GF is Bi. How and where do I find a third?

tikkikinky · 2022-10-24T21:23:45+00:00

You let her find the third.

Kukantiz · 2022-10-24T21:34:35+00:00

She finds the third. You play it cool and don't act desperate.

TeddyKisss · 2022-10-24T23:53:05+00:00

Try putting a sign in your yard, a car magnet, or putting some feelers out in your church. Start local first.

C0333 · 2022-10-24T22:24:52+00:00

I have had a lot of threesomes. In my opinion they only work two ways. One is two girls already have a relationship of some sort and I join or the other option is me and a buddy find a girl who’s into being double teamed.

distawest · 2022-10-25T10:00:48+00:00

Watch your step, experimentations of this kind are likely to start an avalanche. The relationship will not be anymore what it used to be.

Unwelcome developments may come up, embrace yourself to face anything

Ok-Restaurant-9356 · 2022-10-24T21:23:36+00:00

I would let my girlfriend open a tinder account and write her bio about threesome.

noldi123 · 2022-10-24T22:21:10+00:00

Feeld

TheRealAlkemyst · 2022-10-24T22:26:31+00:00

Remember being she is Bi it's not always going to be M/F/F and also know the male partner may also be Bi. Some guys are OK being pegged, some it's no go. I'd get the rules and what you are comfortable with settled in advance.

ishandesai · 2022-10-25T06:51:44+00:00

Bro I had same situation my girlfriend wanted to kiss girl in front of me and do things in front of her but when I brought it up she became my ex now 😁

MJB360 · 2022-10-25T05:34:33+00:00

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Makeyoufeelgood08 · 2022-10-25T14:50:46+00:00

3fun,Feeld. Also I have seen Tinder and Bumble work. Just make sure to write what you are looking for on Bumble/Tinder. You can also get her to make a profile and put her interest in girls. Good luck!

Ok-Quantity-6388 · 2022-10-25T16:27:49+00:00

Yes. I’ve successfully done this and the girl needs to do it.

gorilla_blanco · 2022-10-25T06:03:17+00:00

This is fools gold… she just wants a hall pass to cheat… sorry bro

LubaUnderfoot · 2022-10-25T05:58:00+00:00

Hire a sex worker.

jhnusau · 2022-10-25T06:13:09+00:00

Bumble could be a good place to find bi girls.

twood2538911 · 2022-10-25T06:35:59+00:00

Make sure is sexual not bipolar...

Felix1178 · 2022-10-25T14:04:08+00:00

You lucky bastard 😊❤️

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-10-25T14:41:54+00:00

Always have your girlfriend pick the girl. She'll pick someone less pretty than she is otherwise her competition anxiety gets too much and you risk collateral damage. Believe me I've been there.

Snoo-20788 · 2022-10-25T15:40:40+00:00

There's a good reason that this is called a 'unicorn'. In the polyamory community it's known to be very hard to find women who are happy to be the third wheel for a couple.

I think this is because most women hookup with some hope that it will end up in a relationship. Which is why they'd rather hookup with a player who they might turn around, than with a guy who's in a serious enough relationship that his partner is confident to let a third in.

mrcloso · 2022-10-26T17:37:21+00:00

I would say hire the third. Bringing someone to the relationship may trigger insecurities, jealousy, and other nasty feelings. By hiring some other woman to do the job you minimize these possible bad outcomes.

Here4Fun4Me · 2022-10-25T03:53:05+00:00

As a woman who also loves women, let her find the third. It will be MUCH better that way. There’s are lots of dating sites that are down with ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy). Just Google them. But also Tinder and OK Cupid have ENM options. Also look at Feeld, 3Fun, ect…

punkman01 · 2022-10-25T00:13:30+00:00

So is it fair to assume that you and your GF don't expect a long term future together? This is an honest question.

Additional_Breath651 · 2022-10-25T05:25:47+00:00

Third for her or for your self?

foreverpondering · 2022-10-25T13:14:16+00:00

Feeld is the best app for this honestly especially if you’re in a big city.

maxpossimpible · 2022-10-25T18:09:46+00:00

You don't. She does.

