Alpha male MINDSET

Cybion_ · 2021-02-27T08:29:28+00:00

I agree with these statements but being an "Alpha Male" isn't something dating only it's your whole life, career, friendships etc. There are going to be times you will be less than an "Alpha".

cykablyat098 · 2021-02-27T08:49:46+00:00

First off, this post is a part of the seduction sub reddit so it goes without saying your goals are either to get laid/ find a beautiful person to be with. The post in brackets also says in life. The alpha mindset is applicable even there and it is not gender specific. The foundational aspect of this mindset is confidence and the willingness to take risks and constantly be out of your comfort zone. The only part where I would slightly disagree is ‘saying whatever the fuck I want’. That is situation specific and care and caution should be exercised in that particular sphere. More so as not to offend the delicate sensibilities of people’s subjective sense of self.

PerLim-20_909-77el · 2021-02-27T06:40:22+00:00

I think no mindset its true since truth is hardly reacheable. But i think yours works good to get laid and feel good.

ScreamingButtholes · 2021-02-27T12:41:23+00:00

Step one of being Alpha: Never use the word Alpha.

gowatchanimefgt · 2021-02-27T07:57:31+00:00

Alpha mindset lmao do you know how easy it is to spot someone trying to be “alpha”..

I was watching the superstore and there’s this scene where this loser type of guy is sitting on the toilet with headphones listening to one of those self affirmation podcasts and one of the lines were “woman want you” and he just nods his head. I cracked up laughing coz you realize how stupid it is when you see someone do it

Puzzleheaded_Theory3 · 2021-02-27T08:27:16+00:00

cringe

WalidfromMorocco · 2021-02-27T10:03:43+00:00

The first five are not "alpha". It's just how any normal person behaves, really. Number 7 is good, but you'll find yourself asking for help from people, there's no shame in that. I agree with number 6 to the extent "don't over analyse what you say", but I hope people understand that it doesn't give them the right to have absolutely no filter, you can come off as an asshole. Don't mistake being an asshole for being "alpha".

JawJX · 2021-02-27T10:00:18+00:00

Alpha - everything you do is for yourself, and not to impress others
- you do and say what you want
- always chasing goals , never ending improvement
- not afraid to take risks, go out of comfort zone
- confident in himself
- treats everyone with respect & respects himself
- doesn't change his opinion to please a crowd
- takes more action than talk about it

realhero83 · 2021-02-27T13:37:31+00:00

I always laugh at this shit sorry. Get your head sorted first, know what you want without any fucking women. That's "Alpha". You all need to look up in a psychology book what these terms mean.

Biggest "Alpha" I knew was a beast of a man with a heart of gold that loved his wife and kids and ran our training college for new firefighters. He wasn't out running game on loser females. Integrity just oozed out of him.

Mxm45 · 2021-02-27T14:53:19+00:00

I surround myself with some of the most alpha men in the world (I.e SEALs, Marine Recon, Delta). They don’t do any of these things. They are very soft spoken, humble, and kind. They don’t ‘say whatever they want, because everything you say or do has consequences. Meanwhile you’re probably up on the bar with your shirt off beating your chest. Keep being ‘alpha’ we get a good chuckle from watching you.

Cliffbreaker-d · 2021-02-27T12:46:31+00:00

This is the first time I see "alpha male" mentioned and it is not about a toxic masculinity mindset of people believing being arrogant is what an "alpha" would do.

But I can already see how some guys out there already cringe because they think "alpha" means being a whole grown asshat.

18cmOfGreatness · 2021-02-27T16:35:01+00:00

Can't you see how the fifth point contradicts to most of the points? You don't need to make any conscious efforts to give any value if you consider yourself as someone of high status, i.e. alpha.

Just leave the fourth mindset and forget about everything else.

Impolite69Pluto · 2021-02-27T18:00:38+00:00

I just cringed so hard.

Goldenpanda18 · 2021-02-27T11:54:46+00:00

"Alpha male" gets thrown around alot, you hear it so much in the self development industry and here too.

Fucking a bunch of girls does not make you alpha or having Girls approach you.

Ive worked with men you would call alpha and the last thing on their minds is status or fucking girls, their focused on the job at hand and called out those doing wrong and where great leaders.

Morose123 · 2021-02-27T18:03:42+00:00

These threads are just mental masturbation.

Alpha is something either you are genetically or something you become by learning through experience / facing adversity & hardship.

Thinking about these mindsets & trying to adopt them is pointless.

As someone who read PUA material for years I can attest to this. The only thing that made me better with women & confident with them was going on 200+ dates and banging 75+ girls.

Patopatoduck · 2021-02-27T13:37:40+00:00

Man I was nervous with a tinder date and this changed my mind and ended up fucking her thanks bro the 6 one its so important

Rischkyu · 2021-02-27T13:52:46+00:00

The alpha Wolf eats last

Angguli · 2021-02-27T15:18:23+00:00

One of the best posts. Ty

swingingpendulum95 · 2021-02-27T07:13:46+00:00

4 and 6!!!!!

TrevWest · 2021-02-27T09:12:15+00:00

All amazing advice

relentless_pma · 2021-02-28T19:26:23+00:00

I say whatever the fuck I want. Stop giving a fuck about what others think, and say whatever is on your mind. ANYTHING. And, own it.

I think you are trying to say something along the lines of 'dont hide your opinion', that would be okay. The way you wrote it down is not that good advice.

There's nothing I need from anyone. Shelter, food, and clothing is all I need. You may want a beautiful girl, but understand that you don't need her.

Good but very hard

klippklar · 2021-02-27T16:25:24+00:00

Only men with alpha mindsets lead the Fortnite scoreboard

Cgt1234 · 2021-02-27T05:53:27+00:00

Ewww. Sounds arrogant to me. Is your friend just good at getting laid or at meaningful relationships? I think this mindset would be successful if your goal is solely to get laid, which isn't a bad goal, I just think it's worth pointing out. Everyone s different, this is just my opinion.

cunningcaring · 2021-02-27T11:28:31+00:00

Mindset is certainly not everything, but it is important.

swagnake · 2021-02-27T12:22:09+00:00

I think the most helpful tip to be alpha is to actually get a successful career and take good care of your appearance. Once you have these, you will be automatically confident without trying

Rainmaker0102 · 2021-02-27T13:40:27+00:00

One thing that is important to know about number 6 is that we as people have a hard time coming up with a response on the spot especially a witty one.

That's why Say This Not That is a book, granted it's more about stressful life situations, but regardless it emphasizes the point that people can suck at responding well to a conversation without preparation.

That's why it's important to have something like an opener, something where you can prepare for every outcome of an opener, and not leave her hanging.

fineza · 2021-02-27T15:38:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/andrewtate/

It helps me alot with the mindset.

nephelidia · 2021-02-27T16:51:02+00:00

There’s a man, we’re having chat from twitter and he’s just like this. I already like him and it’s been just 2-3 days

daveinpublic · 2021-02-27T17:30:52+00:00

I love the positive thinking, thank you! Saved.

I don’t think this advice leads to being an alpha male, but I’m going to use this advice to be a positive person... and an actual man.

izoo123 · 2021-02-28T01:11:55+00:00

But im a SIGMA

Redditorsheaven · 2021-02-28T09:15:05+00:00

If it works most of the time, it is perfect mindset, but if you‘ll get rejected ridiculously its not optimal mindset.

Gelo521 · 2021-03-25T16:51:44+00:00

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Gelo521 · 2021-04-22T06:25:00+00:00

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Title	Alpha male MINDSET
Author	mannyjrod7
Upvotes	607
Comments	87
Date	February 27, 2021 5:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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