Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game?

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-04-06T20:45:26+00:00

Wealth just provides too many opportunities and opens new doors way beyond dating. Wealth 100 times out of 100. Someone with wealth is financially secure and can still have a great love life "without game." And they'll likely be less stressed due to financial security; they won't have to wonder how they'll survive week to week on limited income.

derlumpenhund · 2025-04-06T20:40:05+00:00

Wealth compensates for game to some extent and you have an overall better life.

furkanx32 · 2025-04-06T20:52:02+00:00

When you’re in your 20s it doesn’t matter if you’re broke or rich, if you look good and have good game you can pull hot chicks. I only had 200 dollars and spent no more than 20 dollars for a date. This is why you need to get good at game at a early age so when you get rich later in life you can identify which girls are really there for you or the money.

Friendly-Canadianguy · 2025-04-06T20:49:49+00:00

Wealthy because you will still get the girl and there's a lot more to life than just women

bammer26 · 2025-04-06T20:50:31+00:00

Wealthy easily

stormsovereign · 2025-04-06T20:43:54+00:00

You can pay to learn game after

Sekuru-kaguvi2004 · 2025-04-06T21:02:21+00:00

I would rather be rich. There's a lot you can do with money e.g acquire political power. With money you will get girls. Yes they won't love you for you etc but does it matter as long as you fuck. You could even get yourself a bunch of kids and enjoy raising them and teaching them about money and life.

Think about it are women all that matter in your life. Would living paycheck to paycheck be compensated by knowing you fucking because of skill not money? Is giving up mansions, lambos, power and freedom really worth that ego stroke? To me it's not.

AddLightness1 · 2025-04-07T00:21:31+00:00

Nah. Being poor and not especially good-looking has forced me to develop a lot of skills, including the ability to be very charismatic for short periods of time. If I had been born wealthy and didn't have to struggle, I would be a less spectacular person.

ExurgeMars · 2025-04-06T20:41:09+00:00

Good looking and poor !!

Ugly wealthy men are only desired for their money !

Besides I hate spending money on women. I prefer to keep it to myself.

Also being attractive has more benefits than just dating.

I'd never want to be ugly ! Not in a lifetime.

Also if you've no game you're just going to be a pushover

TheCuriousBread · 2025-04-06T20:41:03+00:00

Grass is always greener on the other side. With game, you can leverage your emotional and social intelligence to make money. No amount of money can buy you the emotional and social intelligence to have game that is intrinsic to your existence. No matter what clothes you put on your skin, cars you drive, the house you have, in the end you're still just a pig wrapped in a blanket. Take the money away what does he still have?

ice_man085 · 2025-04-06T20:56:44+00:00

Wealth. You do no need women/game to survive, but having no money makes survival difficult.

klogro8 · 2025-04-06T20:57:01+00:00

Game by itself gives you the chance to connect and build relationships. You might be broke, but you can work your way up. Wealth with no game, though, gets you shallow connections and an empty feeling. Game and charm open doors money can’t.

DreamShort3109 · 2025-04-06T21:00:25+00:00

Hate to say it, but wealth. Get my life in order first.

bannedcanceled · 2025-04-06T21:14:26+00:00

Im good looking with game and very fucking broke. I would 100% rather be rich

sliferd37 · 2025-04-06T22:05:09+00:00

Wealth is all that matters tbh

goldchuchujell1 · 2025-04-06T20:53:58+00:00

Wealth, its so much more to life than having game imo

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-04-06T21:00:45+00:00

I am good looking with some game and poor. So I guess I’ll take that

becomesharp · 2025-04-06T21:11:24+00:00

Depends HEAVILY on how wealthy and on the ability to change. If you're "wealthy" from a global perspective, that means you make like 150k. Which is not wealthy at all in NYC. If you're wealthy relative to NYC, you're making millions per year and you can hire the best coaches to teach you game, assuming you're dedicated.

On the other hand, if youre good looking with game and poor, you should be able to use said social skills to get out of poverty.

So both of them give you a big advantage in being able to acquire the other one.

If you're asking which one immediately gets you better results in dating, then it's very obviously the good looking guy with game. Thats like putting a UFC champion at 150 lbs against a 250lbs bodybuilder with no fighting experience and wondering who will win the fight. Won't even be close.

MysteryLiezer · 2025-04-06T21:17:33+00:00

I’m good looking, have impeccable game, and wouldn’t trade neither, not even for all the money in the world! 😌

becomesharp · 2025-04-06T21:17:38+00:00

One thing to keep in mind:

Wealth can buy you dates and sometimes even attraction, but it can't buy you a great relationship. I personally know a lot of wealthy people who would kill to have my relationship but no amount of money can buy it.

A great relationship is like a great body (on a guy). It's very rare, and it either comes from being very very lucky, or it has to be earned.

SpamStranger · 2025-04-06T22:09:26+00:00

You gotta have such game you can twirl rich women maybe.

Interesting-Cow-1652 · 2025-04-06T22:31:44+00:00

If I’m wealthy, I can just rent my pussy. I also get to choose how hot the girl is. No amount of “game” will allow you to do that.

JNR481 · 2025-04-06T23:11:49+00:00

Wealth. I’m not even trying and the confidence money brings is hard to duplicate even with “fake it till you make it”. Notice how I said confidence not arrogance/tryhard.

CharmingRejector · 2025-04-06T23:36:55+00:00

Why not both? I'd want ten game with money. Looks just gets you the 10 first seconds.

