[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15

Wky · 2015-04-06T13:21:47+00:00

What's the best way to ask for a 2nd date?

tnims · 2015-04-06T14:13:07+00:00

I have no problem escalating with girls at the club, I'm a great dancer and more than usual- get to flirting and making out. I don't have a place to bring girls back to, how do I hint at going back to her place?

lionkingjr · 2015-04-09T05:59:55+00:00

What do I do when she responds positively? This has always been a problem but in this example, I messaged a girl on Tinder who jokingly says in her bio that she is 6'8, "6'8? Tiffany, you'd be worth the climb" and she responds, "Oh, lionkingjr, you can climb me like a tree anytime" I know this is good, but I never know how to respond to girls when this happens, I just blank. Would appreciate any help or guidelines on what to do in this kind of situation

Cc99910 · 2015-04-06T12:26:31+00:00

Hey Seddit. I plan on asking a girl out on a date when I see her in class today. Is it bad to ask her to spontaneously go to lunch after class?

Auzymundius · 2015-04-06T14:41:42+00:00

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livinghonestly · 2015-04-07T00:56:51+00:00

I can start a conversation but always eject too early. I know most of it is my own mental blocks about not wanting a conversation to stale, but how do you get a hook in a conversation to switch from random guy talking about the venue to guy she is having a conversation with.

Rezu55 · 2015-04-06T22:09:09+00:00

Is saying good night and good morning while not in a relationship yet a good ritual?

Iamdusliat · 2015-04-06T15:02:34+00:00

What does it mean to be vulnerable?

I keep reading about it but it isn't getting any clearer for me.

MrSeymorButts · 2015-04-06T16:02:59+00:00

What is kino escalation? I've seen it a lot on this sub but never find decent links for explanation.

Saltytatctics · 2015-04-06T16:53:34+00:00

What do you guys do to build confidence. As of now I workout an admire, which sounds weird but it hrlp a bit.

diggingme · 2015-04-06T18:49:29+00:00

How to get girls in night clubs ? Haven't seen any guides for it, my current method is abit shoot and miss = dance well and sometimes girls approach me or just talking by the bar

MrManson99 · 2015-04-07T01:46:14+00:00

I'm a sophomore in high school and I asked a girl if she wanted to go out for coffee. She said "That's be nice but I need to ask my mom first. " How do I follow up without seeming needy?

dat_jay · 2015-04-07T11:10:11+00:00

It is often said that you should tell a beautiful girl that she is smart and vice versa. What to do now with a beautiful AND smart woman? I'm talking about a pretty doctor (not a 10, but sure that she gets a lot of compliments because of her looks anyway!). Still heading for the smart compliments then?

suavensweet · 2015-04-08T01:12:52+00:00

Is there a sub for meeting people around you to go out with?

SolarDeath666 · 2015-04-10T18:46:30+00:00

I'm in college, and I've been trying to basically get out of my anxiety shell by making eye contact. I've had very good eye contact game, and well.... a lot of girls actually looked back at me with a genuine smile and a "Deer in Headlights" look + a smile. I smile back, I've seen it too, I like it lol

The problem is, I haven't mustered up enough courage yet to actually say something, and well I've made multiple eye contact moments with them because I see them daily (but without saying Hey, or anything at all but a nice smile and locking eyes.)

Is it now too awkward to say something now, or the perfect chance when they still keep making great eye contact with me? (It's been an ongoing 2 weeks with this one girl because I have to pass her every other day, in one part of a building because my class is next to hers I think.)

davidl9 · 2015-04-07T14:53:16+00:00

How do you kiss sensually? Recently been told by a hook up that as much as she enjoyed herself, I didn't kiss sensually or make her swoon. I'm ok with that as a criticism just wondering what to do in this situation. Is there anyway to develop it? Any moves or mind sets to help convey a sexual air? Or are you just born with it?

i-seddit-twice · 2015-04-08T05:59:36+00:00

Are there any good subreddits specifically focused on developing conversation skills? Thanks.

A_lone_heart · 2015-04-08T08:37:58+00:00

I want to get to know that girl in my class but the only problem is that she wears "hijaab" so I don't know what to think about her personality or expressions when I ask those silly questions or make jokes.Only reason I'm being hesitant about aproaching her...Any help would be appreciated greatly!

Edit:- Same relegious beliefs so no problem there I'm sure.

Edit:- I've noticed her looking my way quite some times but not really sure If it was a STARE or just a common thing...

Edit:- She is good in studies and She is REALLY pretty ,I can just tell by looking at those eyes..

Alpha-Turtle · 2015-04-08T18:57:36+00:00

When I smirk in the mirror, I look like a psychopath LOL. Is that how you are supposed to look when smirking?

puaCurveBall · 2015-04-07T06:34:54+00:00

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dELUXE- · 2015-04-07T13:08:41+00:00

I'm taking a girl with me hiking this friday, any tips?

xxwoodcutt3rxx · 2015-04-07T21:03:49+00:00

I want to get over liking this girl because I know things wont work out, but also want to remain friends. She doesnt know that i am attracted to her. Best way to accomplish this?

lordBobbo · 2015-04-09T16:04:38+00:00

A lot of sedditors talk about how the quality of our community has declined. What's wrong with it now? FYI I came across seddit during the holidays.

airisgood2 · 2015-04-12T03:29:48+00:00

Where's a good secluded place to go on a third date with a girl? Especially if I have already made out with her, and felt her up.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-04-10T03:03:49+00:00

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ginmarvelous · 2015-04-13T07:25:30+00:00

I went on a date on Sunday with a girl.

She asked me this question: "How many months have you been on Tinder" My response was a bit defensive - About 1 Month.. just after my girlfriend went overseas.

I think it was a shit test. Can anyone think of a better response (i.e. agree and amplify)?

She was also giving me some micro-expressions every now and then.. with her eyebrows based on what I was saying..

I didn't really go in with a game plan or thinking about seduction. But I think it's time to be a bit more aware about what I do and say.

Let me know what you think!

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	40
Comments	95
Date	April 6, 2015 10:05 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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