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MALE DEPRAVITYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:50 AM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:23 AM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:28 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:08 AM
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HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:57 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:38 AM
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FDS HUMORHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:03 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:51 PM
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REMINDER 👑HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:46 AM
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SCROTES MADHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:35 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:34 AM
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REMINDER 👑HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:30 PM
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STAY WOKEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:27 AM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:59 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:52 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:55 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:04 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:05 PM
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FDS HUMORHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:45 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:58 AM
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HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:41 AM
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STRATEGYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:54 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:49 AM
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FDS HUMORHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:00 AM
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LIES MEN TELLHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:53 AM
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FDS HUMORHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:12 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:54 AM
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FDS HUMORHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:38 AM
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FDS HUMORHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:31 AM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:46 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:58 PM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:57 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:44 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:06 PM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:17 AM
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QUEEN SH*THereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 10:57 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨HereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:18 PM
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SCROTES MADHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:05 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:18 PM
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STRATEGYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:05 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:49 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:56 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:21 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHereForTheFreeFoodOk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:34 PM
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Then they just suddenly dropped everything. Who is they ? The government ? Was this dude penalised for wasting the courts time? Seems to me he was sexually harassing/intimidating these women. Surely that is a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:50 PM
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A big toe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:38 PM
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He is ugly as hell This woman is a hollow shell. She has zero identity. She can't be helped. I can't deal with idiots. These women are our enemy. No mercy He has dead eyes ALL AnImALs HaVe SeX wIth MuLtIpLE PArTNrRS hurr durrrr ( So you are admitting you are a dumb animal? Got it) When a man can't do ANYTHING himself it's fucking weird. Can't fry an egg for breakfast LOL. Needs a 'mommy'figure to do it for him <cackles> what a loser. He is signalling that he is an incompetent child. And guess wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:34 PM
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What was the outcome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:24 PM
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but the questioning mind is why wasn't Stevie bathing his own damn mother?? I think the point of the episode was that he was working - and Miranda was on ground zero dealing with the dementia ridden mother in law. very "Eastern European Pickme" of Magda to insinuate that Miranda was never loving until she took up a duty that wasn't her's to start with! Ehhh I disagree. Steve's mother is family. More than that - she was a woman who was disabled by dementia and very vulnerable. And Miranda was dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:29 PM
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um, no, the whole point of mama bears is that they're THE scariest and most aggressive creature due to maternal protectiveness. I know right! So inverted they twisted up on themselves and chomped off their own head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:47 PM
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100% she needs to leave the podcast. She needs her own podcast with mature intelligent academic women who are talking about things like "How to raise a daughter in a pornified world" . Also - Bobby Lee <vomit> here he is reminiscing about r@ping a child in Tijuana. No joke. BIG trigger warning. Search on reddit : bobby_lee_admits_to_r@ping_a_child_prostitute_in/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:58 AM
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I loved Magda. She was a wise woman who put up with too much Miranda's rudeness quite frankly. That scene where Miranda bathes Steve's mom who had dementia ( after she went walkabout and was eating rubbish from the trash) was very poignant. Miranda annoyed that she had to look after Steve's vulnerable and unwell mother - and Magda remarks " And that is love" when she see's Miranda bathing Steve's mom. Magda taught Miranda about kindness that day. The power of kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:16 AM
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Che that I do not like. I haven’t been able to figure it out… Would it be obnoxiously talking about sex and vibrators and being non-binary every 5 seconds? Also - what was all the "J train is jerking off!" and "A train is ANAL". Are they 13 year olds trying to be edgelords? '
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:53 AM
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Remember how stern and rude Miranda was to her Ukrainian house keeper Magda? Yet she allows her scrotey son to have loud, obnoxious sex in her house? It is SO OFF BRAND for her character to be permissive about disrespect. I though Steve - as the husband - had better 'working class' respectful values than that. He really should be pulling Brady into line but instead he sits on the couch eating ice-cream and complaining about his declining hearing. Hey! Parent your kid, asshole! You are the dad! Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:50 AM
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Wow so the women are exposed to diseases. The men also expose themselves to disease and take it home to their wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:50 AM
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And even in those cases, there are some communities where FDS would get you killed. We had a woman - an Afghani woman - who immigrated to Australia who was forced to marry an Afghan man. Her mother sold her to him. She did not want to consummate the marriage so she was beaten mercilessly. Her name was Ruqia. Ruqia had levelled up herself, was enjoying living and studying in Australia and was finally finding peac,e after escaping Afghanistan. Because she refused to submit to her sexual demands he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:00 AM
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Hi Blonde hair with big boobs here, working in an all male working environment. You trigger all their porn fantasies and their brains short circuit. The constant emotional labor of being professional in the face of their severe inappropriateness led me to a mental breakdown. They will always see you as sexual meat. There is no changing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:29 AM
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Brecht. There he is again. I just watched "The Savages' with Phillip Seymour Hoffman and Laura Linney - and Seymour Hoffmans character was an academic writing a yet a another paper on Brecht and theatre of social unrest. I remember a few men who quit watching Madmen in frustration right when the fluorescent lights went on and everything got ugly. surprised men saw the nuance. Thought they would be salivating over the ease of Don's continual conquests and the shape of Joan Holloway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:27 AM
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Most men I meet are completely meaningless to me Based. It's women's misogyny and assumptions that annoy me Forever a thorn in our side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:29 PM
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It’s so sad that women seeking enlightenment and healing look to men when our fellow women have more power in their pinkie fingers. 100% this. Female shamans all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:20 AM
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Brugmansia is gorgeous - but be careful of the fragrance at night - it can be psychoactive at worst or cause respiratory distress due to the tropane alkaloids Definitely don't let your pets or small children play with the flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:19 AM
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I ditched the series because her constant sex talk and weird sexual encounters made me ill. But now I realise, after, reading your comment, that it is an investigation into trauma. Thanks - I'll give it another go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:02 AM
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That is a very good point. She mentions that one of her worst bosses was a woman as an example that woman can become narcissistic. However, I think women in patriarchal male structures - like corporate - over compenssate and become nastier versions of men in order to do their job. It's a weird phenom. And of course - women in corporate do not represent all women - but a very thin tier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:23 PM
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He never wanted sex from me though. He was getting that need met somewhere else. Sounds like a blessing for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:26 PM
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SS: This video schools you on how men see marriage through their eyes In built servant at home so they can achieve their goals Marriage is a tool to achieve a goal Men get married to prove themselves as worthy in the eyes of other men. They use it as a tool of credibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:51 PM
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I agree - her delivery is soothing yet hits some hard facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:48 PM
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Edited to add: fuck the belief we should not speak poorly of the dead. That is an absolutely horrible practice foisted onto us by the male patriarchy. If someone who died was an asshole it should be said out loud and their funeral should be basic and with poor attendance. Maybe if we followed this standard people would think twice about muh legacy. THANK YOU! My father died a failure. Left me and my mother penniless and destitute. The fucker had a grand funeral and I went up and did a Eulogy tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:30 AM
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Look into the death of movie star Natalie Wood. Went out on a boat trip alive with her husband and actor Christopher Walken and... ​ Wood died under mysterious circumstances at age 43 during the making of Brainstorm while on a weekend boat trip to Santa Catalina Island on board her husband’s 58' motoryacht Splendour. Outside of drowning, many of the circumstances are unknown; it was never determined how she entered the water. Wood was with her husband Robert Wagner, Brainstorm co-star Christophe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:40 AM
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Horrifying. I had a friend who was handsome and gay ( a man) who told me all about it. He would go to parties in the desert with Sheiks and do wild/debauched/unsavoury sex stuff/orgies. You are trapped - and you can't go anywhere. He knew how women were treated as he was in that circle with handsome/beautiful gorgeous people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:56 PM
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In Dubai - they have boat parties and take women out into international waters so if shit goes down - no law applies. It's sinister as fuck. Hell - even if shit went down in UAE waters - there would be zero consequence. Yes. Women do end up thrown overboard if they do not comply with sexual demands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:21 PM
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In my culture, a woman who marries and has children with a broke man is considered vile and selfish because she has knowingly allowed her future children to lead compromising lives in poverty, in lack, and without the adequate resources to nourish their minds and bodies as they grow into adulthood. Based! What culture is this? ( Edit : except women being 'vile and selfish'. Often they are coerced into marriage or babytrapped. )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:11 PM
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Even if they do shitcan him, there will be fallout. 100% this. His remaining 'mates' on the job will make your working life hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:07 PM
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Yeah and who makes all the video games graphics that they spend 20 hours a day playing ? Artists and creatives. So arrogant to assume that STEM and engineering are the pinnacle of intelligence and are the only set of skills that deserves merit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:02 PM
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100% this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:45 PM
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Nawww so cute how you represented STEM, Medicine, Law and writers, painters - creative women. Thank you! Creative types are always being dragged on reddit for NoT BeInG ReAL jObS. Creative types nourish our souls. This is a great gift to have. Humanity resets and feels inspired by art in all its forms. It is critical to the functioning and lubrication of humanity and society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:21 PM
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u/snowwy28 what subgirlygirl just said above. I am also an Aussie and here is my dead-set rock solid advice. Use the words "his behaviour is escalating" to HR. Very important. Write it down in an email - send it to HR and cc in your private email address. Very important you have a copy of this correspondence on your personal email. If you are terminated - you can't access work email so cc everything to your personal email. The company is pretending they 'have your back'. They are feigning concer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:35 AM
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Also male doctors are often high in the narcisssist/ psychopath scale. They have the social cachet of being a doctor and their opinion and point of view/testimony will always trump yours if shit gets uncomfortable. Any man who is in a field that is a specialty in female anatomy ( Gyno/Ob) is a fucking weirdo and I will die on that hill. Just because a man is a doctor doesn't mean he is a man of integrity of character. Back in the day that put priests/clergy on a pedestal. These days it's the "Lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:21 AM
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"But you can never know a man - and I mean really know his character and his moral fiber - until you’ve seen how he treats a helpless woman when no one is looking." ​ BASED AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:17 AM
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The women had been celebrating Bibaa's birthday with friends in the park the night they were killed.[1][12] CCTV footage shown later captured the sisters making their way to the birthday picnic. They selected the park as their venue because of restrictions imposed during the lockdown. They stayed on in the park after their guests left and danced with lit fairy lights and music. Photographs and videos that were taken that evening on their phones show that they were having fun.[11] A search by the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:39 PM
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Not gonna lie, Law and Order SVU ticks some of these boxes. Olivia Bennet ( Mariska Hargitay) is strong, smart, empathetic and brilliant while raising a child. Carisi and even ICE T's character listen to her and respect her as a boss and take direction without undermining her. These dudes also chase bad guys and make the rapist dipshits break in interview rooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:27 AM
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Can confirm - have experienced this. This is me. Very poor memory and a takes me a long time to learn new concepts. Trying to conceal these mild disabilities is a stress in itself. Learning things are incredibly difficult and have to put in 500% effort. Literal brain damage for life. FOR LIFE. ​ Edit: Just wanted to add that it's not brain damage for life and it can be healed. Herbs like Brahmi + Lions Mane have helped enormously. Heal yourself folks. The plants are out there. Pop them in your s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 12:14 AM
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Because public spaces are designed for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 11:25 PM
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Sending you love OP. Caring for terminally ill parents is something no body prepares you for. There is no manual and people have no idea the physical and emotional toll of it - unless they have experienced it. You are amazing for being there for her - despite you strained relationship. Remember to indulge in self care. Whether that is playing pool at your local bar and shooting the shit with friends while listening to Creedence, or going for long drives and crying to your favourite cheesy songs,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:46 AM
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Haha - also noticed the gym bro and his LoOk AT My BiG MaNLy MuSCLeS pose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:41 AM
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Wow - they hit hard. Love - - the red riding hood amongst the wolves - the cave man dragging a pen that spills blood ( my interpretation - men write history with blood) - the man with the little girls in the shopping trolly, grinning with hideous glee - the couple in the bed and the man annoyed saying "The would be a lot easier for me if you had no emotional needs" - the woman fleeing with stones being thrown at her while a fat obese man walks proudly being handed roses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:56 AM
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Please keep these up ! They are so delightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:50 AM
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I love all the art you post here! Thanks for the beautiful visuals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:50 AM
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I don't deal with harassment just male stupidity and unprofessional behaviour. I had a personal trainer text me at 10pm to set up a training session. Dude - what? Text me at appropriate hours. I went to the gym to complain to the manager - and the manager started yelling and intimidating me. Who wants to work out in an environment where the men are dumb animals? Cancelled my gym membership immediately and told head office exactly why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:59 PM
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With pleasure
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/21 09:00 AM
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Yes - women are groomed in corporate workplaces. Your point?
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/21 07:42 AM
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Yep - they are in colour. And it cost me like $50 to get 200 printed onto postcard material. Glossy too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:23 AM
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I have printed out the "Rules of Misogyny" on a shiny postcard. In fact -it is this exact design from FDS when it was posted here. ( It's a great graphic because it makes girls intrigued - and indicates that is isn't religious paraphernalia) I keep some in my handbag/car and I hand it out to girls hanging out after school in groups. Often there are 1 or 2 dudes in their company. Inversely, boys hang out the front of a chicken shop - and there is always a couple of girls in that circle. I hand ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:46 PM
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She speaks the truth. ​ 99% of males are kinda useless on the planet. Not attractive - not worth spreading their seed into the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:49 PM
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Yep - heard that too. I think the hosts are trying to make sure the 'world' ( read: scrotes) that know that FDS is not full of 'post wall' women. Take this tweet - https://twitter.com/FemDatStrat/status/1460830887948394505 ​ "Male cope is thinking only "pOsT WaLL" women listen to Female Dating Strategy. SURPRISE BITCH, 81% of our audience is under 35" ​ So there is an element of pandering to scrotes with this... and also showing that women post 35 are 'undesirable' or of less value because they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:18 AM
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"HaS FeEliNgS dEepeR thAn FrieNdshiP". Translation: Let me put my old peen in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:10 AM
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I'm in Australia and all the above applies. Still I would rather go down fighting like an alley cat then sit passively and and let the patriarchy administer it's final blow and punish me for fighting back. I will die on that hill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:06 AM
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I hear what you are saying. But in this situation - you get a better lawyer. You bring the case to the media. Find a female journo with fire who can blow up the story ​ I am so tired of being scared of men/patriarchy and the consequences they threaten
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:41 PM
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Keychain striking weapons. https://www.thehomesecuritysuperstore.com/collections/keychain-striking-weapons ​ Don't worry about knowing wha the local laws are. When a man is attacking you - he doesn't give a fuck about the local laws - and nor should you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:00 PM
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The link was to - Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. A great read Remember y'all our mothers came from a generation where they had to suffer to exist - and instead of working through this trauma - they decide to spew it onto their daughters in an act of projection. ​ Stay safe y'all. Protect your peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:19 AM
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I recall telling my mom I was depressed once and somehow it turned into her and she cried. OP sorry to break it to you but you have a narcissistic mother. She is using classic guilt trip techniques to try and control you. Being utterly selfish and not nurturing you like a mother should. In her mind - it's not about being a safe nurturing element in your life. Rather - it is about ruling with fear. All good OP. Many of us have Narc mothers. It's another dragon we have to slay in adulthood - overc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:16 AM
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Aaaaand men take start the victim whining in 3-2-1 "I DoN't WaNna be ThOugHt of iN that wAy" But this is your character, sir. A revolting shitful user and abuser of young women. Your behaviour is evidence of your character. What say you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:34 AM
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OP - make sure you reach out to the OP of this post and Give her a crown Tell her she needs to hang out with us here @ FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:30 AM
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It makes sense why he thinks this is no problem, because he thinks he is higher on that hierarchy. You nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:00 AM
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Friends - it's only proposed... Violence against women and girls will be elevated to the same status as terrorism under a proposed government directive, The Times has learnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:27 PM
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This is clearly a man. reported to mods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:17 PM
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The problem is that he doesn’t really think that the patriarchy is a bad thing. Yes - he conveniently overlooks the violence abuse it administers to women. He thinks men are wholesale good - and that women should renounce a career to be a bang maid. Not really understanding how this puts women's psychological and physical health at severe risk. ​ Don't get me started on how he thinks the corporate world is fair and benevolent to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:32 AM
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We all subconsciously acknowledge that men are malicious. Yet, we're pressured to pretend like they're upstanding citizens. Louder! ​ We all subconsciously acknowledge that men are malicious. Yet, we're pressured to pretend like they're upstanding citizens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:14 AM
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I may be - in fact I am. He still has ridiculous opinions about women. Very narrow interactions with them and he views them through a chauvinistic lens. He knows this - this is why he had to dope himself up on benzo's everytime he was interviewed by a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:06 AM
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Thank you OvarianSynthesizer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:04 AM
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Biologically, there are two sexes. Male and female are binary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:39 AM
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He is more enlightened these days since he quit the benzos and detoxed. Further - his daughter released her scrote just last week. Her boyfriend got her pregnant five years ago, she had the child and married him - but he proved to be a hindrance so she kicked him to the curb. I think this gave Jordan Peterson some insight into male scrotacity, watching his own daughter deal with a man child, who was more a hindrance to her life - than an asset. ​ Here is Jordan's daughter, Mikhaila, taking about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:52 AM
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Maybe I'm pessimistic but I've no desire to push through a toxic environment to get on top of the pile o sh!t I love that - brilliant. I actually think that women will rise through small businesses first. This! The internet has opened up new ways of business for women. The barriers to start a business are lower. At the end of the day it's about building wealth - and wealth can be built outside the fetid corporate matrix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:09 AM
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For this style of leadership to take over - men will need to curb their greed. Men will not want to give up their "traditional, incentive-based structures where it's all about CEO bonuses." Redistributing wealth from men to women is something I don't think will happen. <please correct me if I am wrong - I love hearing all points of view - just spinning thoughts> First thing is eliminating sexual harassment and sexism in the workplace. This alone must be responsible for why women don't rise throu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:47 PM
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Another neat trick is to write their name on a piece of paper - and put it at the back of your freezer. Freezes them out of your existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:29 PM
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Wow - that sounds incredible. And what a beautiful thing to be a part of - to experience first hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:02 AM
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Can we just do a collective bow to our older FDS Queens. This lady is late 40s - early 50s and looks incredible! We need more of this energy in the sub. The no-bullshit older women who lecture ( in a good way) the younger women on how to handle themselves ​ Edit: This woman is not the only woman he pitched with this offer.He is pitching every woman on his contacts list. Another strategy would be to smile nod. Get text messages of his 'offer' or record the conversation. Then go to his wife. Or - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:37 PM
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Yes. Yes and Hell Yeah! I love Heilung - they are a whole damn mood. They use bones and antlers as percussion instruments. For anyone wondering - it's shamanic Viking music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRg\_8NNPTD8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:30 PM
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Sweet. Will do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:28 PM
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Talent that never even began to unfurl. Keep in mind, women - even 3 generations ago - were impregnated in their mid-late teens ( for a number of reasons, male depravity, women with no agency, rape, no birth control) and then had to endure endless pregnancies ( no access to abortion) and child rearing duties until they either Died from ongoing and compounded birth trauma hit menopause ​ They had no opportunity to commit to study or work. Modern women do have these luxuries ( some - not all ) yet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:28 PM
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Jeepers you were roofied! I am sorry that happened : ( Metal concerts are a vultures paradise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:19 PM
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Temptation, Halestorm, Nightwish They sound like a generation behind me. Regardless I will check them out. luckily the goth men in Australia that I've met so far actually have manners. Fellow Aussie... say what now? They are polite until they demand you blood-let for their coom. I just keep my goth/ vibe to my velvet coats ( in winter) and chunky crucifixes and gold, distressed cuffs with precious stones. Normies don't note my goth/metal undertones but it makes me feel like a Keeper of Ravens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:16 PM
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True that - Nathan was a bit too buff for my liking. And Toki had that sweet harmless personality - and that gorgeous mane of brown hair <sigh>. Girlfriendklok is hilarious - when Nathan gets a girlfriend. All the pick me groupies lose their mind Edit: True Nathan was fat (not buff like i thought) -especially in that clip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:08 PM
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Metal dudes are NEVER hot. Some have the cakey foundation they wear - and bad eyeliner. Oh and the stringy black dyed hair.....yuck. The only hot metal dude is Nathan Explosion from Dethklok - and he is a cartoon character. While we are discussing metal in FDS ( honestly didn't think I ever would be) i just want to leave a few tracks dear to my heart. Fucking Hostile by Pantera Black Hole Sun by Soundgarden ( technically not metal - but ayyyy that huge guitar sound) Thunderhorse by Dethklok ( al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:46 AM
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This is also an awesome visualisation as to why you NEVER TOLERATE 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:29 AM
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Someone is taking care of the details in order for men to succeed. Entires civilisations rested on the sacrifices women made to their youth, lives and education . Billions died in childbirth in their teenage years. Pain free labor /Epidural was invented in the 70s. Reliable contraception not until the 70s. Before that women were stuck in a domesticity perpetually pregnant with no guarantee they would survive the labor. Edit: and sufferred early deaths because of birth trauma that medicine couldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:49 AM
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It's like working with a bunch of big toddlers who can't regulate their fucking emotions. louder It's like working with a bunch of big toddlers who can't regulate their fucking emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:18 AM
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I know :( It is unfathomably horrible. I hope the lady in a coma wakes up so she can help investigators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:05 PM
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It's a horror show. ​ "One of the men has been described in reports as an alleged “underground pornographer” and Jan fears the men took advantage of Christy and Hilda over a 12-hour period on Saturday.Jan said that CCTV footage – which has been described to him but he has not seen – shows two men wearing all black, with bandannas over their faces and driving a car without license plates dropping Christy off.The 40-year-old, who is a South Africa-born visual effects artist, said that he had recei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:15 AM
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"One of the men has been described in reports as an alleged “underground pornographer” and Jan fears the men took advantage of Christy and Hilda over a 12-hour period on Saturday. Jan said that CCTV footage – which has been described to him but he has not seen – shows two men wearing all black, with bandannas over their faces and driving a car without license plates dropping Christy off. The 40-year-old, who is a South Africa-born visual effects artist, said that he had received information abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:13 AM
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Sup! Black sheep in the house right here! It does give you an extra sensory perception to identify insecure narcs from a mile away. ​ Edit - Dr Ramani has a awesome content on IP's black sheep/ scapegoat dynamics too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:08 AM
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You nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:01 AM
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Hi - are you me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:14 AM
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I am reminded of a wonderful comment that men are vultures not predators. ​ ayyyooo I am so flattered - that was my comment. Copy and pasted: .................. We need to abandon the word predator. Predators are apex and sophisticated and took millions of years to dominate their domain.These men are vultures. Vultures feast and prey on vulnerable species. Little wounded hippo - or in a human context - women who are in a precarious situation. Like this fountain ( the post was about a scrote who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:18 AM
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LA is a seedy as fuck town. I say this because I want more women to be aware. It is a hotbed of rape, murder and discarding womens bodies in the desert. There are fucked up crime gangs who specifically prey on young women - particularly 'trophy' or 'model' women. The spiking thing is frightening. And I am certain we will see an increase of these behaviours globally If I was investigators I would check the dark web. Chances are she was <insert your own horror> on camera. These men would have defi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:29 AM
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Loving couple ? It is sooooo asymmetric in terms of care. She is literally - LITERALLY - his bang maid. He offers nothing to enhance her life. His personality and humour is so off putting. Typical lame boring uninteresting scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:31 PM
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I say it because of his personality and how he acts so entitled for Hannah to care for him. THIS! I think Hannah is the most massive pick me. DOUBLE THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:30 PM
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Adam Driver - hell yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:10 PM
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Say what now? There is a new Babysitters Club? Thanks for the heads up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:10 PM
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Squirmy and Grubs half Shane Burcaw uhhh No. He is a very selfish person. He only acts 'nice' as he literally has nothing to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:09 PM
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Taking the high road - giving men the benefit of the doubt - only serves men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:55 PM
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And he also continues his disrespect of the new wife as well. We see that in his SM posts. Embarrassing photos of her and snarky remarks. Wow - great observation, you are right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:47 PM
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I know I had to watch it twice because I was bewitched by her gorgeous skin and voice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:46 PM
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Yes. Rule number 1 about men. They are disgusting sluts governed by their animal instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:52 PM
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Also interesting how men are never told they need to work on their attitude and they have the WORST attitudes of anyone at work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:17 PM
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I am sorry that happened to you - men will always find a way to gaslight you and 'put you in your place' especially when you call other men out on their behaviour and humiliate them. Next time - dumb fox. "I am confused what happened?". You were curt to Jim. I am confused - how so? Well - you told him to not interrupt you. I fail to see the problem. I simply pointed out that he was embarrassing himself in front of the team Embarassing himself? What?! He doesn't understand to not interject and in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:16 PM
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WHAT SHE IS LITERALLY CLEANING HIS SHIT STAINS!!!! I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS LEVEL OF STUPIDITY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:43 AM
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Women should start feeling more comfortable shaming men for their poor hygiene We need to be shaming men more full stop. If they hit on you and they are married - shame them. "Is your wife aware you behave like this? Like a disgusting slut? I am happy to inform her?" If they talk over you in a meeting - shame them. 'Are you oblivious to the fact you just spoke over me?" ​ Being kind and understanding gets women no where.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:42 AM
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100% same in Yoga circles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:05 AM
