Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming?

RawBee-wasabi · 2024-08-06T02:22:25+00:00

Yes. The easiest way into it is to find one girl who is into you and into women.

Let her find the other woman. Encourage her, suggest and support her.

entitledwank · 2024-08-06T02:04:36+00:00

ehh i’ve gotten a threesome but it wasn’t a fantasy it was two fours.

one girl was from tinder. not my proudest hookup either but good enough. after hooking up a few times she mentioned she was bi and later said she had a thing for her roomate

So naturally i jumped on the opportunity. i had her invite me over and brought wine. we all hung out in the living room and eventually i asked if they’d ever kiss before. one thing led to another and threesome.

but honestly i’d take an 8 over two 4s

Literally_Autistic · 2024-08-06T05:32:27+00:00

Twice. One was technically a foursome with 2 girls and 2 guys, but he didn’t get it up so it was really just me, two girls, and a swell dude keeping one busy eating her pussy when I was fucking the other. This happened whilst traveling, none of us had met prior to that night. They were solid 7.5s with really great bodies. Every man should cum getting sucked off by two girls on their knees on a beach in their lifetime.

The other time I hooked up with a wild bisexual girl also while traveling, then for the next two nights we were out trying to pull a third. First night we were both making out with a hot girl on the dancefloor but she got cold feet. Second night we did the same then pulled.

Good times.

asanskrita · 2024-08-06T02:36:28+00:00

Most recently, by dating two women who are into other women. Other times it’s been someone I’m dating and one of our friends - usually mine, I’m kind of an extrovert, at least, just enough to make those kinds of friends.

AnthonyPillarella · 2024-08-06T08:01:15+00:00

A few, yeah.

It absolutely, fundamentally cannot be about you. You need two women who are into it (or at least curious), and you're there to facilitate their good time.

Every bi girl has had some idiot she was seeing go, "omg threesome??" with more interest in checking off a bucket list item or living out his fantasy than her having a good time. If she gets a sense that you're pitching this exclusively for your own experience, she's not going to want to do it with you.

ReactionAble7945 · 2024-08-06T04:54:55+00:00

Gaming, no. In fact I don't think I every had any game.

I just had two girls who were good friends and I think they were trying to prove something to each other and they were tying to get me away from a third girl. As far as I know, all 3 were and are straight and this was the only time they did this kind of thing.

And I ended up having one, individually after that. I think the one on one was better.

htx_professional · 2024-08-06T02:40:45+00:00

Yes

have multiple fwb's... asks what their fantasies are/what the craziest things they've done... lead that into asking if they have tried a threesome/have they ever been with a girl... tell them you have a friend you want them to meet for a fun night, but no expectations... flirt with them both through the night... get "caught" making out with one and then make out with the other, then have them make out with each other... just let things escalate

doesn't always workout... but hey it HAS worked, lol

Other option if you have money to spend... get tables at the club, invite girls to table to drink, invite back to the afterparty, see where things go... this has worked for me too, but kinda fell into a threesome... wasn't intentional

Vingold · 2024-08-06T04:43:59+00:00

It has only happened twice, but it has been my experience that the girl is the one taking the lead on finding and initiating.

TheFellatedOne · 2024-08-06T06:02:58+00:00

So I’ve had two of these experiences, both times I met the women who were out with each other and I cold approached. Once was on new years, a chubby white girl and her very hot Ethiopian friend. I met them out in the street when I was between venues, hard to get in anywhere. I told them I was looking for a new years kiss, they were in line to go into the place I just left. We agreed that if they couldn’t find one either they would volunteer. I left and walked up the block, didn’t find any good sets, came back to find them still outside, I guess one girl forgot her Id, it was right about midnight and so I made out with one and then the other (I’m skipping dialogue because I can’t remember it all), and then they made out with each other, oh damn okay. So I suggested we just leave and drink some vodka together, I walked with them to the liquor store, found $20 bucks on the ground. Picked up a bottle and actually got them on the bus back to my apartment. With two girls basically the idea is the same but you just evenly spread attention and sexuality. You can also sort of conspire with one of the girl who’s more down to turn on the other girl. We get back, start drinking, I think I initiated a massage with the white girl (suggesting she experience a 4 hands massage) and it escalated from there.

