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They usually talking about 40+ who secretly have a wife and kids. What they find repulsive is getting married having kids. The stereotype is that men in that age range want to settle down. Young women get repulsed because they just wanna have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:18 PM
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Run. You are not her therapist.
/r/newTRP13/08/22 06:17 PM
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Read this for a laugh, that image LOL *https://www.reddit.com/r/aznidentity/comments/rno962/tiktok_has_a_lot_of_videos_that_perpetuate_and/
/r/newTRP05/08/22 05:47 PM
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"Colonized" is a meme said by asian/Indian females on tikTok. It means they want a strong white male to "take over their pussy". https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/eobmiv/colonize_me_white_man_thought_this_fit_here_a/
/r/newTRP05/08/22 05:41 PM
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Touch her cheeks it move her hair away. If she is cool with that then look at her lips and go for the kiss
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:43 PM
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Oxycotin ,(love hormone), is powerful in getting a man and a women to fall for each other. You need to lower it by fucking other girls or working out hard.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:41 PM
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If she is clearing her head or not is not your problem. It's her problem go figure out. If she has an answer for you you'll know. Live your life.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:38 PM
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95% of the time it means she's not attracted to you. They giving you the courtesy to go away gracefully. Just say "have a good one" and leave. That's it. She doesn't want to hear the "he's a lucky guy" or "I knew it, too pretty". She don't care.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:32 PM
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Majority of the time they look nasty. They have to be replaced every few years too.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:30 PM
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It's cool bro, she was a 6/10. Time to upgrade
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:29 PM
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Do your future self a favor a block her. You will not get her affection anytime soon. If you try she will see you as creepy.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:59 PM
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Quarter life crisis. Google it.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:54 PM
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Young girls get so much attention that they ignore anyone they perceive as unattractive or has no status. For work they're taught to keep things as formal as possible with the "uglies". They avoid eye contact at work and appear very cold. Don't even try, just ignore them.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:59 PM
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Gotta watch more Kevin Samuel's on YouTube. Postwall women tend to have extreme demands even thou their market value is trash.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:18 PM
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You need to get angry. Then that anger needs to be converted to passion. Find what makes you angry. For example, do you think your mother spend all those years raising you just so you give up?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:26 PM
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It's simple, don't get emotionally invested in their delusion. Ignore.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:24 PM
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Quarter life crisis.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:08 AM
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I have Bipolar I and had similar issues to yourself. After being prescribed lamictal and setraline years ago I became extremely stoic and stable. Everything changed for the better. BPD is simply have too little brain electrical signals or two much brain electrical signals. Those affect emotions, sex drive, temperature, sleep, hunger, chronoreception , (measurement of how fast time appears). You need a behavioral health screening asap. Having a very hard time sleeping as BPD means very high elect…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:04 AM
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Get yourself physically exhausted.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:49 AM
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Sounds like anxiety and overthinking to me.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:49 AM
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Why isn't she blocked. Do it now. Doesn't matter if it feels bad. Not your problem.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:46 AM
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Talking about getty pussy is attention whore behavior. I know guys like these. Same behavior with the entrepreneur / swap dudes.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:44 AM
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Yes. Medical conditions tend to be given percentages.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:40 AM
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Start setting goals.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:33 AM
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It's called Overthinking. Three causes. Low Self Esteem, Anxiety Disorder, or Depression.Which is it?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:32 AM
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If you believe banter is harassment then you're hyper sensitive. Were you raised by women?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:14 AM
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What is your reasoning that your way of thinking is the correct one?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:11 AM
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Do you have any hobbies?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:09 AM
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No such thing as leagues
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:08 AM
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"My head gets colder than it used to."
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:08 AM
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Anywhere from 30 days to 90 days. Going to gym and lifting hard decreases the time significantly
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:12 PM
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Yes. Sex drive drops to like 5%. It's an unusual feeling to say the least.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 11:39 AM
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Happened to me too after 2 weeks after not jacking off. It's call a flatline and it's a good thing. It means your body realizes that it doesn't need women to be motivatedl. Besides pussy what do non-family related women have to offer? Enjoy this while it lasts because your going to get a high sex drive in a few weeks.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:54 PM
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Get hobbies. Chess, Programming, Martial Arts...etc.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:51 PM
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🐒💩🙈 only.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:13 PM
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She is not sexually attracted to you.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:04 PM
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They feel like you really "understand them" which means you have amazing emotional intelligence. When people feel understood they're more willing to open up more. Have you considered going into Sales?
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:02 PM
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I post on here during my gym session between weightlifting workouts. I like problem solving social situations. I have been part of theredpill/ manosphere community for over 10 years.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:58 PM
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Yes it's possible with very strong boundaries. Both people have to be transparent about sexual tension. For example I have a 7 year platonic friendship with a hot girl. She doesn't wear yoga pants or tank tops around me. Her boyfriend is aware when we hangout. I don't flirt with her when alone. If there's sexual tension we cool off for a week or two with little contact .
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:57 AM
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I disable the "Read" function. Very relaxing.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:48 AM
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When your major is STEM you rarely have this problem. Especially in Computer Science and Mechanical Engineering. Those students don't care about social causes or politics. Majority of the social talk is technical discussion or a transfer of knowledge.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:46 AM
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Tellyourpartner dot org. They send an anonymous text message to get STD tested.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:43 AM
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I only have LinkedIn and no other social media. Women don't really care.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:41 AM
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Idiot. Don't talk about topics around those that have an intense emotional response to that topic. Especially politics and religion.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:38 AM
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Yup. I heard a girl say once that if she didn't orgasm it didn't count. Another said if she didn't get kissed it doesn't count.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:47 AM
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Are you talking about OxyContin the pain medicine or oxycotin the love hormone? Because if it's oxycotin that's going to give you a massive oneitis real soon .
/r/askTRP06/01/21 11:16 PM
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Put headphones and a blindfold during the car ride . Like they do to race horses during transportation.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:54 PM
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PSTD?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:53 PM
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I would watch Aaron Clarey videos on YouTube. You will learn at a steady and satisfying pace.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:51 PM
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super negative attitude and thinking patterns You might have paranoid/hypervigilance as symptoms of Cluster A Personality Disorder. Yes, see a therapist so they can do a behavioral health diagnosis. Who knows, maybe your just irritated. https://www.mentalhelp.net/personality-disorders/cluster-a/
