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[–]nk9axYuvoxaNVzDbtFhx 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I am 6'4". If I say something meant as a joke but it is taken to be creepy, then game over. If I don't contribute to the conversation, then game over. I have to have some game. The better my game, the better the outcome.
Am I a girl magnet because I am tall? No. Almost every guy is shorter than me, and many of them can get more girls simply because they have a better game.
[–]d0ornokey 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I felt the same way after getting jacked. I thought I'd be a ladies magnet but boy was I fucking wrong. Girls are picky boii
[–]sunsetgal24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's almost like people like you for your personality, not for how you'd look like in a photo from a body builder magazine.
[–]d0ornokey 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't really need ur toxicity take care
[–]sunsetgal24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah, acknowledging that people are attracted to personality is toxic?
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[–]sunsetgal24 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Define "game" in this context.
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[–]sunsetgal24 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I would say that any person needs to be charismatic, funny, charming and intelligent to some degree to be attractive to others. I would not consider that a conscious effort though.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What she is trying to say behind all those words is: be tall or else it's going to be hard for me to notice you
I've been into many dudes that are significantly shorter than me. As long as no one has to step onto a box to kiss the other I don't give a shit about height. I've never rejected someone for not being tall enough, but funnily I've been rejected a few times for being too tall. So don't try to put this one on me.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you are taller than most men then it's a different story.
[–]sunsetgal24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not though. I'm about the average hight for a man. I meet a few people that are shorter, but most are my size or taller than me.
Also, how is it different? You accused me of only wanting tall men. I refuted that.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everyone on Reddit wants to argue. Is that the pent up rage from shitty clients that change their logo.
You got it dear? Fre2n?
[–]coachmelloweyes 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He needs basic social skills… not game.
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Simple as that
[–]Kaisern 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not really… He won’t pull anything extraordinary, but he’ll do alright as long as his personality/charisma is average
[–]Silver-Variation8903 4 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Of course he does. Anyone who thinks being 6’4 is enough to get a very hot girlfriend with no personality has never been 6’4 to ever know that.
I know many tall dudes who are lonely and can’t get a girl to like them.
It’s actually not fair on tall dudes to just narrow them down to their height and assume romantic success because of it, because it makes those who aren’t successful really doubt themselves and feel bad.
You could look like Tom cruise or Brad Pitt and still it wouldn’t be enough to keep a girl around if your personality is shit.
[–]MrWolffman 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm tall and decent looking. My whole life I thought I was ugly but I just lacked game and social skills. Ofc my looks help a bit on Tinder for example but game is absolutely crucial.
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Precisely correct.
My buddy whose 6’7” but about a 7-7.5 looks wise thinks he’s gods gift to women. And he is constantly bitching about how he doesn’t understand why he only gets women who are average and older going for him and I score young hot women at 6’3”, great looks and super social.
[–]MrBlack__ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“I know many tall dudes that are lonely” LOOOOOOOOOOOL ok
[–]Silver-Variation89031 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
What?
[–]biggestchungus32 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This is annoying because you can tell by these constant clueless threads that probably 10% of the community actually goes out.
"Dude I have 20 million dollars do I need to have a personality at all? Won't she like me for me?"
"Does a 7'0 guy need to talk to wooman or can he just stand still and look at floor and wooman come chase in streets. I had a debate and told my friend no you can't just be 7'0 but he said yeah, am I right? "
"If dude drives lamborghini does he have to even make eye contact? serious question I'm debating with my friend he says yes but I say no am I right? "
ridiculous
[–]maxpossimpible5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Of course he does not need game. But he wont attract the 10s if he does not have it.
Having game, or as I like to call it; charm - just increases the chance of starting relationships with high value women.
[–]CompleteRetard69 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Minimum game probably.
[–]Romantic_Adventurer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you do need to make money, that's for sure. not for her but for yourself.
[–]Hmurie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If he acts like Mr.Bean he ain’t getting any regardless of his height.
Would it be a bit harder is he was 5”6, yeah sure, but being tall and attractive does not supplement the basic skill of human communication.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know plenty of very tall guys who are virgins, so no.
[–]social_mastery 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Ask yourself this seriously. Is every guy over 6'3 that has a decent physique, with a girl, married in a relationship?
This idea that a girl will just throw themselves at you because you're 6'3, with a decent body is ridiculous.
So what about connection? She doesn't care that he's introverted, has no drive in life, no passion, goals, or has any ambition in life? Has terrible social skills, dumb as a brick and has the charisma of a bag of cement?
So by this theory, when you go to the clubs. Every guy that's decent looking, with a good body that's over 6'3 should be surrounded by women.
And all the other guys that are under that height, would never be getting laid or hooking up with girls.
Personally, I'd slap your friend across the face for saying something this stupid.
I don't know what socially inept person came up with the idea that women don't care about personality or connection, but they were clearly and most likely sociopathic on some level.
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That’s like saying is every hot girl married and in a relationship.
If you’re 6’3 plus take BASIC care of yourself and have BASIC social skills you will be treated how men should be treated.
You’ll get attention every now n then, if you ask a girl out she’ll give you a shot if she’s single.
