Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?

nk9axYuvoxaNVzDbtFhx · 2022-05-18T21:49:07+00:00

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sunsetgal24 · 2022-05-18T21:03:00+00:00

Define "game" in this context.

coachmelloweyes · 2022-05-18T23:32:33+00:00

He needs basic social skills… not game.

Kaisern · 2022-05-18T22:20:52+00:00

Not really… He won’t pull anything extraordinary, but he’ll do alright as long as his personality/charisma is average

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-05-18T21:06:09+00:00

Of course he does. Anyone who thinks being 6’4 is enough to get a very hot girlfriend with no personality has never been 6’4 to ever know that.

I know many tall dudes who are lonely and can’t get a girl to like them.

It’s actually not fair on tall dudes to just narrow them down to their height and assume romantic success because of it, because it makes those who aren’t successful really doubt themselves and feel bad.

You could look like Tom cruise or Brad Pitt and still it wouldn’t be enough to keep a girl around if your personality is shit.

biggestchungus32 · 2022-05-18T21:58:46+00:00

This is annoying because you can tell by these constant clueless threads that probably 10% of the community actually goes out.

"Dude I have 20 million dollars do I need to have a personality at all? Won't she like me for me?"

"Does a 7'0 guy need to talk to wooman or can he just stand still and look at floor and wooman come chase in streets. I had a debate and told my friend no you can't just be 7'0 but he said yeah, am I right? "

"If dude drives lamborghini does he have to even make eye contact? serious question I'm debating with my friend he says yes but I say no am I right? "

ridiculous

maxpossimpible · 2022-05-18T22:04:05+00:00

Of course he does not need game. But he wont attract the 10s if he does not have it.

Having game, or as I like to call it; charm - just increases the chance of starting relationships with high value women.

CompleteRetard69 · 2022-05-18T22:17:55+00:00

Minimum game probably.

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-05-18T21:28:20+00:00

you do need to make money, that's for sure. not for her but for yourself.

Hmurie · 2022-05-18T22:53:07+00:00

If he acts like Mr.Bean he ain’t getting any regardless of his height.

Would it be a bit harder is he was 5”6, yeah sure, but being tall and attractive does not supplement the basic skill of human communication.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-18T23:02:23+00:00

I know plenty of very tall guys who are virgins, so no.

social_mastery · 2022-05-18T23:41:35+00:00

Ask yourself this seriously. Is every guy over 6'3 that has a decent physique, with a girl, married in a relationship?

This idea that a girl will just throw themselves at you because you're 6'3, with a decent body is ridiculous.

So what about connection? She doesn't care that he's introverted, has no drive in life, no passion, goals, or has any ambition in life? Has terrible social skills, dumb as a brick and has the charisma of a bag of cement?

So by this theory, when you go to the clubs. Every guy that's decent looking, with a good body that's over 6'3 should be surrounded by women.

And all the other guys that are under that height, would never be getting laid or hooking up with girls.

Personally, I'd slap your friend across the face for saying something this stupid.

I don't know what socially inept person came up with the idea that women don't care about personality or connection, but they were clearly and most likely sociopathic on some level.

kyle_fall · 2022-05-19T00:20:24+00:00

I am 6'4 and pretty good looking and you definitely need game AND good logistics to get decent results. I'm an INTP so I struggle to just be casually social and get bad approach anxiety. If I drink at a party with drunk girls where I have good status then its pretty easy to make things happen but getting to that point is game IMO.

2022-05-18T21:41:43+00:00

You are right. Tall men won the genetic lottery and have it easy. If you are a manlet, the dating market is going to be hard.

MrBlack__ · 2022-05-18T22:07:33+00:00

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Throwawayadistance · 2022-05-18T22:13:38+00:00

I think everyone needs it tbh, everything else doesn't matter if you ask me.

Mo3 · 2022-05-18T22:20:26+00:00

I don't know, do you think this guy needs game?

betterme2610 · 2022-05-18T22:57:15+00:00

My buddies 6’4. Hasn’t had a date in years. I’m 5’11. Go on several a week. All about your efforts, be it in self and pursuit

Crisia_1234 · 2022-05-18T22:59:58+00:00

A 6'4 average looking guy needs at least more game than a very hot guy with average height. Height is overrated imo. It only matters if you dont have it (5'8 and below for example). At average height and above it doesnt give you a significant amount of help getting girls compared to other things (At least most girls without an tall guy fetish). In conclusion it's bad if you are short and its normal if you are tall

Kevin26039898 · 2022-05-18T23:07:38+00:00

Yes girls like taller guys but Do you think just being tall you will swim in the pussies most of my tall friends are single they haven't girlfriends they lack the game You need to be charismatic and a well Speaker not for girls with all ppl this will help you in your daily life

hotrodcool · 2022-05-18T23:07:51+00:00

Every guy needs a some level of game based off of how well rounded you are in the attractiveness to a woman. Women are attracted to several common things (looks, social status, wealth/resources, verbal congruence, emotional control)

If you have amazing looks but completely lack social status and verbal congruence (in line with game) then the ladies are going to lose interest rather quickly.

Sasquatch1_1 · 2022-05-18T23:14:31+00:00

6'8" and can confirm you do need game.

MrBlack__ · 2022-05-18T23:49:36+00:00

When you’re 6’4 everything you say is funny, charming, witty lol

Just be average in every other area and you’ll pull

dLat · 2022-05-18T23:50:28+00:00

While it gets your foot in the door easily, your personality/inner game dictates the rest

SpookyKG · 2022-05-18T23:53:36+00:00

It helps, but strong advantage.

JayinHK · 2022-05-18T23:59:22+00:00

I'm 6' and my brother is 6'4" and more conventionally attractive than I am. He introduced me to a girl who he thought was hot. I immediately knew I could have her just based off my confidence. Could have kissed her on the spot. As she gazed into my eyes, smiling, she said I was so different from my brother. Totally shoulda kissed her

MegaManXanax · 2022-05-19T00:22:19+00:00

Do you have any idea how easy it is for a woman to meet a 6’4 average looking guy?

eablokker · 2022-05-19T00:28:17+00:00

6'4 average looking guy here. Literally rejected by every girl I've ever wanted to be with. It's been a long hard road to learn some game to get a little interest.

gamedwarf24 · 2022-05-19T00:30:40+00:00

My very lonely late teens and early 20s were had despite my 6'5 stature. You absolutely need game. Tallness is like a lighthouse, it attracts attention but it doesn't keep the ships themselves from hitting the rocks.

I have a modicum of game now and do fine. However, I still get rejected fairly often just cause we don't vibe that well, and that's totally fine. Nobody is out here banging me just cause I'm tall.

WoodpeckerNo5416 · 2022-05-19T01:33:38+00:00

Not much

Title	Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?
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Date	May 18, 2022 8:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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