See a lot of bullshit on here. Dudes complaining and not even responding to half the advice they get. Here's a guideline, for anyone considering posting a question here.
 
Take a picture of yourself shirtless and print it out. On this piece of paper:

  • Write down your stats (height, weight, bf%, lifts). You are keeping a journal of your workouts right?
  • Write down all the books you have read in the sidebar and one sentence about what you learned from each one (even if you haven't finished it yet). What was your main takeaway from the other erroneous material referenced in TRP sidebar and here?
  • Get your testosterone levels checked and write them down
  • Write down your ratio of sexual initiations/rejections
  • Write down the number of women besides your wife you could call right now to chill this weekend
  • Shit, write down the name of the last girl you flirted with who isn't your wife
  • Write down how many days over the past 15 you have actively gamed your wife
  • Write down two things you do that make you a good catch
  • Write down what you would do today if you did not have a wife/kids to go home to
  • Write down what Dread Level you are on
  • Write down how many more months you have to go until you are an attractive man with options

If you do this exercise and still don't have an answer to your dumb fuck question, post it. Here, I'll go first, sans the pic.

  • Write down your stats (height, weight, bf%, lifts):
  • 6'2", 210lbs., 15%bf
  • 90lb dumbbell press down from 102.5 (fuck!), 275 squat, 350 RDL, 315 lb. Hex bar shrugs, 102.5 lb. One arm rows, 45 lb. curls. Working back up after taking a break when my Dad died and I was depressed as shit. No excuses though, got work to do. I do a lot of other shit but these are the main ones. Back on track.
  • Write down all the books you have read in the sidebar and one sentence about what you learned from each one (even if you haven't finished it yet). What was your main takeaway from the other erroneous material referenced in TRP sidebar and here?
  • Gorilla Mindset: Overcome adversity with mental strength
  • NMMNG: Unapologetically put your needs first
  • WISNIFG: You do not owe people explanations for things you do that they don’t agree with
  • MMSLP: Your wife is a woman and the rules of attraction do not change after marriage
  • Models: Put yourself out there and accept rejection
  • The Way of the Superior Man: Figuratively fuck the world with your masculine energy
  • Rational Male, Year One: Women want sex as much as you do, but the rules are different than you thought (AF/BB)
  • The Natural: Project a calm and commanding presence
  • Bang: Be bold and forward in your approaches
  • Day Bang: Create the circumstances for plausible deniability and execute
  • Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves: Do for you, take her along for the ride if she earns it
  • 48 Laws of Power (unfinished): Position yourself wisely
  • Art of Seduction (unfinished): Project sexuality in a way that suits you
  • MAP: Clean up your life
  • How to Win Friends and Influence People: Play to people’s ego
  • Mastery (unfinished): Put in the time to achieve greatness
  • The Way of Men: Men value other men who add value
  • Book of Pook: Celebrate yourself
  • The Manipulated Man: You will not get any credit for being a plow horse - also, your wife’s a whore, too
  • The Polygamist Sex: Don’t turn your wife into your protege, fuck as many women as you like
  • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck: Choose what is worth suffering for in your life
  • Backbone (unfinished): Live true to yourself
  • Conversation Tactics 1-3: Be able to laugh at yourself and have fun bantering
  • Practical Female Psychology: If you let them, women will manipulate you - have fun with it and keep it light
  • Letting Go: The Pathway to Surrender (unfinished): Accept negative emotions and allow yourself to experience them
  • The Red Queen (just started): Somehow I missed this shit, no data yet.
  • General takeaway from sidebar in TRP and MRP: These are the tools, and AWALT, so focus on being the best version of yourself possible and you’ll get your dick wet
  • Get your testosterone levels checked and write them down
  • Low. 230-350 range, high SHBG, low estradiol, low free test. Sorting this out now.
  • Write down your ratio of sexual initiations/rejections
  • No rejections in recent memory (> 6 months)
  • Write down the number of women besides your wife you could call right now to chill this weekend
  • 1 hell yes, 3 maybe
  • Shit, write down the name of the last girl you flirted with who isn't your wife
  • Michelle
  • Write down how many days over the past 15 you have actively gamed your wife
  • 15
  • Write down two things you do that make you a good catch
  • Sing in a rock band and can make people laugh
  • Write down what you would do today if you did not have a wife/kids to go home to
  • Lift, dinner, music or time w kids. Same shit I'd do on a Monday if I were divorced.
  • Write down what Dread Level you are on
  • 11
  • Write down how many more months you have to go until you are an attractive man with options
  • 0