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And the women who are revered as passive compassionate and forever forgiving ( Mother Mary) They have no sharp elements to their personality. They are the extreme yin/feminine. ​ Meanwhile male gods are vengeful and punishing. Who the fuck does that serve?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:05 AM
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As Savannah said in an FDS podcast ​ "Religion is affirmative action for men"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:03 AM
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oh yeah - i was giggling hard myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:03 AM
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PIED = Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction ( had to look it up) ​ WOW. OK. I did NOT know that. That is extremely relevant. This is why scrotes are so angry - even Viagra can't help them with porn damaged peens. Mindblown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:08 AM
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How old was he? ANd does he need to 'activate' it before sex? Why did he prefer that to viagra - did he explain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:58 PM
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It's interesting - because the show depicted Alex having sexy thoughts about him. She did see him as a potential consort - but she pushed those thoughts away because she didn't have the headspace for them. The fact he just threw her away so easily because his ego was so jarred was sooo telling about his true character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:58 PM
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vomit! And they prefer this to Viagra? I guess viagra would lose efficacy after a while. Edit: can't believe science devotes resources to this shit - and women don't yet have a safe contraceptive ugh patriarchy needs to die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:14 PM
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Wow your dad was amazing! I am sorry for your loss. But what an incredible way to raise a daughter <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:15 PM
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This - we had a case in my country of a girl being murdered walking home. He basically strangled her because he couldn't get it up. He was trying to live out a porn fantasy but his dick was already broken. He told his dad after the event "It wasn't as good as I thought it was going to be". Yeah - he killed a woman and THAT was his mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:10 PM
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there's this pump they can implant - his friends in their 40s all have it! Say what now? Men are out there with penis pump implants?! ​ I can't.... i can't...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:08 PM
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Of course stone age women hunted. They didn't lay in a cave like a damsel in distress like men would like us to believe 🙄😒 Right?! And I have no science behind this but I assume they would have hunted together as women. Strategic and intuitive. Joining the male hunting team would leave you susceptible to rape inordinate amount of time wasting and lost opportunities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:51 PM
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From the article: ​ Snell testified that Parnell once choked her on a couch to the point that she had to bite him to break free, The Inquirer reported. She said his abusive behavior started before their marriage in 2010 and became worse in 2018, the year they separated. ​ According to The Inquirer, she testified that Parnell called her a "whore" and a "piece of s---" while pinning her down. She testified that in 2008, when she was pregnant with their first child, Parnell briefly forced her out o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:26 PM
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When he "stumbles upon" the women on Instagram. Translation from scrotese "When I actively look up and stalk women on Instagram" Men use the internet for 2 reasons To stalk/spy on women on social media Porn Dude - there is sooo much content that isn't booty chicks on Instagram. Get a hobby! There are so many niche interests on Instagram - but he just StUmBLeS UpOn the "duck face" booty chicks. Men literally tell on themselves all the time ​ And what the fuck? Women were attracted to men who coul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:19 PM
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" Enjoy our relationship with them - less than them" Tell it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:15 PM
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The insidious thing is that we are wrong no matter what we do. LOUDER The insidious thing is that we are wrong no matter what we do. If we are engaged and trusting. "OH MY GOD SO NAIVE AND CLUELESS" If we are curt and protective. "OH MY GOD SUCH A BITCH/SNOB"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:07 PM
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Dr. Airin Avery, From her Insta ​ How to slay in a male dominated field ———————————————————————— My experience being the only girl in the weight room and in quantum mechanics class. ———————————————————————— I’ve been in science for 8 years and competitive bodybuilding for 6 years now. Under representation, harassment, gender discrimination, yeah, these are all things I’ve experienced more times than I can count unfortunately. It’s 2021 and these things sadly still exist. ————————————————————————…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:07 PM
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Men are disgusting sl*ts who are governed by animal instincts. Louder ​ Men are disgusting sl*ts who are governed by animal instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:46 AM
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Y'all we are in the black pits of hell. And this is to be expected - we are on the down swing of 'female liberation' where our emancipation is now being used as a weapon against us. "You want freedom huh - well ThAT mEaNS YoU HaVe SeX CASUaLLy LIkE MeN " Lib Fem Women: I'll show you how liberated I am!! <sucks 3 dicks on Only Fans> The good news is it will normalise. It has to calibrate. That is how nature works. I don't know when it will swing back to normality - perhaps another 20 years. But r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:58 PM
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Yep. In our DNA we know - just know - that showing fear or pain excites and emboldens them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:31 PM
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This guy is a predator Side note. We need to abandon the word predator. Predators are apex and sophisticated and took millions of years to dominate their domain. ​ These men are vultures. Vultures feast and prey on vulnerable species. Little wounded hippo - or in a human context - women who are in a precarious situation. Like this fountain. The potential for harm existed - and he wanted to scavenge on this potentiality. ​ Even sexual 'predators;. They are sexual 'vultures'. Preying on the weak o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:29 PM
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Yassss - this is the type of collective action we need to see more of. Men are ungrateful. Full stop. We need to support other women and lift them up. Why? It benefits everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:28 AM
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Obsessed with blondes, btw- so you can see a lot of Italian men in Oktoberfest hunting for their fetish. ​ Always wanted to ask - why are they obsessed with blondes ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:24 AM
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Not just homeless men with mental issues - but I have had issues with immigrant men in Europe who have no purpose - who just loiter and menace. I was chased by one outside a busy shopping centre as I was walking back to my uber. My male co-worker was waiting for me at the car. He saw the interaction - the man talking to me --> me politely moving on --> me walking faster ---> the man pursuing --> man running behind me ​ And my male co-worker just watched and did nothing. Fucking loser. And he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:21 AM
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100% and as awful as jail is - at least they have a 'community' a 'brothership' and 3 meals a day - not to mention a roof over their head. So really, acting like an animal has no consequence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:16 AM
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Wow - good for her. Moving on and creating beautiful art! She looks fantastic! She is literally in a different dimension to him now. She is elevated above!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:50 PM
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Men see women as weak. They are emotional vampires - if there is an opportunity to feel more important and powerful - even for a brief interaction - they will do it for a fix. They are ridiculous creatures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:11 PM
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r eyebleach r AnimalsBeingConfused r animalsbeingderps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 08:52 PM
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It is difficult to watch a lot of modern TV and films after being pink pilled FDS style. Male writers/producers/directors enable so much violence and abuse against women's bodies. This website is a database where you can search TV programs/films before you watch them to see if their is any triggering content. So you can decide if you want to watch it - before getting half way through and having to deal with a random r@pe scene or a woman being sl@pped around. https://www.unconsentingmedia.org/ ​…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:38 AM
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Love your username btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:02 PM
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Hi OP! I was the one who did the original post about scrotes who insult women vs what they look like. I am delighted I inspired you! Also love how you posted the pretty kitty's at the end. Eyebleach most definitely needed! ​ Here is the original post - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qcq835/the\_insults\_men\_make\_about\_womens\_bodies\_and\_what/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:21 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:14 PM
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Wow. It really pains me when you hear what happened to Karen Mulder in the 90s. She went on a TV show in The Netherlands and talked about being r@ped by many men - and then she was cut from the show, deemed crazy and she had a mental breakdown. She lives a very low key life now. I shudder to think what the Linda Evangelista's and Claudia Schiffers had to endure or that level of fame. I met Linda once and it seemed she was glassed out on xanax. We all know Naomi Campbell was passed around to rich…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:45 AM
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Now a lot of models make little more than porn performers, the industry avoids creating supermodels because they get mouthy and cost too much. Yikes! That is an insight I have never heard before! Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:42 AM
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If people call me a 'Karen' a politely say. "No - my name is Jessica'. Then they say "Yeah BUT YoU ArE A KaReN" and I just say to them again - as if they are a bit thick " My name is Jessica - why are you calling me Karen". Look confused ... they the have to explain the what "Karen" means. Which means they end up looking stupid. When they are done explaning... you just say "Sooo you are trying to insult me? I don't get it" And they just loop. It's funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:31 AM
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This is Yassmin Abdel-Magied she is originally from Sudan but now lives in Australia. She has an engineering degree, so is an educated woman with a media profile She uses the practice of Taqiya to consistently gaslight Australian people about how the Islamic world treats women. I can't make sense of her. "Islam is the most feminist religion" https://youtu.be/Xn6WKOJDzuI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:14 PM
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OP - what is your opinion of Aayan Hirsi Ali and her work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:09 PM
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This is a fascinating insight. So Arabs are considered to be the 'superior' Muslim in the Muslim world. This explains alot of arrogant and obnoxious behaviour from their men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:07 PM
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Really well portrayed. Great device. The bruises of emotional abuse can't be seen. If they were - I would literally be black and blue with every limb broken clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:28 AM
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lol at your headband bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:27 AM
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Can confirm. My mother always tells me how her Mother in Law ( My fathers mother) was so keen to marry off my Dad. My mum was the beauty queen virgin. My dad was the good looking drunkard. His mother knew - just knew - he was trash and tried to rush the marriage along. Mum fell pregnant on her honeymoon. And as soon as she had her first baby, was pregnant within months. Marriage and baby trapping is real. Other women push their scrote sons onto idealistic women who believe the marriage fantasy. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 01:09 AM
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No hate on gamers. We all have our interests Note how she is looking adoringly at him offering him tea, perhaps to sip with her and have a nice conversation. Sit on the porch - look at the view... yet he is transfixed on the game barely noticing her existence. His mouth is open totally absorbed in the game. He doesn't even clock that she exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:59 PM
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"Golddiggers" represent anxieties about the powerless male. If women have money/and or resources, she can leave🤷. Louder "Golddiggers" represent anxieties about the powerless male. If women have money/and or resources, she can leave🤷.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 07:10 AM
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Trailer for Will Ferrell version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AY5SrKf_2ic ​ Force Majeure trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjjzVbTBF8o ​ ​ Wow - Will Ferrell literally ripped off the French version almost shot for shot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:05 PM
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George from Seinfeld perfectly demonstrates how men act in emergencies/danger Push everyone out of the way - especially weak and elderly Claim the situation was more epic than it actually was so he comes off as a poor victim This particular clip is hilarious and oh so true about male nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:26 AM
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With a spark of optimism, I hope the degenerates/assholes just won't function in daily life or opt out of society as their kind of resistance, A utopian thought unfortunately. They will just galvanise and become even more degenerate and hostile. From the article: The Rise of Male Supremacist Groups How age-old misogyny morphed into an explicit ideology of hate When Marc Lépine murdered 14 women at Montreal’s École Polytechnique in 1989, he claimed that he was “fighting feminism.” When Anders Bre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:44 PM
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Check out youtube compilations of sex-trafficking tiktoks. Women are being snatched from shopping centre car parks, kept for a week, and a gang of men use her, or 1 man pimps her out to satisfy 50 local rapists and make a buck. What in tarnation?!? ​ Here they are on YouTube. This is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:31 PM
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Shaun realised he’s a danger to his child and backs off. Well noted and good point! Very unlike a controlling toxic person to acquiesce so quickly. Part of me thought that he had some level of self awareness around his alcoholism... but my cynical part was he just wanted to dip out of childcare. How convenient for him and just continue to comfortably spiral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:51 AM
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I love these perspectives from The Coffey Salon on Twitter. She also has a rad newsletter which are searing insights into the power of fierce female ambition and radical self interest to build the life you want and deserve. Check her out - link on her twitter bio
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:30 PM
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but all that's in the paaaaast" A narcs favourite saying. I like to hit them with "Your past behaviour is a record of a pattern. Not a one off incident- a pattern. " A pattern is clear evidence of your attitude to xyz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:06 AM
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but her rage is that society lied to her, she played by the rules and then got screwed. My mother has this same rage after my dad left her penniless and broken after being the glittering mother and wife for over 30 years. She turned her rage inward and it manifested as dementia. I am watching her die slowly and it's literally hell on earth to watch what my father did to her. And how she is powerless against his bullshit. The family still thinks my dad was a 'great guy' Betty manifested her pain …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:19 AM
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Women are responsible for what men do Women saying No to men is a hate crime Women advocating for themselves are exclusionary and selfish Women's opinion are violence against men - therefore violence against women is justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:25 AM
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This ugly scrote looks like a foot disease. He is also obsessed with Gangster shit and idolises abusive and deranged men in movies like Scarface. Actually he is OBSESSED with Tony Montana all his Youtube vids are devoted to him doing shit, hammy impressions He is a narcissist - and an obvious one. https://www.youtube.com/c/JinnKid ​ His obsession with twisted and demented characters obviously spurred him on to think he was righteous when he executed Ana in the head at point blank range. The dege…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:17 AM
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Pinterest is awesome! It's great if you are trying to consolidate the look and feel of a creative idea. It's about beauty and ideas and inspiration. Not football, beer porn or gaming. Therefore it is devalued in male eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:46 PM
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ahahah YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:06 AM
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As a psychologist, Off topic but curious to know - is there really a narcissism epidemic out there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:58 AM
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I am sorry but this is the most savage shit I have ever heard. Someone make this dude an honorary FDS member "Oh I've seen that on Pinterest" casually with a smile. Look directly at him, cock your head to the left - blink three times. His brain will short circuit. This is what I live for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:08 AM
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Thanks -appreciate the share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 07:38 AM
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I am not literate in the world of Blackstone. What is Blackstone and why is it bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:18 PM
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Re: Good billionaire. JK Rowling was a billionaire - but then actively renounced that status when she gave away millions to charity. ​ --- One of the world's wealthiest women, J.K Rowling, has given so much money to charity she can no longer claim billionaire status. The Harry Potter author has fallen down the Forbes rich list because of her charitable giving, the business magazine said. Forbes, which has produced an annual list of billionaires for the past 25 years, said Rowling's philanthropic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:44 AM
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It’s because the reason musk and be part have them ability to fund private space travel is by exploiting their workers. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:41 AM
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Yeah I get it . Tech advancement good. Generally men when they earns billions of dollars they spend it on dumb shit. Like stupid sports cars, drugs, hookers. Just generalised things that make the world a shittier place. Things that don't enhance and empower other people. Just things that enhance their ego. Perhaps I was too hasty in my comment. These women who received the 10K can now have a financial burden released - or they now have the capital to start their own enterprise. These women were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:26 AM
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Isn't it funny how it just devolved into straight up anger. Then they put on the pity show " I am but a frail old man" Really asshole? Really? Well I was just a young girl who had to tolerate your abusive misogyny . I was vulnerable kid but you spewed all your vitriol onto me and I had to absorb it and translate it into self loathing --> drug addiction --> abusive boyfriends If something were to happen to him now, I'm the only person whom he believes might be willing to take care of him and defi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:11 AM
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Spanks owner sells her company for 1 billion dollars. Treats her staff with incredible gifts to thank them for supporting her vision. She bought them all 2 x First Class tickets to anywhere in the world plus 10K. Note her daughter watching this spectacle. Learning how to do business with integrity from a young age. Heartwarming. Also - seeing all the employed burst into tears that their lives just changed for the better. Women doing capitalism well. Yes, you can do capitalism and not be a selfis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:02 AM
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Enjoy - she really tells it like it is. ​ Edit: An example ( she is hilarious AF) ​ He’s Back After ‘Ending It’ with OWOctober 21, 2021 by Chump Lady Dear Chump Lady, I just heard from my mother that my soon-to-be-ex reached out to her pleading after I had made it clear I was done talking to him last week. All the things I had prayed to hear 5 months ago after D-Day. He ended it with her. He admitted what a low life coward he was. He apologized to my parents for putting them through this. He tol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:02 AM
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Chump Lady https://www.chumplady.com/ ​ Awesome advice columnist who doles out FDS style advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:52 PM
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Growing up, my mom was a sahm and he treated her so badly. He would regularly tell her that she was stupid, fat, useless, and that she didn’t “have a pot to piss in” That sounds exactly like my dad. He died ten years ago from a horrific cancer ( didn't shed a tear) but I often wonder... As you get older - and your dad gets older - how does the relationship change now that you can see straight his bullshit? As he become older and more frail - does his manipulation change? Is he less of an asshole…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:48 PM
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ngl - i really do shapeshift into a ( proverbial) dragon when men pull or say some bullshit on me. I can pinpoint their weakness and go straight for the jugular. I enjoy walking away as they seethe in the rubble of their existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:29 PM
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Rule of Misogyny number 8 + 9 Men are whatever men say they are. Women are whatever men say they are Men always know the 'real reasons' for everything women do and say. ​ Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/itw10q/rules\_of\_misogyny\_in\_case\_you\_forgot\_or\_didnt/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:22 PM
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ehhh I am a blonde with big boobs. Can't help that. It reads 'dumb' and I am never taken seriously. Especially in work environments. Men are so porn fried they think BIG BOOBS SMALL BRAIN But thanks for the lovely words x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:43 PM
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LMAO that video is awesome. What is unique about it - is it was made before social media.... as it keeps referring to everyones' 'blog'. Soft disclosure - I was part of that fringe, cool, vintage, new age, electro scene 10 years ago too! LMAO so accurate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:40 PM
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Maybe increased hormones pesticides in food fucking with their hormones? I also heard that excessive masturbation ( porn use) leads to the release of prolactin with causes manboobs. So I think porn is definitely fucking with their hormones. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:58 AM
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"My sacred peen will merge with your sacred yoni and together we will achieve universal portal of peace. Can I spill my sacred seed onto your face. It represents rebirth"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:53 AM
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Thanks for this post. That was amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:53 AM
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Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:47 AM
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Hair is everything. Thick gorgeous hair with a gentle wave. Lord have mercy. ​ Adam Driver and his thick jet black hair, combined with his Count Dracula vibe. Yup! ​ Jason Momoa and his wild man, will choke a bear with his hands to make sure you eat tonight vibe. Yup! ​ I am showing my age - but even hot long haired dudes make me grin stupidly. Eddie Vedder in the nineties with his pure shamanic energy on stage, his thick brown hair trailing him like a warrior on a mission. Yes please. Come hith…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:00 AM
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Long beards can go straight to the bin. Long beards have a creepy maths teacher vibe Long beards have a weirdo I am a yoga teacher vibe but will most likely creep on you if you come to my retreat in Bali - then feed you some bullshit about how your aura needs healing with his sacred peen. Long beards are worn exclusively by balding hipster men who want to give off a 'lumberjack in the wildnerness vibe' even though he only drinks craft beer and is precious about what constitutes synthwave vs elec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:57 AM
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ahaha I am glad it gave you a strong experience!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:46 AM
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Professor Maryanne Fisher who co-authored the study Here is a pic of Professor Maryanne Fisher. She's gorgeous, based and uses science to troll/trigger men Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:49 AM
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Hey scrotes in the manosphere... It's Science. Deal with it. Die Mad ​ ​ ​ The bald truth: Ladies do prefer a chap with hair - as white men with a receding hairline are judged to be less successful by the fairer sex In a psychological study from St Mary's University in Halifax, Canada, 120 people were shown pictures of men with or without hair They were then asked to rate their personalities and traits Bald white men were predicted to be less successful, friendly and enthusiastic in life compare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:47 AM
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Sugarcoated Sisters - they are in Insta and are always producing hilarious content. This one is about dudes who use the ummmm toilet in front of you. Yeah - I am shocked this is such standard scrote behaviour that women make internet content about it https://www.instagram.com/p/CUsdZTqAQI1/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:32 AM
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Not ever having been a cool/pretty girl, this is like watching aliens from another planet. Word. I would hang out with pretty/ cool girls and I couldn't understand their world. Their constant bitchiness, their constant micro aggression toward each other. Ugh Just be fucking kind. Stop judging. So much toxic shit. They often don't realise they are doing it - it is so ingrained in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:17 AM
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Yessss great post. We must be cautious of women who are still pandering to the patriarchy are soul destroying. Especially when in your mind you consider them high value and they turn out to be handmaidens... it really gives you whiplash. I accept these women - and have them in my life but not as solid friends. I have them there - and perhaps I am selfish - to be a soft place to land when they do wake up from their continued pursuit of being with and pandering to men or thinking about themselves …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:11 AM
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played to the misogyist peanut gallery Thank you for the levity in this serious situation i cackled at that visual. Fat humanoid peanuts. Sitting in a row. All with big fat peanut bellies, their ruddy peanut faces and 3 skewiff hairs on their heads, all manspreading. Little clouds of stench rising from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:41 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate that compliment. No one has every told me that <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:36 AM
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So many great observations. Great analyses. Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:31 AM
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I know. He was 100% using a computer thinking " hehe I will show who is the Alpha Male" and the subordinates were like "Hehe I'll show him I am clever... but not as clever as him and deliberately lose so he doesn't fire my ass" Men are so dumb and so transparent. Men really need these weird rituals to confirm themselves as the 'Big Boss Guy'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:26 AM
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“Brianna” which just set off alarm bells that he’s probably misogynistic and verbally abusive. Yep. I noted that too. He said he uses the feminine when referring to all of Gabby's boyfriends. Joe Petito's hyper toxic masculinity may be the reason Brian brought Gabby to Florida to live with him in his parents shitty little house. You can tell that Joe was always giving Brian shit when Brian was around. And Brian would have laughed it off like Marty McFly in Back to the Future. Weird dynamic huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:16 PM
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Wear lots of black - don't smile. Blank them when they look at you and they attempt a smile to engage you. Look 'through' them. It chills them to the bone. Also - do some aura work. I like to put black wolves in my aura. ( That might not be your thing though) I am not goth in any way. I am blonde and 'dumb' looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:12 PM
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No surprises here. I had a boss who was into chess and he would challenge all his subordinates to chess ( not me - I have boobs, I am not smart, just a woman) Every guy in the office did this shit - pulled up a program and used computer plays... but then would always make the 'wrong move' and let the boss win. Ugh men are so dumb and predictable their silly little rituals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:54 PM
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Died in a dirty swamp like a cowardly loser. As another commenter said, at least they saved the Petitos a long drawn out trial and with awful details rehashed over and over again.It's over. He's dead. Like he deserves to be. Netflix will release a documentary within the next 6 months with all the gory details and unseen footage and FBI info. This is far from over. Melonhead's parents will be scapegoated. And so they fucking should be. The collective rage about Gabby's death will be projected ont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:52 AM
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Pretty sure Gabby started to wake up to his bullshit. The female cop at the traffic stop told Gabby she was in a toxic situation. It was the only woman who gave her a heads up. I think Gabby was talking about the toxicity. Was realising it was all bullshit. Was tired of being scared. Like all murdered women in abusive relationships, she started to rise for herself, started to take her power back. She told him that she was done with his shit. That they should break up. She was starting to realise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:45 AM
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Ah yes. Male depravity, To be totally expected. No surprises here. If I was you - I would have whipped out your phone - recorded him. Upload it to a cloud so its safe - then take some screenshot and be like "Bro... how much is it worth to you that your wife doesn't find out about this" smile sweetly and wait. ​ What is he going to do - go apeshit on you on a plane? Where security can be called? Your word against a rageful man in the air.... What is he going to say? " She was recording me hire ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:46 AM
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Yep. Some awesome commentary on this post https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qacvsv/maid\_on\_netflix\_breakdown\_and\_analyses\_of\_key/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:56 AM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:17 AM
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ngl my kink is men being intimidated by me and staying the fuck away. I even enjoy seeing them stiffen up around me and attempt chit chat to minimise their anxiety - to which i just pretend i don't even hear the bullshit pleasantries dribbling out of their mouths. I proceed to ignore them and this makes them cower. It's fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:16 AM
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There's also intimate partner trafficking , What fresh hell is this? Men are now trafficking their partners?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:30 PM
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These men are completely irrelevant to women as a group. Of course they think their thoughts and opinions should matter to us, so they make these pathetic comments online hoping that someone out there would care just a little bit. Reddit in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:58 PM
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Men ain't shit. We gotta remember that. Remember - the voices and comments on reddit look like these asshats. Have these faces in your mind everytime you read their asinine commentary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:41 PM
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They can't help themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:33 PM
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Nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:33 PM
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It's almost as if they want us to rage - go to their profile and engage them. Such losers doing it for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:13 PM
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Puppy was a much needed community service lol Her name is Ruby - she is a cavoodle and lives in Melbourne, Australia. Her insta https://www.instagram.com/msrubyred2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:12 PM
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Hi - that is interesting there is a rise in women being trafficked. What is the profile of the taken women - do they continue to be vulnerable women from lower socio economic statuses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:38 AM
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Hi all, Here is a twitter thread about it with first hand testimonials https://twitter.com/lucymirandaward/status/1450495088082227204 ​ Often - the women being stuck with needles are not being assaulted. Some are of course. But sometimes - they are not. Scrotes just wanna fuck with women for fun. Stick something in them ANYTHING - ​ This is what porn has led to. Men with zero social skills who can't interact with women - so they find ways to interact with them that causes harm just for lulz. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:27 AM
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Yes he was a generic idiot. Why do you think men loved his character so much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:25 AM
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Thanks! Also found the audiobook for free ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iktj03X16Vg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:37 AM
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“Being the narcissists nightmare” Is this the book? Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself - ​ https://www.amazon.com.au/Becoming-Narcissists-Nightmare-Narcissist-Supplying-ebook/dp/B01B01O3PA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:19 AM
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(Alex mothering her own mother) set her up to see herself as Sean’s caretaker. This is a really good point. Awesome observation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:25 PM
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Yep - he was hiding behind his new found religion as well. You could sense his new wife also felt a little bit trapped. She was always so smiley-smiley in a desperate way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:23 PM
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He is not entitled to spend time with me on his own terms. Louder He is not entitled to spend time with me on his own terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:27 PM
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.i reached out to a stranger online a woman and she helped me escape That's an amazing story. Sisterhood for the win. I am glad you are safe now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:31 AM
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Proud? That she was achieving amazing things? No - mens egos are too fragile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:00 AM
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managed to find the strength not to give up was amazing. She had so much strength. I remember being in a similar situation ( minus the child though) in a state far away from family ( not that they were supportive in any way) and I just broke down so many times. Just sobbing. You try so hard - yet you get nowhere. Sometimes I would sit catatonic in a chair for hours. Unable to move. Unable to speak. Just crushed and broken. That scene where we see Alex at the bottom of a dark hole. That is exactl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:38 AM
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I am sorry you experienced that. And because a man was a creep - you get fired. You get punished. It is so unfair. I always find it fascinating how wealthy privileged women treat other women who they perceive to be beneath them They dehumanise them. They treat them like a sub human 'other'. They don't recognise their humanity. We had a cleaning lady in our house growing up. She was an awesome Portuguese lady called Maria. She worked hard and my mom never provided her with lunch. I would always g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:36 AM
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Also - don't date until you are mentally well. Be in the best headspace. Be emotionally sober - and have worked through key traumas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:40 AM
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Psychological and emotional abuse has never been brought to the surface before. It is only coming to light in past few years -with people like Dr Ramani on Youtube exploring toxic emotional abusive behaviours, and shows like this actively depicting them. Another reason why we need more female writers - so we can explore the female experience and perspective as opposed to the HURR DUR I SHOOT BAD GUYS AND FUCK WOMEN I AM THE WINNER OF THE MOVIEE DURRR <James Bond is the classy version but any dum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:28 AM