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:02 PM
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It's going to take at least a few months to reverse the brainwashing. The more real world experience or theoretical evidence you acquire the faster the brainwashing will disappear.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:55 PM
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You can do Monk Mode with porn every other day.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:53 PM
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They're trying to figure out if they are still better than you.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:53 PM
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From a business perspective, no communication for 2-3 weeks without warning is abandonment of the job. If I had a business partner or employee do this I would assume they have quit. Breach of contract / they quit. The only valid excuse for Boyfriend would be being in intensive care at the hospital while unconscious. Maybe if he was in Jail, maybe. It doesn't appear to be true in this case. Relationships have a social contract, and he failed to uphold his end. His failure of: A.) Disappearing Whi…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:37 PM
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They want to mentally tell themselves that you didn't count. "Just a random guy...".
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:21 PM
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Bering too nice is sometimes learned helplessness and a fawn response. In a nutshell, “fawning” is the use of people-pleasing to diffuse conflict, feel more secure in relationships, and earn the approval of others. It’s a maladaptive way of creating safety in our connections with others by essentially mirroring the imagined expectations and desires of other people. https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/7-subtle-signs-your-trauma-response-is-people-pleasing
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:16 PM
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I get a narcissistic emotionally numb vibe from him.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:59 PM
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Sit on the first and second row in class. Find out what school clubs are available and join one.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:24 AM
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My bad, that comment for the OP. I hope he is a troll.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:47 AM
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Put them inside a a plastic pirate treasure chest. Then let her choose. Google "TCR8759", that's the model number of the one I use.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:45 AM
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Yes, that Department. Your schizoaffective disorder qualifies as a disability.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:41 AM
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You don't have the professional mental health experience to handle this. CALL ASAP: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Hours: Available 24 hours. 800-273-8255
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:40 AM
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Also I cant go to college because of my illness Unless you have homicidal thoughts that's not true. Have you talked with the Disability department?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:37 AM
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What is your degree in? You just need a Masters to teach in most community colleges.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:35 AM
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Don't post about her on Asktrp anymore.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:34 AM
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Read "The Book of Numbers: Analyzing the ROI on the Pursuit of Women" by Aaron Clarey. You will learn that most girls on Tinder just want free food and attention, or are single mothers looking for a cash buddy. Also, the vast majority are twenty five pounds heavier than the pics they took in 2019. Talk to girls in person.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:32 AM
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This is literally the 37th post you have made in the last 10 days about this girl. 37 Posts! Not being sarcastic, funny, or a joker. 37 POSTS!
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:20 AM
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No. To start 75% of men are overweight or obese.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:46 PM
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Raises SMV. Just don't be fat, socially awkward, or a soyboy. If they ask job specifics just say you make apps like Instagram for clients. Use the word apps instead of software. Explain that your like a doctor and designer for apps. Or like an auto mechanic for the Internet.You don't have to go into technical details. The main issues with software developers is that they overanalyze sexual interactions to the nth degree.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:42 PM
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Artificial General Intelligence (AGI) will not happen for at least 40 years. That's the equivalent of having 100 IQ. It's estimated that the digital storage of the human brain is ~ 2.5 petabytes. That's 1,048,576 gigabytes. The CPU equivalent of brain power is ~ 1 exaFLOP. That's about the same computing power as a modern super computer with millions of CPUs. Human brain bandwidth is 11 million bits a second from all the many senses. Even senses you may not be aware of like chronoreception, (pas…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:23 PM
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Going to get food inside the theme park can work as an instant date.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 07:10 PM
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She is offering her bed to you. She wants to sleep next to you and possibly fuck. You have lived together before so she is comfortable sharing a bed. Take the offer. No girl is going to offer a room to a non-relative guy unless she's interested sexually in him. Her ASD is that she doesnt want you to sleep in a sofa. The truth is what I said above Don't make a big deal about where you're going to sleep. She will let you know.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:50 PM
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Does she assume that she's going to be your Valentine's this year?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:43 PM
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It's going to be a challenge because girls that go to a theme park tend to be part of a group. Family or a boyfriend. They're not going to want to walk around with a stranger. What are your plans to isolate a girl?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:41 PM
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Aaron Clarey and Entrepreneur in Cars is all you need.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:38 PM
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It's called complencency due to lack of a competitive drive. In other words, "why bother" when you have an LTR already. COVID accelerated this type of thinking because you have alot less social interaction. Also, you have been less exposed to competition with other males. Those are the main issues You're too comfortable in life. The female validation is a procrastination technique to tell yourself..why bother? Procrastination of being competitive because all you need is a new girl to make your e…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:35 PM
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It seems like that guy must have had very high Charisma. I remember along time ago reading about the difference between situational confidence and core confidence. This guy probably excels in situations where their is a large social gathering. This doesn't mean the guy has core confidence in other aspects of his life .
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:22 PM
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Take the initiative to learn some basic dance moves. If you have poor cardio then work on that first .
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:19 PM
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YOU set up the date and commit to having the date.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:17 PM
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You have Learned Helplessness which is probably caused by an abusive childhood. How is your relationship with your parents?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:16 PM
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Tell her she has nice outfit and then flirt.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:10 PM
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You make Mother happy.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:09 PM
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They're afraid of domestic violence and getting beaten.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:45 PM
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I'm concerned about him begging you or your parents for money in the future.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:53 AM
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Don't worry about this situation.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:24 AM
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I'm sure the boyfriend took credit for the gift. 😂
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:22 AM
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Don't do that. If you want there Facebook/Instagram majority of the time they will give it to you.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:16 AM
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Block him on everything. This is not the type of "friendship" you need to be involved in. It sounds like this person is a bully.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:14 AM
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Your going to have to be inside the 6 feet social distance. If she is willing to meet up with you then she assumes you don't have COVID. Kino like you normally do.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:11 AM
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You said you're going to be more careful. There, end of story. You may not realize this but that colleague cares about you. The disappointment is that you showed a lack of responsibility. Don't bring it up. Next time don't tell colleagues anything relating to legal trouble.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:07 AM
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Lets start with the most fundamental question. What are your hobbies, (gym doesn't count)?
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:01 AM
