Dating coaching - too pricey?

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2024-09-13T13:15:51+00:00

I really would not recommend bootcamps, unless you want to waste half the money. The amount of info that gets dumped on you if way too high. Instead look for a coach that you can have regular sessions with, kinda like a therapist.

Jironasaurus · 2024-09-13T11:24:39+00:00

It's the standard these days. But you wanna find out what's the after-bootcamp support like. That's the most important.

I look at the price as... If I'm able to help you solve a problem that's been a headache for years, how much is that worth to you?

linucsx · 2024-09-13T10:32:58+00:00

Honestly, I can’t imagine a dating coach being worth the money. It sounds like a scheme to profit off of men

Lifter3647 · 2024-09-13T11:00:00+00:00

worth it. look at it as an investment in yourself. the coach will identify your sticking points to work on which is really difficult to do yourself. I’d opt for in field coaching. At the end of your life, you will not care about 3k, but you will likely regret not having a partner.

WatchExpert1672 · 2024-09-13T13:47:41+00:00

Experience time & YouTube you don’t need a dating coach and it’s cheaper

KimJongUhn · 2024-09-13T14:19:21+00:00

I would say hold off and just watch all the youtube videos available for free on all the various topics within dating. You could get a really nice laptop with that price.

stress024 · 2024-09-13T14:19:47+00:00

I’ve had great results with Bobby Rio and, to a lesser extent, Todd V. Tons of great, free stuff on YouTube

Dry_Manufacturer3846 · 2024-09-13T17:00:26+00:00

Learning game is a long term process. Better to have a coach who can analyze your game and provide feedback over a longer period. That being said, bootcamps also have a value but you will have to digest a lot of info in a very short period of time.

FoggyDanto · 2024-09-13T12:15:14+00:00

Come I coach you bruh for much cheaper. Mine is time unlimited until you become good enough, and we can also continue being friends long after.

Approaching women isn't hard. You just want to make it feel natural.

The first thing you'd want to see is if a woman is in a good mood or not. Is she relaxed? If she seems relaxed and in a good mood, you can then say hi, and comment on whatever you two are doing at the moment, whether in a concert, mall, etc. For example, you can say, the event looks great today.

After that you'd want to ask her name. And the convo goes on and on, just covered a tip of the iceberg.

Also remember to never use a pickup line. They set her gaurds up, and they think you've crammed them probably telling it to several girls even in that concert.

Now, one thing about approaching is that you will always need to have an exit strategy. Maybe she has a boyfriend back at home. Maybe she only dates rich men. Whatever the case, she will prevent any further convo. For that, just say 'ooh nice to meet you'. This is what actually prevents many guys from approaching, because they don't know how they will handle a case of rejection. And don't be afraid of rejection, just smile it off as you leave. Don't make it a big deal. It's part of any deal making

There are also some things a person needs to have: confidence, good hygiene, being fit etc.

Come and I will teach you more. And anyone else interested. Just a small token of 300€ to change your dating life.

Necessary-Jaguar4775 · 2024-09-13T13:18:26+00:00

What dating coaches are you considering OP?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-09-13T17:29:29+00:00

This will get downvoted, but don’t neglect online dating. If a coach only focuses daygame/nightgame, you’re wasting your time. Majority of your dating opportunities will come from online dating, unless you have a high degree of status. Even the guys who are good at daygame won’t get as many pure number of dates as guys who have their online dating locked in. Boot camps seem like a waste of time and money. You can go out and learn through trial and error, experiencing rejection is part of the game. That’s something you’re going to have to be willing to do.

Daygame and night game are important skills, but in terms of pure opportunity, your online dating, texting, and DATE GAME needs to be on point.

Like you said, coaches who can also help with lifestyle, appearance, and Inner Game will be crucial.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-09-13T18:00:04+00:00

go to the older dating coaches, buy the programs from DAvid d angelo or Ross Jeffries it's much cheaper, study the material and then go out and practice, maybe find a buddy who is on the same path, honestly I think most dating coaches on youtube and online just regurgitate the principles developed by these guys in the past, oh some of then just reinvented the wheel again to end up at the same ideas and logic about women lol, but still definitely think most of then are either naturals developing their techniques or people who studied the old gurus.

gusolsen · 2024-09-14T08:28:10+00:00

I wouldn't do bootcamps - you cannot learn a high level skill in 3 days. I have met many guys who attended bootcamps by top dating coaches in the world (and spent in the range of 5-10K) and when I meet them, they still can't even approach.

Even the desensitization aspect doesn't work because even though you might be able to approach during the bootcamp, after it ends you will still struggle to do so.

What I recommend is doing a multi month program where you learn to approach with the help of a coach gradually. The coach pushes you, and then in between the sessions it's your job to implement the stuff you learned during the session and try to repeat it on your own.

If you're interested, check out my Youtube for reviews and we can talk

garlicmayosquad · 2024-09-15T23:53:18+00:00

Depends who the coaches are. I go coaching when I first started, only one day though (€450). Was very useful. For you, just go for James Tusk or one of the Natural Lifestyles guys in Budapest. Everyone here is recommending weirdo American guys.