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I found it absolutely harrowing as I’ve never seen something that so closely depicted what my life used to be like. I am glad you found a way out alive x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:01 AM
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Obligatory: ( I know this book gets mentioned constantly on FDS - but in case we have newbies) Why Does He Do That - by Lundy Bancroft. ( free download here) goes into all these abuse tactics. Take care out there everyone x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:00 AM
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Yes - these are Domestic Violence shelters. But they are woefully understaffed and usually houses with the barest of facilities. Often women share rooms. They are also under funded so often there may not be space for a woman and her children. Also - many women who come from upper middle class backgrounds don't feel comfortable taking their children there. In their mind - it is too rundown - and full of women who are suffering addiction issues ( often alcohol). Their pride will not permit them to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:57 AM
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It’s definitely what keeps victims around to see a glimpse of the man they fell in love with. Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:54 AM
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It really show her range and talent as an actress. Her whole life she played sweet southern calm nice 'dream girl' women. Welp - she leaves all that behind. Another reminder that being an older woman can free you. She would never have been given that role in her 30s and 40s. I am sure she wanted to play a complex character - but she 'studios' or 'powers that be' preferred she stay pretty and and sweet. Being 'crazy and wild' is off brand for her. I really enjoyed her acting in this role - she re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:39 AM
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Double this. I had to take many breaks watching it. That scene where she sinks into the couch. Wow - you are right so good. It's as if all her hard work was for nothing. She is back to being penniless and utterly dependant on Sean. All that struggle amounted to nothing ... ​ Heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:35 AM
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It is so heartbreaking on so many levels. And then there are women who are migrants. You can't access social support services. They are entirely dependant on their scrote partner. Their lives are lost. They are the walking dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:49 AM
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It's important to me - because many women on this sub come from comfortable situations. That if they need to flee a scrote - they always have a semi-safe parental/family structure to fall back on. Also - you can see how easily it is for abused women to fall into drugs or be trafficked into prostitution because how how vulnerable they are. They simply don't have any light at the end of their tunnel so yeah - getting high seems like the right things to do - blow off some steam. Feel better instead…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:41 AM
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And I also appreciate that they occasionally showed positive moments with Sean — he stood up for her and made her feel supported when she was vulnerable and upset. Ehh. I think that he did that to manipulate her into trusting him again. Then he pulls the bullshit with yelling at her because she got the scholarship - becoming violent again. Also how he takes the car Nate lent her and gives it back to Nate. He cut her off from her life. I think those positive moments were just a trick - a manipula…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:39 AM
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Yeah, it's a hard watch because it is so confronting. I had to walk away from it a few times because it was so triggering. Always take care of yourself first. I eventually watched it because I realised it validated experiences I had - and it made me feel less alone. The celebration of womens experience being portrayed in such a mainstream series. The fact these conversations are now being had about the reality of domestic violence in all its forms. Also the mentally ill mother. How she is never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:36 AM
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It is worth it. Firstly as a curio. Andie MacDowell ( Groundhog Day. Four Weddings and a Funeral) plays the manic narcissistic mother. A total break from her normally sweet and deferring characters she always plays in every movie. So she is totally playing against her type. Also the lead in the series, Alex is Margaret Qualley - is Andie MacDowells real life daughter. So the mother and daughter in the series are - real life mother and daughter. Also - the series is based on a true story. The cre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:11 AM
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Hey! Just saw your comment. Don't worry about not being sexually experienced. There really is no such things as being 'sexually experienced'. There are women who have had oodles of partners yet have no idea about the erotic or pleasure. Sexual energy is a very personal thing you share with someone at your discretion. YOu are always the one who has the power. Glad you are saving this post to give you strength. Take care x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:11 PM
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SS: Posting this to not only pay tribute to the extraordinary Agnes Tirop - but to remind you that if you are a woman who is determined on achieving her goals and ambitions - you will receive resistance from men. In the case of wonderful Agnes here - she lost her life. May she rest in absolute peace. This is a sad reality about being in relationships with men. Many will try and sabotage and control you because your focus is 100% on realising your goals. Strategy: Be mindful of men who 'neg' you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:11 AM
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25 years old and an Olympic athlete. She was an extraordinary woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:41 AM
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I just don't see the value in meaningless sex - to me, any animal can do that - it's hardly an achievement. Learning, studying, writing are all things other animals can't do and this sets us apart. Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:39 AM
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Amen. I'm quickly dismissed as a 'man-hater' by women because they are so eager to believe the best in men Ding Ding Ding! And often with women who have had bad experiences with men. It benefits us to assume the worst in men - rather than the best. Simple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:07 AM
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I've seen mods follow banned members into other subs then pin posts here criticising them for complaining elsewhere. Say what now? Can you link to these posts. I need to see this... Also - what subs do banned members flow too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:12 PM
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Yeah - all the trash men memes really do affect my psyche too. The awesome posts are few and far between - the really smart, community minded, female oriented posts, with women firing off awesome commentary and great insights.... I see them once every two weeks....mayyybe ? We should be seeing them a few times a week. Lamenting about scrotes.... I get it - there is no where else we can let off steam or play "show and tell" about male depravity. So part of me understands why they are needed.... t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:10 PM
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Biden is also a mess. Trump is a mess. The whole darn system is a mess ​ Don't forget, Biden allows individuals with male genitalia into the same bathrooms/safe spaces as women is deeply problematic as we saw in the Wi Spa incident. That is all democratic/left reform and legislation. Both sides of the political spectrum are deeply problematic. So where does this leave women? That should have been the topic of the pod. Edit: If you are a seasoned FDSer and have come full circle to realise that me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:33 PM
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These are good points. We critique the fuck outta the patriarchy here Yet republicans + conservatives are the patriarchy incarnate. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:28 PM
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biblical scrote scriptures LAWL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:21 PM
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People < men > don't understand the importance of small talk. It allows you to understand that persons state of mind, how engaged they are Acts as a jump off point for further conversation "My day was great! Just had an amazing workout - I am going to treat myself to some sushi" < and conversation flows from that> It's a way to get a feel for a person and where they are at. Sorry for the crude analogy - but it is like when dog sniff each others butts when they meet. They are sizing up the other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:19 PM
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Men truly have no idea about the added stress of being a woman in spaces that they dominate. They know. They know what they are doing is hurtful and abusive. But they don't care. Workplaces are mini patriarchies and all the men simp for their leader. If that means scoring bro points by humiliating a woman - they will do it. If it inches them up the dominance hierarchy - they will absolutely do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:12 PM
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Yikes - I have never been downvoted so heavily in this sub - and even your comment was heavily downvoted. ​ What on earth is going on?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:07 PM
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Yep same politically homeless. Whatever happens in the world outside me is IMO something I have zero control over. There are forces bigger than us playing both sides of the political left vs right. Left / Right is an illusion.The real God is money. Money is power - nothing usurps that. ( In the external world 'out there'.) Personally - I subscribe to my own power and my own values but I need to exist within the outside forces. Kind like earth has gotta exist in the solar system. The Sun is ruled…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:02 AM
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She was married to an epic scrote who was a conman and broke up with him in 2008 https://www.thecut.com/2018/06/remember-the-time-anne-hathaway-dated-a-con-man.html Bridewars came out in 2009 - so - yep - you are right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:48 AM
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Every time a man raises his voice at work in an expression of dominance, I love saying "Don't be so emotional". Say it plainly. Matter of fact. Neutral. It freaks them out - and then they blow up more and be like "Whoah.. I am concerned about your mental health buddy - let's chat with the supervisor to see what we can do to help you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:00 AM
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Yep - you nailed it. The Gabby Petito case is a prime example. May she rest in beautiful peace. The positive about that horrific situation is that she has demonstrated the pure evils of coercive control. In plain site. So we can all see it - recognise in and learn more about situations like this so we can actively prevent them. Women don't randomly lash out. It is a slow burn of abusive behaviours, tiny little paper cuts that happen over and over again. it does show how men will ignore your word…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:58 AM
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I know! Man saves elderly woman from literal abuser - a man who was hell bent on killing an 88 year old woman - and gets fined. Make it make sense?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:49 AM
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With Anne freaking Hathaway signed on to play this woman, who finds out after the appointment that the scumbag is a pharmecutical rep...then DATES HIM?! Why tf is this even a movie?! I know WTF?! That behaviour is so sleazy and inappropriate. And her character... ugh - she is pure lib fem pick me. She initially comes across as savvy about scrote behaviour - but that is just used to set her up as 'different from the other girls' then she proceeds to have a wild sexual relationship with him - and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:52 PM
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I saw that on Public Freakout. HORRIFIC. That poor lady was simply walking in the park and she was so fragile and vulnerable. That man was an animal. It's easy to forget that men are one brain thought away from going completely animalistic and murderous. Patriarchy works so hard to try and make us forget that. ​ Edit: Here is the link just search below. Trigger warning - violence. The old lady ( 88 years old) is being beaten up by a literal fucking demon - and a man comes along and kicks him in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:48 PM
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Wanna see something scary - this man was loitering outside this womans apartment - she sensed she was following her inside - and then he ran and tried to barge in her door. This is a 50yo woman y'all. The idea that you hit a certain age and male depravity leaves you alone is a myth. We have to be vigilant our entire fucking lives. Just thinking about this exhausts me. She narrowly escaped. https://twitter.com/ABC7NY/status/1445770247416410128
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:24 PM
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He pretends not to know my name and makes a thing out of it by calling me ‘miss’. Yep. They do this to a get a reaction out of you. So you huff in mild but justified frustration- roll your eyes and say - my name is Caroline. It is purely to get you talking and engaged. The first 5 seconds of this trailer ( Jake Gyllenhall + Ann Hathaway) from the movie Love and Other Drugs explains this phenom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:18 PM
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Pretty much! And that he doesn't care that women are being stalked, harassed, victimised and murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:31 AM
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Even our political leaders give zero fucks about our safety and lives... Boris Johnson has ruled out prosecuting misogyny as a hate crime, arguing it would overload the justice system and make the fight against rape and domestic violence harder. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/boris-johnson-women-violence-police-crime-b1932431.html?utm_source=reddit.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:59 AM
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"Boris Johnson has ruled out prosecuting misogyny as a hate crime, arguing it would overload the justice system and make the fight against rape and domestic violence harder." ​ Wish I was making this up - but here is the article ​ https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/boris-johnson-women-violence-police-crime-b1932431.html?utm\_source=reddit.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:58 AM
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WOMAN YOU MUST ASSUME MY IDENTITY OR I WILL ABANDON THIS UNION BECAUSE MY FRAGILE EGO MUST STAY IN CONTROL AT ALL TIMES How rational, Jordan. How rational. <eyeroll>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:06 AM
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I am really only attracted to one type of guy- tall, lanky, well-dressed, full head of hair. Same here sis. Not sure where you are located in the world - but once Covid allows you to start travelling again - I suggest you hit up northern Italy and also the scandy countries, Scrotes are scrotes no matter where they are on the planet - but at least the men in those locations fulfil the tall, full head of hair and lanky well dressed criteria. It's a starting point. But your pool of hot guys has dra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:43 AM
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Can you write a manifesto please. All your comments are fire Modern Medusa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:22 AM
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What a dickbag. He deliberately put her in a dangerous situation. Kept the stunt department away that day and also..... her face isn't even in the shot! She doesn't need to be doing that stunt AT ALL! You can see her distress by her heavy breathing Do you see him tending to her after the accident? Cool calm and collected. No note of concern on his face. He is patting her like a cat and appears to be talking about the electronics on the car. GRADE A SCROTE PSYCHOPATH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:17 AM
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100% agree. Always be vetting. But I think the above accurately portrays the dynamic you wish to create. If he is an HVM - he will - not be a weird and controlling - still is kind to you when you are having a shitty day - is generous without throwing it in your face - committed to self growth - and in turn the harmony of the relationship - Listens and understands without judgement and jumping to assumptions - Understand your need for alone time - Doesn't roast/neg you for your insecurities. Does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:12 AM
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I know - she is so darn pretty and magical isnt she! She is my favourite inspo on insta! She always puts a smile on my face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:08 AM
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Adorable. Kitties are such fun creatures to share our reality with. They are always full of surprises and wtf moments lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:25 AM
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Yes, pretty kitty's make hearts happy and the world needs more happy hearts. That is Rara - she is on Insta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:19 AM
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Yep - I remember Gail saying that if you don't comply you won't get paid .Then everyone does the "but your being difficult" act. "Why are you holding up everyone? We just want to do this and go home - stop being difficult!!!' Co-incidentally - the same pressure tactics happen to A List actresses. Uma Thurman was pressured by Tarantino to do a stunt that injured her back.( video of incident) These degenerate directors escalate their demands on the actresses and when they baulk... they start pilin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:26 AM
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If my father did this I would never be able to look at him the same way again and would excommunicate him. My dad DID do this to me. It was the moment I realised I didn't love him. He was basically signalling you have more value if you are perceived as my whore instead of my daughter. I originally thought him taking me out to dinner was a cool way for us to hang out and enjoy a nice experience as father/daughter. Nope - he was using my youth and beauty as a way to bolster himself and to ultimate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:51 AM
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Competent teachers with quirky stickers got us all through our childhood, i believe. Maybe we were only blessed by with this teacher once - or maybe she taught another class and we wistfully regarded her in the hallways. Her sensible but fun Mary Jane shoes - her cheery demeanour. Her kindness.. her creativity.. her love for her job and her students These are the women Jordan Peterson snidely overlooks. Women who took their passion for history/textiles/maths/languages/english and turned into the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:12 AM
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The manosphere is wall of men simultaneously pulling their dicks at the idea of men being superior. Jordan Peterson is their unchallenged leader - and the internet/reddit an echo chamber of Jordan Petersons poorly thought our ideas I feel into the Peterson trap at one point. It's easy too - Pro Jordan Peterson rhetoric is EVERYWHERE. But then it's also easy to pick holes in his bullshit once you stand back from the barrage of "Jordan Peterson is my Lord and Saviour and the most intellectual man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:59 PM
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Doing my part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:32 PM
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It is easy to be influenced by him because he is charming, persuasive and a great orator and is quick on his feet in arguments. But his perspective is limited. All the individuals in his private practice are monied and educated. This is the pool he draws from in his knowledge. And that is a shallow pool. Privileged, monied and educated women are NOT an accurate cross section of society. He has systemic biases. Further - he is constantly denouncing feminism and insists a tyrannical patriarchy doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:06 PM
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Just watched it per your recommendation. My takeaway was never confront the narc or tell them you know what they are up too. She lost her life and so did the gentleman he pounded with a rock who fell into the deep pool. That was my key takeaway. Also the acting was odd - i wonder if that was a particular British style ? Lots of restraint and plainly stated lines... but that is just me being technical on performances. But great example of how a narc operates - always shifting and changing their s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:02 PM
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That's why marriage with a (wrong) man is a slow death sentence... Perfectly described my mothers life. For as long as I can remember - I have watched her slowly die. First on the inside - and now physically with dementia. Fuck patriarchy and the lives it has wasted. She was so brilliant and bright and smart - all sacrificed for a deadshit husband and 3 children who don't even care enough about her to give her final years of life dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:20 AM
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Jordan Peterson craps on that the being a mother is the ultimate role of a woman and that, through his private psychological practice, he saw women come through burnt out in their careers and feeling unfulfilled. Therefore - according to Jordan Peterson women pursuing careers is a waste of time - and the only way they can feel connected to the world around them is to become a mother. It is their ultimate duty and a sacrifice worth making <the manosphere nods in agreement> Yes! Yes! Traditional w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:16 AM
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SHe is a lesbian so she basically says that they are all degenerates in mind and in action. She has a very strict professional demeanour and has to create a 'just one of the bros" personas to survive her workday and her patrols so she is not seen as a target to be raped, harassed, humiliated and disrespected. She is shortish with short hair. So she plays the cheeky but smart little brother angle with these dudes." Have a good night did ya boys? That's the way! Good stuff - here is some painkille…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:45 AM
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Hell yeah Laura Mulvey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:37 AM
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Notorious! I have a friend who is a medic in the navy and every time the boys are in a new port. Woweee look out. She says they always come back with 2 or 3 sexually transmitted diseases that she has to treat. She says it's 80% of her job as a navy medic. Looking at their diseased peens and diagnosing their rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:32 AM
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I have a family full of surgeons and their wives are either sweet little women who are delighted that they were 'picked' by a Doctor and are unwaveringly naive and bend to his god complexes Ruthlessly pursued marriage because they wanted to enjoy the status of being a surgeons wife and want to blow up social media with this fact every two seconds Both woman look 10 years older than their age and the you feel for the first type - the sweet type - because you know she is broken on the inside by hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:28 AM
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Yuck and yuck. Sorry you had those experiences. My thoughts on tantra is that it is just being fully present with your partner and heightening your focus on the now to create an almost telephathic union. Can't beleive dudes be like TaNTrA LeTs FuCk LIkE FReAKs JaCKPoT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:10 AM
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This makes a LOT of sense. I am dismayed that every man of every persuasion turns in to a sexual perversion and a predatory manner. I had a dude stalk me around yoga classes. Nothing more annoying than trying to focus on a posture and then you peek him out of the corner of your eye - and lo and behold - he has the predator stare while you are just trying to chill out and zone in. ​ Would you say that the yoga men in the community are generally don't have hallmarks of masculinity and are more fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:07 AM
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What is the source ? Curious to read more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:54 AM
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So men need to start doing the work. Their misogyny dictates that is up to women to fix their problems that are unique to their gender. They are incomplete humans because their fathers were absent or poor role models. Yet they blame the mother. From Pearl Jam's Jeremy. I reference Pearl Jam as it's a classic band loved by millions of men and the lyrics are essentially about male pain. In fact, the entire Pearl Jam catalogue of songs are about men's emotional turmoil around themselves, around eac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:15 AM
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Op you mentioned Yoga instructors Oh I have to add one: Yoga instructors - been there, done that, not going back. Please enlighten me - are they are just faux imposters? Men who want to be around spiritually receptive women and then manipulate them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:34 PM
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Element of Doubt - full movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syx80g7NGms ​ He isolates her, fucks with her mind until she needs medication for depression, makes her out to be mentally ill to their neighbours and friends and finally kills her for her money. I am dealing with this situation in real life with a friend. He has moved into her stunning apartment, lets his friends driver her car, her mental illness has deteriorated to the point that she hasn't left the house in two years. He doesn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:24 PM
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​ LOL and men are always "Ever since "Me Too" we are scared to be working with women for fear of FaLSa ACcUSaTIoNS or our benevolence being MiSInTeRpReTEd" Completely ignoring that men have been abusing women in the work place for their own sexual gain for decades. That it's an extremely common workplace hazard what women who work in retail - to woman who are medical students have to navigate in their daily life. All day - everyday. ​ Name him. Say his name. Who gives a fuck. Tired of tip toeing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:16 PM
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Ukrainian guys are intense and weird on the whole. But when you find a good one - they exist but rare - they are pure shining radiant gold. Good men. Good hearts. Respect women. Hardworking. Kind. Brave. Edit: Obligatory:If you are curious about Eastern European or Balkans scrote archetype here ya go! Dadan from the movie 'Black Cat White Cat" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLNx-w7yBFk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:16 PM
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Excluding Marlo Thomas and Gloria Steinman, resting in power. May they continue to shine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:58 AM
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Excellent point. How to overcome this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:21 AM
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Proves that men have zero selectivity when selecting a mate Proves that men see OLD as a numbers game Proves that men game the system for their selfish ape-brain needs. ​ Breaks my heart that women put some much effort into their OLD profiles. Thoughtfully curated photos, well written bio..... THEY DON'T CARE!!!! MEN DON'T CARE!!!! ​ I argued this on FDS 6 months ago - and one of the mods was like "No. Some women still prefer using OLD. Comment deleted" I was like OK. But now - I glad we are all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:58 AM
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100% this. My beauty is something that I dial up - or down at my whim and pleasure. I reserve the right to be utterly invisible and also reserve the right to glam out on the occasions I choose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:26 AM
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100% I don't want no damn man in my house! Even when I have plumbers come to my house there is always this weird glee they have being alone with me in my space.... it's odd. I always make sure I am make up less and as sloppily dressed as possible. ​ When they walk through my bedroom to my bathroom they are always looking at my stuff, my things - as if they are trying to gather my data points on my sex life/personality/styling features. Ugh. I wish there was a female only service of tradespersons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:21 AM
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This thread is so awesome. Seeing the FDS community flutter in delight is my jam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:08 AM
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Protip. The introverted shy ones. When I say 'introverted shy' I don't mean loser gamer dude with no social skills. I means the guy who works at the garden shop. The dude at the library. The european cinema aficionado ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:06 AM
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Praise the lawd for sweet, well raised handsome young men. If I need male company - this is the only demographic I dip into. Before anyone gets into my private realm - they are vetted. Yes - there are sweet, gorgeous introverted men with good manners and beautiful cocks out there. Further as an older woman <early forties> I have noticed younger men literally trip over themselves around me if I know how to cast the right spell. As a woman - we can turn our powers on and off - at our discretion. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:04 AM
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​ Here is a book on the subject https://www.amazon.com/Forgotten-Wives-Women-Written-History/dp/1447355830 Forgotten Wives: How Women Get Written Out of History - by Ann Oakley
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:04 PM
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This is why we need FDS so we can vet, vet, vet and NEVER BREED WITH MEN LIKE THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:15 AM
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(Prepares cheese board)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:46 AM
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Seems all the bro types are jumping on the Ivermectin wagon since Joe Rogan. How curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:44 AM
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"SHE'S JUST CRAZY", BRIAN LAUNDRIE TOLD THE OFFICERS WITH A CHUCKLE, WHEN THEY QUESTIONED HIM ABOUT THE COUPLE'S DISPUTE... “Crazy” huh? “Crazy” because she’s extremely emotional in the back of a patrol car, trying to answer their questions, all the while covering for you, so that you don’t get cited, charged with domestic assault, or spend the night in jail. “Crazy” because you jokingly called her that and have now planted the seed in officers/viewers minds wondering if perhaps she is “crazy,” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:51 PM
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Awesome flow chart well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:49 PM
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In the morning, I really like peaceful music while am still in my waking state. I like to make my bed, shower, make coffee and tidy my space with the following lovely music Mei - Lan- she vocalises and uses singing bowls Naomi Sv - plays harp. She often sits in nature and little forest creatures approach her. ADORABLE! Happy energetic vibes with South American music Novos Baianos - A Menina Dança (1972) -- Also - I have days when I like wake to classic rock; Leon Russell, Creedence Clearwater Re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:02 AM
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Truth! The above should be your inner rationale as opposed to the actual words you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:16 AM
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FDS needs to change into FSS: female survival strategy. Yes, Louder FSS: female survival strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:34 AM
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white upper class libfems are coddled and have no clue about the realities of being welfare/working class Further they are a teeeny tiny sliver of the global female demographic yet they make so much damn noise - and that noise is just alike autotune. No substance just a constant shitty piercing sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:17 PM
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Hijabi pick me LOL If you want some humour Faiza ( instagram.com/expirednfabulous) is a self confessed "musrab" who has a character called Samira who is a Hijabi pick me https://www.instagram.com/p/CMaYD-uggE3/ Also - Haram police https://www.instagram.com/p/CLcVz2tghUH/ Her wedding season skit with her 'mom' is also hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:43 AM
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Yes! Literally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:57 AM
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What in the hell?!? What barbarity is that? I am heartbroken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:08 AM
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This is root feminism aka Radial Feminism. What you see embodied here by Theresa. Reminds me of a Dworkin quote: ​ “Feminism is a political practice of fighting male supremacy in behalf of women as a class, including all the women you don't like, including all the women you don't want to be around, including all the women who used to be your best friends whom you don't want anything to do with anymore. It doesn't matter who the individual women are. They all have the same vulnerability to rape, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:23 AM
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ehhh they should have divorced years ago but they love money more than they love each other so they stay together as a 'brand' They are worth more together than separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:14 AM
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You are right - there are many factors. Here is where I took my assumptions from. But you are right - it is more nuanced than what I outlined. All these factors you outlined can collide. ​ https://thefemedic.com/first-person/hypersexuality-response-to-abuse/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3693773/ The impact of sexual abuse on female development: Lessons from a multigenerational, longitudinal research study ​ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7787260/ Child Sexual Abuse …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:08 AM
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Nailed it. Men don't think No is a complete sentence. They see it as a challenge to overcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:05 AM
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We need to start opening the discussion around childhood sexual abuse and risky sexual behaviours later in life. An emotionally healthy woman, who was not exploited and raped as a child, DOES NOT go on to make decisions like this. Men abuse children - and these victimised children form their identity around their sexual utility then on to become fodder for depraved men. The the cycle repeats itself. Make it stop! From the article. ​ "One woman - Sarah, 41 - spoke about her own horrific experienc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:58 AM
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Gail Dines talks about this damage to womens bodies as well. Women have been shouting about it - nobody wants to listen because a mans orgasm is seen as supreme. A mans orgasm is prioritised over a woman's dignity BuT ShE CoNSeNTEeD Can you imagine having multiple men surrounding you naked making sexual demands? Do you have any power to say no? No. The answer is No. Your nervous system would be screaming for you to leave but your brain knows you have to submit to these brain-dead demons to retai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:54 AM
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Agreed. We need to claw back the word 'feminism' from the oppressor class. We need to reclaim that word. It has been highjacked, stolen and exploited. (highjacked, stolen and exploited - how patriarchy works in a nutshell, huh) Womens lives are highjacked by the patriarchy constantly Their wombs are stolen by the patriarchy to trap women to a scrote and a live a life of servitude Their minds and bodies exploited by the porn industry. The word 'feminism' needs to return to it's rightful owners, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:56 AM
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Thank you for your kind words. They really are energising! I am dealing with so much poop in real life that hearing supportive words, about my thoughts, is like a harmonic angel singing. Thank you kind internet stranger xox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:38 AM
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You think so? Thanks I am flattered! I tapped it out this morning before my coffee and still in a pyjama haze. Surprised it resonated. Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:24 AM
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But my point is we need more FDS minded creatives making consistent content online. Because it’s liberal feminists dominating social media and mainstream news. Understood. And you are right. We need more content creators with graphic design talents etc. Sadly - I have none of these skills. Perhaps we need to do an FDS drives for creatives who can contribute? You are right - libfems have all the creative digital skills. This list of Dworkin quotes pretty much cover the pantheon of porn/male domin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:52 PM
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Lynne Ramsay - director. Radfem leanings. You Were Never Really Here was about elite sex trafficking rings in NYC - starring Joaquin Phoenix Guinevere Turner ( wrote the screenplay to American Psycho) https://twitter.com/turnerguinevere?lang=en Mary Harron - directed American Psycho On the surface -that film looks like a misogynistic brofest - but was adapted and directed buy two women who turned it into a caricature of the modern male. His fragility, his lack of substance, his pathetic ego. Bro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:19 PM
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We need to remove the word 'feminism' from 'liberal feminism' I propose 'liberal patriarchy' Traditionally - patriarchy's are very conservative ( HI AFGHANISTAN!) so let's sully the word 'patriarchy' by softening it. And after all, liberal feminism liberal patriarchy upholds male power and dominance structures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:13 PM
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I think it fractures their pschye - they deliberately crack open their minds and pursue unhealthy behaviours + dangerous situations as they believe it will unlock the secret to their creativity and spill an authenticity into the world. Nah. The world already has disorder. It needs harmonic resonance - it needs beauty. Andrea Dworkin actually had a quote about art .... ​ Perhaps our imaginations are so mutilated. that we are incapable of even this ambition; introduce a new theme. Shall we call it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:07 PM