The other time I was at what’s called the Folsom Street fair in SF, it’s basically a kink festival so it’s the right environment for these kinds of encounters but a threesome wasn’t on my mind. I was very drunk had polished off a 40oz on the way there. I had not had a threesome before and I was only 20 at the time. It was so busy I was able to slip into some random bar. I immediately approached these two older women, good looking by my standards. One said she was a doctor, the other a nurse as the same hospital. (Who knows if that’s true) I remember I was pretty on and very direct off of the approach, giving them both equal attention. Within minutes I remember I basically had my hands in both of their pants making out. In my mind I knew I had to try and pull them. I suggested we go back to mine they agreed, were walking down the street trying to find a cab or an Uber, it was so busy I was struggling to find a ride, were standing there together and the energy is dropping. They said they had to get back home so if we couldn’t find a ride before the next train came they were going to catch it. Last minute a cab comes by I hail it down. We’re in the back I’m making out with one who’s grabbing my dick, other hand is playing the other. We get back, open a few beers, one asks my to put in my military uniform she wanted to see it. I put it on, the other one comes back from the bathroom and they tear it off of me. It didn’t happen perfectly after that I kind of had one who was more down in the bed, the other was lingering I kind of went to go get her. Now both are there I’m fingering one and making out with the other. I try to get it up but it’s not happening for some reason. So I switch to the other one, it works, start fucking. Now it’s going well, and the one thing I remember clearly is going for the glorious double blow job.

So how to make this happen more? I think if you’re going out a lot just don’t hold back your attention and spread your sexual vibes evenly, go to parties and places where women are more likely to be sexually open. Of course the easiest way is to collaborate with a bi girl but I’ve actually never done that.

jjjjjjamesbaxter · 2024-08-06T06:02:36+00:00

Yes, a few times. I am a bit taller than you but I wouldn't say handsome face. This is how I approach it when I'm single.

Step 1: have a girl you're having sex with and lay it down proper.

Step 2: "have you ever had a 3sum?" "Have you ever wanted to have a 3sum?" (Repeat this step until you find a girl who says yes)

Step 3: "do you think any of these girls are cute?" "Maybe we can all hang out one day."

Step 4: "Having some drinks tonight. Want to me to see if X (one of pre-selected girls) wants to hang out?"

Rinse and repeat.

Pureevil1992 · 2024-08-06T02:17:48+00:00

I mean, you can't get it by just gaming. You're gonna have to find a girl who's bi or curious atleast. I doubt anyone short of very famous actors or sports stars could pull it off with women who are actually straight.

tbgdn · 2024-08-06T10:17:41+00:00

Yes, don’t make this your goal. You can read more about intention paradox.

Gaxxz · 2024-08-06T12:15:14+00:00

Three instances. One was a couple I was friends with in college, one lesbian and one bi. The bi girl liked to get dick occasionally, and her girlfriend was ok with it as long as she was involved. The lesbian and I didn't do much with each other. We all got together a bunch of times.

The second was a hookup with two girls on vacation. They were sharing a room with twin beds. I banged one while the other one seemed to be sleeping. But when the first one fell asleep, the other one whispered for me to come to her bed, so I banged her too. It wasn't really together though, so does it count?

The third one was the best. The girl I was dating had a friend over and we ended up all together. Just once though, sadly.

stockittoya · 2024-08-06T07:12:34+00:00

I’m average/below average looking and had this happen. Basically I learned how to be funny and interesting. I played guitar and sang lead in a metal band and as a black guy that’s pretty unique. I met Mel who looked like a “nice girls” but wasn’t really and Rachel was dating my lead guitarist Jon but they weren’t exclusive. Mel invited all of us back to her hotel to watch the slipknot doc followed by passion of the christ. It started with Jon leaning over and kissing Mel who Rachel was jealous of cause she was a little hotter than her. So Rachel kissed me and then we all kind of silently looked at each other acknowledging where this was gonna go. Jon just wanted to watch so he sort of guided Mel over to me and she started giving me head. Rachel was still kissing me and licking my neck but I could tell she felt challenged by Mel going straight for my dick and she looked over at Jon and he was liking it so she kind of lightly shoved Mel to the side and got to work on it. Basically what I’m saying is you gonna be in the right place at the right time and only surround yourself with people who would be down for it and who you would want to fuck in the first place.

