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thatnewaccnt · 2022-04-10T22:45:56+00:00

I’m a dude, this will work.

FloridaMan2022 · 2022-04-11T04:04:14+00:00

I actually had a girl who I wasn’t attracted to do this and all I could think is “dont touch me”

Edit- I’m probably a hater but all the overly excitable people in the comments are pathetic

eablokker · 2022-04-11T05:34:47+00:00

Bonus tip: bring a piece of lint with you and have it in your hand, and then reach out to "pick" the lint off of them. Then show them the piece of lint in your hand as proof that you picked the lint off of them. It's sort of like a cheap magic trick. It's a fun way to fuck with people too.

KinxTheTimeStripper · 2022-04-11T00:59:15+00:00

This sub needs a ton more posts like this. Thank you so much

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-04-10T22:50:11+00:00

If you are 22 and retired from dating, you'll regret that. The whole relationship thing for somebody your age isn't what it's cracked up to be. Your, "trick" is loosely based on human psychology that has been recognized for many years. A female, if she likes you and/or is interested in you will touch you, shoulder, forearm etc during a conversation. This establishes a subconscious feeling of trust. People will tell you how much interaction they want with you with body language. If you are talking to someone while standing. If you see their feet disecting the midpoint of your body, they are open to talking to you, comfortable with your presence. If their feet are facing away from you in any fashion, they either don't care too much for you, their body is saying I want outta here

Puzzleheaded-Dot-411 · 2022-04-11T04:45:50+00:00

I’m chillin laying next to a guy and while he was talking and listening asking questions, stopped and pretended he had some fluff on his eyebrow and plucked it off then ran my finger across his eyebrow and said “you had fluff all better” and he had the biggest smile. Ps. There was no fluff I just wanted an excuse to be close to him and touch him

Disciplineisonly · 2022-04-11T06:00:08+00:00

this is cute. i've seen somebody do this before and tbh I think it works.

iwasnotthis · 2022-04-11T11:03:04+00:00

u/peach-fox please accept me as your student Sensei!

apoxcryphell · 2022-04-11T13:31:57+00:00

It feels like a korean fantasy thing. I came here for advice not to get my shit smacked out.

Reaver_ · 2022-04-11T14:42:27+00:00

This is one of those bits of advice where this will totally work if they're already really interested in you, and if they're not has a 50% chance of just totally creeping them out

PHVEDO · 2022-04-11T17:44:37+00:00

This is great if the girl is already attracted to you, but if she isnt its just fcking weird.

Ugly girls do these kind of things like touching u on the shoulder or getting closer to you and all I can think about is "Dont touch me" which I also tell some of them in the kindest way possible.

If there is attraction already u dont have to do things as gamey as that to spark it more. Its as easy as getting very close to her mby 10-20 cm between ur faces slowly and slowing down your voice of speech. It doesnt even matter what you say at that point if she doesnt move away stays so close and listens to you attentively u can pretty much go and kiss her

cronasminate · 2022-04-11T06:40:39+00:00

This post is so well-written and articulated with so much confidence that I am inclined to agree. Unfortunately, I think it's actually bullshit. It reminds of all those very well-written articles on New York times that basically tell you the most basic tip. And then everyone acts like "OMG SOOOO TRUEEE."

This shit is actually annoying whenever a girl does it. I'm just like "are you listening?"
It doesn't do much so just do what you actually want to do while in a date.
What happens when there is actually a lint? What the fuck do you do then? Do you wait until he tells a story or do you take it off right when you see it. But if you do that and then do this lint things, it would be the second time you tried to take off a lint from his clothes. He'll just think you are an undercover dry-cleaners lady.

Mustafa_Kamel · 2022-04-12T23:05:29+00:00

you are a woman, you do not need strategies to flirt

DetainTheFranzia · 2022-04-11T01:39:32+00:00

Wonderful, thanks for the tip

MissionAd399 · 2022-04-11T02:26:53+00:00

Not bad, definitely something that wouldn’t hurt and could only benefit you if they take it the right way👍

StrawberryKiss2559 · 2022-04-11T06:02:13+00:00

At 22 you haven’t even barely started your flirting days.

AirborneDodo · 2022-04-11T06:03:27+00:00

solid. this post has it

nbaynerd · 2022-04-11T05:44:27+00:00

Ok I can count at least 6 times this has happened to me in the last two years... I am either woefully aloof or need to get a new dryer. Half of these women were married or at least had a ring on their finger too. I guess my next question is, what's the appropriate response when someone does this to you?

moonfanatic95 · 2022-04-11T05:26:56+00:00

Interesting

FakeSafeWord · 2022-04-11T13:14:01+00:00

Thanks I have a day in a few days and will try this out!

Sea_Document_8302 · 2022-04-11T16:15:19+00:00

/save

mynameizham · 2022-04-11T17:21:33+00:00

I like that

Intelligent_Tea_4305 · 2022-04-11T17:52:11+00:00

The flirting thing is so pathetic when a guy doesn’t know what he’s doing or is a macho man

Bornagainvurgin24 · 2022-04-11T23:17:24+00:00

Its worked for me as well

StaticNocturne · 2022-04-12T02:54:19+00:00

and what if they have clean clothes?

lifeissonice · 2022-04-14T07:08:54+00:00

Thank you for this tip. I have a huge crush on a co-worker. Do you think it is safe to try it in a work environment?

KounterMaze · 2022-05-03T01:59:30+00:00

A tip from my single days: I (32m) found asking a crush these questions made interactions entertaining for both sides “Are you team waffles or team pancakes?” “ is it cooler to show up at a party at a motorcycle or a monster truck?” “ what’s an inappropriate event to show up in a motorcycle or monster truck” Making fun questions that can start entire conversations made me seem more interesting to women. Tell i met a woman that asked me her own interesting questions, now im engaged lol.

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