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As long as you lose your virginity in the next few years you're are fine. Nobody will know you're virgin unless you bring it up. If you really want to lose your virginity go find a 30 year old women to teach you.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:00 AM
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If it was legal and consensual it doesn't matter. I doubt the girl even remembers who you are. If the 0.0001% someone brings it up, you have no idea.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:55 AM
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Then best to not ask her to be Valentines. Just be polite and cordial if you see her.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:48 AM
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She's with Tyrone on Tuesday, with Juanito on Friday, and with me on Sunday. I can barely see the scratch marks I made last time 😃 . You don't get it do you?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 11:09 PM
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Good . But seriously, ask her to be your Valentine's in person. It's like declaring war on your friend group. Cheecky af lol. Be the Villain for once.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 10:59 PM
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Listen to "Wake Up Romeo" by Caro Emerald. It explains it from a woman's point of view lol.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 10:49 PM
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You have Learned Helplessness.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:20 PM
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This sounds like a case of a guy having a crush on her and creating a damsel in distress situation. You seem like a sexual threat and he is using Machiavellian tactics to keep you away. This is classic friendzoned beta orbiter white knight who is jealous. Let's go over some of his flawed logic: Why is it there business that you spend alot if time with her? Why are they qualified to identify grooming/manipulation? Why does her believe he has authority to tell her who to date? Why do they feel lik…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:13 PM
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Was she drunk?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:31 PM
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You need to FaceTime or have a phone call with her. Text messages do not generate attraction.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:14 PM
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Meditation allows me to have introspection and look inwards. Helps identify why I'm thinking a certain way or how to reflect on what happened in a certain situation.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:11 PM
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This makes sense to me. Thanks for sharing your perspective.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:41 PM
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How is OP a judgmental asshole??
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:01 PM
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FaceTime if you wanna flirt
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:57 PM
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Lol I'm fucking around but imagine if it's true lmao.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:19 PM
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A trusted buddy of mine is a medical student and him and his crew are doing it. I thought it was gonna be done sketchy shit but it's done at a dialysis clinic.They pretend it's some sort of research study. They make it sound all legit but I know $4.25 a ml for 400ml max.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:08 PM
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Yes. My blood type is O- which is universal donor. I can make quadruple amount of money if I have Covid antibodies. Big market in rich areas . That's like an easy $1700 a visit every two weeks.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:49 PM
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Cold approach in person. Tell them they have beautiful eyes and th m flirt. Tinder is for herbivores who want single moms.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:31 PM
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They probably need more comfort.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:29 PM
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Quarter Life Crisis.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:11 PM
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4-6 have ten times more simps in real life then the 8s,9s, and 10s. That's why they're entitled. Most men are intimidated by beauty.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:10 PM
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At 16 I got a customer service job at a grocery store. I remember before the job I used to get called Turtle at school. Made fun of because I was so shy aka hiding in my shell. Being forced to talk to 50 people a day as a job helped alot. Three months later I was quite extroverted and very social.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:52 PM
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Sounds like you have bad problem solving skills. Perhaps industries that require problem solving or ingenuity are not for you. Maybe you are more of artistic or mechanical type.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:48 PM
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Were you spending money on dumb stuff? No dad just slaps there son for no reason.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:12 PM
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Thanks for letting me know. Here in California were brainwashed to see fluoride in water as necessary for dental care. +1
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:33 PM
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Performance anxiety or subconsciously your not sexually attracted to her. Does this happen with other girls?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:16 PM
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She's my girl now. In fact she's everyone girl too. She's getting face fucked while you keep posting. She's not yours anymore. Leave her alone too.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:12 PM
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She wanted to just have pillow talk and not fuck. Emotional connection shit. Spend the night talking about feelings. It sounds like she is crazy. Don't respond, let her cool off. Make other plans for New Years.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:06 PM
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Just make sure you get enough floride. Brush your teeth twice a day.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:46 PM
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Yes unfortunately. In the early 2000s there was a "cartel" of gurus who were online marketers. They would sell courses on get rich schemes but overnight became "dating gurus". The kingpin was Eben Pagen aka David DeAngelo. He had a Double Your Dating Interviews" CD subscription business. Each month you would receive a CD where he interviewed a specific "dating guru". It was a great marketing tactic to get a nobody into the spotlight. He helped these dating gurus how to market their products. A s…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:50 PM
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As a "bachelor" I get a big box of condoms when I see my doctor in a brown paper bag. She adds STD bloodwork automatically. It's sometimes awkward having her medical assistant in the room when asked about my sex life, but I've gotten used to it.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:21 PM
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I have an inner " drill instructor" that calls me out on my bullshit. Successful people tend to have a strong sense of competition.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:12 PM
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It's common after graduation season in June.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:11 PM
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All the major gurus have moved on to "lifestyle" mentoring. Pua was fake and almost all the "infields" were marketing campaigns with actresses. It was a scam. David DeAngelo even admitted that his "Double Your Dating" program and the pua scene was just marketers working together to sell products.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:08 PM
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Start going on 30 mins walks.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:43 PM
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Yes. It's an artificial and useless talent. There's a reason why the pua scene is dead
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:38 AM
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She is going to give you a list of things you need to change. If you decline then she is going to confess certain things to get your ego hurt. I would not see her for at least two weeks. She needs to understand that their are consequences to demanding a break up.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:37 AM
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Your life is too comfortable. Do you pay rent?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:33 AM
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Read the article I posted. Yes you should run. Google "emotional entanglement" and "trauma bond cptsd" to learn more. You cannot save her.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:45 PM
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You're not weak. It's just an unconcious defense mechanism from getting your ego hurt. Be glad that your mind was able to give you a "danger danger" sign.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:43 PM
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If means she wants a guardian angel. She cannot have a stable relationship at the moment. It's quite common with girls that have abandonment issues. Read this article twice. https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/trauma-bonding
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:39 PM
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There it is. She has a trauma bond.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:28 PM
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You will come back because you already know too much.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:27 PM
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Sounds like she's teasing. If she's serious tell her 95% chance she will make less than $15 a week.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:25 PM
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Start learning math.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:23 PM
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Anxiety attack from fear of an unknown danger. It's a natural response from being surprised in a negative way. Like noticing a snake nearby when walking.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:23 PM
3