The average guy gets 0 attention and if not jacked, rich or charismatic will have to approach to 100 women before finding one who will reciprocate energy
[–]social_mastery 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What's this "idea" about "wanting attention". On one side men say you have to be "Alpha" and take action and make the first move.
But then those are the same guys who complain that they have to go out and actively meet women. That's exactly the whole premise of being "Alpha".
So you aren't sitting there, trying to magnetically attract women with the law of attraction, just because you're 6'3 and think you're entitled to get all the women you want by doing as little as possible.
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Never said that
I said the average guy get 0 attention being average but 6’3 plus you will get a bit of attention and taken seriously as a dating prospect.
You won’t have a super model girlfriend with no game, but you won’t be an incel
[–]social_mastery 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why would you want attention? What's with this level of entitlement and expectation that you're only good with women and dating, if they flock to you like you're some emperor of Rome in 250BC?
And why are those the only 2 options you're focusing on. Supermodel and incel.
Why isn't it good enough to date women you're attracted to, and take action to meet them?
[–]MrBlack__ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What the fuck are you talking about?
The question is does a 6’4 average looking guy need game
[–]social_mastery 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everyone does. There is no easy, simple solution.
[–]kyle_fall 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am 6'4 and pretty good looking and you definitely need game AND good logistics to get decent results. I'm an INTP so I struggle to just be casually social and get bad approach anxiety. If I drink at a party with drunk girls where I have good status then its pretty easy to make things happen but getting to that point is game IMO.
You are right. Tall men won the genetic lottery and have it easy. If you are a manlet, the dating market is going to be hard.
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You must be repulsive or really punching out of your league. To have never got a date is more about you as a person and less about your appearance.
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m social and friendly. Do everything “right” (or not with my record). as well as have my life together. I’m decently attractive and go for completely average girls that all my friends say I’m too good for. Yet always rejected and ignored
And your conclusion is height means nothing?
That’s like me driving a Ferrari in the snow and complaining it’s not reaching top speed.
You are doing something very wrong which is repulsive to women.
[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah pretty much. My college roommate was 5’5” and slightly overweight. Yet he had a new tinder hookup every week.
I know I must be doing something wrong. Yet none of my friends will tell me. No one knows what it is. I’ve even had a dating coach m, who helped turn my roommates life around, say he couldn’t pin what I was doing wrong.
[–]JayinHK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Likely the way you think is messing with your success
[–]Throwawayadistance 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think everyone needs it tbh, everything else doesn't matter if you ask me.
[–]Mo3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't know, do you think this guy needs game?
[–]betterme2610 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My buddies 6’4. Hasn’t had a date in years. I’m 5’11. Go on several a week. All about your efforts, be it in self and pursuit
There’s always a retarded buddy so sucks at dating. If he done would you do, he would have more success than you 😒
[–]Crisia_1234 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A 6'4 average looking guy needs at least more game than a very hot guy with average height. Height is overrated imo. It only matters if you dont have it (5'8 and below for example). At average height and above it doesnt give you a significant amount of help getting girls compared to other things (At least most girls without an tall guy fetish). In conclusion it's bad if you are short and its normal if you are tall
Disagree
A hot guy with average height is the same as a 6’4 guy with average looks.
It’s literally fat ass vs huge tits with women
[–]Kevin26039898 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes girls like taller guys but Do you think just being tall you will swim in the pussies most of my tall friends are single they haven't girlfriends they lack the game You need to be charismatic and a well Speaker not for girls with all ppl this will help you in your daily life
[–]hotrodcool 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every guy needs a some level of game based off of how well rounded you are in the attractiveness to a woman. Women are attracted to several common things (looks, social status, wealth/resources, verbal congruence, emotional control)
If you have amazing looks but completely lack social status and verbal congruence (in line with game) then the ladies are going to lose interest rather quickly.
[–]Sasquatch1_1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
6'8" and can confirm you do need game.
[–]MrBlack__ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being 6’8 all you need to do is be a gentleman n stfu and you’ll be labelled mysterious
When you’re 6’4 everything you say is funny, charming, witty lol
Just be average in every other area and you’ll pull
[–]dLat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While it gets your foot in the door easily, your personality/inner game dictates the rest
[–]SpookyKG 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It helps, but strong advantage.
I'm 6' and my brother is 6'4" and more conventionally attractive than I am. He introduced me to a girl who he thought was hot. I immediately knew I could have her just based off my confidence. Could have kissed her on the spot. As she gazed into my eyes, smiling, she said I was so different from my brother. Totally shoulda kissed her
[–]MegaManXanax 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you have any idea how easy it is for a woman to meet a 6’4 average looking guy?
[–]eablokker 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
6'4 average looking guy here. Literally rejected by every girl I've ever wanted to be with. It's been a long hard road to learn some game to get a little interest.
[–]gamedwarf24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My very lonely late teens and early 20s were had despite my 6'5 stature. You absolutely need game. Tallness is like a lighthouse, it attracts attention but it doesn't keep the ships themselves from hitting the rocks.
I have a modicum of game now and do fine. However, I still get rejected fairly often just cause we don't vibe that well, and that's totally fine. Nobody is out here banging me just cause I'm tall.
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