Texting guide.

Enobreed · 2017-10-25T16:05:30+00:00

You'd think this would be common sense, but some of the texts i've seen guys send....hurts to see

nobody2000 · 2017-10-25T19:36:09+00:00

NM YOUR A BITCH ANYWAY AND NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU EVER. I WAS JUST KIDDING ABOUT GOING OUT WHO WOULD WANT TO GO OUT WITH A LOSER LIKE YOU LOL

YO

HEY

FUK U

Cobra__Commander · 2017-10-25T18:38:13+00:00

Expand this to planing shit with people who are always busy.

"Want to get drinks Friday?"

"OMG that sound so fun but I'm busy then."

"How about Saturday then?"

"Nope still busy then."

"Ok when your not busy and want to go out for drinks let me know."

"Sound good but since I'm such a busy person I going to tell you, 'That sounds amazing and we definitely need to do it' by which I mean, 'I have no intention of ever following up or planning anything.'"

enzo32ferrari · 2017-10-25T19:26:29+00:00

Two texts and two texts only:

First: Hey it’s Enzo32ferrari it was nice to meet you at XYZ bar.

Make it a text she can remember you by and where she met you. If no response to first text, follow up with;

Second: Hey lets do (activity) on (date and time).

Second text always has to be an activity. Go with statements over questions as it shows you kinda sorta have your shit together

Lambdal7 · 2017-10-25T17:23:53+00:00

Hmm, what if she says

Haha, wait I don't even know you. Tell me something about yourself :)
Haha, hows it going. :)
Haha, are you from [city]?
Haha, what do you do again?
Hmm I'm not sure, we've only spoken briefly.

Also move on? These questions always come from girls who have standards or are not extremely enthusiastic.

enginemonkey16 · 2017-10-25T17:19:42+00:00

How about a courtesy decline?

thewallris · 2017-10-26T00:31:01+00:00

might I recommend a slight wording tweak?

one text

two text

no response

on to the next

Brudesandwich · 2017-10-25T16:38:34+00:00

Lol I found this too funny

Aristox · 2017-10-25T17:01:10+00:00

Also send a more meaningful text than these if you want a response

nolotusnotes · 2017-10-25T23:53:27+00:00

If you text "u" and "wk," you deserve to be ignored.

You_Have_No_Power · 2017-10-25T17:01:55+00:00

I did this. After a month of no contact, she texted me. I’ve already asked her out in the past, and she rejected me saying “she’s too busy”. She’s a student in a year lower than mine. I don’t know her intentions right now.

natephant · 2017-10-25T20:08:51+00:00

I agree with this 100%.

The only weird area is when the girls still communicates with you through other means. (You still see her in person, she snaps you, etc.)

I’d advice to be as direct as possible if that happens.

timacles · 2017-10-25T20:33:44+00:00

The worst is that 5% of girls that respond to the 3rd text and you end up going on a date and it goes well because then everytime a girl doesnt respond you're thinking just one more text and I could turn this all around but then you look like an idiot

enkae7317 · 2017-10-25T22:56:50+00:00

My personal shtick is 3 texts. But to each their own.Send one text, then another. THEN, wait a WEEK and send that final text. If nothing then BAM you fucking golden fam.

isaac777777 · 2017-10-26T02:28:25+00:00

One text Two text No text Who next?

givenzero · 2017-10-25T16:47:57+00:00

Good to know. Will implement!

Yellow-Marquee · 2017-10-25T20:40:04+00:00

Daaamn bruh I was excited to bookmark this for later, you did me dirty :(

manwithblacktie · 2017-10-25T23:02:35+00:00

best guide ever

Spurs_Up · 2017-10-25T23:08:04+00:00

I met this girl on a Saturday and after texting her later the following week she agreed to go on a date the during the next weekend. When the day got closer I texted her, got no response, so I let it go.

The following Monday after our date was supposed to take place, she texted me and apologized and asked for a rain check for the upcoming weekend. After teasing her a little bit, I told her I had plans and I'd have to see (I didn't have plans). Later that week I texted and told her Friday night would be fine. No response again.

This was 4 months ago, and I'd really like to date this girl. Should I try again or just forget about her? I'm picky and she's one of the only girls I've met lately that I would consider dating and is currently single.

yoyo2016 · 2017-10-26T00:13:49+00:00

1_stormtrooper_1 · 2017-11-18T06:26:53+00:00

You ask for drinks on the second text? Lmao what kind of advice is this. Might as well ask her where the wedding will be while you’re at it

seanicusbaximus · 2017-10-25T18:43:07+00:00

Quintuple texted a girl I met at a bar one night. Now we're married! YMMV

Bryan979 · 2017-10-25T18:03:36+00:00

Ain’t that the truth 👌🏿👍🏾

ponchato · 2017-10-26T01:21:18+00:00

Two texts?

Lucky if you get one.

TheMasterOfThUnivers · 2017-10-25T23:06:23+00:00

The only possible outcome for any r/sedution subscriber haha

Title	Texting guide.
Author	ImJustSo
Upvotes	2795
Comments	158
Date	October 25, 2017 3:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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