JustAnotherGorilla · 2025-04-06T23:55:18+00:00

Good looking

RadiantTry9442 · 2025-04-07T00:42:02+00:00

Wealthy with no game. Drop the rich entitlement act and you’ll have tons of opportunities to meet chicks at whatever stage your dating games at. Money makes dating easier as long as its not tied to self esteem.

suyog_12 · 2025-04-07T01:59:20+00:00

Wealthy because I'm already good looking with game

somethinlikeshieva · 2025-04-07T02:37:32+00:00

id like to know age, but id take wealth in vast majority

Mc_Dickles · 2025-04-07T02:46:46+00:00

Wealthy with no game, money can do the sweet talking for me 😭

Matt22blaster · 2025-04-07T03:17:58+00:00

The thought of someone I'm in love with being with me for the money is terrifying. I'll take the former any day of the week.

ircommie · 2025-04-07T03:32:41+00:00

Wealth = game

DM-Me-Pet-Pics · 2025-04-07T05:16:51+00:00

Assuming we follow your rules instead of people changing the rules that if you have wealth you have game

Easily game>wealth

Doesn’t matter how rich you are, if you walk around with a super model your side that’s a flex that not even hard work can get you 🤣🤣

Davidle3 · 2025-04-07T07:35:39+00:00

With game but what I am seeing and it’s pick your choice word of unacceptable….you got these guys who couldn’t get a woman if they paid for one walking around with their phones and making it very obvious that they are recording and these guys Don’t even have step 1…be confident down….their down in the dumps and you can tell by their thirsty actions….they walk up to an extremely attractive woman and their like hey I am showing guys they can talk to women…..so their recording is their crutch/shield and you can tell these women are pitying or tolerating these thirsty no confidence individuals and what’s sad they don’t even have the wherewithal to understand their just being pitied and they don’t have any kind of shot.

Plastic_Friendship55 · 2025-04-07T09:19:48+00:00

Game can be used in so much else than dating so it’s worth much more than any amount of money

SadKnight123 · 2025-04-07T10:45:55+00:00

You can always learn game. Being weapthy is way harder and most of the time a life long endeavor.

TheFunAsylumStudio · 2025-04-07T11:28:34+00:00

As someone with a good face I assure you the single most important thing in life for a man is a good face. Women will go to the ends of the earth for you and there's nothing bad that can happen to you. In a lot of ways the dudes with the unfortunate faces made an entire system out of money in order to compete

I don't think you understand, if you have a good face you'll never truly be alone, but even if you got money you can feel alone even while having a partner

RecognitionAny6477 · 2025-04-07T12:31:24+00:00

Wealthy

Far-End470 · 2025-04-07T12:59:06+00:00

Game, looks, money.

In that order every time.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-04-07T15:25:08+00:00

As great as it is to have women poverty really sucks and its really nice to have money. Even if you are wealthy with no game you can still find a long term partner and do okay.

dystopia061 · 2025-04-07T15:39:42+00:00

wealthy

Cavsfan724 · 2025-04-07T16:01:35+00:00

Id say wealthy. May have no game but still just need to be able to sus out the women who are just there because of the money.

Valravn6666 · 2025-04-07T16:35:00+00:00

Whether I get women or not is largely unimportant to me nowadays. So, the question becomes “Do I wish to be rich or poor?” and I would choose to be poor 100% of the time. While being rich has its obvious benefits, there would be very little room for struggle and personal growth. If I had every material possession that I could ever desire, then what would be the point in striving for anything? If death is the great equalizer, then why do material possessions even matter? Furthermore, without the crucible of suffering there is only stagnation that remains. To stagnate would be a betrayal of all the suffering I have and continue to endure on a daily basis. Being poor provides the luxury of becoming: to constantly adapt to the challenges of life with extremely limited means, and to see reality for what it truly is with no distractions whatsoever. Just me and my ability to strategize for my survival until it is time to rest in oblivion.

nonFungibleHuman · 2025-04-07T17:32:28+00:00

Game for sure. Game can bring wealth in no time if used correctly.

AlecDelight · 2025-04-07T17:32:36+00:00

Life’s always about trading in your favor.

If you’re broke but have game, don’t waste your social skills on just dating only. That same charisma opens doors in business, networking, and leveling up—if you put in the work.

If you’re rich but lack game, don’t coast. Spend smart. Hire a top stylist, tailor your wardrobe, dial in your grooming. Once the surface is handled, invest in yourself—coaches, therapists, hypnotists, gurus, whatever. Use your money to buy time, then use that time to get your mindset right and your skills sharp.

Whatever hand you’re dealt—play it well, and play it hard.

Ancient-Position-696 · 2025-04-07T22:47:46+00:00

Chase the money, women come with it

killermexican1 · 2025-04-08T00:59:06+00:00

Being poor, ugly and no game makes this post hit hard lmao

FreedomWooden8605 · 2025-04-09T21:06:01+00:00

Your environment ends up making you. Being wealthy opens doors, you can learn, you can travel, you can have the right connections, get access to the right social circles.

Mere exposure and familiarity are way more powerful when it comes to mating. If you don't understand this you are lost.

That's why cold approach only gives you average girls. The really high quality ones are already in social circles with high quality guys.

Plus, let's be honest, this is 2025 - the game has changed, you need to be online and offline to actually have a dating life.

PapayaLife9884 · 2025-04-13T10:22:00+00:00

why not both. Get to work!

UltraAirWolf · 2025-04-06T20:50:23+00:00

Game.

Western_Secretary284 · 2025-04-06T21:00:44+00:00

I'm already that first one 😎

No amount of money will ever buy a woman's love. I know the girls I'm with like me for me. And my handsomeness

mabden · 2025-04-06T22:47:47+00:00

An asshole i used to work "explained" women and money. I'm never getting married. They're all bitches and cost too much to marry. If I have money, I can always get bitches.

Title	Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game?
Author	Yoyakb-92
Upvotes	35
Comments	73
Date	April 6, 2025 8:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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