Classic Codependent energy vampire. You will have to be her therapist, confidant, lover, protector, and life navigator. In addition, you will have to go to great lengths to prove that you actually want her. Slowly this will develop into a trauma bond relationship that is going to suck the life force out of you. No.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:20 PM
7

I feel empathy for OP. He was decieved. Imagine if cannibalism or necrophilia was socially accepted . Lets say psychology determined that they were natural traits; for sake of this argument. How would you feel if someone kissed you with those traits without telling you first?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:48 PM
1

A biological woman has a uterus and milk glands. If those don't exist then that's not a woman.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:45 PM
1

Probably being heavily pressured by parents to settle down. She's looking for flaws to prove her parents that your not so great.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:13 PM
1

You have high potential. This is coming from someone who never xomplients. You have high cheekbones, aka someone who can classically handsome. Roman Aesthetics. Hidden in your blubber is a chiseled cheek look. Too bad they're cover up by a fat pufferfish look. I can see you being handsome if you got your body fat way down. Remember that 75% of men are out of shape. Get to 15% body fat and then come back .
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:06 PM
1

I had this situation happen when I got medication for my Bipolar. Currently super stable. I used to be the biggest push over ever and had learned helplessness and wanted to please others .Now I'm stoic and selfish. I believe you might have been cured of learned helplessness and now more assertive of your own needs.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:01 PM
2

Ok so you let the ball in her court. Good. And it's not your fault, your only responsible for 50%. A red pill is that some chicks don't want to see you if they are really happy. Or just had a very good fuck. An analogy is that if you just had a buffet of some the best food on Earth and your full. One more bite and you get nauseous.The next day you don't want to eat much, even if if the food is delicious. Realistically It's a hormonal and menstrual cycle situation. It's paradoxical, but hope it m…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:56 PM
2

What ever you say tqhey're going to believe her over you. Shea already spoiled so do you think they going to discipline her? Let it go.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:49 PM
1

She needs times to herself. Some girls literally get a message every 3 minutes from friends, family, Chad, etc. It's probably mentally exhausting.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:45 PM
2

Slow down Speedracer. You don't have to contact her so often. She just wants a fuck buddy she sees once a week and disappears. Not a boyfriend. Message her that you meant that you can see her after holidays. Next time you have a good fuck...slow down. Let her initiate sometimes. DO that now and then wait. If she doesn't response wait like two weeks.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:41 PM
1

Appears to be very charismatic and confident. Business type.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:47 PM
1

Adopt a new dog. You can have a new strong dog instead of a "little guy" who is always sick. Make a viking grave with his toys and dog stuff. Say your goodbyes and move on. It's a cruel cold world out there but that's life.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:33 PM
6

Didn't date, but I remember having to manage my uncle's brothel in Tijuana for a week. Ultra red pill women there. The head fresca ,(strawberry: slang for prostitute z), used to train the girls how to hook american men to give them money. These girls would play the innocent religious angel to their families. They convince their own mother that they working at a jewelry store. Married american men would send them hundreds of dollars so they can go feed their families. In reality they would spend …
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:23 PM
2

Excessive sugar consumption leads to obesity and lack of drive. Then they get hit with being too comfortable in a relationship and not having to stay attractive.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:05 PM
1

Make up a fake girlfriend. You will avoid drama. Also this means the mother hen will keep the female coworkers from trying to flirt. Last thing you need is a group of women mad because you rejected a fattie. The good news is that as a guy you're immune from work gossip and drama IF you just do your job.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:52 AM
1

She needs an excuse for you to stay the night.Tell her you will bring her food, watch movies, and sleep on couch. Dont want to drive home drunk/asleep; sleep in a car at Walmart parking lot; go to a smelly Motel etc.. Text: "I can come over and stay the night.. I'll bring food. No worries if I take the couch for bed. Will be fun".
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:52 AM
3

The dont shit were you eat applies to work AND situations that can affect your reputation in a group. In this case its your professional reputation. STEM girls tend to huge amounts of orbiters. Over analyzers. You have to play the long term dating game. No pump and dump. If they reject you treat her professionally. Dont get butthurt. My strategy would be to make platonic friends with some of the girl groups for "preselection". Then ask her a girl or two outside that girl group. Someone they dont…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:43 AM
1

Be happy about it, she's attractive. Also beauty compliments are always gonna happen. Not a big deal to her.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:35 AM
-1

Stop being a covert white knight. She is judged by the same standard as all of us. We help all those who make a quality thread in Asktrp. We dont give special treatment to women. We respond to ultra betas, delusional oneitis-ers, and angry incels. Just because she's a woman doesn't mean you have to be concerned of her membership status in this group. Same treatment.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:30 AM
2

This sounds like a time management problem with a narcissist. On phone, ignore spelling errors. You and husband Create a shared calendar that you can all edit. You can all schedule what needs to be done. If she can't keep the schedule, then you all three need to see a meditator. It's cheaper than you think and their decision is legally binding. Treat this like a business relationship, not a personal relationship. Group chat only or email only. An analogy is that your best female friend is a mode…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 02:14 AM
3

Because you have a neurotransmitter deficiency. An analogy is some with anemia who needs iron, or a diabetic 1 who needs insulin. They take it because they dont make enough. Ots As a Bipolar I need my antdepressent sertraline. It's your brain fuel. For normal people adderall gets them high. For you it makes your stable. For normal people antidepressants gets them happy, for me it makes me stable. It's just fuel.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:42 AM
0

Ask her to Facetine or video chat. Then she will a lot more comfortable.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:33 AM
2

It has made me realize the power of frame.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:32 AM
3

Anything that implies secret laziness/procastrination in schoolwork. The classic is " Can you help me with problem _ on the math homework?" and "Can I read your essay ?". They just want you to share your work and not actually learn.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:30 AM
2

What country is this?
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:56 PM
1

That's Marketing 101. Don't take it so serious.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:55 PM
212

This is called abundance mentality. You realize that they're everywhere and don't need to focus on them.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 07:04 AM
1

Your going to have to be a gray rock. Stoic, unemotional, super logical. Ultra boring. BPDs need a massive emotional supply. Act like you Arnold from Terminator.Then she will leave you.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:00 AM
1

Get the Computer Science degree.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:56 PM
5

You can have female friends as long as your not attracted to them.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:54 PM
2

That she reminds me of a cow.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:46 PM
25

OnlyFans Follows the 80:14 Rule. [ 14% Make 80% of the Money]. Top 1 % of Accounts make 33% of the Money. Almost all the girls have no fans at all. The ones that have fans already have had a big fan base for years. Median account is $180 a month. The Absolute top make 100k a month. Most "content" is personalized so they can't mass market it. That means they have to work long hours to make very little. https://www.xsrus.com/writing/explain/onlyfans/
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:14 AM
6

Completely agree. The top 1% of accounts make 33% of all the money. The top 10% of accounts make 73% of all the money. This isn’t the 80:20 rule; it’s the 80:14 rule. https://www.xsrus.com/writing/explain/onlyfans/
/r/askTRP10/12/20 07:57 AM
1

As some with Bipolar,(super stable), all I can say is this this. Run.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:49 AM
1

Your problem is that you have extremely low Emotional intelligence.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:17 PM
1

You have hypersensitivity to criticism. Glass cannon.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:13 PM
1

