Anyone try pulling a stripper?

Main-Daikon9246 · 2025-08-23T19:06:00+00:00

Tpain made a song about this lol

Alternative_Ebb_6673 · 2025-08-23T20:18:58+00:00

I pulled a stripper once but didnt meet her at the strip club. She was my lyft driver actually lol. The sex was great. She was bat shit crazy tho

KustardKing · 2025-08-23T20:51:58+00:00

I dated one. She was insane in the bedroom, but absolutely fucking crazy and not long term partner material.

AldoTheeApache · 2025-08-24T01:25:06+00:00

”Dated” a few.

Every single one I met outside the context of a strip club. 2 were fellow students/friends at art school, and another had a 2nd gig as a bartender (who I later discovered had also done porn as well). I’ve also been friends with several others, same scenario; not at a strip club.

FYI sadly every single one was ”damaged” in some respect. You can be friends with them, or sleep with them, but avoid dating them. You cannot fix them.

Recurringg · 2025-08-23T20:07:00+00:00

I've dated two, lol. When I was really young. I met them outside the strip club context. One was just dabbling in it, and the other one was doing it to take care of her mother who had sustained brain damage in a horrible car crash. She was/is a good person, and I never judged her for doing it. She took care of her mom and fed her two brothers. She was head turning beautiful. I don't know how I did it. Met her once at a (female) friend's house for like twenty minutes then she slid into my dms on Facebook like six months later.

Zicronblade0 · 2025-08-23T19:09:46+00:00

Tbh most have a lot of fucking problems and mental Health is sometimes the least of them. Not impressive nor advisable.

_Loop · 2025-08-23T19:16:30+00:00

I did once, went to a strip bar for the first time ever with friends, it's really not my thing. My eyes locked on the most beautiful, only natural looking stripper in the bar. She noticed me gazing at her and approached me and we had a long nice chat and I took her insta. My friends who took me there started making fun of me calling me naive. Later, it ended up among the most beautiful and nicest girls I've ever slept with.

number2chevyfan · 2025-08-23T19:12:58+00:00

I hooked up with one girl before she became an escort as well as during and after. Shes crazy. Probably BPB. I would think a lot of them are like that. However she is very down to earth and our relationship has probably been one of the best longest lasting FWB type relationships ive ever had

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-08-23T21:02:12+00:00

Yes it might be part of my trauma to love strippers lol. It's the most fun thing in the world, until it isn't.

If you like roller coasters you might like dating a stripper.

The sex is exceptional. The emotional fallouts can be draining. Although some strippers are very stable emotionally and can actually be very dope to hang out with. You do learn a lot about hot girls in general dating them. The skill transfers over to dating other hired guns.

indirect_storyteller · 2025-08-23T18:59:26+00:00

Not me, but a friend of mine has had a few of them as partners. Not a good choice.

mgrf56 · 2025-08-24T00:07:30+00:00

Usually not worth it. Unfortunately, the transactional nature of their work precludes any relationship other than "slam, bam, thank you, ma'am." If you dont heed my warning, talk to us in 6 months and tell us how it went. Narcissism is a classic trait with performers in general. In addition, the courage to get onstage every night almost naked in front of strangers requires either liquid or narcotic assistance. Substance abuse is common among exotic dancers. I found this out the hard way. So, hit it and quit it, but I would not advise setting up a home with her. But as in all things: YMMV.

Ok_Potential359 · 2025-08-23T19:27:46+00:00

I fucked an ex stripper. I’m good never doing it again. Beauty is paper thin.

Fidel__CashFl0w · 2025-08-23T21:27:46+00:00

Yes accidentally at a rave and once through a friend so I don’t know if that counts. Fun and they’re nice but can get extremely tedious with how crazy they are. Would not date one tbh

MisterMoogle03 · 2025-08-23T20:21:51+00:00

Does a gogo dancer count?

KidKannabis · 2025-08-23T20:51:43+00:00

I've pulled two strippers. But didn't meet them in the club. Nice girls besides the chaos.

Physical_College_551 · 2025-08-23T20:59:39+00:00

I want to but too insecure for it

321sleep · 2025-08-24T01:33:55+00:00

Stippers look strange in the light.

cadguy62 · 2025-08-24T09:21:43+00:00

Vegas stripper once but more just happened lol. Super hot and super fun to hang out with but probably a good thing I lost her number haha

Secret-Bedroom-6869 · 2025-08-25T16:13:38+00:00

Dated 4 strippers. None of them I met while stripping and 2 started stripping after we started dating due to financial hardships. They were no different than any other chick of the same pedigree except that they all had a bit more of a hustler mindset. One I was in love with but I never knew she was a stripper until years after the relationship. 🤦🏿

autodidacticasaurus · 2025-08-23T20:26:07+00:00

How do you people do this shit. I'm so far away from that at this point.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-08-23T19:54:54+00:00

No and zero interest.

IamaThrowAwway · 2025-08-24T03:57:39+00:00

I'be fucked a stripper.

