Wasn't sure what to do with this AMOG

swagrrr · 2015-09-30T17:51:35+00:00

"Do you always pick up guys at the bar?"

SometimesDrunkAlot · 2015-09-30T16:09:37+00:00

Listen I do not advocate fighting in bars. It's a lose lose, like you said and chances are the girl would have been turned off. But at the point he picked you up, it wasn't about the girl anymore. You should have confronted the muscle monkey and stood up for yourself. You can't let people embarrass you and not respond. You know what I don't care if it gets down voted, you should have kicked the guys ass, thrown a 50 on the bar, grabbed the girl by the arm and walked outta that bar like a G.

themanbat · 2015-09-30T16:09:31+00:00

Stay playful. "Whoa how can I help you handsome? If you want to pick me up you've got to buy me a drink first."

Smile. Introduce yourself. Ask if he knows who ever you are hitting on.

Maybe he's just drunk. Maybe you were hitting on someone's girlfriend. Either way be confident, stay cool, and if it's going south fast, politely excuse yourself.

yumyumgivemesome · 2015-09-30T20:11:07+00:00

Casually walk around him and go straight up to the girl completely ignoring the AMOG and say: Why don't we continue our conversation over here...

Girl: Umm, no thanks

OP: Okay, bye.

It will force her to make a decision. There is a good chance you lose, but that means you were going to lose out to this guy anyway because he won her over in a matter of seconds. It also means you walk away literally under your own power.

1337syntaX · 2015-09-30T16:55:06+00:00

Honestly there's not much you could do to prepare for a situation like this because chances are it'll never happen again. Never had to face such a level of disrespect but I've gotta commend you for keeping your cool because I don't do well with unwanted physical contact. I'd say it's highly likely you were hitting on his date or somebody he knew. Not much you can really do without it resulting in a fight.

The best and most mature thing to do would be to walk away, have a drink and get back in frame to talk to some other girls.

The immature but more satisfying option would be to grab his ankles from behind and pull out his legs then stomp him out. How big are you now tough guy?

Murfdigidy · 2015-09-30T15:26:33+00:00

Yea that's just a dick move, guy sounds like a total prick. This one is particularly hard, you gotta atleast say something and not back down. Say in a joking way whoa whoa hands off the merchandise buddy what can I help you with? Or say whoa big boy let's have an arm wrestling competition! Gotta kinda tread lightly on this because the guy could go ape shit or find it funny. The key is NEVER get reactive or defensive, even if he's like get the fuck away from me, if he does, then look back and say to the girl, have fun with that and walk away. As if to make fun of the girl for being with such a prick.

There's really no win here, some dudes are just total assholes, and to be honest you DON'T want insecure girls that are attracted to them.

urmyfavoritecustomer · 2015-09-30T16:47:44+00:00

This is a tough one, do you think that the girl you were talking to could have been giving him signals to move in? How well was it going? Were you aware of where her eyes were most of the time? It seems a little odd that someone could pull that big a dick move and have the girl laughing without some kind of IOI..

shurk127 · 2015-09-30T19:14:00+00:00

If they were already laughing together in the time it took you to collect yourself (realistically what, ten seconds max? Ten seconds is kindof an eternity) then he's probably at least a good friend, if not BF. If he was a total rando she'd be just as taken aback as you.

You need to be able to distinguish that as immediately as possible, because even though shooting him down and getting back to where you were with the girl is unlikely at this point, if you can at least react in a friendly manner and avoid being emasculated by the aggressor, you can save face in front of others here.

Honestly in a busy bar so much is going on most people won't even have really observed this. If you avoid confrontation here you dont really lose much. Pickup has always been a numbers game, if you can't smooth your way back into her graces, move on and move on quick.

DownvotesCatposts · 2015-10-01T03:38:44+00:00

Lift more bruh

No but seriously, you can now use this to flirt. "What the worst pick up attempt someone's ever tried on you?" and whatever her answer is, yours is better (if you know how to say it right).