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As mentioned in the article above, there is also a toxic culture in creative industries that promotes ‘suffering’ and ‘mental torture’ to create art. Nothing to say - just wanted to pull this quote It resonated so much. Which means we need more creative types to spread alternate logic online Also this part needs to be louder Which means we need more creative types to spread alternate logic online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:02 PM
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100% that is MAFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:33 PM
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It's not about whether it's abortion or not - it's about drugging someone through deception which led to an outcome the person does not want. Get your drink spiked in a nightclub and raped. Felony Get your food spiked and abort? Felony. Crush slugs and feed it to your girlfriend in a smoothie and she becomes sick? Felony. ( The latter was a true story shared on FDS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:27 PM
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Here is a picture and details about Miya. ​ https://twitter.com/BrianEntin/status/1442567997365891075
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:19 PM
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I think that everyone has something to contribute whether they are FDS or not. The trick is to curate the information that works for you and discard the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:03 AM
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The scars of emotional abuse throughout my childhood cut deep and followed me for years. I feel you. I experienced the same. It's as if we gravitate and attract the same frequency emitted by our primary caregivers - as we think that 'resonance' is love. It's not. Its tough to unlearn and de program.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:45 AM
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Oh i get it. So many FDS posts are like that. It's important to be in the right headspace in order to digest them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:43 AM
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Definite Leo/ Aries in your chart or Mars conjunct. Edit: LOL downvoted. I am seeing we don't have any hippy/spiritual types here on FDS lawl ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:42 AM
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That damn entitlement must have been infuriating! So glad you had the strength to advocate for yourself. I think I may have had the freeze response....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:30 AM
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I have a dear friend who is entwined with a scrote. We talk for hours on the phone ( we live in different cities and my state is in lockdown). We discussed this - found on Instagram from the Holistic Psychologist. It's important inner work we all need to attend too. __ "Many of us become highly emotionally activated when our childhood attachment wounding is triggered.Attachment wounding comes from our relationships with parent-figures. When there’s mistrust, betrayal, or a consistent inability f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:29 AM
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I very firmly told them absolutely not and he needs to leave immediately. I was ready to walk the fuck out. What was their response to your request? Did they leave with their tail in between their legs like a dog who knows he has been bad? Or where they "But he is a professional!" ( trying to make you feel like YOU are the problem?)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:51 AM
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He has a Daily Mail article on him https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9549035/Disgraced-gynaecologist-55-groped-colleagues-breasts-given-clear-treat-women-again.html ​ He was outted by a fellow doctor who he groped while they were attending a medical conference. ​ She wrote: 'He started that octopus body crawl that so many women know only too well. He was nuzzling my neck and his disgusting hot breath was in my ear. 'He was groping my breasts, running his hands up and down my back, and put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:47 AM
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That's cool. You make a good point and everything you said is pure facts. I think the core of this tweet/post is that men won't protect you. Men won't save you. You gotta keep your wits about you. We need to be cognisant the true reality of men and their nature. ( Brian Laundrie perfect recent example. Affable "cool guy' who enjoys emotionally terrorising women before murdering them. Even Gabby's dad didn't see it coming. Men are so adept at hiding their depravity.) To feel protected, some women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:32 PM
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Taken from a cool new sub I found r FierceFemaleAmbition Its pretty new... and no - I did not create it. Just wanted to give the creatrix of that sub a shout out With posts such as: You already have power, you do not need to find it elsewhere You Have Heard About High Value Women, But Do You Know About High Agency Women? 5 Mindsets That Fail Women Beyoncé And The Art of Radical Self Investment Embracing My Inner Conqueress In Defense of Bad Women: The Sexism Of Unreasonable Expectations Placed B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:57 PM
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It;s a handy list! I don't know who originally wrote it, but it is basically a radfem manifesto Here is a post about it on FDS https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/itw10q/rules\_of\_misogyny\_in\_case\_you\_forgot\_or\_didnt/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:27 PM
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What part?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:56 PM
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I have this theory that humanity can't involve in consciousness because Cockcorp is constantly ensuring women are impregnated and miserable. My point about women and potential...Cockcorp makes women unable to self-actualise. Unable to fulfil their potential. Unable to understand who they are at a core level - and then offer those gifts back to humanity like a bright shiny light others can respond too. Also - there are traumatised kids on the planet due to male depravity and sexual depravity - an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:34 AM
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Genuinely curious - which FM songs do you see as pick-me? Excluding "Little Lies, Everywhere, Over My Head, Say You Love Me" as they were all written by Christine McVie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:30 AM
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If any of you ladies recognize any of this fawn/flirt behaviour, do a deep dive on your teenage years. I'd like to write a bigger post on this. Yasss OMG please write it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:25 AM
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Highlights Gayle vs R Kelly - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PsfdttNboQ ​ The best thing about narcs/socipaths is that they are so arrogant and So SmArt they don't think anyone can see through their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:06 AM
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When Fleetwood Mac was on it's ascent - she was doing coke everyday and was very skinny. Not viable for a fetus to live. Pretty sure she wasn't menstruating when you look back on those days, always stoned, always high. Pretty sure she had many lovers. Certainly Lindsay and Mick . When she hooked up with Don Henley Post Tusk tour and after Belladonna she fell pregnant to his baby. He forced her to have an abortion. If memory serves, I believe she fell pregant to him twice? ​ The music label would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:02 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:40 AM
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You also posted a link to an socio-political article in the first post. Can you relink - that was gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:25 AM
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Why was this post removed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:57 AM
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100% - and we have lost so much talent and brilliance to woman enslaved by the machinations of patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:47 AM
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The childless movement is slowly but surely happening thanks to climate change etc The only uptick of these strange times! But then again.... we have every regressive patriarchial religion enslaving women at the age of 12.... and places like Texas and their punitive abortion laws...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:42 AM
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I have this theory that humanity can't involve in consciousness because Cockcorp is constantly ensuring women are impregnated and miserable. ​ My point about women and potential...Cockcorp makes women unable to self-actualise. Unable to fulfil their potential. Unable to understand who they are at a core level - and then offer those gifts back to humanity like a bright shiny light others can respond too. Also - there are traumatised kids on the planet due to male depravity and sexual depravity - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:38 AM
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Amazing post OP! Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:12 AM
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Oh lawd. That book. 1st rule is "never outshine the master" or simp for the man above you in the dominance hierarchy. <eyeroll> The entire book is a sociopath handbook. This is why men are the way they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:11 AM
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You are very welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:58 PM
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my mental illnesses which are fully managed and under control are often used against me. it’s so shitty. ​ In short, men traumatise women - women are labelled or diagnosed. This leads to further trauma. It is an emerging study in modern psychology. "Angry, opinionated, mouthy, aggressive, hysterical, mad, disordered, crazy, psycho, delusional, borderline, hormonal . . . Women have long been pathologized, locked up and medicated for not conforming to whichever norms or stereotypes are expected of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:31 PM
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My hope - I bet this was her game plan. She will escape this revolting slimy crocodile shit with a billion or so, and start a female led media company and finance women's stories/music and cinema sparking a female led cultural revolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:16 AM
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The flip side. If one man tells another man that a WoMaN Is CrAzY - he will believe it no questions asked. He will then to proceed to treat you with a mild contempt next time he sees you because another man told him that you were CrAzY. ​ (Note; A man calls a woman crazy when he can't control her or manipulate her. This is the definition of crazy in a mans world)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:13 AM
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men have been brushing off our blunt and honest NO in favor of an imagined narrative that they fabricate in their heads. ​ Number 2 - 3 - 4 - 7 - 8 and especially NINE! ​ 10 Rules of Misogyny Women are responsible for what men do. Women saying no to men is a hate crime. Women speaking for themselves are exclusionary and selfish. Women’s opinions are violence against men, thus male violence against women is justified. Women and Feminism must be useful to men or they are worthless. Women who go ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:04 AM
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Such a good point. Become useless to them. Make it easy for them to discard you. It is the best way to safely exit and slow fade. DO NOT TRY AND "WIN" or get revenge. There is no win here, only escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:27 AM
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No problem. It's cross posted from the r gabbypetito, but i think is has some critical information that needs to be shared widely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:26 AM
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Hearing that we have a professor teaching anti porn at a university is like a breath of fresh air. Don't forget Gail Dines! Dr Gail Dines was a guest on the FDS podcast and has been teaching anti-porn lectures for decades. Here she is lecturing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Z5iANEfQUU&t=3s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:49 PM
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Nailed it. Especially how they experience joy crushing a womans spirit. Narcissists don't argue with the intent of actually getting anywhere or coming to some sort of understanding. They argue to win, dominate and exhaust you. They do it to entertain themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:30 PM
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We really need to be hearing more about older women rocking life because it's probably one of the greatest inspiration we can get to get over pick-meism ​ Look at this woman who is 70. Jaw. Dropping. Absolutely stunning. ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Otud1qZz3Hg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:25 PM
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You are welcome! If it makes one person feel less alone , less fearful - I am glad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:16 PM
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Oh, who gives a shit about their feelings? Men can dish it out but can’t take it. Women’s bodies are picked apart like mad, but when we give men an ounce of what we get they have a meltdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:19 AM
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Thanks for this! For anyone else learning about or recovering from Narc abuse - please enjoy an imgur album I created, that I have bookmarked and go back to whenever I need to touch base. It is full of solid reminders about their machinations. their tactics and reminders that you doing OK. ​ https://imgur.com/a/LIWvfG0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:14 AM
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how truly... different they are from us. Agreed. It is utterly undeniable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:58 AM
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Bless the internet for finally giving us undeniable proof that men truly hate us. Before we just had a vague feeling and if we voiced a concern we were 'hysterical man hating harpies' I've said it before and I will say it again - Andrea Dworkin was right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:13 AM
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This is awesome. Whoever wrote this knows the power of reality and manifesting. It's all about setting an intention, being specific about these intentions, releasing it to the universe, and having a talismanic idol that you can use, to bring you back to that headspace. And so it is. Well done to whoever wrote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:47 PM
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I love it too! Women are so multi-faceted. And this is so under represented in media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:06 PM
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More pics of her life - Imgur album - https://imgur.com/a/D1F2Wkd There is more on her Wikipedia - but I just copy and pasted bits relevant to FDS ​ Achievements Advice to her younger self. Relationships with men ​ Betty Charbonnet was born in 1921 in Detroit to Dorson Louis Charbonnet and Lottie Breaux Allen, both natives of Louisiana. Her father came from a Creole background, and her mother from a Cajun background. Her great-grandmother had been born into slavery in 1846. She spent her early c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:36 PM
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If they really think men are so hard done by and are victims - tell them to quit their whining and start advocating for male domestic violence shelters or male suicide resources. Tell them to start a website a charity if they really give a fuck about their fellow man. We are NOT going to do that political labor for them - yet they expect us too. We are way to busy trying to protect women and give them safe passage. Stupid scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:22 AM
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We need to make "He's creepy" as ubiquitous as "ShE's CrAzY"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:49 AM
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Never heard of the "missing stair". Perfectly articulates what happens when people cover for abusers through cognitive dissonance. ​ Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:45 AM
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louder ​ Hope we have a conversation about THE COMPLICIT COPS FIST-BUMPING A MURDERER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:32 AM
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Her dad in his interview with Dr Phil said that Gabby didn't have OCD. She was never diagnosed with it. She just wanted to keep her small van space neat and tidy. Sounds like Brian was "Reeeee - you are so OCD - get over yourself " and she internalised his bullshit. Classic DV case, she is repeating the statements of her abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:25 AM
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Another scary part - in his interview with Dr Phil, Gabbys father says that he never, for one second, had any concerns about Brian being aggressive or abusive. He always just seemed like a really nice guy who cared for his daughter. Goes to show how men are scary AF. You can't tell when they will snap and turn into a deranged killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:00 AM
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Oh lawd. What if Gabby absorbed the words of this kindly Park Ranger. Thought about it for a few days and started to see things clearly and used terms like "toxic relationship" to Brians face and "maybe we should break up" That would have sent him over the edge. Not blaming the park ranger for anything. From Gabby's pov, she had an older woman in authority giving her expert advice. Gabby probably was touched by how incisive her wisdom was. I am just speculating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:57 AM
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I just watched the video. The analysis is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:49 PM
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All I needed was a clinical understanding of my fundamental rights as a living thing, of all the forces at play, and of the predictable apeish behaviors I knew were coming. Not a single reaction from them surprised me and that’s the place you need to get in order to remain unbothered. Louder ​ All I needed was a clinical understanding of my fundamental rights as a living thing, of all the forces at play, and of the predictable apeish behaviors I knew were coming. Not a single reaction from them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:23 PM
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The 911 call. OMG. I feel so many feelings right now. ​ Link to a 911 call ( just released) where a witness saw Brian hitting Gabby ​ https://twitter.com/FoxNews/status/1440003531486998528
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:47 PM
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Male therapist? Girl. No. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pryb89/be\_wary\_of\_male\_therapists\_psychs/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:43 PM
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society has loved labelling women as "hysterical" and "crazy" since the dawn of time, because then they dont have to listen to women's legitimate concerns about men. When we do outline our rational fears about a mans strange behaviour - we are "being sensitive" or "blowing things out of proportion" or "creating drama". The game is set up so we are always dismissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:12 AM
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Dr Jessica Taylor has a new book coming out called 'Sexy but Psycho'. It opens up the discussion about how women are painted with the CrAzY brush - when really they are just responding to abuse and trauma by men. ​ "Hysterical, mad, disordered, crazy, psycho, delusional, borderline, hormonal . . . Women have long been pathologized, locked up and medicated for not conforming to whichever norms or stereotypes are expected of them in that time and space. Sexy But Psycho is a challenging and uncomfo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:40 AM
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You are an awesome mom and a wonderful ally for women. Exposing his brain rot to friends and acquaintances was an A Grade move. Thank you. Ostracisation is the only way to deal with scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:47 PM
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Hiking scrotum? Here ya go... https://imgur.com/a/UPju9Im
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:58 PM
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A staffy just ripped a baby to pieces in my country. They are a bit unpredictable for my liking. Thank for the suggestion though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:25 PM
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Beard bro cop was definetly spouting red pill bullshit. This is why redpill bullshit is so damaging. It isn't just scrotes letting off steam in forums... their toxic thinking seeps out into real life situations and affects women's lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:16 AM
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Writing out some of it in this post is so cathartic because I genuinely repressed how shitty he was to and for me. Keep writing! Writing is healing! Your brain would have been in flight or fight mode... your adrenaline spiking. ... this leads toPTSD which is literal trauma to your brain. I can't imagine what it must have been for you to be in the wild - constantly monitoring his moods. ..his manipulations to keep yourself alive. Further - he became a sex pest at 3am? Lord - he even interrupted y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:15 AM
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I might just actually post it, Post it! And post it in every female dominated sub reddit. There are still many girls in TwoX who need their eyes opened. You may get banned because the mods are men - but fuck it - we are talking about warning other women. Their lives are at stake. And it if makes one - just one - 19yo girl thinks 'OMG this is me...my boyfriend is manipulative - all my niggling feelings about him make sense now' then it was worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:34 AM
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every single one of us will come in contact with one or many of those sooner or later. Louder Every single one of us will come in contact with one or many of those sooner or later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:33 AM
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meanest looking sweetheart of a dog Can anyone recommend the best breed for this? German Shepherd? Doberman? What is a cutie, loyal loving dog that will attack on command?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:48 PM
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or he'd just be in a shit mood the whole time when he was literally the only person around for three days. Ew that sounds so annoying to deal with. How did you manage his sour moods? In the wilderness? I had to travel with scrotes for work in capital cities and I had to constantly emotionally regulate them. Give them water - make sure they were fed - otherwise they felt entitled to lash out. But dealing with that shit in the wilderness with no one around? How did you manage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:47 PM
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From my understanding - Brian had removed Gabby from her support network in NY and moved her into his parents house ( lawd! ) in Florida. Couldn't even afford his own awesome pad. Nope. Living with mom and pops. The audacity. He has all the hallmarks of a classic abuser. He then went onto curate a personality that she would like. Outdoorsy - vegan - yoga. Even on his insta he is doing the "My little nephew is my best l'il dude ever! Love hanging out with him!" to trigger her maternal instinct. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:44 PM
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You can play it a couple of ways. You are married - but he is an pilot/in the army/ oil rig engineer so he isn't around much You are recently widowed. Them: Oh Honey what Happened? You: I am sorry. My heart is still tender, I prefer not to talk about it You just broke up with a guy because you discovered his gambling problem. A gambling problem is more benign that a drug/alcohol addiction. ​ They want to know if you are "on the same level as them". In these married women's minds they want samey-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:25 PM
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Dr Ramani on Youtube is the best crash course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:00 AM
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100% and also their pornified brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:10 AM
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Also PSA- the flip side. Keep an eye out for ladies in wheelchairs at traffic lights. Let them go first as it takes them longer to cross - and they are more vulnerable as they are at waist heigh level - some vehicles can't see them. Most people ignore people in wheelchairs and just go about their business, not realising that it is an ordeal to cross a busy junction in a wheelchair. The only people I am nice too are women, vulnerable/disabled women and animals. That's it. No exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:53 AM
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I live in a fancy pants area and saw a scrote in a wheelchair lodge a woman in the supermarket up against the bread wall and proceed to attempt to talk to her. This woman was in her 50s attractive and slim - so she wasn't a naive teenager. Even as a mature woman scrotes will scrote ( he was around 60). Her reaction to his scrotacity was just to laugh and smile and move away from him. He was saying something to the effect of " I saw you smiling there....". She probably gave him a kindly smile as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:50 AM
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Gaby's friend said he was obsessive and controlling. To prevent her from going out with her friend - he took her licence so she had no ID to go places. This is what FDS is for. To educate women to DROP ANY MAN who limits who, minimises you or tries to control you. He is soooo far beneath her in personality, looks, character.... ugh Never give these men a second chance. ​ "He had this composure as a sweet, nice, caring guy. But you could tell he's a little off, a little weird. Like, he'd set up o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:46 AM
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Not while I was dating... but his has come from bosses + co-workers + guys I know generally in life ​ They are married but have a girlfriend - proceed to show me pictures of their girlfriend proudly They went to South East Asia and participated in 'Sex Tourism' or as I like to call it raping disadvantaged women Work parties where all the guys would hire a bunch of prostitutes Casually mentioning how prostitution is empowering and the oldest profession ​ All of these multiple times by multiple me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:07 AM
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Scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:07 AM
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Brian Laundrie in the missing Gaby Petito case is a prime example of this. Comes across as a non threatening dude. He is below average in looks... maybe he is a good personality? NOPE! Just knows how to manipulate better. Knows how to simp for other men to get their approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:05 AM
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Buenos Aires - Argentina https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_XXg59NvrrU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:12 PM
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In Buenos Aires - there are women police stations. Australia is trying to roll out the same thing. Yet - the idea is being blocked by a police female commissioner. Just a side note - Australia is a deeply misogynistic country, picke me's are everywhere - and domestic violence is rampant. ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1PMVRfMj-DE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:09 PM
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Wow what a psycho - hope she called the cops on him Remember ladies, men are the sUpERiOr RaTIoNaL SeX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:43 PM
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Don't beat your self up. You were groomed by society into being a pick meisha. To putting your needs last and to invalidate your own feelings. So many women have the same story...we were all duped The ladies of FDS is here for your healing. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:49 AM
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I would say yes. The grooming is collective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:23 AM
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I think a lot of us have been there, myself included 100% It feels awful knowing that I have betrayed myself.... used my own body as a weapon against myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:32 AM
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Just so we are clear - male attention is worthless and should not be seen as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:23 AM
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Also when you observe him talking with the cops he is loving the attention ... also he is sucking up to them SO BAD "This gentlemen here..." and then he is acting like a bumbling nice guy cool bro... ​ Edit: This is also a real world example of how the redpill manosphere infects real life interactions ​ Redpill manosphere cops. Always empathising with the the man. Disregarding a womans voice and all the sexist comments about their wivesCop: "'I understand that this can feel like a nightmare, But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:15 PM
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Also - note how Brian says he doesn't have a phone. This means that he uses HER phone. Which means he is controlling as FUCK. Always in her business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:10 PM
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This is true. She came from a deeply patriarchial italian culture so in her mind the feminine is 'less than' and flawed but inexorably fascinating. She valorises the whore trope as the ultimate in female sexuality. She even has some dysphoria in addition to her neurotic nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:23 PM
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Hey OP = Here is the raw unedited body cam footage of the domestic incident. She looks scared. Brian is cool as a cucumber though... ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJafbksSnJc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:05 PM
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Here is the raw unedited footage of the Domestic Incident from the police bodycam https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJafbksSnJc ​ She is very distressed and he is trying really hard to be a cool bro for the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:04 PM
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Yep - Camille Paglia wrote about the date rape issue that became visible in the 90s was due to coddled upper middle class women who were ignorant to the male propensity to be entitled, predatory and opportunistic. ( Edit: Thank FUCK that FDS talks about these encoded behaviours in men - it is the only forum I have encountered in my life which is frank and candid about male nature). She argued that nice genteel women would go to college - get drunk - and then be surprised when men became opportun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:04 AM
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Upper middle class women are sadly coddled. Which is great - protective parents. But this shields them from the depravity of men. The true nature of men. The ugly nature of reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:26 AM
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Look up scrote in a textbook and you will see his ugly bald head. She was gorgeous and kind and sadly naive about the depravity of men. There is a sub dedicated to finding her and I have been active on it ....so I will copy and paste my thoughts here. Domestic dispute. Cops are called. ( link to report) Dickhead male cop takes Brians statement and disisses Gaby as being 'mentally unwell'. Nope - she was panicked and terrified and suffering from reactive abuse. Brian threatened to leave her and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:21 AM
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Ugh yes. But I am getting women trying to palm off their brothers who are ex coke addicts and have three kids whose face looks like a smashed crab due to his drug + alcohol issues "BuT hE is sUch a niCe Guy" No - Lisa. He is human trash. Your brother is human trash. I don't want to tolerate him for even a nano second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:21 AM
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why would they repeatedly choose suffering... and it's like because it's all they've ever known. 100% Because your childhood if filled with being ignored, being emotionally invalidated, dealing with screaming narc behaviour and walking on eggshells and constantly pandering to your narcy abuser so they won't lash out.. ​ Because you are a child you just see this as normal - not realising how much you are suffering. Because your parents are treating you this way - you equate this to 'love' and the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:05 PM
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She has all the information she needs to know - he is a scrote. No reason to mamby pamby around this fact. No need to 'get him to explain'. She is past that. She has a two choices. Leave or stay. And we all know what the best choice is. Seeking an explanation, seeking forgiveness is a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:31 PM
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So accurate - and so chilling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:00 AM
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Also most women were denied access to higher education. Heck, Ruth Bader Ginsburg was heckled and abused for going to law school - and THAT is recent history. Women were also socialised NOT to study ... OR they were impregnated in their teen years due to male depravity OR no reliable contraception or abortion. You get pregnant by a predatory scrote? Bad luck sis. No school for you The fortunate women who did have access to education were treated poorly in higher education - had their work dismis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:49 AM
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1:30 " We can't stop people from going to different countries, having unprotected sex - and then bringing imported infections back to us" ​ Wait. WHAT?! Yes - we can. We should screen all these scrotes who visit impoverished prostituted women in developing countries as if they might have an STI and quarantine these degenerates. Like we do with Covid. Quarantine the scrotes before the infect more women in their home country. Scrotes are literally a public health crises. ​ 7:28 - the scrote who is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:28 PM
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Thanks! Edit: Couldn't find the documentary - but here is an article https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2021/sep/13/look-away-review-horrifying-stories-of-abuse-at-the-hands-of-male-rock-stars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:20 AM
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What was the name of the investigation so i can youtube it up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:41 AM
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louder Feminism isn't about morality and it isn't about teaching men to be better. It's about finding ways to put power into women's collective hands so that men can't hurt us even if they want to - or are too terrified of the consequences to try. It's about power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:08 AM
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livelihoods of monsters I’ve turned to ashes but lord do I want to brag. Can you give us a vague description slightly changing details and circumstance. I need more content like this. Settling the score ? Here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:24 PM
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This needs to be a monologue - on a stage - in a theatre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:05 PM
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Drew Barrymore is another example....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:59 AM
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Men see that, take note and think ‘wow these women have no loyalty- even more reason to treat them like dirt!’ Great point. Pick Me's just make men see women as a homogenous unit of trashy simpletons. They truly lower the bar. You perfectly articulated why I despise pick me's on a visceral level. They keep women locked into a cycle of disrespect and contempt from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:18 PM
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Preach - every office has LVMs & pick mes causing dramas. FACTS Why do people have so much shitty energy? Why is it so hard to focus on your job and be a mature adult? I just don't understand these people on any level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:25 PM
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Yikes... that is scary - haven't heard of Open Secret... will track it down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:13 PM
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I prefer more character driven films based in reality. It is just a personal preference. I just find his tropes unoriginal and predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:12 PM
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I agree. Owen Benjamin is a off the charts. Not endorsing Owen in any way I posted the video only for the Leo stuff. Owen - it seems - is the only person who has called out Leo's abuse. If there was another video of someone more balanced - I would have posted that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:09 PM
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Kate Winslet also worked with Roman Polanski who drugged and raped a 13yo. She has no credibility in my eyes whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:43 AM
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That film was TOTAL SHIT ugh - like all Tarantino films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:41 AM
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Well Leo was groomed by notorious producer/pedophile Brian Peck convicted pedophile Here is footage of Leo with Brian Peck when Leo was a kid. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL7kAnW6ycI&t=8s Assuming Leo was abused by this pedophile ( and their touchy feely nature is sure indicative of that) it would explain his 'hyper bro' image of only dating young models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:36 AM
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That was eye opening. Thanks for tapping that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:20 AM
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Link to story and his firing https://www.denverpost.com/2021/09/09/logan-dorn-tiktok-women-bikinis-confrontation-colorado/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:14 AM
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Where can I find this ad so I can troll this degenerate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:17 AM
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Lilith, Reaux + Savannah - you mentioned in the beginning you will be speaking at a conference... anonymously I hope? How will you protect your identities?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:14 AM
