000 · 2020-05-11T20:03:03+00:00

You don’t understand how irrationally angry I got for a second while reading this.

Mortheous_Darkmere · 2020-05-11T20:33:01+00:00

Nothing she can do, she can't change her past. Perhaps young women at some point will realize what they do when they are young does indeed matter!

FormerBTfan · 2020-05-11T20:40:27+00:00

Don't know why this chick is upset about this. She can go back to getting gangbanged with one of the porn companies and make mad paper while just being the dirty shameless cunt she already is anyway. Seems to me a win win dude gets away from her and has a second chance at finding a decent respectable woman and she gets to be the piece of used meat cum dumpster that she really is.

thenotoriousdougie · 2020-05-11T21:50:08+00:00

But those videos of me on Zootube aren’t who I AM!! That was the PAST.

2020-05-12T00:31:05+00:00

That edit though. 🤣🤣🤣

Should have been "open and honest" about it from the start like all the women today want men to be. Then maybe she'd have saved herself 8 years of living a lie.

angelrock420 · 2020-05-12T03:46:08+00:00

Oooof. Sounds like she doesn't regret the taking the train trips tho, just that her husband's seen the receipts. Trust no ho!

BluepillProfessor · 2020-05-12T15:07:05+00:00

It's not the gang bangs or the hundreds of guys who have raw dogged her.

It's the fact she played games, pretended to be a "good girl" and regularly denied her husband sex.

This is what these whores do. They get off on sex. Then they rope a Beta male and get off on denying him sex.

100% if she gave even a slight effort her man would not be so concerned about her past. She doesn't....because her man who committed his life to her is not as desirable as the gangbangs who nutted on her face.

SeeSawAttack · 2020-05-11T13:51:46+00:00

This is why I've been pushing for an iniative that would allow us to brand thots, maybe a brand of a big penis? Would stop this kind of deceitful nonsense

ThaiEscapePlan · 2020-05-11T21:25:14+00:00

I was a Ferrari in college but you got a 10-year old, 300K mile cranky Camry

Balefirez · 2020-05-11T21:32:36+00:00

Posts like this (and the multitude of others) are a prefect example of why this message of, “Your past doesn’t define you. Do what you want when you are young. Anyone who brings up your past is a (insert your favorite -ist/-phobic word here)” is not only pants-on-head-stupid, it’s dangerous. Actions have consequences; ALL actions. That’s why every single therapist/ counsellor/ psychologist that I have spoken to or heard speak say get in front of your past. It is never a good idea to hide what you did; ESPECIALLY from someone you purport to love.

mariusalb · 2020-05-11T23:03:25+00:00

“Feminists, help me. A guy with money and support what’s to divorce me, what should i do? Should i lie that he beat me and raped me? Please, MeToo help”

2020-05-12T01:35:01+00:00

Gross

SKYQUAKE615 · 2020-05-12T03:02:16+00:00

I saw this on Better Bachelor earlier.

DarthBroker · 2020-05-12T13:14:59+00:00

Wouldn’t be surprised if he wasn’t getting all the sex he wanted while having gangbangs in the past

Scalermann · 2020-05-12T19:26:24+00:00

My eyes reading most of the post: o o

My eyes reading the edit: (O) (O)

RaymundosConsulting · 2020-05-12T22:44:43+00:00

this is like when applying to companies to work at or colleges/universities to attend when they ask you "is there anything you want us to know about you that could come up later or be a potential problem/issue later on after we accept/let you in? any red flags we should know about?" that's when you have to be forthright and tell the truth be open and honest because if they find out later on about any criminal history or crazy thing you did years ago when you were younger that you hid from them, they can legally kick you out of said company/college with no sympathy. this is literally whats happening with this woman. ive seen stuff like this happen, especially with college people. they get kicked out of university with no degree and no way to pay back the 80k or 100k school loans that they MUST pay back and they cant get accepted to another university because they'll have that on their record and they'll have to explain it to other schools; similar to how this soon-to-be divorced woman will have to explain why she's divorced to any future prospects. she had her chance to come out before marriage and be truthful with her past now shes facing the consequences of hiding such a crazy red flag on her past

alex137a1 · 2020-05-11T17:35:08+00:00

Hrm. She should've mentioned it at their first date. That would be honest. I suppose there is a chance of woman finally growing up from a little girl and understanding there are things more important than having a gangbang. Men who gangbanged her can't really be deemed responsible people. Or I just don't like this kind of things.