CS192837465 · 2015-10-01T03:59:03+00:00

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What is this?

enkae7317 · 2015-10-01T06:44:56+00:00

Fuck him. Pick his ass up. Or pick the girl you're talking to up. And move her physically.

clarkismyname · 2015-09-30T18:32:55+00:00

The moment he put his hands on you, all bets were off. I would have kicked him in the balls, finger stabbed him in the throat, palm struck him to break his nose and taken him down. Or if he was too big, I would have grabbed a bar stool and went ape shit on him with it. Or ordered a beer and smashed it over his fucking head. If I got man slaughter out of it, I would do the time with pride.

He violated you, this is not about saving face or losing value in her eyes. This is about an asshole violating you. If some asshole did that to a female, the cops would have been called and or a bouncer would have removed him from the venue. This is the equivalent of the Germans blitzkrieging their neighbors taking from you by force, and implicitly threatening you.

Sure as fuck you were scared, and he had you outgunned. But if you don't stand and fight, you will forever be violated by assholes like that. You will be the gazelle that is being picked off by the lions whenever they feel fit. Even if you attacked him and got your ass handed to you, you at least fought with honor for your rights. And if enough people do that when assholes do shit like this, it will make them stop, cause even if they won the battle, you would have done him some damage.

There is little in the world worth fighting for, attacks on you are one of them. I'm a 44 year old, fat, over the hill dude, who gets winded walking to his car. And even I would have bit his fucking ear off, and cackled like a hyena with his blood and cartilage running down my chin while he pummeled me in the face.

Jaereth · 2015-09-30T17:05:02+00:00

Idk. You seem to know your game really well. Fighting is lose lose, don't appear needy etc. Just in regards to game, I think the correct response is to go not say another word to those two, and just go open the hottest girl that's in clear view of the first one you were just speaking to.

However, if some stranger literally picks me up by my armpits out in public, well, I don't know each situation is different. At that point I wouldn't be looking at it as game anymore. Stand up for yourself.

permashred · 2015-09-30T14:37:31+00:00

Get more muscular lol but seriously

TheRealYellowClaw · 2015-09-30T15:37:12+00:00

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xzak · 2015-09-30T16:51:46+00:00

Really doesnt make sense to think about what you could have done after it happened. Lets talk about what to do if it happens again.

As soon as you are being physically amog'd, act as though you are in danger. Im not saying grab a bottle and bash the guys skull. What i mean is if he lifts you up, headbutt the guy in the nose or heel him in the balls. You dont want it to look like your being agressive, you want it to be just your reflex action. The amogger isnt gonna be happy but you ruin his any chance he had as well as you look like the alpha one.

TheOneWithout_A_Name · 2015-09-30T21:36:47+00:00

Got this from the book Bang and it works perfect from the right frame

Tell the guy, " awesome hey AMOG do you like any of these girls?" If he answers yes say "Awesome you should buy them a drink YAYYYY" be really enthusiastic about it and get the girls excited. If he buys them a drink he loses obviously If he answered no when you asked if he likes them say " well there's a lot of girls in this club I'm sure one of them might like you!" With a pat on the back. From experience this transpires in like 15 seconds total and completely destroys the dude, best of luck.

Jg4092588005 · 2015-09-30T22:37:02+00:00

Did this guy turn his back to you after he did this? If so, in the unlikely even it happens again you pull his legs out from underneath him and immediately jump on him and start pounding his face until he goes limp or someone has the strength to pull you off of him.

7omo · 2015-09-30T14:14:47+00:00

Just confront the guy as to say why he thinks you're a child? If he comes with some bullshit response then just say to the girl you was speaking too, see you later. If she chases you, you win, if she doesn't then she is clearly into this other guy so don't sweat it.

OH_NO_MR_BILL · 2015-09-30T15:30:57+00:00

Call him out on his bullshit... say something along the lines of "why would you do that to some one? Seriously, that's very rude, why would you do something like that?" It's ok to be angry, it's not ok, or more precisely it's not productive, to be reactive.

leedeforest · 2015-09-30T16:04:35+00:00

wrap your arms around him and give him a hug

Title	Wasn't sure what to do with this AMOG
Author	Chrisloop
Upvotes	65
Comments	78
Date	September 30, 2015 2:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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