You have Mommy issues. Did you have a bad childhood?
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:06 PM
1

Let her think it's on her terms. Act the same as you always did
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:00 PM
13

Most people prefer boredom instead of learning something new. Boredom is a familiar feeling that paradoxically feels better than being stressed by "thoughts". Always be learning He who hesitates, mastubates. Having clean nails is a signal to girls that you more than likely getting laid regularly. Keep them clean.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:53 AM
3

Yes, it was wrong video. This is correct video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRAbr_CQYHE
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:23 AM
2

It might...might work if you frame it as "just talking" or "getting to know each other". But my instinct says she's going to string you along or put up lots of resistance. Try to kiss her, she what happens. I expect a "I'm not ready" talk. This is the type of girl who will lead you on for months because she's a good girl. Then give it up to Chad next summer out of nowhere lol.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:17 AM
9

If they ask if you been fucking someone say "A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell". Or "I'm really private". Something like that.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:06 AM
1

This is a good video to watch. Purple pilled but I trust Corey Wayne. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wg3eyOCEyPU
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:00 AM
6

Frustration is an emotional energy fuel . You can use it to generate a stronger emotional energy fuel called Anger. 5 Units of Frustration equals 1 Unit of Anger. Then you use Anger to power on your metaphorical engine to become extremely competitive with yourself. Eventually 1 Unit of Anger is converted to 1 Unit of Passion. These emotional fuel called Passion will give you the best emotional energy to give it your best.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:59 AM
9

Add 10% more romance and affection. Just enough for them to think you're falling for them. Showing that you "actually" care about them. Then go back to dominant alpha. Repeat over and over. Let them think they're winning you over. Chicks dream of "taming" a dangerous man. Affection could be as simple as getting them a 99 cent bag of M&Ms when you pump gasoline lol.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:48 AM
1

Go to Community College and do a STEM major. That's a start.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:37 AM
1

Just remember you don't need the latest phone model. Also threes another benefit. You don't get to see each other's social media which increases mystery. It's a rare thing for her to meet someone mysterious.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:37 AM
4

This is common advice. My question is why you're getting advice from a non lifting feminine twink on Youtube? His body language screams deception. He doesn't get pussy. Watch Alpha Male Strategies brother.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:23 AM
10

Almost all hot young girls have an iphone. Spin it like you want to talk to them via iMessage/ FaceTime because you get too busy to be on social media. That's why you want to trade numbers.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:19 AM
1

She grew up in Israel with a very close and religious Jewish family. Then she spent two years as a combat instructor for the Israeli Defense military. Then she met her husband who was a millionaire at the time. He sold houses. Her modeling and acting career was supposed to be a side hobby. I believe the reason she is in love with him is because he was her "dream guy" when she was a little girl. He is all about faith and family which is super attractive in her Israeli culture. Also more than like…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:10 AM
2

You're one of the girlfriends. Possibly a future best friend.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:03 AM
4

That's what sugar mommas are supposed to do. Save it.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:01 AM
1

Low self-esteem + high anxiety = Neurotic / Neurosis. People who are neurotic respond worse to stressors and are more likely to interpret ordinary situations as threatening and minor frustrations as hopelessly difficult. They are often self-conscious and shy, and they may have trouble controlling urges and delaying gratification. Expect an insane amount of neediness and reassurance that you like her. https://www.verywellmind.com/how-neuroticism-affects-your-behavior-4782188
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:58 AM
2

This reminds of the time a BPD/NPD girl told me her mother was allergic to sunlight. Yes sunlight. We were in the car and this girl had tears and a sob story. Afraid I was going to reject her for that. This was first meeting so i don't understand the logic of why i needed to know. Anyways, a few weeks later I run into her and her mother at a fast food place. 90 degree sunny southern California weather. Mother had a short sleeve shirt and shorts. I'm confused af, the mother looks complete fine. I…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:41 AM
7

TLDR; "This is Nigel Thornberry with National Geographic. Jeppers lads look at that! Now this is a scene for the ages! This young human male failed to mate with a human female! It appears, no..but yes, he faked his mating dance. He tried to mimick the leader of his flock but failed. Even one of the elder hens couldn't save him. He just couldn't master the mating dance of the alpha. Poor human male. There he goes off to the branch. All alone now in this winter night. Pondering. Alast, no mating t…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:08 AM
13

Kinda corny but chicks at gym who lift heavy weights are "warrior princess" types. All about big butts because they're not usually busty. They go to gym for themselves. Super assertiveness. Trying to be wonder woman. That's good for them. Not my type, too masculine. The treadmill and yoga types are "cinderellas" who want to look good for prince charming aka Chad. "Cardio bunnies". Submissive. You might see them using a leg machine as their only weight lifting excercise. Their goal is to get a re…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:54 AM
3

No sexual tension means no attraction.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:37 AM
26

A mindfuck is that really feminine women don't usually go to the gym. If they do go to the gym it's cardio only with a friend. They prefer the nail salon, hangout with girlfriends, do housework, or visiting family. The reason is that they have strong father figures. The ones you see alone at the gym tend to have masculine traits; independence, assertiveness, and competitive . Personally, a quick unscientific test to tell if a women is feminine is to check how long her hair is. The longer the hai…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:33 AM
3

Don't bring it up. Let her mind play pretend.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:24 AM
1

You need tough love. Well first you have to start treating your adrenal fatigue and being way too comfortable in la la land to face reality. For ONE WEEK, this means no porn, drugs, entertainment, fast food, video games, social media or doing activities that you artificial pleasure. Time to have both feet on Earth for once in your life. Your acting like a grass eating herbivore with no competitive anger. Eat, Shit, Sleep, and Entertainment. A milking cow. That's your life. No sense of commitment…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:15 AM
12

Most PUAs and digital gurus have the following marketing structure when it comes to their content. "Free" YouTube Content - 100% Fundamentals with "what if" examples of the same 10 to 15 topics. They talk about 1 specific fundamental topic for a video. That topic is something broad like "she didn't text back" to get people engaged. Usually they film themselves walking somewhere answering a specific question; "Happiness comes from Haters" or "Get Her Infected Like Corona! The #1 Tip!". "Core" Cou…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:29 PM
1

If you're not the prize then who is?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:42 PM
2

"I was waiting for the right time for you to be mine". It's a comfort test
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:52 PM
1

Take a deep breath. Breathe
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:51 PM
10

It's probably her private where she interacts with her "fans".
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:49 PM
1

"I haven't found the right one"
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:17 PM
3