Darkschlong · 2025-08-25T16:19:41+00:00

Dated a couple but would never start a family with one

wheatnathan · 2025-08-25T19:37:04+00:00

it can happen if you're very good looking. I went too a strip club once with a friend of mine who's really good looking, and he ended up getting a number and banging her later on from a really hot young stripper.

coolshoes · 2025-08-23T19:21:42+00:00

See: S01E07 of The Pickup Artist

https://m.imdb.com/title/tt1227080/

Rhino3750ss · 2025-08-23T19:18:25+00:00

I only went to a strip club once in my life, and I pulled one, and I didn't pay shit. I was a nervous wreck in there and some random girl comes to sit on my lap while me and my coworkers were sitting at the stage having drinks, and she accused me of being cute by pretending to be bashful around the naked girls. At the time I was not pretending and my seduction game was pedestrian at best.

She invited me over to smoke and after we hooked up I asked why it didn't cost me anything. She said she was off duty and was actively looking for a boyfriend so she didn't want to come off as a ho. I was too young and urgent to absorb the fact she is literally a ho for a living.

We actually casually dated for a few months, but eventually she wanted to be exclusive and I just couldn't stop picturing what she is doing at work, so it didn't pan out. To this day I don't understand how the stripper was probably my more honest and reliable than some of the "good girls" I've dated.

Spare_Air9406 · 2025-08-23T19:04:47+00:00

why would you do that? just why?

casual sex? ehhh I see the vision but like

I_suckyoungblood · 2025-08-23T19:13:20+00:00

I did and honestly spent about 10 dollars that night, I even remember this guy buying her a drink when I was talking to her and she said thank you with a gesture towards him and just stayed with me until she got off. The guy was not happy..

We’re friends now and we still have fun If I’m ever visiting her.
Definitely a nice confidence boost.

LVFT777 · 2025-08-24T01:48:24+00:00

I work at a strip club and see this often , these girls just want to have fun at work , and go to the afters they’re fun to hang out with we party hard lol

Vox_Dissidens · 2025-08-24T02:30:36+00:00

I lived with a stripper once. The stories she told me made my skin crawl. There was almost nothing that girl wouldn’t do for money. Once you’ve already put a price on your dignity, i’s a slippery slope.

Your girl might be sweet and cool and might insist that it’s just dancing, but when she’s already selling her soul and some old dude offers her obscene amounts of money to be a toy on his boat for him and all his mates, she might consider it.

As long as that doesn’t bother you, go for it.

Kundalini_electric · 2025-08-23T19:17:06+00:00

They have to be down to earth and sweet bro, that's how they get guys to spend money.

I personally wouldn't try to pull a stripper. I remeber when i turned 18 and i got a lapdance. It was hot until i smelled her breath when she got up close 💦🤢

ImperialMajestyX02 · 2025-08-23T19:40:04+00:00

Ill-advisable

younglo23 · 2025-08-23T23:11:06+00:00

Don’t do it trust me

Elbynerual · 2025-08-24T02:30:43+00:00

I was a bouncer in 3 strip clubs in 2 different states. What you wanna know?

thembitches326 · 2025-08-24T12:20:57+00:00

I actually have pulled a couple of them! 1 of them I've already fucked a few times, the other wants to have a dinner date with me, but I'm actually waiting on her to return from her vacation as we speak. Granted, the two of them are from separate clubs, and I have to remain tight lipped about our affairs outside of the clubs (so I'm obviously not going to reveal any sensitive information here).

I have seen a comment about them being batshit crazy and to be fair, I have certainly met a stripper that was batshit crazy. Let's just say that I started going to the club on the nights that she wasn't there. The two I'm dating (or fucking) are rather chill tbh.

smind893 · 2025-08-25T01:58:39+00:00

A few.

1 at a party

2 at the club.

Just find mutual interests.

Not that big a deal

Tho I will say do NOT go to the strip club looking for this.

It just happens.

cl1p5 · 2025-08-25T16:53:18+00:00

Yes.

Here is how. Go often Tip a dollars on stage to every one. Don’t stay too long. Buy them a drink if they sit to chat.

bannedcanceled · 2025-08-27T05:57:54+00:00

Had two strippers when i lived in Australia when i was 21,

First one was when we were out with the boys at work at a little skimpy bar, girls walking around in bikinis and shit, the girl working was a total babe and i hardly looked her way at all, as we were leaving we were all talking to her at the bar and she gave us her stripper cards with her photos on them, i seen she was totally eyeing me up and smiling and was holding a pen so i threw down my card for her and she wrote down her number on it for me went on a date a few days later…

The next about a month later i was working in a shopping mall and this total hottie walked by eyeing me up and down and i was like sweet hot babe checking me out, few mins later she came back and asked for my number so i gave it to her, texted her, turned out she worked at the exact same strip club as the other one, ended up sleeping with that one for months, one day i slept through her booty call cause i had a big work day and woke up to a text saying she had a threesome set up and i missed lol fml

jadernx · 2025-08-23T23:13:13+00:00

Please don’t dehumanize them by only thinking of them as strippers and not human beings with feelings who deserve respect and decency. Please do not target them because you think they’ll be easy. It can be hard for strippers to find people that want to date them, so maybe that’s why you’ve been able to pull some. Strippers often are in the industry because they’ve had tough lives/financial situations to overcome. As a result of this, they may have mental health issues and other baggage that comes with these things.

KLeviPop · 2025-08-24T14:16:44+00:00

stop romanticizing the chaos and actually figure out what you want long term. dating someone for their job's conversation skills isn't a strategy

AlastairXXL · 2025-08-23T19:25:47+00:00

What do you mean by pulled

Title	Anyone try pulling a stripper?
Author	jsanchez030
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Date	August 23, 2025 6:49 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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