So i know most of a field reports are success stories but I saw such a gleaming example of what not to do last night that I thought I'd share. Last Night i went to a hookah bar with a few friends, 3 guys 2 girls all just out to have a good time. Its a hookah bar so the whole atmosphere is just pretty chill overall, but about 30 minutes into our session a second group gets sat on our floor and along with this group comes who i will refer to as "Fedora Guy". This guy was dressed as if he came out of the dumpster behind Mystery's house. He had on a Fedora, Aviators( Inside, in a dark room at night) and a big guady ring on every finger. This guy is obviously out of his element and is really trying to "fake it til he makes it" He's doing alpha things, but he has a complete lack on inner game and you can sense that there's something off about how he's acting. He starts asking our group questions like "who would win in a fight? will ferrell or mark walburg" at first were willing to answer these questions to be nice, but by the 3rd we just start ignoring him which only eggs him on more, he's an attention whore. He goes downstairs and starts demanding songs be played. He then comes back up and starts this really crappy hard-step in the middle of a chil hookah lounge which is really thowing off the vibe making everyone uncomfortable. Even his friends are trying to hide the fact that hes with them, he then drops and does like 10 pushups. At this point it was late so we decided to leave but theres a lesson to be taken from this guy.

  1. fake it until you become it is a good mantra but you must be your own alpha, don't do things because you feel like an alpha would do them. This guy was talking loud, and dancing by himself because of the "I'm alpha and i dont give a fuck" mentality. Nothing comes off as more beta, than trying to be alpha.

  2. don't look for peoples approval. The entire time this guy was dancing and doing push ups he was looking around to see if people were watching him and showed a complete lack of self confidence.

  3. work on your inner game. A house is nothing without a foundation and this guy was nothing without an inner game. Sure he peacocked himself and tried to do whatever the fuck he wanted to but it all felt so shallow and cheap, this guy had blaring self confidence issues and all the rings and fedoras in the world can't cover that up.