The good news is you don't have to give her a Christmas gift! But in seriousness, her having a Tinder is probably to get Instagram followers. A ploy to get you jealous so you commit? I believe the major issue here is lack of communication and a fear of intimacy. I have some advice. This is going to be hard and 95% of the time I would be against it. It's somewhat blue pilled, so don't crucify me. You need to contact her and have a talk about how you both feel about each other. Do you both want to…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:09 AM
6

Let me tell you a story. I had a severe oneitis for a girl back in 9th grade. I followed her like a puppy dog, sent flowers, etc for like three years. Thin, big tits, and beautiful. 5 '4 120 lbs. Every guy wanted her. Ten years later I see her in the grocery store. She is a cashier and was scanning my groceries. She gained at least 150 lbs and with makeup, she was unrecognizable. I didn't even know that was her. She scanning the canned beans and I get a vibe like she is angry but pretending to b…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:52 PM
3

Might be the Codependent-Narcissist Trap. In other words a pleaser is highly attractive to someone who is a taker. Below is a an explanation: Source Codependents dance well with narcissists because their pathological personalities or “dance styles” fit together, like a hand in a glove. Almost instantly, they dance magnificently together because they are able to instinctively anticipate each other’s moves. The choreography is effortless, as it feels like they have always danced together. Not only…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:29 PM
1

By dates she more than likely means "free food, free drinks, free attention" from a Billy Beta. It's a way for her to show off cool places, food, and experiences without having to pay for it. She wants to make sure her "dick appointment",(you), is available after being pampered. Also by fucking you it tells her," the dates are make-believe, they can't have me". And she probably telling you this because she knows you won't get feelings. Just fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:22 PM
1

The worst that can happen is her being squeamish. No, she is not going to call the police for trying to hold her hand. Also, if you don't try at all she will think you're rejecting her or your taken/gay/a wimp. If sitting together , hold her hand or put arm around her shoulder. If walking, hold her hand or hand on waist. If she is in front of you facing you, give her strong hug. If she is in front of you NOT facing you, get on her side shoulder.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:04 PM
1

"Are you clean?"
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:37 AM
1

Could be that emotional rollercoasters make you feel alive and a stable girl is boring.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:35 AM
1

Maslow Theory of Needs. Maybe you're searching for self actualization.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:34 AM
1

When there is actually an attractive girl it's been somewhat successful. The reason is that there is more privacy in those big box stores than you think.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:32 AM
2

I'm a programmer as well. Just make sure to do the standard no contact, get enough sleep, workout, etc. I highly recommend you read the following book. It explains how our brains work using programming analogies. You can get a free copy from Libgen. Psychology of Programming by Jean-Michel Hoc.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:59 PM
0

Got it. You asked her to hangout at 19:00 (7:00PM), and then asked her again at 20:30(8:30PM)? That's kinda early to start a date, especially if she wants to fuck. Girls that want to fuck tend to want late night, at least 21:00 (9:00 PM). Just tell her 21:00 (9:30 PM) is the latest you can tonight, don't explain yourself. Trust me, she is probably going to spend an hour getting ready. You can use the extra 2.5 hours to do something productive; not the end of the world. I understand if you have a…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:39 PM
8

Most of my cold approaches have been at Walmart or Target. Weekends at 11am seems to be the best time.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:32 PM
1

Along with lift weights, talk to girls, and meditating i have something specific you should try. A good therapist gave me this advice years ago. I might be unusual but it has helped me in the past. What your mind is doing is having anxiety over the fear of the unknown. How to get that treated? I can give you a long scientific answer but ill keep it simple. You need mental stimulation. This can be chess, coding, alcumus math, or one of those brain training apps. You need to find a technical hobby…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:28 PM
1

Because being the "best PUA" in the world is a marketing tactic.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:54 PM
2

Computer Science.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:32 AM
2

That's really disrespectful of her. I have two plates. One of them is 24 and the other is 29. The 24 year old doesn't care, but the 29 year old does at times. She sometimes asks me, "Why you hanging out with them, they're young and immature". I think she does that because she feels that I will find a young 20 year old girl through them. I think you're plate wants to separate you from you're friends so she can get you to settle down.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:43 PM
1

Sometimes I get called the Elder which i find it funny.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:36 PM
3

You must be fun at parties.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:34 PM
26

I started hanging out with early 20 year old's who share the same hobbies as me. When I went back to community college at 30 I got a decent sized friends group. Sometimes i act like an older brother which they appreciate. Other times i get called Millennial lol.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:02 AM
13

She has competition anxiety.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:35 PM
1

Do you mean intimacy?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:27 PM
1

Don't make a big deal about it. Also she has to act a little flirty to keep her obiter's hopes up. Attention.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:25 PM
3

"I got to go, but let's hangout sometime. Let's trade numbers"
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:23 PM
12

Sorry to burst your bubble but they used paid actresses in those infields. Lookism exposed them a while back. They now do "lifestyle" coaching.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:19 PM
2

Instagram shows pictures chronologically. Not a big deal,
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:16 PM
17

Sounds like performance anxiety. Scared of falling for a girl and not knowing what to do.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:15 PM
1

Tell her you will Call her tonight. See how she responds.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:14 PM
0

A simple Google search is helpful to learn things you don't understand.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 09:07 PM
1

The interesting ones tend to have a hobby or two they have done since middle school. Usually introverted and "plain jane" type.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:39 PM
1

I doubt she will fuck someone when it's Thanksgiving break here in America and most people are with family. The majority of the guys here are soyboys too. It sounds like she considers you alpha, don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:36 PM
2

See her on Friday. Once or twice a week is alright.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:31 PM
2

Yes but usually in a passive aggressive manner. Covert. Silent treatment is the #1 way.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:30 PM
2

Majority of women don't care if you are a software developer. What they care about is that you're ambitious, fun, and confident. I'm assuming you're using Unity Engine correct? Then show them the game you're making.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:28 PM
1

You can Facetime, some girls need an emotional connection more frequently then others.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:21 PM
3

I tell everyone I'm bipolar 1 and no one cares. Some don't even believe me. You know why? Because I just take my medicine and don't make it my self identity. If you don't make it a big deal most people won't make it a big deal. It's not about having a mental illness, its about you being a storm cloud of bad vibes, poor me, and I GUARENTEE trying to get sympathy from others. Most people, especially college aged girls are not capable or experienced to deal with someone whose like this. They just w…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:18 PM
1

This is textbook Codependency. What's happening is that you are a "love addict" because you long to be loved by someone. The core problem is very low self esteem and some sort of maternal insecurity? How is your relationship with you're mother? Was she cold?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:12 PM
2