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Ew. He just wanted a reason to interact and be pervy. Men just like womens attention - even if women are telling them to GTFO. She should have shamed him. "BRo your dick is hard. I can see it through your pants. Stop embarrassing yourself" He is LITERALLY HARASSING THESE WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:14 AM
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Ah yes, the superior rational sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:40 AM
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Awesome - I love my Lions Mane too. It is really restorative for the brain. Glad to hear your experiences with it! Edit: Lions Mane is legal and is a medicinal mushroom available in health food stores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:27 AM
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Thanks for sharing OP. What a wild but transformative ride! Ladies - psychedelics may not be for you. If you have suffered sexual trauma or violence there is a free online course created by Dr Jessica Taylor that will assist in your recovery and personal healing It is self-paced and you can take your time with all the modules - and it is 100% free Caring for yourself after sexual violenceFree E-learning with unlimited access Link: https://www.victimfocus.org.uk/free-caring-for-yourself-after-sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:25 AM
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Men are the biggest "Karens" in real life too. They relish in punish and humiliating women who offend their genteel sensibilities. They truly are the emotional sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:44 AM
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Brian. I like Brian because Brians are always non-descript and boring. And always - always - have an inferiority complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:36 AM
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Copy and pasting this from another thread from r fourthwavewomen A book recommendationWoman's Inhumanity to Women by Phylis Chesler ​ More on this book. "How women view and treat other women matters. Are women oppressed? Yes. Do oppressed people internalize their oppressors' attitudes? Without a doubt. Prejudice must first be acknowledged before it can be resisted or overcome. More than men, women depend upon one another for emotional intimacy and bonding, and exclusionary and sexist behavior en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:23 AM
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Patriarchy is designed to constantly re-enforce their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:43 AM
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The scrotacity.... I can't.... " The New York Times has reported that Epstein was interested in maximizing his reproductive success by impregnating many women — preferably, brilliant scientists — at his ranch in New Mexico. According to Roger Schank, a psychologist and computer scientist who has held posts at Yale and Stanford, Epstein once asked him whether these children would turn out like him if he provided only sperm and cash; Schank replied that Epstein should prevent the women whom he imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:57 PM
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Your dad sounds awesome and you are so lucky to have him in your life. HVM are rare - even rarer as fathers. Glad to read a positive male role model story : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:52 PM
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Stay wild out there : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 12:41 PM
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This kitty key chain is super cute - but can also do damage if necessary This one is sharper Or - here is a mold. Make one yourself and craft the material and shave the points to your liking Also very affordable Hide a weapon in plain sight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:59 AM
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Glad it made you smile! And thanks for the heartwarming award. Adorable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:34 AM
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Men are constantly on the look out for excuses to blame their own actions on women's behaviours, No lies detected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:17 PM
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Women: I am pleasant, friendly, and professional. Men: OmG ShE WaNTs ThE D So let me be straight up. Men are desperate for any type of female attention and interaction. They pretend they are unbothered by us.... but they literally ache... ACHE for women to give them a moment of their time. This dude ( like all workplace dudes) thinks he has hit the jackpot. An intelligent professional woman is interacting with him - being helpful and useful. His brain has short circuited and he truly thinks that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:28 AM
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sociopaths and narcs DO NOT play ball or speak the language of empathy. So critical to understand about this personality type. It is the hardest lesson to learn as you are basically admitting this person falls short of being human and that the entire relationship is built on lies and manipulation. But dang...once you get it.... it's freeing. Crystal clear vision goggles. I have a Christian family member who’s like that- very sweet but very depressed in her (slavery sentence) marriage. She stays …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:59 AM
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I’ve learned to save my admiration for women only. Louder I’ve learned to save my admiration for women only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:03 AM
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They appeal to the lowest common denominator scrote. As we all know scrotes are a literal plague. Bassline bottom humour is deeply sophisticated for them. It makes them feel at one with the universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:11 PM
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they can actually be abused by the person that they are trying to care for. Yes. Mom has dementia. She would turn into a demon and screech at me. She was unreasonable. Caused me a great deal of psychological injury to be abused and ripped to shreds every single day. Now she is on meds - she is more balanced and easier to manage. Gonna stop here cos I can go on a full rant about dementia/caring for dementia people/losing your mental health dealing with dementia sufferers... ​ I always thought Alf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:26 PM
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That is the danger of religion - it grooms women to be incredibly naive and thus sets them up for danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:25 PM
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She was an incredibly kind, bright, smart, literal ray of sunshine that could make anyone and everyone feel comfortable. Only reserve your kindness for animals, the vulnerable, your family ( if they are not assholes) and other women. Men do not deserve an iota of our sunshine. Not a single ray. The amount of men I have had play the bullshit pity card with me is huge. "My wife left me" and "I feel suicidal" are just off the top of my head. They are predators they know that pulling on our heartstr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:06 AM
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Dr Jess Taylor is awesome. I also recommend her articles 5 ways we are encouraged to blame women and girls for being raped and abused - What if rape was responded to like terrorism? Stop Asking Me - "What About Men?" ​ Edit: Her socials Insta https://www.instagram.com/drjesstaylor/?hl=en Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrJessTaylor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:07 AM
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re: legislation Sex work twitter was like YAAAAAYYYYY ... usual 'cool girl' nonsense. But there was very little response.... mainly because Melbourne has been in severe lockdown and most people are suffering financial and psychological ruin - and therefore aren't focusing on any political issues. And re: street sex worker.... nothing. Nada. No one cared. The media framed her as just a regular ol' worker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:07 PM
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In Melbourne Australia - sex work was fully decriminalised including sex workers operating from the street. I am deeply ashamed of my country. Street sex workers are pimped out or VERY desperate, drug addicted and trauma experiencing women who face hopelessness. “We want to make sure street-based sex work is decriminalised and the requirement for individual sex workers to register with the government is removed,” he said. He urged the government to continue its consultation process so that the r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:45 AM
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You are right - even imagining being trapped in a life or death situations - with zero resources to remove yourself from the situation isn't even something they can imagine - let alone empathise with. They simply have no reference point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:01 AM
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Not saying some wealthy women can’t be ignorant but i find middle class women are far worse for that mentality I find middle class women to be so easily impressed with celebrity and fame and "cool places to be". Ugh - ya know the coolest place to be? In my apartment chillin in my space. Nothing more fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:39 AM
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I’m sorry but a lot of rich coddled women I’ve met are narcissists. I can’t stand them. They project misogyny onto other women. Facts. My sister is one and she is so nasty to other women it pains me. She loves berating working class women and feels entitled to do so - even the women working in her household who are caring for her children. I have another sister who gets all uppity and snooty when dealing with call centres ladies in the Phillipines. She is so rude and condescending! I literally h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:37 AM
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In real life they will NOT mix with WOC and working class women even if they’re just as educated 100% Pathetic- that’s what ‘feminism’ looks like to the average lib fem. it’s just a cover for pick me handmaidens Liberal feminism panders upholds maintains the patriarchy. I would love to see a YouTube debate with this topic "Liberal feminism maintains the Patriarchy" In one corner libfems - the other - radfems. First speaker off the rank for RF's Gail Dines. These discourses must be had out loud a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:33 AM
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Middle class women who have lived privileged lives have no business commenting on the lives of underprivileged women. They have been so coddled and protected their whole life... they also like to look down on working class women. The worst part is they are utterly unaware of their privilege. Middle class women commenting on the realities of working class women are like men who give their opinion on abortion.... they have ZERO life experience and every thing for these women is a hypothetical...pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:33 AM
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wondering if it's common for the average men to buy sex Yes. They do. Men are irrational creatures, utter slaves to their sex drive and society enables this. Male entitlement is a helluva drug. I live in a wealthy, safe area. Full of young professionals and a population of older retired professional class. At the main junction of our suburb - there are 4 brothels within 10 metres from each other. It disgusts me - most women walk straight past unaware - but I have learned to recognise these space…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:39 AM
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Old scrotes get away with the 'kindly old man' trope thinking it will make them fly under our 'creep' radar. They are right - it works - mainly we don't clock them as a threat - because we can dropkick them if need be....but I often think it is just another mask scrotes wear. They have had a lifetime to master this mask - so I never trust them. I still have old scrotes playing the 'kindly old man' bullshit with me. We all do. Just patronise them like a child "ahaha aren't you clever!?" when they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:35 AM
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and his jaw clenches. Then comes him testing you with some bullshit to see if he can get a rise.... Nah son. Nice try, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:04 PM
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Charlize Theron portraying Aileen. Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vq70brIQP40 Aileen on 60 minutes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_NzXdJWCco I love how Aileen pleaded 'no contest' on the 6 murder changes. She was like "Yep I kiiled them - no fucks given. Give me the electric chair." Her scrote lawyer loved taking her to the chair. He talks about this in the 60 minutes link above...Scrotes gon scrote. Male serial killers on the other hand go on a mamby-pamby dance about their innocen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:09 AM
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Office pickmeisha's are hilarious. They walk around all cocky letting men leer at their ass and think they are climbing the career ladder in a 'mans world' and are totally smug and patronising to all the other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:26 AM
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LOL scrotes downvoting us. So triggered scrotes! Maybe someone posting on the rogan sub and or Spotify subs? ​ This is a good idea! Also - figuring out how to pitch the show directly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:14 AM
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You have made excellent points. Sadly - many women in developing countries are still suffering under patriarchal tyranny and live under medieval rule. As a simple example 200 million women globally suffer female genital mutilation. All because of irrational male thinking. But I understand your point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:58 AM
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Yep - how to make it happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:52 AM
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How do we accomplish this? Genuine question?...Do we start a petition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:51 AM
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Oooh what words can i search on YouTube to find this magical vision?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:52 AM
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Being celibate is a legit a spiritual, mental and psychological detox. I highly recommend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:39 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Especially in work places where the office ( in his mind) Chad starts hitting on the office Pick Me when BOTH ARE MARRIED. It is so obvious when two people are fucking in the work place. The little looks they don't think other people notice... how she starts wearing more fitted skirts and higher heels... Anon email to both spouses does the trick What is the upside? Well - it can destabilise office power structures which gives you an opportunity to take advantage of this situ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:36 AM
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Thanks for building it up to a place where women can enjoy rights and freedoms. We literally had to fight tooth and nail for those. They did not grant us our rights - they withheld them. Then we fixed that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:51 PM
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Jeepers she needs to lawyer up, claim public humiliation and abuse and take him to the laundromat. Sis needs to walk away with a cool 20 mill of Motley Crue money and find her peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:23 PM
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I was in the industry at one point and I saw some shit. I had scrote billionaires court me ( he publicly had a girlfriend and I was embarrassed to be photographed with him at an event he invited me to ( he just talked about himself and my introverted ass just nodded and smiled in all the right places). I've had international rock stars try and bang me...to be fair they had game - nice dinners etc... Behind the glamour the great lighting and the good camera angles they are just filthy desperate s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:21 PM
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She needs to go on Toe Brogan ( Joe Rogan - hey he looks like a Big Toe) and talk about this. He is scrote platform number 1. The only way men are going to feel any empathy for the abuse women suffer because of the grooming porn industry - is if another man admonishes it. Also - Gail Dines on Joe Rogan. That would be awesome. She is so zesty she wouldn't tolerate an iota of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:20 PM
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Here is Chloe explaining. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvjSGN45nKc This scrote is deranged and dangerous. He is clearly obsessed with her and enjoys creating drama for her. It gives him a sick thrill that he gets a reaction from her. I hope she gets a restraining order
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:26 PM
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It was a dude who was eliminated from an early series of Survivor. That was his 'final words' before he left the tribe. He said some words ( quoted the film Rocky) and then did his best neanderthal-ape impression. For reasons no one knows. Even to this day. Just scrote things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:54 PM
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Roles reversed - another example ​ Men are irrational sex crazed animals that can't control their lust. Therefore, we must remove their penis. signed, The 200 Million women who suffer FGM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:21 PM
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Look at that couch in the background. He is literally in his mama's basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:15 PM
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LMAOOO "cUz iM dA mAn iM dA lEaDeR ooga ooga" pounds chest while climbing the empire state building 100% this energy https://youtu.be/X16G2hsVI9w?t=50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:11 PM
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Oh girl, I will be marching his ass into Bvlgari or Tiffanys telling him sweet nothings. Imma be there when the purchase is made. Often the sales person is vibin with the woman - and they recommend more expensive items because it means more commission. "But honey... I really want the ruby and the diamond."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:06 PM
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But before, get your nails done and your hair good and buy that super serum you have always had your eye on. Upgrade your car and tuck a few thousand away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:18 PM
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Another smart way to play this scenario "Of course honey, let's do an open relationship. But your heart is committed to me - to prove it - I would like this 10 thousand dollar engagement ring" After he buys it, lose his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:37 PM
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Meanwhile they think it is totally cool and normal to splooge over any surface and even think its AOK to request cum on your face. They think their bodily fluids are sacred. The stupidity is stunning. Edit: Not to mention pissing everywhere in public like dogs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:59 AM
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Yes - pickmeisha patriarchal brainwashed women who pander to men. Usually mothers. Don't worry I was stunned when she told me this too. I thought the other women would stand back and let another woman spread her wings. ​ NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:40 PM
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Ladies - I gotta respectfully disagree. Brad Pitt is still fiiiiiiiine. Johnny Depp on the other hand....he looks like rotted wood. And let's all have a guffaw at Leo Di Caprio https://imgur.com/a/4cQiCNI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:40 PM
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I had a friend who works for the UN in Sudan. She has helped women set up bank account and the UN gave them money to start anew... you know what happened? The mother in law manipulated the situation and took the money or the man just beat the woman and co-erced her through violence to access the money. I remember i asked my friend - "what is the biggest impediment for woman to achieve independence?" Her response? Other women. It broke my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:17 PM
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Or just a fat incel in his basement who wants to catfish money from other fat incels in their basement ​ Trolls trolling trolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:55 AM
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Yes. Men are poor company 98% of the time. They are mostly projecting a false personality and waiting for their turn to monologue. Just create your own vortex of fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:52 AM
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An emotionally volatile man = violence risk . Lots of them = high violence risk. This. They are a threat to you and the women in your classroom. Tell them this. And enact a consequence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:53 AM
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Invoke the protection of the goddess. If this is not your thing... create a boundary at the beginning of your class. State what you will and will not tolerate. Men snickering about assualt/rape/manosphere shite creates a hostile environment for your female students - which degrades the learning environment Be steadfast in your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:50 AM
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This is a great tweet about an HVM who helped his wife post partum - when she was suffering anxiety and depression. THIS is why is is SO IMPORTANT to have children with the right type of men ​ https://twitter.com/ameetafff/status/1423371238408429568
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:00 PM
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Correct Men are cowards. Proof. All the men fleeeing to Kabul airport to escape the Taliban (a legion of men who are batshit crazy.) Did they take their women and children? Their mothers, wives and sisters? HELL NAW ​ They only roll out the "but I only want to protect you" when they want to control you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:54 PM
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They never will. But they have stopped screaming at me when I assert my boundaries, It makes me smugly smile when they scream at me. It gives me the opportunity to say "Are you alright? You just want from 0-100 in 3 seconds. I am concerned about your mental health? Is there something stressing you out?" The pause and stand back. They can either Rage harder Rage quit the conversation ​ Either way you hold your power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:45 AM
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Catherine D’Lish WOW! Those robes are incredible!! https://boudoirbydlish.bigcartel.com/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:07 AM
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The pickle is.... how does one stand up for themselves? What are the words to use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:47 AM
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yewch. These men are off the charts toxic. It is BEYOND me how all the 'rational redpill bros' can't see through their ugly mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:34 AM
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He wants to be chased... but he also brags about how he 'buys box'. This is a new manosphere term I just learned... 'buying box' ​ It means to engage the services of a prostitute. They rationalise it by saying that all the A Grade athletes 'buy box' because men need variety - so it is totally alpha to 'buy box". Sooo.... they want to buy a woman to fake and pretend she is into him.... and that is an Alpha trait.. The lack of rational capacity is stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:18 AM
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Cool thanks for the heads up - I have an online assessment today and watching this dramz will be my treat once the my work is done. F+F are revolting. They invite women onto their show and are extremely abusive to them. Myron is particular comes from Sudan and believes in - polyamory - for himself only. His wife must be faithful to him - Not wearing a condom - because getting pregnant is a woman's responsibility. - As getting a pregnant is a woman's responsibility - men are allowed to abandon th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:03 AM
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Ok that makes sense. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:39 PM
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they still believe in Islam ideals and Sharia law Thanks for the explanation - as I can't make sense of all of this. If they believe in these ideals like Sharia Law - what is the reason for all the rushing to the airport? It is just herd mentality? Something to do that day? Why are they trying to escape? Thanks in advance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:11 PM
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Note the chaotic scenes at Kabul airport.Link THEY ARE ALL MEN Where are the women? Have these men abandoned their mothers, sisters, wives, daughters to act hog wild? The answer is yes. Are they staying to defend their women and their country? No. So i guess men aren't protecters huh? Further.... why are men fleeing this backward patriarchal theocracy/Taliban rule? Isn't that their wet dream? Where violent childish men rule with irrational pedantry while subjugating, enslaving and keeping women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:47 AM
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Jumping in to add, there are lots of great YouTube videos with Lundy Bancroft if listening is your thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:53 PM
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Agreed. It is the only place we can speak openly and compare notes. Often i you speak openly in real life you are shut down or misunderstood. This place is my church. It's healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:57 AM
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Thank you : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:05 AM
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Maybe look into therapy to heal the bad impressions he left on your life. Thank you, I am. I found a therapist who I can download onto. She is kind and gives me space to to be heard. I always apologise to her all the time for my rants! But it feels nice to be listened to. At the moment - we are working on how to manage my sisters and their borderline psychopathy. She is slowly getting me to see that I was under parented, was emotionally abandoned as a child and was the object of derision in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:04 AM
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Yes. My father ( now dead) was a raging misogynist. My most distinct memories of him are yelling at the television when I was little. If any woman was on the news giving an opinion - especially a woman in a position of authority - he would sneer "Shut up you stupid bitch" with such vitriol. As a young girl witnessing this over and over again - it was terrifying. His unfounded hate was terrifying. I could write an essay on his scrotacity - but I can't trigger myself. My heart is still healing fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:41 AM
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I wish I was a billionaire so I can find this girl and pay for her studies and help get her back on her feet. Absolutely heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:20 AM
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LOL can you imagine what HE looks like? Body like a bag of milk. Scrote beard. Receding hair line. What a revolting pornsick turd. Hope she flushes him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:55 PM
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This!A friend who is dating a rock star from the 80s reached out and asked me if I could help me with his Wikipedia and Facebook now that he is forming a new band. She isn't even his girlfriend or official partner - she is just sleeping with him. She has this fangirl mentality about him. "OMG he is soo famous - I loved his songs in the 80s.. sooo coool". I'm like - please get a grip. I said to her - "He has daughters in their 20s - they would be best to advise him OR here is youtube tutorial on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:51 AM
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Can you bring me up to speed? What is the iCloud story.. Is it this one? https://www.wired.com/story/apple-csam-detection-icloud-photos-encryption-privacy/ ​ "Today Apple introduced a new set of technological measures in iMessage, iCloud, Siri, and search, all of which the company says are designed to prevent the abuse of children. A new opt-in setting in family iCloud accounts will use machine learning to detect nudity in images sent in iMessage. " Anyone with half a brain knows that nothing di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:05 AM
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“Right-wing women have surveyed the world: they find it a dangerous place. They see that work subjects them to more danger from more men; it increases the risk of sexual exploitation. ​ They see that creativity and originality in their kind are ridiculed; they see women thrown out of the circle of male civilization for having ideas, plans, visions, ambitions. They see that traditional marriage means selling to one man, not hundreds: the better deal. They see that the streets are cold, and that t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:59 PM
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Interesting how society grooms us that its all about sex and lust and fireworks - when actually finding the right partner is about meticulous vetting. I guess 'meticulous vetting' isn't a sexy sell. "Love is a skill. A skill that need to be learned. And a skill that our society refuses to consider as a skill" Source: Why you will marry the wrong person https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EvvPZFdjyk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:50 PM
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Just gave you the Hugz award because your story really touched me. I am so sorry you had to go through all of that pain and coercion... Much love x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:49 PM
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An awesome article! ​ I didn't know Savannah had snared a man using FDS principles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:23 AM
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Since y’all have refused to listen to us, to fix this discrimination against women and the many ways y’all shortchange us, then I’m going to balance the scales in other ways. Queen energy. Louder: Since y’all have refused to listen to us, to fix this discrimination against women and the many ways y’all shortchange us, then I’m going to balance the scales in other ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:15 PM
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So zesty ... I AM HERE FOR IT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:12 PM
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This is incel/mgtow behaviour. Glad that sub was banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:19 AM
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Ew - he has no neck. Sis you can keep him Nobody wants that. Nobody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:15 AM
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I am the opposite of this If I have a suitor/boyfriend I expose them to my hot friends to guage his reaction. Teaches me alot about his potential scrotacity and whether he genuinely likes me. Also, if she postures around him - it tells me how much I can trust her - and whether she has my back or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:13 AM
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You were their entertainment. Louder: You were their entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:29 PM
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Ah yes, the smear campaign. Nothing out out their mouth can be trusted, nothing . It is almost fascinating, just how evil they can be when you just happen to get the attention instead of them - like a switch suddenly flipped on and now they talk like you just destroyed their entire extended family. Smear campaigns come from deep insecurity. As someone on the receiving end of workplace smear campaigns and also smear campaigns from narcy family members I am ultra sensitive to people talking shit a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:49 AM
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I wasn't vaccinated yet, plus it was the first date, so I said no. He looked the same, but I felt his energy *shift*. Then, before I can get in my car good, he's roaring out of the parking lot! bbbut... he ate some food in your presence and kept up the pretence of being interested in you for a WHOLE TWO HOURS.... how dare you deny him your sexual energy? ​ /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:19 AM
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Re your tattoo - can you modify it? Add an element to it? Or even have an element removed? Hi OP - I just wanted to add... that you should modify your tatto not in case he leaks your pics - but for your own peace of mind. It may help you psychologically gain control over the situation if you adjust/modify the one thing that you think will 'betray' you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:00 AM
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Re your tattoo - can you modify it? Add an element to it? Or even have an element removed? Re: being underage - your testimony is enough. Your word has value here. Also, if he was grooming you online - he is also grooming others. I would check state databases for his name in court records and on sex register directories. Make sure you have dirt on his scrotey ass. He may even be married now... would be a terrible thing for his wife to find out he grooms young girls online... ​ Edit: Also get a f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:39 PM
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Times have changed. People are not going to shame you if these photos do come to light. Which they won't because the internet is full of naked women Hypothetical: You are in a high powered job one day in the future, and your boss summons you to his office to discuss photos of you simply deny. Your face and body change well into your twenties. Bone structure changes - puppy fat disappears. Just be like "I am offended that you are trying to humiliate me like this - I don't know who the girl in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:01 PM
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I LOVE HER ENERGY! HIGH FIVES LADIES TO FOR SECURING HER FOR THE SHOW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:35 AM
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Yasmine Mohammed did a great interview with Aayan Hirsi Ali about this issue https://twitter.com/YasMohammedxx/status/1421294346649968643 ​ Edit: Would also like to add the term "Honour Killing" is repellent. It should be "Coward Killing"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:36 AM
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Any man who leaves a woman alone in a (even slightly) dangerous situation is a Negative Value Man. Louder: Any man who leaves a woman alone in a (even slightly) dangerous situation is a Negative Value Man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:26 AM
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I have no idea - I am just throwing out ideas and repeating ideas I saw here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5lKKEWPL5w This lady says that when she stopped Botox - her face did not go back to normal ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCMyCtEBnNg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:17 AM
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Yep - I buy cakes for homeless shelters and hospices ( for the workers). I enjoy spreading delight and joy. Today I delivered a rose and pistachio cake to a homeless shelter in the city. We are in the middle of a Covid lockdown and time are toughs for all. I imagine the social workers need some love too x Also I enjoy taking care of my elder female relatives. This week my 72yo Aunty had two friends die and she also developed flu like symptoms and she became depressed. So I sent her a gourmet mea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:21 AM
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Girl - this story just dropped. An Australian woman in Eastern Europe was raped and murdered on a hike. She was on the phone when she was attacked. ​ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9854829/Australian-woman-raped-murdered-hiking-Georgia-friend-hears-final-seconds-call.html And lets not forget the nordic backpackers who were hiking then raped and beheaded in Morocco and the footage was uploaded onto the internet. ​ Edit: on your first link - the scrote pushing his wife off the cliff - it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:14 AM
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ehhhh its tough. My general rule of thumb is that it is your body - do what makes you happy But then again - I know girls in their 20s who get botoxed ( pure vanity reasons) who now look like women in their late 30s. It's odd. Also - I hear that it ages you more as your face muscles are not being used so they atrophy even worse. Dr Chan has a cool video about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfymZBaivkM I would only get it done if I was an Oscar-tier actress and my face was in front of the ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:56 AM
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Done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:47 AM
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aw poor him feeling dehumanised and judged. /s Women deal with that every day, scrote. Men jack off to our dehumanisation and the entire porn industry profits off it. ​ Stop whining you child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:42 AM
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I knew a guy who had a dick like a baby thumb! Why do micro penis dudes slut around so much? Your peen is small, ugly and useless. Why flash that around like a grinning toddler??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:06 PM
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I do know that you can buy Rohypnol on the dark web .... scrotes with tech skills lurk there Also - they use ketamine which is a horse tranquilliser. Anyone can go to their doctor and feign sleeping problems and be prescribed benzos too. Men lie all the time. Then they use this on unsuspecting victims. Underground redpill/incel forums also sell immobilising drugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:04 PM
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This is why I barely drink. Girl same. I have had too many male 'friends' slip something in my drink once it became apparant to them I would never sleep with them and they were friendzoned. Many were actor male types - so in theory they were enlightened - but in reality they were pathetic scrotes. Trust no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:30 AM
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I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope that predator is out of your life - and you can start to heal from the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:12 AM
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Also you can get a rape kit up to 5 days after a rape (oral, vaginal, digital/fingers, anal). If it’s been a few days after this period, you might be able to still get one as a hospital can’t refuse do it. If you ever get attacked and you’re not able to get to the hospital, place any clothes especially underwear into a brown paper bag to preserve the evidence. Take pictures of any bruises you might have as well and text multiple people that you were assaulted to leave a digital trail as evidence…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:11 AM
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i know right. I am a grown-ass woman who only learned these facts yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:42 AM