Generally women despise men who are promiscuous and dump them shortly. I guess she was one of those. Why we, as men, have to act differently? We don't like double standards.

_Waluigi_chan · 2020-05-11T18:19:14+00:00

Married for 5 years and dating for 3?🤔

oh_no_aliens · 2020-05-12T00:30:58+00:00

gotta be fake, the way they talk sounds like trolling.

If true, she's a Christmas Cake.

Slaveforjapcock · 2020-05-12T04:28:36+00:00

Aldabruzzo · 2020-05-12T12:53:42+00:00

Looks fake.

--short post, devoid of much detail. Most authentic women's posts are stream of consciousness rambling with lots of detail, only some of it relevant.

--written in mostly coherent, linear, matter of fact style. Suggests clear organized thought processes = male.

--"someone" told her husband? When this really happens, she knows exactly who ratted her out, and she will expose that person by name or identity to shame them. When this really happens, the woman doesn't attribute the Big Reveal to "someone".

That said, this is a decent exposition of how a husband usually finds out about his wife lies: "someone" in the know, someone who knows where all his wife's bodies are buried, rats her out. Usually it's one of her friends who starts reminiscing after one too many glasses of Pinot. Less often it's a frenemy who decides to get back at her for one reason or another.

It's a story as old as time - and despite what the girls will tell you, the truth comes out. It always comes out, one way or another. Might not be today, or tomorrow, or next week, or even next year. But it WILL come out.

Wellman81 · 2020-05-14T14:16:33+00:00

Just shows that past actions can have future consequences. This slut had her fun with the campus Chad's and then settled down with betabux into, what I'm assuming, a boring routine of pathetic duty sex once a month. I can guarantee she denied him certain sexual favors that she gave freely to others. Oh but it's ok because I'm sure it was all because she had self esteem issues and just wanted validation right? And now that she has betabux she can truly be herself, give me a damn break. She lied and deceived her husband knowing full well that he would have never even dated her if he had known from the get go. I truly feel sorry for her soon to be ex husband. These sexually burned out bimbo's just don't get it. They think they can do this kind of shit and not expect any adverse effects down the road.

Ladies, here's a great idea, don't be a floozy! Start having some standards and respect for yourselves and men will respect you in return. Your little "it's my body" mindset has contributed to the highest divorce rates in the history of mankind, given way to mass STDs, and produced millions of illegitimate children. So congratulations ladies, you achieved your sexual freedom, but at a great cost. Nothing is free except the air we breathe people.

Maybe the coronavirus is a blessing in disguise. I can see college's going completely online and/or by conference call from home in the future which will not only save schools tons of money, but also greatly reduce fraternization which in turn, reduces the chances of promiscuity.

Uniquer_name · 2020-05-11T22:51:27+00:00

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AshyBoneVR4 · 2020-05-16T10:13:32+00:00

So... I might be in the minority here, but I honestly don't care what my partners have done in their past. AS. LONG. AS. THEY. TELL. ME. Personally, I've been with about 40 different women. I'm 30 and started having sex at 18. Never had a gangbang, three way, four way, anything like that.

Now, I draw the line if she cheated. ESPECIALLY if she cheated on multiple partners. At that point she's not trust worthy and yes, I probably would divorce her if I find out about it after years of marriage.

Criket · 2020-05-11T22:00:16+00:00

She still can save the situation if she find a few willing girls friends...

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KDE_Fan · 2020-05-11T17:49:01+00:00

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Another "it was the past" post!

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Found my wife's old sex tape. Now our marriage is on the rocks if you have any advice please share.

Title	Another "it was the past" post!
Author	warlocc_
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Comments	322
Date	May 11, 2020 9:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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