There is your answer. If she is moody let her cool off. Don't try to solve her problem.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:05 PM
14

Also lots of girls are into relationships this time of year. Wifey Winters, Single Summers.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:06 PM
2

I wonder what the smell was like, yikes!
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:05 PM
12

If you're a STEM major going to university I recommend you have a basic grasp of Chinese. Makes it easier to be invited to certain study groups. Most universities have at least 25% Chinese students. You don't have the be fluent, just know basic greetings .Makes them see you as friendly rather than a complete foreigner.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:16 AM
1

"Confess" that you're a contractor and working on the site for a client. Then don't talk about it or mention it.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:22 PM
1

It depends if you trust her to keep the activities a secret.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:20 PM
0

"Let's hangout!"
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:17 PM
1

She wants you to try and get with her. Time and Place. Make it sound like a secret adventure, secret agent vibes.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:11 PM
2

Think of it as this. In the past you were a beta loser who didn't have the wisdom to understand what you were doing. Now you know, and have experience on what not to do. It's like when you start playing a new video game and you do very badly. Then with experience you start doing quite well.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:10 PM
1

She is slowly putting you in the friendzone. She gets cold when shes not around you because her attention is on another guy. It's like putting a frog in a pot and slowly boiling the water so it doesn't jump. also I suspect she's warm so she keeps you hooked and you don't move on to another girl.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:05 PM
1

This is classic textbook Learned Helplessness and lack of self discipline. You need to do something about that before you became a failure. Also let me guess, you don't drink enough water or get enough sunlight right?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 09:04 PM
1

Do you still live at home?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:59 PM
1

You're not anything official so you aren't owed an explanation of her love life. She is not exclusive, so you shouldn't expect her to act like your girlfriend. She sees you as the "were just getting to know each other" guy, not the "were together" couple.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:56 PM
6

Don't reply for a few days no matter what she says. Social contract is done. She will try to get you emotional so you appear like the asshole to people you know. If you have one of those apps that shows your location, turn them all off. It might be better to send all her messages to spam so she doesn't go nuclear about being blocked.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:53 PM
1

Only worth it for STEM majors.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:46 PM
1

Fair point! Majority of democratic states have been in a complete shutdown. Especially gyms, clubs, and bars. Apologies.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:34 AM
1

He is not going to come after you. Maybe an angry phone call to leave his daughter alone forever. No daughter will ever tell her father that she was used for sex.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:26 AM
1

Dog parks and hiking trails.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:21 AM
1

Did you just get out of jail recently? Were in a pandemic.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:21 AM
2

The truth!
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:20 AM
2

Breathe. Contact her in like a week if she doesn't contact you. She will forget about this.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:18 AM
2

I read the essay you must of done on Microsoft Word or on your pink diary. This is the part I'm gonna comment on. I’ve seen this guy spend an average of $3-5k per day for 2 weeks, going out partying daily with girls etc and hanging out with a similar crew of alpha/rich guys and whatnot.. But then he mentioned he just prefers going up to a girl asking her direct (most of the attractive ones where I am are “working”), and he just said it so openly and acknowledged it like it’s nothing. He was talk…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:13 AM
2

If he continues call him out for having a crush on you lol. Accuse him of seeing your picture and getting excited. Make he will cream his spongebob boxers that you know his secret.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:01 AM
2

You probably cried because you saw someone who was "amazing" ruin herself and you feel like you could have prevented it. Then the "what if I..", " starts going inside her head. You were not responsible for her decisions. Trust me, if you saw them in a domestic violence situation and you fought him she would defend him. She is BPD, she probably didn't even realize it was you. Also you're in a better position in life now, her validation doesn't determine your self worth.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:53 AM
1

They tend to go downhill after 20 if they used to do sports in high school. Their sport required them to workout many times a week, but two years after high school they start getting fat fast.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:43 AM
1

Teach her how to squat.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:40 AM
1

Maybe you don't look like your pictures.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:38 AM
2

Used to happen to me when I was a teenager. Figured out it was not being trained how to control an adrenaline rush under a highly emotional event . When were little kids usually our parents tell us to stop crying when we get embarrassed or upset.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:37 AM
13

They just want to "chill" and escape there problems with other lazy people.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:33 AM
2

You have leveled up to Level 2. But seriously, this means your "locus of control" us shifting from external events to internal self. Very good news.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:32 AM
2

In that case, maybe Blackhawk is flirting with you by throwing a shit test lmao
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:30 AM
2

Curious, how old are you?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:29 AM
1

They live in the moment, what do you think?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:28 AM
1

Put on your shoes when you wake up and don't take them off till bed time. I don't know why it works, but you feel more productive.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:26 AM
1

You need to fear for your life metaphorically speaking.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:23 AM
2

They don't know your life story so why care? Cyberbullying only matters if someone knows you.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:22 AM
2

Wipe your tears and go to there reddit profile and click Block. Simple. Effective.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:21 AM
1

Give her a safe word like "Pineapples" or "Bananas" if she wants to tap out. If she wants it rougher her word is "More" or "Daddy". Also if you're choking her tapping your arms is stop. Also don't choke her more than 1 minute.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:18 AM
1

2 friends who I've know for years.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:13 AM
1

Friendships come from shared hobbies and interests. What are yours?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 09:14 PM
2

Are you a blue eyed Christian girl?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 09:09 PM
1

Turn anger into Passion.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 09:05 PM
1

They're want to feel good about taming the Beast that no other girl can.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 09:03 PM
3

Very outdated. It was written in a time when social media and dating apps didn't exist .
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:57 PM
1

Learn helplessness?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:55 PM
1

Zoloft is antihorny .
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:54 PM
2

Drink some alcohol together, she needs the it just happened excuse.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:46 PM
1

Start make animal noises. Loud and proud
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:31 PM
1

Too comfortable. It's like eating oatmeal with peanut butter every other day. Gotta spice it up
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:21 PM
1

I don't have kids so I'm unqualified to answer this.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:06 PM
2

Document everything you can. Eventually you and your girlfriend are going to have to go to HR about this. You're gonna have to frame it as a threat to company morale among the team, not for personal reasons.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:05 PM
3

Quarter Life Crisis is an identity battle between your current self and who you were years ago. Kinda like being on a road and you don't know what's ahead; but don't want to turn around and go back. You need to figure out what you want your purpose to be.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:01 PM
3

This is textbook Quarter Life Crisis.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:05 PM
1