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-09-13T11:50:59+00:00

Here's a question, what are your prospective dating coach's credentials? All the women they claim they've fucked? Some weird YouTube videos that may or may not be staged.

You're running the risk of paying some asshole a lot of money to scam you. Just buy a book.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-09-13T11:31:33+00:00

IMO even in that price range it should be suitable only for one on one coaching in most cases.

From a coach’s pov, doing it one on one for a month (20-25 days) let’s say $2000 average in 1 private training for 3 days, you could rake $10-20k net profit/month or $120-200k annum at least, that’s a 6 figure salary like working in a c-suite. I made roughly that amount of money years ago but I was pretty much “a corporate’s slave” where I worked long hours and barely no peaceful weekends. I would imagine being a coach earning same amount of money would be far more enjoyable. If you’re a coach and read this, I would say you should consider it for a long run. Lots of coaching business are typical “crash and burn” after a while because they can’t handle the volume and the outcome is average at best. Or you could implement this business model and “only” get $100-200k but it’s steady over 10 years or more.

On the other hand I used to know a guy who did private he charged $10-50k depending on the client (social skill levels, physical grooming, etc, just like the movie Hitch but not that exaggerated), but he said he’s got only 15-20 clients a year, he wasn’t focused on the volume or “how many days”. He polished a client from being a simp to a player which he told me it usually takes at least a month to train and he sticks with the guy almost every day; not to mention he keeps in touch with all his clients even after it’s done because they always ask for inputs. He was very very good he’s a rarity in my opinion. Met him in Vegas just because one of my colleagues said hi to him. He was approaching women in real-time in front of me, very smooth and natural. Unlike some “alumnis” turned into gurus just parroting the same talking points and narratives without fully understand the mechanics behind them let alone question them.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-09-13T14:00:37+00:00

All dating coaches selling courses or boot clamps are scammers. Every single one of them. At best there are a couple who are going to give you strategies that will work if the only thing that cock blocks you is you being utterly unaware of how women interact with men. One of them posts here quite a bit and, while i do not personally agree with him on all his points, he clearly has a clue and clearly "gets" women. But again it will only work for you if you have social skills on a jar of ketchup

Want to significantly improve your dating success? Take the $$$ you would have spent on coaches and spend it on improving your own life. Men who live a good life are irresistible to women

Kinemi · 2024-09-13T16:44:50+00:00

Not worth it in my opinion but YMMV.

Just look into Doc Love or Coach Corey to learn the basics, dress nice and go out talking to women.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-09-13T18:26:50+00:00

The problem with this you look at this like a maximiser. I don't think 3-4 days is going to transform you. If you are weak socially then you are way behind the curve.

The only exception is you are England check out Bartek social. His vids are really good and he does cold approach for real unlike the rest of them.

If it was me I would buy a new wardrobe and learn self hypnosis.

AcadiaFriendly · 2024-09-13T18:43:05+00:00

I’m could hook you up for a lot less than that. I have a lot of game when it comes to this. LMK if you want to speak on qualifications

epimpstyle · 2024-09-13T22:30:40+00:00

Don't be silly paying that much. Go to town with a friend of yours and it is free.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-09-13T11:27:42+00:00

Coaching is going to help, as long as it’s a decent coach. Especially if you aren’t taking action. A coach will get you approaching and speed up your learning.

I agree it’s all over priced. But, that doesn’t mean it won’t help.

Also some coaches do Skype coaching. It’s usually much cheaper.

theasianplayboy · 2024-09-13T11:36:22+00:00

The prices you’ve been quoted are fairly standard for boot camps across Europe, but I completely get that it can feel like a big investment, especially when you’re 35+ and looking to make real changes fast. Think of it as an investment in yourself—the right coaching accelerates your progress and gets you the results you’re after without wasting time.

I’ll actually be in Europe this October for my EuroTour, which includes in-field training just like the programs you mentioned, but you can join at a reduced cost since we’re already on the ground. It’s the perfect opportunity to work on your nightgame, escalation, and more with real-time feedback from me and my team. Here’s a review of the EuroTour program, which is primarily inner game based vs our normal Bootcamp: https://youtu.be/1e4PdE3Ysas

If you’re serious about improving your dating skills and want to join, let me know, and we can discuss how to get you on board at a discounted rate for a bootcamp. This is a chance to get that personalized guidance you’re looking for, without breaking the bank.

Velvettouch89 · 2024-09-13T15:22:07+00:00

I offer private coaching for $100/hr. First hour is free, getting to know each other and what your wants/plans/desires are. If you decide to move forward then we can discuss how you would like to move forward, maybe once a week, once a month, developing an action plan abd/or more

Title	Dating coaching - too pricey?
Author	Cpt-H00k
Upvotes	14
Comments	49
Date	September 13, 2024 10:16 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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