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Women at work: Fantastic - this will really help me move forward professionally. I am committed to doing my best and working hard to demonstrate my value Men at work: Oh look a woman. A great opportunity for me to get my dick touched. How can i manipulate this situation to my benefit. ​ MEN CAN NOT HANDLE POWER OR RESPONSIBILITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 12:32 AM
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THAT is horrible that poor young girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:23 AM
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Oh okay. Looked into it - Yep that is his daughter. My bad. Still not a healthy place for young girls to be spending time - around debaucherous rock n roll dudes on drugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:34 AM
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Right!? How creepy is this photo of Jimmy Page. She looks 12/13 https://www.pinterest.com.au/pin/687221224385420877/ ​ Brace yourself - this one is WORSE ​ https://www.pinterest.com.au/pin/569564684126604164/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:49 AM
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We need to stop glorifying/worshipping men in entertainment who are abusive and sick. Just because they have talent does not mean they get a free pass. Also - David Bowie Iggy Pop et al sleeping with 13/14 year olds Look at these girls - they look like children https://www.pinterest.com.au/pin/599401031638768474/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:33 AM
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Julian even said Paul McCartney was more of a father than Lennon. Yep. The song 'Hey Jude' is about Julian. It was originally called 'Hey Jules' but Paul changed it to a girls name to make it more 'marketable' - and also to protect Julian. And anytime you feel the pain, hey Jude, refrain,Don't carry the world upon your shoulders.For well you know that it's a fool who plays it coolBy making his world a little colder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:31 AM
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You have seen the light. Welcome. Side effects include greater mental clarity and better sleep x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:16 AM
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I hate gossip and I can't stand women who talk shit about other women. We are all doing our best out there. Be fucking kind. It's not hard. Kindness is free. I have been on the receiving end of nasty women and it's just so cruel, dehumanising and alienating. If someone murders babies and slaughters puppies - fine - have a piss and a moan about them. Chuck them in the bin and glue it shut. But hating on another woman because of some perceived slight or your ego is trigerred Spare me. If girls are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:05 AM
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This needs to be a separate post for awareness. Great facts. I did not know this. The 'current thinking' is that date rape drugs exit your system in 24 hours. A lie obviously perpetuated by scrote logic - to allow men to get away with their sexual crimes. ​ Sooo many women failed to report their attacks because of this lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:56 PM
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I watched that on Netflix. The REAL tragedy is that she didn't be like 'LOL BYE" divorce him and take 50 million or so - and just live a life of peace with her child. He started threatening her only when she told him she knew of the mistress. Why oh why didn't she just be like.. 'You want her? Have her! Let's divorce - leave me with 50 million' then go and live a life of peace, luxury and freedom. I just don't get why she saw his cheating as an abuse on her, instead of his garden variety misogyn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:40 AM
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“Men make the moral code and they expect women to accept it. They have decided that it is entirely right and proper for men to fight for their liberties and their rights, but that it is not right and proper for women to fight for theirs.” Emmeline Pankhurst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:58 AM
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This is what the film Marriage Story with Scarjo and Adam Driver was about. Scarjo's character had a picture perfect life. Successful husband who doted on their child, a creatively ( if not somewhat limited) creative career... However the reason she left Charlie ( Adam Driver's character ) is because she was unfulfilled. She wanted to reach her potential. Often, in marriage, it is the woman who sacrifices so a man can reach his potential. She recognised that being the 'servant' in the relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:59 AM
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Reminds me of this very succinct tweet from Feminine Riles. https://twitter.com/Feminine\_Riles/status/1410980995017420805
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:47 AM
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My face the entire time listening to the roast-a-scrote story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:43 AM
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Ladies - what is better than being a cool girl? Figuring out you WHO are - your likes, your facets and let them shine. Are you an attorney but also a death doula ? Yasss Are you trained in law but also write awesome fiction for women to devour and exalt ? Yassss Are you a mum who has love medieval warfare and devours historical documentaries on youtube after your kids go to bed ? Yasss Are you a STEM girl who secretly loves crocheting and re-homing rescue cats? Yasss ​ Society has groomed us to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:38 AM
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This amused me deeply. Thank you for the share. Lana has not time for any bullshit. Clever kitty! Screengrabbed this - because I love her 'give me strength' look on her face - as she owns the remote control and wears diamond jewellery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:53 AM
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No manners = bad/selfish in bed I said what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:30 AM
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I am continually shocked by mens inability to see things from a womans perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:58 AM
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There is a pattern of “beta” males being a nuisance in most mammal species. Love that you have a biology background! LOVE THE FACT. Laughing so hard)that there are beta's amongst all mammal species. Are there any that are top of mind that you would like to share?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:47 AM
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All good. I love all feedback and love hearing peoples thoughts. Keep doing you! And yeah - I guess my psychoanalysis was weird and leftist. All good though. I wonder how the the right would approach the same issue? I would be keen to hear thoughts and opinions. I love opposing points of view!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:25 PM
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Susan Faludi documented in the 90s how organized feminism threatens corporate profits, but also threatens the entire top down corporate structure and mentality even beyond profits. ​ Firstly, thanks for shouting out Susan Faludi. I remember buying Backlash back in the 90s at my local bookstore only to take it home to discover IT WAS A SIGNED COPY. Ahh. Good times. . If anyone remembers political advisor Cass Sunstein's leaked paper, No - never come across Sunstein's paper. But I am going to seek…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:21 PM
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Thanks lovely! Really appreciate your support to get my thoughts and words out there xox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:10 PM
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weird , leftist psychoanalyses of incels/misogynists/mgtows/whatever else these beta call themselves. Woot! I just got a thrill by being called a 'weird leftist'. I don't subscribe to any end of the political spectrum. Each end of the political spectrum is just grappling for a sense of power and relevance. They plainly tell you themselves that they believe that they should be able to beat and rape girls and women with impunity, but can’t anymore because it’s illegal (in theory). Oh yeah. They ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:10 PM
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nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:35 AM
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SkyWanderluster ·Please turn this on a post Have done so. Thanks for the request https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/oqlnku/thoughts_on_the_manosphere_why_redpills_and/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:55 AM
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When men call each other 'simp' or 'beta' they are re-inforcing the patriarchy. The patriarchy does not GIVE A FUCK about the men in the middle of the pyramid*. It doesn't offer mental health services, it treats them like dumb animals ( porn), it constantly encourage them to be banal ( duh sex, duh sport, duh beer, duh gaming) - and what for? So the guys at the top can easily control the dudes in the middle of the pyramid. Back in the day they were sent off to war to be fodder, now they are made…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:54 AM
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When I was alone in Turkey, the owner of my airbnb and his friends wanted to enter the apartment without my consent That is terrifying! I can't imagine you slept AT ALL that night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:42 PM
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Agreed. When I first heard this song I thought it articulated that fear you have when your sweetheart has eyes for a younger/more beautiful woman. ​ Now - all i hear is a woman who is torturing herself by involving herself with an LVM. Love Dolly. But this song grates me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:29 AM
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They’re supposed to simp for other men. Yep. Nailed it. This is why the military and large orgs requiring blind obedience. In a mans mind - this 'order' is the rejection of chaos. And in their blinkered point of view - this is the only way a system can be effective. I think it is just proof of mens inflexible thinking. We have all experienced this in the workplace where men are rewarded for thinking inside the box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:26 AM
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Men are two things: Predatory Opportunistic During times in my life that I was truly vulnerable. Broke - welfare dependant - living in my car - living two states away from any family - men ALWAYS without fail escalated aggression and coercion. ​ Conversely, when I was flying high ( travelling overseas for work) literally on the other side of the planet with Bosses and managers - their trickery and fuckery escalated. Hotel rooms were suddenly 'cancelled' and CEOS expected me to share a room with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:12 AM
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Her song "Oblivion" is about sexual assault and the video is full of men and activities considered to be masculine. I didn't know this thanks. Always wondered about why she was tripping around a football stadium .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:30 AM
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worst pick-mes i know are lesbians I have never heard this perspective. Do tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:40 AM
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Most women have a choice between no sex and casual sex😭 so they choose casual sex not knowing that it is worse than fast food for their body, mind and soul. Agreed. I had the opportunity to continue a super sexy, fun and respectful sexual hook up with a outrageously delicious and gorgeous man. He had wonderful sexual ettiquette. Was beautifully groomed. Tasted like heaven. Sexy.. the works! But I chose to decline the arrangement. Simply because I knew my female bonding hormones could easily kick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:39 AM
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Deeply amusing tik toks of women trolling their partners to go and buy feminine products that don't exist. For example 'tampon remover' and 'Oochie Cooch 3000'. https://youtu.be/2eAV5_RApOQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:19 AM
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This is why HVM have much healthier attitudes to sex. They recognize it's an intimate act between them and their partner. Their penis is a tool that helps to start the creation of life and bond with their partner, not a fucking village dildo that's spread around to reduce women to masturbation objects. village dildo. I laughed hard. You are right - well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:07 AM
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​ having a normal sex drive that's only activated when you have an emotional connection with a man that loves you is going to seem strange... but actually it's completely normal. One of the reason incels/redpills hate us is because they think we have sooo much sexual access. We can have sex whenever we want with as many people as we want - and this is their core resentment toward us. Because THAT is their ultimate fantasy to have unlimited sex. They think this way because they think - in their t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:10 PM
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Women having an insatiable sex drive that will fuck almost anyone Anxiety can also be confused for sexual compulsion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:34 PM
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You have nerves of steel to put up with this! I have had a think why men don't speak up for women. It is not in their personal interest too - as it will disrupt their place in the hierarchy. Men are hierarchical. Meaning - they are constantly simping for their leader and each other in order to maintain their status. To advocate for a woman is to "go rogue" on the established order and jeopardise their position in the hierarchy( NOT male sympathising here - just explaining their thinking) What co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:31 PM
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Glad you liked it! It's a useful strategy. Adjust the '3 months' to 6 or 12 months. Whatever suits you best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:33 PM
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You are very welcome : ) ! It is a very fun film. I saw it when I was a little girl and loved it ever since!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:41 AM
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Ah yes. The superior, logical and rational sex. /s "Highland County sheriff’s deputies went to Genco’s home in March of 2020 for a domestic issue between him and his mother." Can you imagine being pregnant, and birthing a child - giving it the best years of your life only to have him turn out as a depraved incel?!?! Who physically threatens you? How heartbreaking for the mother. ​ THIS is why we vet. To ensure we don't mate with low value males. If you breed with an LVM the repercussions are dea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:11 AM
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Another tactic I have seen used with success. Tell your LVM that you need a 3 month 'break'. Future-fake a reconciliation. Don't feel guilty - men future-fake women all the time. Tell him 'Let's see how we go on a 3 month break. You, sir, are a free agent and can do as you please. Go and and explore your feeling for Pickminique - go! Be free! Let's meet at the 3 month mark to see if this relationship is something we want to continue with. I just want you to explore your options and I need some t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:18 AM
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Hugs for Savannah - she sounded quite emotional reading out the post/letter from a sex worker who was pink pilled by the FDS podcast. "Sex should be shared at YOUR leisure and YOUR pleasure" Loved that quote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:08 PM
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"women's work" Except when it's Gordon Ramsay or Anthony Bourdain or Jamie Olivier. Funny that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:25 AM
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Serotonin makes you very unsexual and lifts your mood. Highly recommend. I live in a different dimension. A wholesome one - it's awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:02 AM
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That is neat! I am honoured to have my words screenshotted. Spread the ideas far and wide!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:32 AM
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Sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:18 AM
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Thank you. I love how the internet gives us the opportunituy to share thoughts on a global platform. I am rarely heard OR listened to in real life - so having an awesome internet stranger feel connected to my words means sooooo much. Thank you xox <love from Australia>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:02 AM
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Thanks! OrangeChickenGeneral for the love <3 I am tickled pink you liked my ramblings :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:54 AM
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Oh yeah. The film is fantastic. Abbie Cornish is brilliant - it was her break out role. And Cate is a wonderful director - sensitive and personal. She is one of my favourite directors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:17 PM
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eh its hard to engage pop culture after being 'pink pilled' by FDS I used to love the song 'Suspicious Mind' by Elvis The video of his performance is incredible in terms of his on stage charisma. However, the song is about a woman who knows her man is cheating.. and he responds with "Why can't you see - What you are doing to me - When you don't believe a word I'm saying - we can't go on together - with suspicious minds' Basically it is a scrote anthem about how to manipulate and gaslight a woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:45 AM
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Oh please oh please reveal these secrets! Imma thinking... whatever their weakness is - weaponise it!! Whether it is 'status' or 'competitiveness' or something as simple as telling Man A that Man B wants his title. Casually mention to Man A that Man B is out golfing with the CEO every weekend.I am a novice at manipulation - it any one has any other ideas - please share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:01 AM
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most likely do not see women as fully human. You are so right. They have been socialised to think that we are lesser than 'sub human' and that we are, by nature, less than them. They are confused when we don't behave or respond in a way that fits this paradigm. They see our ability to stand up for our ourselves as rogue. In their mind 'Why doesn't she KNOW her place?'. Also in their minds 'Men are superior clearly because all science, art, philosophy, engineering was created by MEN' completely d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:46 AM
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Director of Black Widow was Australian director Cate Shortland who made a splash with the Aussie film 'Somersault' with Abbie Cornish. A film about a non-neurotypical girl figuring out how to exist in this world. Sam Worthington also stars. ​ Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0RkTBc5jwo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:11 AM
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Meryl Streep is such a fantastic comedian! She is so wonderful in this role! I also recommend Shirley Valentine. A story about an English woman who says 'up yours' to her scrote husband and ungrateful kids and runs off to Greece. She finds her peace, has an affair with a handsome Greek man and finally finds happiness. It is WILDLY funny! Joanna Lumley plays her highschool bully. When Shirley bumps into her in the street when they are in their 40s, she is surprised to hear that Joanna's character…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:48 AM
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These incidents are egregious. I am brainstorming here ... Do men NOT call other men out on their bullshit because they are hierarchial? They are so obsessed with maintaining the order of the hierarchy - constantly propping up the leader.... constantly simping for the approval of other men? Is this the only way they see they can maintain the status in the hierarchy? To call out the abusive behaviours means their job and livlihood is at threat? And men would rather let woman be run over by abusiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:18 AM
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They are just parroting red pill talking points. They have this "evil woman" in mind that they are constantly referring too. Out of all the women in my life - I have met ONE who is pure trash to this level of deception and narcissism and desperation. These scrotes carry on as if every 2nd woman has these traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:36 AM
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Thank you. I love anything Dworkin related! And finding her docs is always a hard search online. ​ Cheers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:38 AM
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Yes - he is trash. Spotted it from a mile away when she started doing booty-esque photos on her insta. She just dropped out of the French Open citing 'mental health' reasons. I secretely suspect it was because of 'mental scrote' reasons... He is wasting her talent and it's sad to witness. He is literally a vampire sucking her energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:48 PM
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Thank you beautiful, kind internet stranger x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:25 AM
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Ok. You just shifted my reality with that statement. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:49 PM
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What happened to this attractive women to think that she deserves that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:39 PM
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I have had waiters look at my receipt when I payed with a credit card and then hit me up on Facebook. His friend request came through - and I was like "Do I know you?" and he was like "No you came into my cafe this morning and I saw your name" BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:38 AM
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I used to be so naive and well meaning. I hear ya sis. I had the false notion that if you were kind to co-workers and hardworking - this would yield a positive work experience. NOPE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:07 AM
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Amusing Poly video that makes fun of the creepiness https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTsdKycVZZ4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:46 PM
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Side note: I got the flying monkeys fired after they were threatened by police with charges of witness tampering. But then I'm a "devil woman" and had a reputation that trailed me for years). You are amazing. I wish I knew a woman like you in my toxic workplace! I had no idea how to handle the flying monkeys in my workplace except just keep smiling while they snickered like hyenas behind my back - and I spiralled into severe anxiety. Female flying monkeys in the workplace are ALWAYS EPIC PICK-ME…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:25 PM
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Next time a man starts ranting and raving in the office, calmly tell him to not be so emotional and then watch him - Lose His Shit ​ Look at him with concern when he starts having a meltdown then ask him if he is having a medical episode and does he need a glass of water?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:45 AM
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This man dedicated an entire fake persona into tricking me into banging him, Men fake entire personalities to be with women Then once they hook her - they resent her because they never actually liked her core being to begin with. Then - the woman is confused as to why he changed so suddenly. Then he feels entitled to cheat. Rinse. Wash. Repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:34 PM
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Thanks OP. Great upload. This video goes into uncovering the very secretive Head Scrote at Mindgeek and also his Pick Me chick as they profit from the bodies of abused and raped women. Worth a watch. Compelling - and just recently published to YouTube as of a few days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:52 PM
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Sounds like a Shallon Lester follower... I never understand the nastiness these girls possess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:17 PM
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r feminism ( modded by men) removed this post - and when I inquired as to why ( very politely) they banned me. Cool and normal /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:46 AM
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Not from the US - what is Title IX?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:39 AM
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"Are you saying silence is consent - if they are knocked out its consent?" ​ WTF DID I JUST HEAR?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:57 AM
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She actually looks terrified. She is sitting amongst a pack of wolves who don't see her as human. I hope she reported this to the school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:54 AM
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Twoxchromosomes and witchesvspatriarchy too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:21 AM
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Gym mirrors are gaslighting you. Another round of BS from the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:44 AM
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Nor did I! I had no idea there was a market for them. But I learned that yes. Yes, there is. Who wants to buy a mirror that makes you look bulky? Gymbros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:21 PM
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I really enjoyed hearing about how that regardless if you are beautiful or not - you still have to deal with scrotacity. Savannah nailed it when she said that that even the most desirable women on the planet are treated like trash. Also - ladies - can you deliver some field reports of your dating experiences - post Covid? Would love to hear about your real life experiences. Enjoyed how Lilith was talking about dating working class guys from the Canadian oil fields ( previous podcast) and how the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:46 AM
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Dr Ramani is an amazing woman on YouTube who will bring you up to speed on narcissists and sociopaths. The only woman I trust to listen too. She is A Game. She was also married to one so she had 1st hand experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:29 AM
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Yah. It's triggering. It was my dads favourite word to use around the house. A weapon of language he would throw around freely..... and the tone he would use. Still gives me shivers....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:26 AM
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Real talk though, this is why we need women's gyms. Tons of women forego keeping their bodies healthy because going to the gym can be so uncomfortable with creepy men like this around. 100% My gym is on a main road and the treadmills look out onto a main rd. I have to witness men entering "massage parlours" aka brothels. Raggedy middle aged scrote after raggedy middle aged scrote.... Also the mirrors in my gym are thicc mirrors. I thought I was bigger than I actually was - and checked the lady n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:24 AM
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yup. I dated a model tier bartender. He worked at the plushest hotel in London and would routinely tell me how rich, bored women would fling themselves at him. Apparently Meg Ryan at one stage... Anyway, he loved the attention - and rich, mildly alcoholic women were utterly charmed by his sexy sweet ( an act) self and his attentive ways. They would fly into town, be charmed by a sexy hot guy with great skills and enjoy a night of sexy time romping with him. Good for them - but in essence - he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:30 AM
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What a brave girl. The way she chastises him in the middle "Don't look at me like that!!!!" ​ Also - I think her aunt is very naive for permitting her to be in his company alone. I feel she was complicit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:34 PM
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That is awesome thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:44 AM
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He was overly friendly and charismatic and offered to do handyman repairs around my house. 100% wants to put spycams in your house. Men are not altruistic - they're number one concern is serving their penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:24 AM
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(lets pray he's humble and handles his great gift of male beauty with care and grace.. !) I love that. Men should see their beauty as a privilege and know how to exist in this world in a humble manner - without using their appeal to deceive and hurt women. Keanu Reeves passes this test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:29 AM
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Thank you for tapping this out. It helped me understand where subs are coming from as it never made sense to me. I am glad you are healing x BDSM advocates will be mad, and say that their sexual submission/domination is how they "process their trauma", because they agree on hard limits and perform aftercare. THIS 100% There is a prominent libfem in Australia called Clem Ford. She is always touting BDSM as 'healing '. Nah sis. Your loser bf is not a trauma specialist or psychology professional. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:07 AM
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Happened in Peru https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FI2LY4dk-s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:03 AM
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You can find them in vintage shops! Cool because you will own a weapon from a bad-ass woman from yesteryear. Keeping their energy alive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:31 AM
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It's the first time in history where women are stating their preferences. Our lives no longer revolve around surviving by attaching ourselves to marriage , unlike our grandmothers who could never divorce and had to endure scrotacity and revolting behaviour because the alternative was to be shunned by society as a divorced woman. And that is if divorce was available to them... For real - it is the first time men are hearing us state exactly what we like in men and we don't give a fuck what they t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:28 PM
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Men are not funny. They THINK they are funny - but they are not. All of their jokes are tired and cliched and they are always parroting the same tired lines. Savannah from the podcast tweeted "Women are always able to come up with most original roasts for men. Men parrot one insult incessantly. The lack of creativity is amusing." and she is so right. Men always are trying to be edgelords. "Dark" sense of humor etc. Louis CK always had material about being so pissed of about being cut off in traf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:48 PM
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I'm thinking either: Albury Ipswitch Gympie Gold Coast Noosa ​ Have heard of such things in all those towns. It's funny the ice thing... even the 'well respected' peeps are involved. Small towns hold many secrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:45 AM
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You are right. I stand corrected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:23 AM
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They are super cool! Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:46 AM
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Porn. It's porn. Their brains are saturated with it. Porn tells them that women are objects to be used for their gratifications. They watch images of women being dehumanised and 'dominated' ( read: raped) every single damn day of their lives. it re-wires their brain - triggers their reptile centre and yeah..... they just lose their humanity. Also films like American Psycho. American Psycho really glamorised fucking and killing women in their tiny brains. .... American Psycho is the ultimate 'dud…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:40 AM
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Australia? ! Whaaat - what city did this happen in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:31 AM
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What country are you in? If you don't want to say - a vague geographical continent is fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:19 PM
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100% She was in love and obsessed with Epstein. So much so that she happily sent women to slaughter for his pleasure. TRASH! If you are a privileged woman it is your duty to help those who are less fortunate than you. Princess Diana style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:03 AM
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Scary bark is awesome! Dobermans are such sweet gentlemen/ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:22 AM
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Hiiiii <forgets\_how\_to\_use\_words>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:52 AM
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Thank you for raising awareness about this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:42 PM
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Dance clubs with $10,000 tables (Miami) also facilitate sex rings That is wild! how? Not questioning you - just trying to understand how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:55 PM
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So true. Have ALWAYS hated clubbing culture and could never understand why my younger friends were so obsessed with indulging in it. Same for music festivals. Not safe for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:50 AM
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Off topic - but has Derrick Jaxons 'brand' recovered from his scrotacity and cheating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:42 PM
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Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:32 AM
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Thank you for the work you do as a trauma therapist x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:18 AM
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Thank you for your commiseration. Misogyny is so entrenched in my family that even my sisters are infected with it - and use abuse tactics as a weapon. The evils of ww2 are still alive in my family in 2021. Generational trauma is a hard to break - but I vow to be the circuit breaker. For all the women who have sufferred and died in my family. As a side note, my grandmothers daughter ( my dads sister) also suffered a premature death at age 40. She was beautiful and brilliant - an INCREDIBLE busin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:03 AM
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'Your grandfather was probably a horrible husband" This hit hard. My grandmother suicided to escape the horrible abuse inflicted on her by my grandad. He was a Nazi and she was Jewish. Can you imagine the horrible life she had? Her husband encouraged his son ( my dad) to also beat her. My mother would witness my father push his mother to the ground and laugh at her distress. She had already sufferred multiple cancers - and this is how they treated her. She went back to Poland for a holiday and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:47 AM
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This - he is a doddering old fool. A silly man who is unaware times have changed He will be in for a rude awakening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:02 PM
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Wyze v3 thanks have been looking for something like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:52 PM
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My sister has a gorgeous house and needed me to be there to let some workers in while she was overseas. I let them in - they were scrotey as hell. I could tell they were super impressed with the plush house and to be honest I felt uneasy having to be alone with them. So I casually said - 'are you guys ok with dogs? Because we have two large german shepherds for security. They are very territorial and tend to be aggressive around strangers. But no worries! I have locked them downstairs. BUT if th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:24 PM
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Vomit Factor 100 ​ If you are into good trashy reads. "You'll Never Make Love In This Town Again" was written by former escorts in the 80s early 90s. It is an expose on the male depravity of celebrities of the day - as these women serviced these rich/famous degenerates. In this book it details Sylvesters specific kink. He likes women to SHIT on him. ​ Enjoy the read ladies. It's difficult to put down https://www.amazon.com/Youll-Never-Make-Love-Again/dp/1597775428
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:17 PM
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Amazing post OP. Thanks for tapping this out. Epictetus wrote The Enchiridion and I highly recommend seeking out this short sharp text Its a short manual of stoic advice. IF you are hanging with dudes and they talk about The Stoics - tread carefully. REDPILLERS have used these philosophies and twisted the text into their bullshit versions which justifies their garden variety misogyny. The problem is - Stoicism hinges on virtue and character. And redpillers are obsessed with NOT having virtue or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:05 AM
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Civilisation as a whole would evolve. Besides - men piss and moan all the time how distracting their sexual impulse is - and how it prevents them from being functional. There is an entire subreddit r / no fap dedicated to this way of thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:29 AM
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You sound like you are dating a fully functional man. I applaud you!! As a contrast - here are things I had to deal with when i was travelling with men for work - their constant belief that going on a work trip meant it was a free pass for them to have sex with me. That I would just be dyyyying to sleep with them. <fuckingeyeroll> - their mini tantrums. If I expressed competency in a certain area - ie speaking a second language to another man to understand logistical issues ( train timetable, ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:30 AM
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At this point - libfems are mens rights activists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:45 AM
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MEN WHO CAN'T CONTROL THEIR URGES SHOULD BE IMPLANTED WITH A CHIP TO MANAGE THEIR HORMONES. It would benefit society as we have less aggressive fuckheads on the street - and perhaps men will not act like soulless sex machines and actually develop - ya know - empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:57 AM
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he thinks that men are just rape-machines that can't control themselves? Yet men always crap on about how they are the "superior, logical and rational sex' - yet they can't control their basic emotions and or bodily functions. They are barnyard animals at best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:55 AM
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100% and try not to judge women who are caught in the patriarchal matrix. Never look down on another women because of her circumstances. We are all trying to exist in the matrix that is actively working against us. Also - if you are a woman who has privileges - it is your responsibility to lift up other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:02 AM