But if this is a new girl of yours. Be careful, be very careful. She knows you'd like something like this and she might be manipulating you. #borderline

Think about the crazy-hot matrix. There's a reason there's a "no-go zone".

wannbetheverybest · 2022-10-25T02:08:34+00:00

I swear every girl is bi nowadays. Surely it's not natural

WhusssuName4547 · 2022-10-25T06:24:16+00:00

You in good position grasshopper. In this case you must Allow your woman to pick and choose the lucky lady in which you may do what you do.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-10-24T22:47:47+00:00

Escorts, don't waste your time looking for a unicorn it's logistically nearly impossible to pull off.. You'll be broken up before you find one you agree on you can pick an escort like out of a catalog and not worry about feelings

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-10-25T00:22:35+00:00

Let her do it

CaptnandMaryann · 2022-10-25T03:55:16+00:00

If I was you I'd go to a gay hangout and find an attractive guy.

Mgold365 · 2022-10-26T03:07:51+00:00

Eww. Okay here’s what you do: step one? Run.

Sounds biphobic sure, but why you dating some bi nymph with no sexual boundaries whatsoever? That’s disgusting. How does your girl act when she’s drunk?

Tell her to cut the cr@p and shape up or she‘s out or you’re going to be in for one heck of a ride. My experience is these chicks are DAMAGED and really MEAN too.

Chicks who are bi …in my mind their problem is that one man is not enough.

Sorry, dude, but can’t give you advice on this one, not only because don’t know, but also really don’t want to know.

Please, please, please don’t pursue crazy women who screw anything that moves. Please don’t. Willing to bet that she’s really not that friendly of a person anyway. Move on, dude. IMO.

Also in my mind if a girl ever suggests that we’re done because will know okay she’s not in it.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-10-24T23:31:00+00:00

You looking for a bull?? 😆

Mobile_Glass6680 · 2022-10-25T00:53:29+00:00

lmaof everyone knows she has to find her XD damn man i need to teach you the ways of the game

Made2QuestionU · 2022-10-25T00:54:30+00:00

I’d imagine if you look for someone, then you’re looking for someone you are interested in. I’d let her take the lead, but it should be someone you’re both interested in. After all, this is someone you’re inserting into your relationship so you both have to be sure and ready for whatever comes of it. Good luck.

phoenixon999 · 2022-10-25T05:10:28+00:00

Craigslist

idonthavexbox · 2022-10-25T13:15:05+00:00

Break up

dannyboy09_7 · 2022-10-25T13:32:21+00:00

Tinder

dannyboy09_7 · 2022-10-25T13:32:31+00:00

Grindr

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-10-24T21:52:44+00:00

I'm guessing that she would probably have more success finding a third. I had a gf some years ago that was at the very least bi curious. She would talk about sex things with multiple partners (mainly women) and say things like, it's only sex. Most of the time she had, had some cocktails or some weed, so I didn't take her seriously. Our thing ended, we remained loosely friends. A couple of years later, she went full blown. She got a job with a local roller derby entertainment deal. She had a female significant other for 3 years that I know of.

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-10-24T21:54:09+00:00

Sometimes they have bi friends and they might invite you for a night out with them. If they like you and there's drinking involved it can definitely lead somewhere.

Happened to me with my ex.

motherseffinjones · 2022-10-25T08:47:50+00:00

Let her do it, it’s a lot easier for girls

Wingerlar · 2022-10-25T09:31:47+00:00

When I had mine, the girl suggested it. We were fb's and we weren't in a relationship. You also need to be dominant, not Christian Grey dominant, but you need to make sure it happens, doesnt fizzle out and you need to stop both women from becoming bored. Alcohol helps a lot, but don't let then get wasted and fall asleep.

Other than that have an awesome time dude.

DarkDuelist4914 · 2022-10-25T10:24:38+00:00

You want a Trisexual GF?

Bessiejaker420 · 2022-10-25T11:46:25+00:00

Tell her to do the work in finding a lady... it's easier for females to find the 3rd imo.

VR25_gratified · 2022-10-25T14:15:55+00:00

r/throuple

ozzzy83 · 2022-10-25T19:43:47+00:00

Online profile on dating apps. I've seen plenty of couples searching that way.

Title	GF is Bi. How and where do I find a third?
Author	RandomizeCharacter
Upvotes	61
Comments	80
Date	October 24, 2022 9:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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