This seems to happen every so often. I match with a girl on the apps, we have a short conversation, I say we should get drinks, and they disappear. Then a couple weeks later they reappear with some half-assed excuse and say they're down for drinks.

The last time it happened I said no worries, got her number, and made plans for the next day. When I went to confirm on the day of, I didn't even get a response.

Maybe she just wanted more validation, maybe I need to work on my text game, maybe she thought she had better options and wanted to keep me as back up, I don't really know.

Anyway, it just happened again with a different girl. I asked her out for drinks, about two weeks of nothing, then hey yeah let's get drinks. That was two days ago, I've just been letting it sit and am leaning towards not replying at all. She's cute and I obviously would've gotten a drink with her, but momentum is gone and the flakiness is a bit of a turn off. I had almost forgotten who she was.

What do you all think the correct play is in this situation?

Edit: got her number