ParticularSir4078 · 2024-08-06T02:43:32+00:00

Your fantasy, my Tuesday night. And I'm shorter than you, not wealthy, and I don't live at the gym. Not meant to be discouraging, but to say that you do not need to be a pro athlete or a billionaire to do this.

You gotta find one girl before you find two. And honestly, it's easiest to do with two girls you're already hooking up with rather than finding a third (single women HATE "unicorn hunters").

The biggest, biggest key is to ask for what you want. If you don't say it, it's never gonna happen.

But in order for that to be a "yes," you also just like.... idk... gotta treat her with respect and as an equal? Not reverence or worship, but also not the callous indifference seemingly advocated by some on this sub and other men's circles.

Many, many more girls want to try this than you'd think, even "straight" girls who are just curious but would never put that on a dating app. Unless she's very experienced, most bi and curious girls are a little frightened by the idea of hooking up with another girl (bisexual imposter syndrome is a THING). Make sure she knows this is a safe space for sexual exploration and that you're looking out for her. This masculine protector role will go a long way, even in contexts with just one other woman, because unless she does this a lot, she will be scared.

If you REALLY want to make this and other experiences like this happen, it takes work as a single guy to integrate into your local swinger community, but once people know you're safe, there's SO much sex to be had.

Working_Potential_26 · 2024-08-06T06:31:35+00:00

I’ve fucked two girls from call of duty mobile

SamShelby7 · 2024-08-06T10:18:49+00:00

Threesomes are not difficult to attain. Threesomes with both girls being hot is difficult.

Longjumping_Act9758 · 2024-08-06T06:32:33+00:00

3...all MFM..... strictly no contact with bro

MrAnonPoster · 2024-08-06T09:44:46+00:00

Contrary to the bullshit you read:

Threesomes mostly happen when a couple who is clearly into each other as can be observed by anyone else and looks good together while having fun with just each other are observed by a woman who goes "Damn, they look fun!"

Everything else is trying to dig a trench with a tea spoon

SuperPoop · 2024-08-06T15:01:28+00:00

yeah, the secret is to find a chick who's game for it and wants it.

when we went to the bar, she did all the work. i was lucky, no lie

I believe 75% of women are at least bi-curious, but dont want to deal with the social stigma (even tho Bi chicks are almost glorified).

Conjoined_Triangles · 2024-08-06T15:11:07+00:00

There's several ways to get threesomes. If you are trying to do it strictly through gaming, it can totally happen, but good luck having all the stars aligned. There's so many variables at play like finding pairs of girls that are:

both single
willing to share in a non-bi context (There's best friends that are prudes and would never do anything sexual next to each other, and best friends that would do anything together)
both like you
manage to run through a full set without them wanting you to find a wing

If you can avoid those roadblocks, you have a better odds, so the biggest problem left is finding one. You'd have to run enough volume to even get to that chance. Your best bet would be if you lived in Vegas for a while and went to clubs every single night and opened pairs or groups of women.

If you want to do it without gaming, the best ways are

have two bisexual friends with benefits, and double confirm a suggestion that the three of you should hang out
the same as above with two straight girls but ask them if they ever thought about having one (just sharing, no girl on girl)
have a single bi girl and let her go on apps for you and set up a date
host parties where the ratio is so skewed in your favor

If you can't get one any other way I would just bite the bullet and ask a girl you're not in a relationship with if she would be willing to trade experiences with each other, give her an MFM threesome if you get an FMF threesome in return.

RDCthunder · 2024-08-06T18:43:35+00:00

A few times.

Met a group of two women and a guy on a night out. Turned into a drug fueled foursome, but the guy couldn’t get it up so he was fingering them and i had sex with both. Ended up messing around with one of them a few times after.

Then I also got involved with a bisexual woman who was into group sex so we had a few threesomes with women. Now she’s dating a woman and now we’re 3 friends that sleep together regularly.

I’m in a big city that’s known for being liberal and people tend to be more open sexually here, so it’s a little easier.

El_Toxic0 · 2024-08-06T04:46:04+00:00

A MMF one yes

Personal-Secret3482 · 2024-08-06T04:53:19+00:00

Lowering your standards? that sounds bad. How do you even get arousal then?

