Why I almost left FDS

yeahhh22 · 2021-03-26T13:23:31+00:00

I personally don't think he had any shame about it. He prefers porn.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-03-26T13:21:25+00:00

One thing I always like to remind women of is that the handbook is one size fits all, so some things may not fit or make sense right away, but you should still take the parts that you need and apply them.

There are women of different ages, incomes, ethnic and cultural experiences, in different careers, in different cities/countries, in different living situations, with kids or without, etc. So it would be impossible to have examples for everything, but as you spend more time here you learn to adapt the examples and stories to your own life.

Often times you grow into appreciating and believing other facets you had doubts in at the beginning either because you read the stories or you experience it for yourself also. And then it clicks.

I’m proud of you on your journey toward continued growth!

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-03-26T14:06:34+00:00

Guys with kinks only want them because they cant get hard from normal sex anymore.

Technical_Moth248 · 2021-03-26T14:13:37+00:00

"I'd never ask someone to change for me" 🙄🙄🙄 Dudes acting like you're asking him to quit his job and never talk to his family again instead of to stop consuming a bunch of garbage content.

If porn is such an integral part of you that's pathetic. His life would be improved by dropping it. If they didn't hurt so many women in the process I would find it kind of funny they protest so strongly against their own best interests lmao

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-03-26T13:38:32+00:00

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superderpina_ · 2021-03-26T13:57:24+00:00

we should have an acronym for porn sick limp dick, since its so common. PSLD.

logickilledthecat · 2021-03-26T14:05:15+00:00

"But guess what? He had porn sick limp dick. He could only stay hard here and there. He had a lot of sexual shame. It was terrible.

I asked him to work on his porn addiction and he said “I’d never ask someone to change for me”.

He broke up with me after realizing he didn’t want to work on his porn addiction."

Twinsies. Especially the staying hard part. But also the whole yOuRe tRyinG tO cHanGe Me and total denial of decade long excessive porn use having completely rotten his mind and dick.

He may stay with it all. I'm changing directions, not people.

Literally a week ago I forced the loser to be a man once and break up with me (he tried to get me to do the dirty work, by just behaving like an asshole, of course. Cowards way out).

I found his porn prior and a coupla other things. Don't. fucking. ask........

And eventually also his BDSM gear on top of his porn kInKs (of course. It's so cliché to me now. There are no in betweens. If you go a bit that way, you go all the way).

What I'm trying to tell you: you 100% saved yourself from something that simply breaks women. I'm strong and confident but this one... Betrayal trauma is real.

I've processed it emotionally for the most part, but I will expose the mfer and his double identity/pretense to be such a sweet guy to friends and family, and the amount of lies he kept telling everybody until the very end.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-26T15:17:47+00:00

Yikes.

These type of men are so amazingly lost that they would choose a video image of a woman over getting to have actual sex with a woman.

Fkthekirit · 2021-03-26T16:26:04+00:00

“I’d never ask someone to change for me”

Porn asked him to change. He did. Now he has limp dick. Congratulations, you played yourself! Literally. Pathetic. Men who can’t stop touching themselves obsessively are disgusting with porn induced mental illness. They retard their own brains. It’s like talking your head into a wall, on purpose and becoming mentally disabled.

swapThing · 2021-03-26T13:28:14+00:00

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dembar126 · 2021-03-26T16:11:27+00:00

"I'd never ask someone to change for me"

Uh.. guys like this ALWAYS ask women to change for them. They want you to learn to become a contortionist masochist with no gag reflex who squirts from having your asshole gaped and your clit ignored.

iamonthereddit · 2021-03-26T17:23:58+00:00

Porn is like drugs. It stimulates the same parts of the brain as cocaine does and has the same addictive features. A porn addict is a slave of that kick and will always want more and more extreme, stay away from those men!

"I'd never ask someone to change for me." He probably can't even be himself with his life clouded by addiction...

abstractsadgurl · 2021-03-26T17:22:18+00:00

Sigh. Thank God he's gone.

sacchilax · 2021-03-26T17:23:18+00:00

Does the limp dick always come from porn? I ask because my ex husband (to my knowledge) wasn’t into porn at all, but now that I read this I do feel he suffered from a lot of sexual shame.

Kind_Entertainment_6 · 2021-03-26T13:18:56+00:00

I think he broke up with you because he had a lot of shame surrounding it, and not everyone is able to fully deal well with the feeling of shame.

Porn addiction is not healthy, at all. OP I’m sorry he couldn’t see this. I’m not sure how you approached the topic as limp dick can be one of those things that really embarrasses a man and can even make him feel emasculated. Perhaps after some time he will see the error in his ways, I think right now he may still be dealing with all those feelings that this topic brought upon and not seeing things clearly.

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Title	Why I almost left FDS
Author	swapThing
Upvotes	428
Comments	62
Date	March 26, 2021 6:39 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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