Just a quick one for anybody suffering from approach anxiety, worried about the reaction you'll get, or too scared to communicate your real intentions, here's a quick story from last night. I'm still quite new to all of this so it was a small revelation for me.

I went out for a drink with a girl that I met in a coffee shop last week, and she made a passing comment that she doesn't normally go out on dates with a complete stranger, most of the time she's introduced by a mutual friend, or it's somebody she's known for a while etc. When I asked why it was different this time, she simply said "you made it easy for me".

So next time you see a girl you are interested in, make it easy for her. So many guys beat around the bush, delay, mask their true feelings, and eventually blow their chances with girls. By being clear, honest and unashamed about my intentions right from the start, I stood out and made it easy for her to say yes.

Of course she might say no, but that's fine as well, you don't want to waste time chasing somebody who's not really interested, take it in your stride and move on, you still made it easy either way.