BabyFork · 2024-08-06T07:12:31+00:00

FFM, lasted a couple months. Ended because I fucked the absolute shit outta the fem from the relationship when the main girl was asleep…

dr_tel · 2024-08-06T07:55:59+00:00

I had the chance to do it before, but I really wasn't attracted to the girl who proposed it so I said no

dukeofpotatoes · 2024-08-06T10:42:30+00:00

I have two exes that I’ve had threesomes with. First one was high school sweetheart, we invited a two girls over that were dating(almost had a foursome) and only one of them was really interested in fucking, so we did, with the fourth watching. Second was with most recent ex, we met a girl off tinder.

PRIME-BALA101 · 2024-08-06T10:42:36+00:00

Long story short. Met 2 escorts 🤣🤣🤣🤣

boom-wham-slam · 2024-08-06T13:42:15+00:00

Fuck girl one and get her into the idea.

Go out and find girl two. Then bring up to her you already know the right girl.

I've had tons of threesomes and 90% of the time this is how it goes down. Women are very bad at aggressively pursuing other women. That's why even though most women are bi or curious they hardly ever act on it because they wait for a girl to come at them... so if neither make a move nothing happens. And that is likely to happen to you if you plan on just relying on a girl to get another girl....

Or even if she does she won't be into you much since she will be into the one who had the balls to pick her up in the first place.

That's my two cents.

Good luck. They are great and tbh I'd never be with a woman who wasn't down for this stuff it's just too fun to not do it. Ha

CompassSwingTX · 2024-08-06T13:59:51+00:00

I’m not average but I’ve managed to pull a FFM. Girl I am dating had a bi-comfortable side. We got together with her friend one evening. Watching the two of them 69 and then taking one of them doggie… exquisite

TestaverdeRules · 2024-08-06T18:22:57+00:00

I was with my ex gf and a girl who I had previously hooked up with. They were friends and obviously they were very comfortable with me. They also both liked women and were both attractive. We were at a hidden waterfall, we played truth or dare, they started kissing then both started kissing me. I said lets take this somewhere more comfortable. I was young in my early 20s still living at home in my parents basement. I walked both girls right past my parents into the basement and fucked them both right then and there. I also ended up fucking both of them separately a few times after that as well. I'm a average dude so lemme tell you it can be done if the right situation is present.

Domomagic · 2024-08-06T20:03:56+00:00

So my roommate when I was in PA used to makeout with my wife and once told us that she had a wet dream about us all but said she'd feel more comfortable with my wife and would just make me watch(jokingly but some honesty). I responded back by saying all the guys she's brought to the house and knowing she didn't always use protection already took that option away.

In reality I was responding from ego mostly even though I was being honest about her sexual history..... my little boy brain took it as a slight and gave a slight.... She is definitely a solid 8 or more and very aware of her beauty.... shitty thing is living in PA where we were you're scraping from the bottom of the barrel when it comes to partners so I wanted to be more safe than sorry.

One day who knows lol, my wife and her are still very close friends and she is planning on coming down to FL for the wife's bday weekend haha 😄

Distinct_Bluebird_93 · 2024-08-06T22:57:52+00:00

I have, and it was a glorious night. Both were fairly good looking also.

It also proved that persistence in going out to game will provide these rare opportunities. Additionally you don't need amazing flash game, often the best game is 'good enough'. Know how to react well, escalate properly, and close. Give off the right 'vibe' and you will attract people over.

"Anything I could improve or do to increase my chances? "

Keep going out, brining good vibes with good game, whilst I was at a normal bar/club you could find locations with more bi girls. Some venues will be less stuck up and have more 'liberal' people inside. Like other guys have said - Find a bi GF or look for bi girls online, date then and go for thesomes ( sounds quite longwinded tbh).

I caution you against over hyping it in your head, often these are underwhelming, my one kind of happened.

Cartoonist_False · 2024-08-07T01:10:40+00:00

Game has very little to do with it. Your best approach is to just talk to girls about what they want to do. You'd be surprised by how many girls are into it and want to try it. Some have never been with a woman so just want to see what that's like. Others have done it and enjoy the multiple bodies part.. they obviously have to be attracted to you so it's best if you introduce them or you know upfront that they like you. If a girl tries to pick someone up it's easy for her to chat with them but closing is harder. And if you're not their type nothing ain't happening. Women are a lot pickier with men than they are with other women.

All that being said, if all goes well they'll thank you the next day for something they had never experienced :) ..

blueberryscones46 · 2024-08-06T04:13:54+00:00

Guys like you gross me out THE MOST

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