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Hi Op. Check out historian Max Dashu's work. She is the author of the Suppressed History Archive. She recognises that we are all swimming in a soup of patriarchial theocracy. A world full of male points of view, decided by men, for men - to benefit men. It is fantastic to follow her work because it is sooo obvious that women have been whitewashed from history, theism, society culture - and Max's work restores women's influence back into cultural memory. ​ Website: https://www.suppressedhistories…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:46 AM
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These words need to be on a sticker and blasted all over major metro areas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:39 AM
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Preeti does Goddess work! This is a novel I would buy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:35 AM
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When he took her to his cabin in the woods - and she kept squealing about racoons or wildlife and having meltdowns in his kitchen - I was genuinely embarassed for her . Who doesn't wanna spend a weekend in a rustic - but functional - cabin with a hot guy who can chop wood/build a fire ?? Sounds awesome to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:53 PM
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There is a longer version of this. Basically, there is more before this video started. The guy - through poor supervision - actually lets the kids walk into harms way. What we are seeing is him realizing his fuck up and trying to fix the issue that he ultimately created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:51 AM
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That is an excellent point - and one i had never thought of before. She was the first public divorce... and from a powerful family. Nobody had done that before - all with such media scrutiny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:00 AM
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What do men do when they feel any unpleasant emotion? Spew it on everyone around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:31 AM
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Just a reminder that reddit is full of hateful, ugly losers with severe personality disorders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:49 AM
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I remember going on a date with a guy who just landed a plum job in tech. I was also celebrating my plum job in tech. So it was going to be a joyful date. We had know each other for 5 years, but now, we were working in in the same city and close geographically to each other. We agreed on the date. I researched restaurants and founds something unique and quirky in an ye olde part of town - which is both historical and cool As we were walking past a pub, I causally mentioned "Oh that is the oldest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:44 PM
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Dr Jess Taylor author of 'Why Women Are Blamed For Everything', is releasing a new book called 'Sexy but Psycho' ​ From her press release: 'Angry, opinionated, mouthy, aggressive, hysterical, delusional, borderline, hormonal. Women have long been pathologised, locked up and medicated for not conforming. Dr Taylor's book will critically analyse the way we label women with personality disorders. Why are women pathologised for being angry about oppression and abuse? How have so many women been dupe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:16 PM
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Set a note in your calender and send her a "let catch up" text every two months or so. Check in on her. Take her out for coffee and cake at a lovely location, and just chat about work stuff, life stuff. Be her friend. If things go to shit for her - which they will - as he will ramp up his BS make her feel safe with you so she can reach out to you if she needs too. Let her know that you can be a reference for her next job - or talk about an opportunity at xyz company.... see if she lights up at t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:56 AM
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it took alllllllllllllll of my energy to not point out that Steve in fact does not work hard, he grandstands and monologues and networks trying to build an empire; and the hot new intern he hired and spends all day trying to screw does most of the boring, brain dead, essential and miserable data pulls for him, is rewarded with his sweaty dad-aged attempts at flirting, and is completely erased when he passes her work off as his own to his higher ups. Honestly, Becky- can I call you Becky? - he wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:20 AM
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Yep - watched this last night on Netflix. A great watch. Also her chemistry with Margaret Cho is great. Really enjoyed their scenes together. I love Iliza's stand up - and I am so glad to see she has graduated to features!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:57 PM
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One hundred percent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:10 PM
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Blame the Disney star factory. There was some dark things happening to those poor kids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:06 AM
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A fathers duty to his daughter is: ​ To raise her with a strong sense of self To teach her to trust her intuition To discuss ways to protect herself from other males by giving her the vocabulary to get out of bad situation ( I don't feel comfortable/Please stop doing that/ I am sorry but I have to leave now) To raise her to be discerning about the types of men she invites into her world To teach her always prioritise her safety and dignity over a mans ego + his sexual needs Because, one day - da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:57 AM
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Right? He just openly admits that he is a danger to women. Revolting scrote. I fear for his daughters. Some men shouldn't breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:53 AM
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This. He barely thinks you are a human being. Men see women as entities they can extract resources from (time. money, labor, sex, affection, support) I am sorry OP but.... I am glad you have seen the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:33 AM
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those disturbing public dance videos on Instagram, stuffed her with meds, got her a rental Ken doll boyfriend All of this yes. They put her on some heavy, heavy lithium.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:43 AM
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I think he is her 'minder' paid by her Dad Please - he doesn't like her love her. He is just there for HER fame and HER status. Scrotes are gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:32 AM
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If men are ever as safe to criticize, I’m sure more people will feel comfortable holding men accountable for men’s actions. Excellent point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:11 AM
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This is so common and people still choose to blame women THIS!! My father died and left my mother homeless and penniless after 35 years of marriage. Still, my sister ( who has my fathers malignant personality) blames my mother and says it was her fault. For the life of me - I can't understand why people, and in my case, my narc sister just LOVE to blame and scapegoat her own mother to protect the legacy of my father. A man whose legacy is "This man was an epic piece of shit". SMDH still protecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:13 PM
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Thanks! Her art is cool. I also noticed that she is a fellow Aussie. LOL I like how all the men in the pics are pantless with their feeble peens just flapping in the breeze
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:09 PM
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Thanks for this book rec. Found this interview with Lundy - "How his Emotional Abuse is also Abusive to Your Children" ​ "Lundy Bancroft, champion of abused women and children and author of Why Does He Do That? and When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse, joins Anne Blythe on the free BTR Podcast. Lundy shares the truth about how children are impacted by partner abuse, and identifies clear ways that women can take their power back and help their children bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:08 PM
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Men think of their "FWBs" as the desperate girl he fucks when he has no other options. The only thing bringing him back is his continued lack of options. He does not think you're cool and casual and modern for this arrangement, he thinks, "well if nothing else I can always fuck that girl I don't like". Yep. They call women who are FWB "plates". As in spinning plates in the like the carnival act. They only give you enough attention for you to be viable. Awesome post, OP I also loved "You have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:03 PM
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Yes, I am fine. I didn't realise how messed up the whole situation was until FDS. Simply because I blamed myself for being so naive. But now I realise... there are unwritten rules that men write, that women are totally unaware of. This is why I love FDS - it decodes the male mind/male depravity. I did see this dude again on the street. He was like " You never called me???" And I was like "Hahahh yeah. Whoopsie me. K. Gotta go!" Something deep inside of me knew that I just wanted to get away from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:48 PM
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At around 50:00 minutes, the ladies talk about going back to a guys place and how men interpret that means they are entitled to sex. "I just want to hang out with you - I wanna see you who are. Doesn't mean that I want you to enter me" Kokoebeaute Sometimes you just want to hang out, laugh at YouTube videos, listen to music have a laugh not get naked and fuck. You just want to chat to them away from loud public spaces. Have some privacy and get to know each other. You know, hang out like humans …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:17 AM
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the guy had BO and said he had had the day off, Low effort. Couldn't even shower for you. If its a super hot day or if had been rushing from another appointment b/c he had busy day - acceptable. Sometimes a mans BO can be downright .... yeah sexy. If those pheromones make you lustful - that's good. ( Although this is a rarity) But if he stank - he is disrespecting you. You don't have to point out he stinks. Just make an excuse and leave than block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:57 PM
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Just be like "I'm not feeling this - I'm creeped out by you" then LEAVE You owe him ZERO courtesy. Why - because he would not have a problem faking an entire personality to what your 'likes' are in order to be appealing, future fake a relationship then sleep with you and ghost. Remember THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU therefore YOU OWE THEM NOTHING. Develop audacity and give zero fucks. Stay wild x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:54 AM
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It is wise to be afraid of men. We do not need to offer them the benefit of the doubt. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:57 AM
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I have a friend who is an amazing author and also an FDSer so I don't want to out her by recommending her very popular books! But she writes with FDS values in mind. High Value women and High Value men feature in her stories. . She also includes low value scroteria for colour, flavour and the lulz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:45 AM
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I love how her mic has diamond embellishments!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:43 AM
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Yep - I get the on the daily. Because scrotes love attention and they rarely get the chance to interact with women so they like to have mantrums and get testerical. I just flip the script on them.Actual DM below - copypasta--- ​ Them: I speak for all the men in Australia when I say, we don't wear anything for your pleasure or entertainment so maybe learn not to look! Me: lol butthurt!!! getting emotional over there? Having a tantrum??? Them: Haha nah back to FDS with you now you must have forgot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:57 PM
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Australian men are the worst dressed men No truer words have been spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:24 PM
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Pathological lying it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:08 PM
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yeah - I feel as if Shallon hasn't moved away from the immature feminine. Acting like she does is kinda expected between the ages of 14-16. It's like a phase one goes through when you are still deeply emotionally mature..... but the fact that she is 40 and still carry's on like that... weird vibes for real. And she has a thing for young boys. Ahhhh odd. She has some definite trauma in her past it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:06 PM
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Yeah I feel like she is the literal 'female' version of red pill. She promotes toxic ideas and abusive behaviours couched in 'empowerment'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:40 PM
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Just based on looks -how would you rate the men in NZ? And what 'type' are they? Stylish, slacker.... does NZ offer anything for the discerning woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:26 PM
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Sounds like I am on the opposite side of the world to you - as my winter is colder than usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:24 PM
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In the Pierre XO/ Richard Grannon clip, they discuss how these disordered persons are rewarded by views, likes and subscribers... empowering these monstrous personalties. Jeffree Star is another that comes to mind, who allows his lower human nature exploit the attention of people who feed off this energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:13 PM
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Spot on! Your intuition is your internal navigation system. Listen to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:51 PM
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Dr Ramani has restored equilibrium to so many peoples lives. Helped them feel less alone when in recovery from narcs. I bow to her! The narc in her life is her ex husband - so he is obviously messing with her again in some way. How to protect our Queen???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:24 PM
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Thanks - i will check it out. After spending time in FDS with all these considered and thoughtful women - it was s u p e r jarring to watch her video. I'm like - are women like this in the wild? ... Women like her actually exist? Toxic AF ​ Edit: Here she is being roasted: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-4NPyqpTOA For fans of Pierre XO and Richard Grannon - they also did a roast on Shallon https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZNZB4Rt2g4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:55 PM
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Dr Ramani broke down in a video this week. It broke my heart. It was a video about PTSD symptoms which I struggle with alot with. While Dr Ramani was talking about the sleeping problems, difficulty concentrating, easily startled responses.... she admitted that she was experiencing these too and broke down on camera Dr Ramani went on to admit that she is going through something right now - and see her crumble was heartbreaking as she is always a beacon of strength for me and gives me guiding-ligh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:58 AM
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I don't trust anything that allows its penis to malfunction its brain on the regular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:18 AM
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Therapy is actually helping me makes friends with my anger and helping me understand to re-direct it to the appropriate target - instead of internalising and stewing and damaging my mental/spiritual health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:17 AM
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Thanks! For anyone not familiar with the film - here is Amy Dunn's awesome "Cool Girl" monologue. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0o4heKCLeTs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:07 AM
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Hey no worries! Write away! FDS is a safe place to share your stream of consciousness so don't apologise for that. Let it rip! Thanks for the lovely words about my post x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:04 AM
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It’s males who have no respect for others but yet hold themselves in the highest regard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:41 AM
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I'm glad it resonated : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:02 PM
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I love that "being part of the village"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:39 PM
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True that. The spirit of love and compassion can be channelled by any living being. ​ Pupperinos channel it all the time. They operate on a high frequency of joy 24/7. This is why pupperinos are the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:37 PM
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not as click baity or interesting as her pretending to renew a relationship with Ben This is a good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:21 PM
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Novos are my jam. They are my summer sandle every season. Simple, affordable, easy to wear. Protip - if you are in Haymarket Chinatown they have an outlet store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:19 PM
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Ah yes. A man with no impulse control. How.... predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:17 PM
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In one fell swoop, she single handedly shifted the narrative to make herself the main character and the desirable one again, the primary player instead of the victim. I see you point but ayyyyy I feel like she was never the victim. Being a victim is staying with ARODS scrotey ass while he fiddles around on her... 'standing by her man' is the victim status. She cut him loose. Now all she needs to do is continue to be hot and powerful .... not take a step back to dirty old Ben and his diseased pee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:16 PM
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WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY FFS - JLo, you have money and power, beauty, charisma and status !!!! Stop lowering yourself - this shit is tiring! If you want sexy times go find a hot 30yo Latina backup dancer who knows his place and serves your needs. ( LOL that sounds harsh but THAT'S HOW IT WORKS). You invite him into your sexual world. It's a very exclusive invitation. His job is to be on his best behaviour and sexually satiate you. Scrotey Ben Affleck? There was a reason he was cast as Amy Dunne's l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:12 PM
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Works in the mines....novo shoes I see you are an Australian! Yep, you just experienced the bait and switch. They lure you in with an awesome date offer at a lovely restaurant, then they flip the script closer to the date. Because you have already 'invested' time in him you don't want to seem 'rude' so you accept his second offer. Girl, he was playing you. This is a common tactic by shit-for-brains men. He just wanted to sex you up but played the a very thin veneer of gentleman. For real - it is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:07 PM
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Motherhood can be a cult Always remember you can be a mother without giving birth. Take that divine mothering energy and channel it into plants, animals, relatives that are unwell, friends that need support, foster kids or adoption. Love is free to give and is the most potent energy to heal and transform. Nurture others and nurture yourself. You can still express the divine mother in your everyday life. ​ Edit:Just don't mother scrotes i beg you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:21 AM
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I can identify with being young and naive and wanting to prove yourself to someone who is more senior and well connected to you in the industry. You are right. It's easy to forget how girls are so easily groomed into bullshit they may regret. Heck - I think we are all guilty of it. Not to the extent of Emily R, but I am sure that every young girl went along with something their heart-of-hearts didn't want them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:40 PM
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I need to subscribe to The Patreon. I know the ladies are working for free and I have been consuming FDS content for over 2 years and now it is time to give back. Mods -just give me a few months to sort my post COVID finances. Imma broke ass at the moment. Thank you for injecting HVW energy into our Wednesdays!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:07 PM
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Also OP, that essay by Emily R was interesting. But it's hard for me to read knowing that she pranced around naked in the song 'Blurred Lines' which is essentially about raping women and is a scrote anthem. I can't understand why she would support trash like Robin Thicke and objectify herself in such a way...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:59 AM
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This is why i love FDS We are unravelling the secrets of mens' minds, that patriarchy makes it so difficult for women to see. Whenever we call out shitty male behaviour - especially predatory behaviour - we are met with a chorus of gaslighting. Nup - FDS points straight at the bullshit and declares "THERE IT IS!" This is why scrotes hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:53 AM
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So if you adopt a rescue dog and you know that it was abused - you make sure you don't behave in a way that makes it scared. You don't shout or yell. You give it cuddles during a thunderstorm etc you understand why it has rational fears. But women who have experienced ongoing abuse by men because of generalised male depravity must suddenly NOT be fearful of men because it makes men uncomfortable. No. Women have every right to be circumspect of men. We have every right to ensure our safety. Men c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:41 AM
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Catherine Mackinnon wanted to introduce legislation in the 80s. In a nutshell, she wanted to be able to sue pornographers if they can be proven harm was done to the performer. Gail Dines echoed this too. She wanted laws that would allow women to prosecute if they can prove they were harmed due to the filming and distribution of pornographic content. Gail went on to say "it would be very hard to prove - but at least their is an instrument there that we can use" ( I paraphrase) I counter that it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:15 AM
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I just realised that FDS also must be a breathe of fresh air for gay men too! After all, they would deal with so much scrotacity from men - but on another level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:56 AM
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These men are average in every way. Looks, ambition and intelligence. They deliberately pray on the empathetic and 'open minded' nature of spiritual women. They are predatory AF. Thanks for this post - it is important that all women are aware that predators come in all shapes and sizes and 'looks'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:46 AM
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omg the illustration has me laughing.... Just random penises ( looking ridiculous - cos they kinda do)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:50 PM
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To call this man a 'scrote' is a compliment. He is pure evil. She was hit by a car under mysterious circumstances. She was on the road in in the middle of the night? Was she fleeing him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:39 PM
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Y'all my mum has dementia is 75, lives in assisted living and men are still trying to charm and woo her. It never ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:20 PM
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WMAF dynamic May I ask what WMAF is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:18 PM
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I noticed they extracted tracking data from her smart watch that she was wearing. This helped investigators pin her scrote husband as the killer and helped prove his story didn't 'add up' Is this what it has come to? We must wear a tracker in case a scrote uses his 'superior rational male brain' and kills us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:15 PM
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I love how the cat in a hammock doesn't even make contact with black cat Black cat remains unbothered. Hammock cat could have tried harder but he didn't. Just a feeble attempt. These cats sure do know how to tell a story with accuracy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:44 PM
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I am a simple woman. I see kitties and I upvote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:41 PM
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Louder Free porn is never free, and women and girls are paying the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:42 PM
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I just watched "Lorena" ​ Where did you stream it - on Netflix?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:09 PM
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Same sis! Instead of "It's a compliment!" I get "It's a jooooke". With a shit eating grin. Dang - in my my utopia - this is exactly how men who utter these words would be treated. Dragged out and mildly humiliated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:52 AM
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I love this because it shows how redpillers/MRA's are just pathetic little boys who just want the right to be insulting and demeaning to women. "I just want the right to say whatever i want about womens' tits!!" ( 1:33) ​ If they were a real "men rights" movement they would be advocating for better male mental heath outcomes. Starting charities and actively supporting other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:39 AM
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No problem. The lady in the video giving the lecture was incredibly articulate and brave. What an extraordinary woman! I wanted to give her a big hug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:32 AM
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and the taser! "stop manspreading" BZZZZZZT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:31 AM
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Taylor Summers - killed during a BDSM shoot ( mentioned at 7:21) Her real name was Natel King May Natel rest in beautiful peace x Link to new story - https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna4593701
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:55 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:12 AM
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This is adorable and I love it! Op - make sure you let us know the title of the book - and the Queen who wrote it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:31 AM
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Unfortunately, all men watch porn. Every single one is infected - like a zombie. The problem is - we have to exist in a society with these men. They are our barista, our co-worker, our family members, the doorman, our uber driver..... We have to exist in a world with men who watch material that dehumanises women, then interact with these men in our day to day lives. Men who literally think we are sub human. Men who think we should not be afforded basic kindness and dignity Their contempt for us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:29 AM
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Remember how feminists were branded ( back in the 90s and 00's) as "Ugly bitter women that no one wants to fuck" This is what MGTOW/Manosphere literally is: "Ugly bitter men that no one wants to fuck" They painted feminists - women who are standing up for the basic humans rights as women - as outcasts and pariahs. ​ It is now our duty to tun the tables. But in this case it is 100% true. Facts and logic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:16 AM
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This is a 100% perfect analysis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:57 PM
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Firstly, what handsome man that tik toker is. Nice teeth, gorgeous head of thick, wavy hair, pretty eyes <sigh> thanks for the eye candy... Now onto the scrotacity of the middle aged bald guy who spends his entire career simping for his male audience. Pandering to their depravity. Let us all take a moment to laugh at him. While I am here - let me also dissect more popular redpill shit-for-brains. Rollo Tomassi - middle aged, withered guy who wears ladies hair extensions and a headscarf to cover …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:06 PM
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🍆 icon with a 🍤 icon. This is the way! Fried, stinky and bent Oh and prawns/shrimp are also scavengers on the floor of the ocean. So yeah - contextually - this works well. BOTTOM FEEDER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:13 PM
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What the first predator did to you is sexual abuse Correct. He was pushing a boundary just to gauge a response. It was a ( as the redpillers call it) a "shit test" In his porn scrambled brain, there was a part of him that thought "oh yeah - she's gonna LoVe ThIS" In his 'rational superior man brain' he thought "what is the worst that can happen - she will freak out? I'll just tell her I am confused and sad. This will make her feel sorry for me and activate her empathy. Either way I win." Yes. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:12 PM
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Yeah, he was “confused” and his low self-esteem “clouded his judgment”. Men ALWAYS play victim when they cross boundaries Sorry Kevin. I thought you were the superior rational sex ? Oh - your're just a barnyard animal who can't control himself. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:08 PM
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i like you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:06 PM
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"Choosing a male partner is a risky business and it can have devastating consequences if you choose wrong" Elle Kamihira "Thats unreasonable... you are over reacting... you are excluding so many guys" Pod Hosts offering some of the feedback when FDS receives from scrotes when FDS promotes cutting off men at the the first red flag. "Abusive men think their perspective is objective reality" Lillith Thanks Pod Hosts. This is essential listening for all women to understand the anatomy of abusive rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:13 PM
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can you elaborate? I feel like I am missing something...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:33 AM
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saying you're never going to date or complaining about beauty standards and lookism is counterproductive. Genuinely curious... I have never seen these arguments put forward - do you have any posts as an example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:25 AM
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So go out and have fun this summer .. Not all of us live in the northern hemisphere. Many of us are going into an El Nino winter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:11 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:52 AM
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I love this Queens energy!! Ladies! We must liberate ourselves. Most women think that men will have some grand epiphany and treat us as humans instead of entities they can extract resources from ( sex, time, labor, emotional support). Let the picks me's beg for attention and validation. Go ahead sweetie! See how that works out for you!! Real queens are their own heros. They liberate themselves and become self directed. Through this action they create a new world for younger women to inhabit. By …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:25 AM
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Imagine if women created an app where the options were: - respectful conversation - non sexual cuddling - forehead kisses - spontaneous sweet gestures - he focuses exclusively on your orgasm - netflix and chill but you actually just....watch netflix and chill ​ Men would lose their DAMN MINDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:04 AM
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pure narcissism It's the spiritual equivalent of a booty photo with your enhanced butt cheeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:24 AM
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Women were told to cross their legs and wait for the midwife or doctor to arrive. What medieavel nonsense is this? Can't believe it occurred early 20th century. Edit: Just googled. Yep, they forced Rosemary's mother to delay her birth to wait for the mid wife. She was the tender age of 23 when they gave her a lobotomy. A life - completely wasted. She became mute afterward. She passed in 2005. May she rest in beautiful peace xox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:27 PM
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it's only women that have selflessly helped me when I've been at my lowest. 100% this. I am alive today because of the support of other women and their kinship. If I didn't find these women - patriarchy would have killed me. It did try and steal my soul. I was broken. It did it's best. But thanks to the support of women - I am here. I am alive. And I am thriving. Also - big credit to my wonderful anonymous sisters in this community who held up a mirror and validated my material reality. Making m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:00 PM
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Because society/patriarchy hates you and want you to be ignorant to it's mechanics. It's easier to extract your resources that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:56 PM
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Yassss - I love your description of "low frequency" We are all vibrating on different frequencies. Higher frequencies facilitate faster manifestations -and more personal power and charisma. Not a "shouty loud look-at-me" charisma. But a quiet power. One that people respond too instinctively. In Chinese Medicine - the liver is associated with Anger, resentment, frustration, irritability, bitterness. All of these things are super dooper low energy frequencies. Women drink so they can lower their f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:40 PM
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A scrote with who thinks he is clever and hilarious. Who thinks he is soooo edgy. Welp! At least he has telegraphed his scrote status so we know to immediately to avoid him. Thanks for the heads up, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:33 PM
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Breaks my heart that she tried committing suicide and was abused. Totally! Society breaks women down. I can't imagine what her life was like growing up in the mid-west being an independent thinker. Her family, her mother, her father - heck - society and general would have bullied her. It is amazing she survived considering she has zero resources to assist her. It also breaks my heart to think how many incredible women's lives we lost because they deviated from the typical feminine subservience..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:31 PM
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"you should serve me and have sex with me because that's your divine feminine woman nature and that's so mysterious and amazing." You nailed it. Same outcome for them - different grooming pattern for us. It's male directed female sexuality. UGH So LIbeRaTInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:22 PM
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Australian Etsy shop owner, Anna Cordell, recently pulled her store from the platform, once she realised the depravity that was being peddled on Etsy. She has started a petition. Feel free to sign it if you feel inclined. "I am an Australian fashion designer, singer-songwriter and mother of 5. Until recently, I was also an Etsy seller. But then I saw a range of really distressing merchandise on Etsy and I shut down my shop straight away. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing! Child sex abuse doll…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:20 PM
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Totally. He is scrote personified. He demands poly lifestyles from his girlfriends. Currently, he has a Swedish girlfriend he is literally mooching off ( her dad is wealthy). She is an epic pick me. For his birthday - she gave him a threesome and here he is bragging about it on Insta https://www.instagram.com/tv/CLC948QHphV/?utm\_source=ig\_web\_copy\_link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:13 PM
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One woman said that men shouldn't learned sex from porn and defensively he snaps "well then where should they learn sex from". LOSER! Yup! What a tool. Any man who thinks this way has failed to self-actualise. Become self directed. Good sex is being committed to being present with your partner. To connect with them in a meaningful way. When done properly it is hot-as-hell and almost transcendant. The two of you are in a psychic bubble where every sense is heightened. It's erotic, it's electric. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:09 PM
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Exactly. In fact, the same guy who filmed this, asked women the same question - "Why do you need men" Many of them were like. "eh.. I don't really" and the interviewer become butthurt. Link: https://youtu.be/msUCyAVeXUU?t=194 Although there are some pick me's scattered in there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:35 PM
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these answers really show you the psyche of men. Word. Further - this sample of men is from all over the world. From my understanding, this was filmed in Goa, India - where lots of international 'free spirits' converge. Note how all the women are gorgeous while all the men are ayyyyyyy lmao average. It's a great snapshot of the inner thoughts of men from countries across the entire planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:14 PM
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Ladies! Any legal eagles? Does this set a legal precedent to prosecute pornographers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:36 PM
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One of the biggest challenges of feminism is imploring men to see our humanity. Instead, they see us as resources. An entity to extract resources from. Be that sex, time, labor. Our bodies and our mind are siphoned, leaving women hollow. Powerless. Men judge us on our sexual utility before our humanity. To be a feminist, a radical feminist, is the advocate for the humanity of women. Liberal feminists treat women as resources. Resources that are actively dehumanised to pander to male needs and de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:38 PM
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Baby girl don't internalise the pain. That stress is triggering cortisol and stress hormones putting your entire body into stress mode. Don't internalise - that is exactly what the patriarchy wants you to do. That is their plan for you. Remember: Society groomed you. It is NOT YOUR FAULT. Be happy! Be joyful! You have seen the light thanks to wonderful women in this sub! You are free of scrotacity forever!!!! Hallelujah!! Now go out there and spread the word to younger women. Be their light. If …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:30 PM
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Men see us as resources. Not humans. They see us as entities that they are entitled to extract resources from; sex, labor and yes money. Edit: Thank you for the gold mysterious Queen. May the goddess bless you back x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:23 PM
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My last NVX wanted frequent reassurances that his dick was big — it was on the small end of average at best. ​ I look back and laugh at how many times i pandered to their ego about their little pee pee's. Ugh - so tired of pandering. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:16 AM
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Thanks for the lovely words and acknowledgement x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:53 AM
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I can tell you that what we discuss on FDS is not a new wave. It is a rediscovery of second wave aka radical feminism. Thanks for clarifying. It is a re-discovery. Certainly for a new generation. I believe many FDSers were born after the second wave came through. ( Please correct me if I have timelines wrong. I am assuming many FDSers were born 1990 onward) Re-emergence of radical feminism? Would you describe it as that? Re-emergence triggered by the gargantuan, exploitative porn machine and the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:03 PM
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Yep - and seeing male depravity everywhere has not only enlightened me to their true nature, but also makes me incredibly sad that I live in a world where these behaviours by men are actively encouraged. Also - noticed your user name. If you are the real Grimes - your husband is a dickbag and I hope you divorce him sooner rather than later. Take his wealth and create female driven initiatives that push back against redpill narratives that your husband so happily infects millions of men with - th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:18 AM
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I feel what you are describing is a sub-set of radfems who make these claims based on their sexual orientation, being lesbian. This is the solution that works for them. Discard beauty principles and embrace separatism. The beauty argument is redundant, when you realise women have historically always used adornments and enhancements to signal status or power. FDS is a new wave of radical feminism. A radical feminism for heterosexual women who hitherto did not have any kind of rational feminism to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:38 AM
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I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:14 AM
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Men are fully human and capable of the full range of human emotion and experience. All are socialized by patriarchy to be self- absorbed, exploitive and lacking in empathy but are capable of resisting that negative influence if motivated. You are right. And this is a point of view that the brilliant Gail Dines champions. Men do have the capacity to be wholly human. Patriarchy robs them of this experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:05 AM
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You are right. Thanks for the reminder. I shouldn't have softened my language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:19 PM
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You are right. In my perfect utopian world for women - it would be taught in sex ed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:12 PM
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is that if a scrote tries to grope a women and she raises alarm, he will get thrashed black and blue. Sounds like my perfect utopia!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:54 PM
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Allow me to quote Valerie Solanis: ​ ​ The male is completely egocentric, trapped inside himself, incapable of empathizing or identifying with others, or love, friendship, affection of tenderness. He is a completely isolated unit, incapable of rapport with anyone. His responses are entirely visceral, not cerebral; his intelligence is a mere tool in the services of his drives and needs; he is incapable of mental passion, mental interaction; he can't relate to anything other than his own physical …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:37 PM
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Facts. Manosphere always parrot " If men stopped waking up and going to work tomorrow - cities/society would grind to a halt". Ah. No. Women would pick up the slack - like we did in WW2 when all the men went to war. In fact, women were so capable and efficient at their jobs they had to invent a whole "happy housewife' trope to domesticate them back into households in the 50s. Then they ( male dominated medical establishment) had to medicate the women on valium so they could get through the excru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:33 PM
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In every part of the world, women are treated as second class citizen. Exactly. There is no country in this world where women hold any balance of power. Not a single one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:28 PM
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Ah yes. Male depravity. I am sad to say - this does not surprise me anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:25 PM
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She was the girl next door, with healthy baby fast still clinging to her cheeks. 👼 She needed to be turned into profit, hehe Wreckingball appeared, then the Miley Twerk song or whatever.... Good bye homely Hannah Montana! Just wanted to add that Billy Eilish is undergoing this transformation as we speak. She was known for her baggy clothes and "I don't give a fuck not gonna exploit my body" vibe. Now - she is writhing around in a push up bra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:16 PM
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My heart breaks for my Indian sisters. Dr Priyanka Reddy's murder was abhorrent and I read that gangs raping women is quite common. Shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:49 PM
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How manipulative..makes me sick to think I was with such a clown Don't beat yourself up. That's what men want - for you to internalise rage. Understand that culture/society groomed your compliance. The good news is you are free now. Free from scrotacity And awesome women ( like this community) showed you the light. Women rock! Spread the word and teach other sisters who need a guiding light x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:32 PM
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Truth! When I was a kid coming home from school, I was on a train and this man pulled out a hunting knife and started stroking it like a psycho. Within 1/2 a second, the women had swiftly and brusquely got up and moved out of the carriage. The men? still sitting there oblivious. Sitting there with an obvious fucking threat and not aware at all. I was a kid so I just sat there not moving just watching this guy. When I did get off at my stop - I told the train conducter. He gave zero fucks because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:19 PM
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Please do - would love to read it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:57 PM
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I bet she had a a scrotey editor who "edited" all her gems out too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:40 PM
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The only reasons they have farm houses is so they can bang their pick mes in privacy. If it wasn't for women, men would live in a cardboard boxes. Even scrotey Dave Chappelle admitted this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5hu7o2Q62k He says it at 1:05
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:36 PM
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YASSSS. I remember this! I love her too. That post introduced me to her. This is why we must stan our mature queens. They have the wisdom and they share it. They have no agenda except protecting the younger women from male depravity. I love her! I subbed to her immediately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:20 PM
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Thank you!! I am flattered as heck that my comment resonated with you and gave you a boost of joy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:18 PM
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NEVER AGAIN. This is a level-up I love to see!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:17 PM
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Thank you!!! I would be so freakin flatterred if the mods put me in the handbook. I am already in it - but I deleted my account so the post isn't attributed to me. I am a literal FDS Disciple but have the flair of "newbie" because I have had accounts nuked or had to shut them down due to butthurt scrotes reporting me to reddit when I argue with them and torpedo truths into their reality. LOL scrotes so fragile they had to report me for "harassment" when I was really just exposing their shitty li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:16 PM
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Gail Dines basically confirmed us as a radfem sub. I know the mods shyed away from the "radfem" tag in previous podcast eps. But radical feminisms core is that: "Women are discriminated upon the basis of our sex" ( Sex meaning sex characteristics) Born in China as a girl? Killed because you are female Born in Somalia as a girl? Genitals sliced off. Born in Saudi Arabia as a girl? Voice silenced - no fundamental rights. Need permission from a man to do ANYTHING because you are female Born in Afga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:00 PM
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Spiders doing the lords work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:45 PM
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Women don’t overreact with extreme violence (i.e. murder) the way men do. Correct. But remember they are the LoGIcAL AnD SuPErIOr SeX <eyeroll>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:44 PM
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Please post this! Youtube link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:39 PM
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Allowing unworthy penises anywhere near you is trauma. I believe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:39 PM
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Thanks OP. This is an excellent post and I would guild it - but I don't want to give the shitheads who run reddit any money. Culture is created from the top down as you prove with is "Ivy" League credentials. If anyone is interested and are into the philosophy of cultural creation - you need to go back to the Frankfurt School and Adorno and Horkheimer. They wrote an essay called "Enlightenment as Mass Deception" Adorno and Horkheimer assert that culture industry eradicates autonomous thinking an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:27 AM
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Thanks for explaining : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:02 AM
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Here's how mediocre men benefit from the violence other men inflict on women. They get to feel like good guys because they never hit women, and they get a higher level of agreeableness from women who don't know whether they're the type to get violent or aggressive. Brilliantly stated. And this is why when men do the "huh what happened" " He's not a bad guy" or whatever 'playing dumb' angle they can take - is a giant RED FLAG. It shows that he has poor character. It telegraphs that he is a man wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:56 AM
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Facts. At least spiders serve a purpose. More than I can see than a man who can't pleasure a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:26 AM
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Glad to hear you were born and raised elsewhere. Don't mean to disrespect your home country. I just can't imagine the level of scrotacity one would have to deal with being born in Iran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:24 AM
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Ahahah - treating them like petulant children. GOOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:20 AM
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Never heard of the Pink Sari's and did some googling. QUEENS! "Sampat Pal, an illiterate, low-caste woman, set up the Gulabi Gang because of all the injustice and helplessness she'd experienced in her life. When 12, she was sent to a remote village to marry and was bullied by her in-laws. She rebelled against the stringent village rules and ended up on the streets with five young children. Setting up the Gulabi Gang was her act of inspired desperation. Hundreds of women, all dressed in bright fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:15 AM
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Ow wow - are you an Iranian FDSer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:09 AM
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Brilliant! Men have zero knowledge about female anatomy so this works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:03 AM
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Pretending that the "roach" you are referring to is an insect instead of the "roach" being - LOL - him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:00 AM
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Also pretending to see a rat or a spider, cockroach and "freak out". Valid because most men are filthy and the probability of a pest in their house is likely. Create a commotion - jump out of bed - grab a shoe to whack the pest with ( LOL the real pest is the man) and when after 5 minutes of trying to find the rogue insect/rodent - the lights will be on, the room upended, his erection minimised and you can segueway the fuck outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:25 AM
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yes to everything u said! i wish someone gave me this advice when i was 18. not until a couple years ago did i realized that i should just stop sex at any point if it's no longer fun or pleasurable for me. Spread the word. Tell younger sisters/cousins/coworkers It is the strongest message of empowerment you can tell another woman. Together we rise xox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:50 AM
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Men are THE biggest "pick me's" for male approval. What they fail to realise is this makes them look weak and pathetic in our eyes. Negging us, disrepecting, trying to dominate us ....all of these things herald their insecurity and juvenile compulsions. Juvenile compulsions....yep. And woman are biologically wired NOT to be attracted to children. Manosphere in a nutshell: "Hey King I know you aren't currently getting laid but join my group so I can teach you how to continue not getting laid."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:37 AM
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So triggering for them!They are the ones destroying masculine traits to simp for the approval of other men, They think being masculine = dominating and manipulating. Nah son. Masculine is having integrity, decency, values and a code of conduct that doesn't harm others. Being masculine is protecting, providing and honouring the feminine energy and protecting it - instead of actively destroying it. Then laughing like Beavis and Butthead with their buddies...ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:33 AM
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Also, does anyone know why the men scrotes are covering their ears and doing squats at 00:41?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:13 AM
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if we could just publicly beat the crap out of creeps. Yass. But I don't wanna get that close to them. I wish there was like a special dye we could fling at them which marks them as a creepo sex pest. The dye doesn't wash off for a month - so they have to have stained skin for a month - indicating to other women he is a sex pest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:12 AM
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Come here - let me hug you I'm also a rape survivor and I hate myself for not speaking up or stating a boundary. Letting my body be abused. Ughh so much crying at night time... I learned to forgive myself because I realised that society has groomed us to be compliant and to not make a fuss. Not stand up for ourselves or else be labelled "crazy". I no longer direct the hate and sadness back onto myself. I realise I live in a sick culture that permits men to behave this way and muffles women who s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:09 AM
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And don't forget ladies, you have ALL rights to back out of anything at any given time. That includes sex and relationships. It's your given right as a human being to be done whenever you decide you're done... Don't be afraid to use that right at any given time. Remember this ladies. We have been socialised to " don't cause a fuss" and "play nice" Over ride this programming. Do it for your sisters who have died from tolerating abuse, playing nice and making excuses for these behaviours . Who dev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:59 AM
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Men have been misusing their power forever. For millions of years. Yet for some reason, we have been socialised to put up with it, turn the other cheek, accept this reality. NO! This is why the movie "Gone Girl" is so great. Any Dunne uses the power she has at her disposal to create mayhem for her husband. Her husband literally took her inheritance, dragged her to bum fuck nowheresville and had an affair. Left her penniless and disrespected. So she used her wits and smarts to get back at him. Fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:49 AM
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Treating them like dirty pests because they are actively crossing a boundary and acting like dirty pests. I also noted that some of the men are smiling and laughing - they are enjoying being disciplined. They know they are being disgusting humans - and they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:42 AM
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Not a mod - but we don't have a "Toxic Masculinity" thread because the manosphere is constantly whining that "feminists hate masculine men and are attacking masculinity" When really, they are unravelling masculinity themselves by Simping for other mens approval Thinking they are a prize to be pursued ( actively playing the feminine role) Manosphere types actively feminise themselves then blame feminists for attacking "masculine nature" No Brian. We want men to fulfil their masculine roles by pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:39 AM
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Redpillers/MGTOWs are constantly simping for other mens approval. This sabotages mens happiness because they are constantly pandering for the approval of a "theoretical locker room full of douchebags" as she so eloquently put it. Men don't self actualise. They are constantly looking for a male "other" or authority to give them a stamp of approval. Instead of, ya know - evolving themselves to be self directed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:35 AM
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I freeze too. They key is to be aware of when that feeling of "oh shit" enters your body. Acknowledge it and keep some phrases handy for situations like this. I discussed this with my therapist after the owner of a jewellery shop started touching my neck and décolletage and demanding I look into his eyes, while I was trying on pieces. My phrase is "I need a glass of water" when the "oh shit" feeling arises. It helps me buy back my agency and will also cause the man to fetch it for you ( giving y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:24 AM
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never even knew that was a possibility THIS!No one tells us it is a possibility. Your comment inspired me to make whole post on not tolerating shitty sex. ALL WOMEN NEED TO KNOW THIS LIFE HACK! Spread the word! ​ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nypoji/reminder\_you\_do\_not\_have\_to\_play\_act\_through/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:12 AM
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Lol - it will confuse them and buy you time A peeping tom is another good one. It will trigger his "hero" mode so he gets out of your space to check the issue.... then just lock the door on him. LOL bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:03 AM
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This is true! Another: create confusion. Fake an alarm - pretend to see a ghost ( lol). Pretend there is a peeping Tom. Pretend you can hear someone knocking at the door. Be creative ladies - your life and wellbeing are at stake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:29 AM
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Love this!! Or this is a flip side. If you are having sex with a man and it's just not doing anything for you/he is being selfish just get up and leave. Exit stage left. I have done this and it amuses me as the men are literally standing their stroking their cocks wide-eyed, dishevelled and confused. "w-wh-where are you going??" Just be like "I'm bored, not feeling this - see ya" Edit: We know men are overly emotional and get triggered easily so you don't want to risk violence because you are no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:59 AM
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I love her twitter account - I am already a follower! She is sharp, incisive and perfectly articulates complicated issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:53 AM
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I stan this queen!!! Ladies - the time is over to "suck it up" and move on The time us up to "take the higher ground" and move on. Our socialised politeness enables these fuckers. Fight back. Ruin lives Be petty. Give zero fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:25 AM
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I know right! I love how she has his hand on his cock while she is vetting him - essentially forcing him to tell the truth. And the sniff test!!!! Holy shit - she is so thorough she checks hygiene. She is like a lionesss - which is essentially her character in the film. She eats every man alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:27 AM
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Lol it's almost as if he is faking it to get sympathy for her. And she is like " ew what an attention seeking loser - I not put up with this shit - Bye." Also - why is it common for males of any species to have a dumb ass sense of humor? He was obviously trying to troll her "IT WaS JUsT A JoKE". A Lion knows you don't fuck with another sleeping Lion. Yet he did it anyway. And then he tries to sook at the end. <eyeroll> Very predictable male behaviour!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:20 AM
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I stan Korean ladies so hard!! The time to explain and rationalise with men is over - men don't care. Women are often told to "rise above" or "be a bigger person". These strategies don't work when dealing with institutionalised cultural misogyny. Shaming their pee pees is brilliant. It makes a strong point. That they are weak and cowardly and that they disgust us. Any Korean FDSers? I'm keen to hear notes from the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:42 AM
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I love the part where she doesn't even bother paying for her drink. And when he pays for it she is like "Can you leave?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:46 AM
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This scene is interesting because she never smiles, never apologises, never panders. All the men are confused and mildly outraged. A man tries to impress her with his large appendage - because he knows that is all he has to offer. She vets him - "How many lovers? Any prostitutes? Any men?" While this isn't strictly FDS, she is behaving in a way that flips the conventional narrative - while he pursues her. She uses him for good D, before discarding him. For the rest of the film he acts like a pup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:50 AM
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Ladies - this is some terrifying bullshit. But here is the up side... If you have ever been the victim of revenge porn, or had your photos stolen or uploaded and you are pulled into a meeting at work to discuss an "issue" you can just say it is a deepfake. It has exonerated women who have nude images out there ( for whatever reason). You can no longer be fired if you have done cam girl work. Instead, you are a victim of online abuse, trolling and harassment - a victim of deepfake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:15 AM
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We love Lisa! I am a huge advocate of using your rage. We are socialised not too, but our socialised politeness ENABLES MEN AND THEIR BAD BEHAVIOUR. We have also been told to "rise above it". Another technique which silences women and enable poor behaviour from men. Andrea Dworkin's thoughts on this. " I favor violence" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8niSFVcc9cc ​ Violence isn't brandishing a weapon. Violence is using the power available to you to fight back. You use the power you have at your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:21 AM
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Woman on subway in NYC causing a scene when a man takes out his dick and rubs it against her. Be like this woman. Queen shit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJS6aImGPV0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:12 PM
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Yesss! This is an awakening. Your HVW friend knows that men are like dessert ( like Cher famously said). It's nice to have but you don't need it. I truly think FDS is the new wave. Meaning, this generation of women will be the way showers. We will show the way to younger women that you can be the bomb without kids and a husband. My hope is that by the end of the century, women are breeding very, very selectively Most women opting out of breeding because the stigma of being a childless women will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:50 PM
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No problem. I had a similar work place so I understand. It's like you get a front row seat to mens actual contempt for women - and it is egregious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:52 PM
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Yah - you are working for narcissistic sociopath. Sorry to break the news. He doesn't value as an employer. Does the business have other elements of toxicity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:45 PM
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None of the communication was done in good faith on his end. One thing I have learned - men NEVER communicate with women in good faith . They just see us as an adversary that they will do anything to dominate. If you are patiently explaining yourself in good faith, they will deliberately trigger you, invalidate you or act confused. Anything to trigger your frustration. Anything. Then, they can pull the crazy card. The whole end game is so they can pull the crazy card. Even when I get into femini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:29 PM
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Thanks. Can you imagine if men had a real time consequence to their actions? The world would change. Everytime I shame a srcote they literally run away like a rat. Two problems solved Scrote leaves the scene Scrote thinks twice about scroting. And i give zero fucks about shaming them. They utterly deserve it. It is long overdue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:54 PM
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English is my second language - what is GOAT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:39 PM
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Cool - thanks thought it was Nico.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:37 PM
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Absolutely. This is why I am training myself to speak up or to react. If I am shopping and I see a man creeping on a young girl. I look at him and say " I can see what you are doing." ( Simply, plainly, don't raise your voice. be direct.) Or you can say " Ewwww sex pest! Stop creeping on her!!" and cause a mini scene. Call it out. Shame them. Raise hell. Another incident: waiting at a traffic light. Me, a lady in her mid forties and a scrote. Scrote keeps looking at her rear end. Like - staring.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:07 PM
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French women! Woot! Whenever I think of French women I think of Julie Delpy in this scene from 2 Days in Paris where she raises hell on a pedo. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pQHZifnWtk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:52 AM
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now he's just a racist, homophobic and misogynistic pos ahhhh so he was too good to be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:49 AM
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Mick Jagger is a walking STD Alain Deloin on the left. Anyone recognise the lady? Edit: Whoop meant Delon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:47 AM
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Another FDSer pointed out that all these redpill ideologies feminise men, as they see themselves as "the prize" instead of the women. They believe THEY should be pursued and chased. Also - men SIMP FOR OTHER MEN ALL THE TIME. Always trying to get male validation. Trying to get their bros approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:25 AM
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Wow. Yes! You nailed it. They are actively feminising themselves. I would gild you but I don't want to give reddit the $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:58 PM
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He didn’t even speak up to try to stop me, He was probably so fucking stunned. He legit thought being his side chick was some kind of honor, and when you nexted him in real time his brain exploded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:30 PM
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Emoji's are awesome ( currently on laptop with no emoji's tho) They give sparkle and flavour to a post. Plus they are cute as hell. I love, for example how the "painting nails" emoji was designed to be exactly that - getting nails painted. But it actually means "Like I give a fuck" or "Deal with it" or "I'm too sassy to care though" I think language is so interesting how it morphs and how symbols or emoji's develop meaning independent of their origin through use and context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:23 PM
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I hope you looked at him with utter disgust and then made fun of his pork crackling skin and bald head and limp old dick. I sincerely hope you showed him disgust and many sharp insults before you left that restaurant. Never miss an opportunity to shame a man when he utterly deserves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:17 PM
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268 for online dating? yeah thats some scrote vote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:33 PM
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And most offensively aren't prepared to permit. Oh yeah. Even if your point is valid and sound they will be a contrarian just to get the upper hand. "What do you mean the ocean is blue.??? It is azure - don't you understand subtleties? Ugh, you should really educate yourself"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:19 PM
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ahah yep! They get so confused. Like, having your own point of view that you can articulate short circuits their brain. An opinion is like a curveball they don't see coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:57 PM
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Thing is he can only meet in the evening So....he just wanted sex? HARD NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:17 PM
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Thing is he can only meet in the evening So....he just wanted sex? HARD NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:17 PM
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A lot of men seem to expect women to put in work and prove themselves first and take the rol Pure red pill ideology. This is what they preach. Women must pursue men because they are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:15 PM
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Love this. The street art should be in every city in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:46 PM
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I suggest a day when I can come to a city in "the middle" instead. I declined that too because it seemed a lot for me to go to this city for a first date uhhhh he wanted you to go to a different city to meet him? Aw helll nawwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:40 PM
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A man reveals his character when you tell him the word "No". Good for you. You dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:38 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:03 AM
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Yes!!! SHAME MEN! SHAME MEN! SHAME MEN! KEEP IT UP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:04 AM
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Lilith - we love you. Do your thing. We should have a stickied post about why reddit is trash and support a migration away from this platform - EVERY WEEK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:32 AM
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Hey Lillith, make sure you remind Gail to post the pod to her FB page!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:31 AM
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Happy to! If someone can write me a title for the post. I will do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:20 AM
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Hey sis - my dad was a piece of shit too. Feel your accumulated pain. Shitty dad = shitty brother and also equals shitty relationships because you model your attraction on how you are used to being treated. And how you are used to being treated is a very, very low bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:56 AM
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Truly that is the end goal of FDS. To get women to realise their worth and NOT date pieces of shit, thereby culling them from the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:54 AM
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One piece of advice from Shera7 on YouTube that I found interesting... Level 1 If a man walks ahead of you - distract yourself with something. Linger at the window of the dress shop, start chatting to a cute doggo. Make him stop and wonder where you are. If he just keeps walking into the sunset. Fuck him. Just catch an uber home or find a nice cafe and buy yourself a matcha tea. If he says "WhERe DID YoU Go??" Just blank him and say - well you were walking so far ahead I am not surprised you did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:52 AM
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Exactly - qualitative data!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:22 AM
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Thanks Lillith! We really appreciate everything you do! It was such a treat to listen to this Lol - there are so many times when Gail is talking, and you can literally hear the 3 of you on the verge of celebration tears. Like, you can hear your irises dilating in love for her! It was quite an emotional podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:23 PM
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Thanks lovely! I will start watching and report back!! Edit - I am 5 minutes in and the women are so smug and gross. Are Australian women this horrible? They attack Gail from the get-go. She handles them beautifully - she has such a good way of ducking their shit-flinging and cutting through the truth. Edit 2: Yuck these women I can't deal omggggg EDIT 3 : FOUND IT So at 43:00 a young woman starts talking about the reality of living in the porn age. Having housemates who are porn users. Listenin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:05 PM
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Gail talked about her experience at the Sydney Writers Festival, when she was on a panel with Pro Porn feminists. She mentioned the moderator said to Gail "You have no research just anecdotes". Then all these women stood up and shouted " I am an anecdote!" and a chorus of women stood up and said the same thing. Powerful moment! Does anyone have video of this? I tried a YouTube search - but nada. ​ If anyone finds it - please share! FOUND IT So at 43:00 a young woman starts talking about the real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:25 PM
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Hey Reaux, Lillith and Savannah Can you please talk about how you teed up Gail? How did you pitch her? Was it hard to organise? Did she check out the sub? How did it all come about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:53 AM
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ahhh I am so excited! And I am just at the beginning of the podcast!!! QUEEN GAIL "We spend too much of our emotional energy trying to turn men into human beings. I say ENOUGH ALREADY" ​ Gail - i bow to thee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:34 AM
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Hey that is a good point. I guess for me - yes. That is what works for me. Not any man - my ideal. The man I invite into my sexual world. This is a rare occurence But I totally understand your point. Perhaps swap out 'man' for 'another human'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:33 AM
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Preach sis "But if you fuck with a man no one else wants to fuck with, you are not getting lucky. You are gonna be treated like you're the unattractive one"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:55 AM
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leadership qualities To any scroteria reading this - leadership qualities is not having the "frame of an alpha". Leadership is supporting those who need it. Standing back and letting others shine, being gracious and not becoming emotional ( losing your temper) Uplifting your team/family with positive goals. Leadership is being accountable. Leadership is saying "whoops I fucked up. This is how I will fix it" Many men think leadership qualities = being abusive, manipulative and treacherous. That s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:51 AM
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he only wanted head, foot jobs, and anal. That last one was usually something he did to me while I was dead sleep so... yea he didn't stop that until I flat out told him it was rape and that I would leave if he did it again. lawd - i hope you are away from this man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:58 PM
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Jordan Peterson, “defender of free speech” sued a woman for calling him a misogynist Didn't know that factoid. Thanks Did some google-fu - here is an article - https://dailynous.com/2018/09/21/difference-snowflakes-champions-free-speech/ ​ And don't get me started on Mikaela Peterson - his daughter. She is always rolling her eyes at feminism. Uh. Ok - that's a nice little stance you have protected, coddled upper middle class girl. She recently did a podcast/youtube vid about Pornhub's recent tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:42 PM
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Thank you for reading it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:44 PM
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Heck yes!So the immature masculine is represented EVERYWHERE In pop culture. Emotionally stunted men who indulge in careless, anti social behaviours. Joaquin Phoenix/The Joker Bodhi/Patrick Swayze Point Break ( The ultimate BRO in every mans mind) Jack Black Adam ( spare me) Sandler Men grown up surrounded by these archetypes ad infinitum. Which is why they are so proud to be manchilds and to shirk responsibility and act confuse/d slighted when asked to be held accountable. They have been groome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:54 PM
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So men simping for other men trying to be edgy? Got it. Pure manosphere trash talking points. Running the same old lame jokes that are tired. Jokes that are DONE. Hacks, losers and old boomers talk this way - yet they think they are the height of comedy. Oh kay. Male fragility 100%. They can not stand being held accountable for their actions. Also - these aggressive lawsuits will continue to happen as the manosphere grows and men in in the wild become more petulant as women call them on their bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:58 PM
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