Doesn't know how cook, doesn't clean, or know basic home repair. Lack of self sufficiency.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:08 PM
1

Horrible business decision since you don't have a stable income. There will be extra costs in the future. Do you absolutely need a car?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:57 PM
-5

Only watch PoV porn.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:54 PM
9

The breakup triggered fear of intimacy and unknown because you lost your friend group. This unconscious fear creates a defense mechanism ofintrojection and regression. Basically you have a strong mental shield of getting close to others because your ego has a fear it's going to get shattered. This is not simply losing a girl, but a close friend group of a decade. You're outside the metaphorical tribe. Alone in a land wandering around with no support from your tribe. It's alright! What you need t…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:52 PM
12

Ask your manager if that coworker has the right to give you job evaluations. Managers don't like coworkers that act like managers.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:19 AM
11

It's reasonable. If 1% of girls are into dating older men , that's 1/100.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:07 PM
1

Zoloft
/r/askTRP28/09/20 01:19 PM
2

Ask your father what he thinks about this lol.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 05:26 PM
4

Sounds like she was talking to her mother or father, and is covering her ass by saying "and a girl".
/r/askTRP27/09/20 05:21 PM
3

No. If you're there Mentor they're off limits. Easy way to get reported for sexual harassment. Find girls you don't have an academic responsibility for.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:00 PM
1

Sounds like a Quarter Life Crisis.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:41 PM
1

Depends on your math skills. Computer science is basically math, physics, software development, algorithms, and computer architecture. Coding is a small part of it. IT is mostly about getting certification s. A+, Network+, Security+..etc. It's a lower tier than computer science, and the market is oversaturated for entry level roles. Cyber security is becoming saturated too. The best route would be to become a Cloud Engineer or a Network Engineer. Coding is just programming. You have to learn the…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 08:18 AM
1

Channel Anger into Passion. Become angry and use that energy to lift, run, learn something new. Anger is a gift.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 08:03 AM
17

You're going to I have to face some sort of brutality or competition to get dark triad. The way you start being less empathetic is when you see other people as inferior and useless.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 07:56 AM
6

I asked one of my marine buddies that lives near Riverside, and he recommend this therapist. This therapist works with men's health issues and Veterans.No sugar coating, tells you the honest truth. Tough love type. Conservative. Patriot. Results driven. Here is his bio. "I specialize in men's mental health issues and trauma. I am also trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy as well as Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I take a warm, but direct approach …
/r/askTRP12/09/20 07:46 AM
3

It's just like the story "Plato and the Cave". People that have lived their whole lives in a metaphorical cave with the only light source being a small fire; can't comprehend a world with sunlight, trees, rivers, and sky.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 11:20 PM
1

Do something that scares you. That's how you become humble.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:14 PM
1

Highly recommend you check out the CPTSD subreddit. Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a fancy word that means childhood trauma. You might have some mental trauma from the abuse you had a childhood that explains the suicide attempts and feeling like your have to be Atlas and hold the world together.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:10 PM
3

Tequila and Cerveza. Since shes traditional mexican put on some romantic music, get her in the mood.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 12:59 AM
9

Learn to walk with proper posture.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 12:54 AM
2

Some porn actors are wearing fake dick prosthetics.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:20 PM
3

You can text her by using your smartphone.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:18 PM
3

If you get triggered so easily wear a hat and go at 7am. You should be so into your workout that you barely notice them.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:04 PM
1

How many GBs are we talking about?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:45 PM
1

Probably collecting child support from baby daddy and doesn't feel like she needs to be married. Subconsciously wants to be with baby daddy.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:43 PM
2

Ask in the CPTSD subreddit. The book Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Walker is the current gold standard to learn about CPTSD.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:41 PM
0

Laugh it off, assume he is jealous. Keep that viber around your girl.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:39 PM
7

Completely agree! There is no perfect routine, only personal preferences.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:08 PM
2

A pain in the fucking ass. Feels like I'm babysitting children sometimes. They mostly talk about dudes and drama, ask for relationship advice. Your like a bodyguard at times as well when they complain some weird dude is staring at them. It does help you understand female nature and how they view the world.But you also feel neutered, almost feminine because the conversations are all feelings. Not discussion about interesting topics or bonding over hobbies. You instinct is to protect, not to fuck.…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:05 PM
3

She has shit to do, was sleepy, or is on her period. Maybe she took her makeup off, already showed from seeing Chad, who knows. Next time ask her at 8pm. See what happens
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:56 PM
1

"When I say no, I feel guilty" book by Manuel J. Smith is a recommend read. Lack of confidence might mean you feel guilty of setting your own boundaries.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:50 PM
22

I mentioned wake up at sunrise because it gives you more daylight hours, the gym is empty, and there is less traffic.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:46 PM
1

SSRIs work differently for Bipolars than regular people. It's not a feel good medication for them, more like an electrical signal regulator. Side effects are usually minimal after the first week or two.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:43 PM
7

I have Bipolar I, and have been taking Zoloft and Lamictal for the past year and a half. 95% of those who take SSRIs are those that have a weak mindset and a victim mentality. You, unfortunately are in the 5% that has to take it in order to balance brain electrical signals. It's a serotonin and electrical signal regulator for you. Not for feel bad life sucks depression. SSRIs work a lot different to Bipolars than regular people. Bipolar is being a race car that can drive 200 mph but has no brake…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:40 PM
35

Wake up at sunrise.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:36 AM
2

Time. I have stuff that needs to be done, and not enough time to do it.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:29 PM
2

Almost no one cares that you're old. They do look down on those that talk about their wife and kids. A number of them are going to assume that you're going for your Masters, or you a TA.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:28 PM
10

I had an attractive female friend shit test me last week. We were walking at Venice Beach along the sidewalk, where there were shops and places to eat. She secretly put her Iphone on her back pocket and was recording to see who was checking out her great ass. She was in yoga pants and has a big bubble butt. She said she tested most of her male friends to see who would look. Some sort of Instagram challenge or something. I was the only male friend who didn't check out her ass at all. In the video…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:29 AM
2

Well...it can give you Hope and encourage you to improve your life. But when you become a better version of yourself you probably wont see her as attractive as you do now.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:01 PM
2

You do know if things go bad your sister is going to be very upset with you. I wouldn't do it because it's going to be awkward for your sister to heard about your sex life. Go ahead, ask her if you should. If you feel weird asking her, then there is your answer.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:56 PM
1

Usually only a therapist can refer you to psychiatry. If you're in the United States , www.samhsa.gov offers a free referral service to psychiatry. They're the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration. They can refer you to a psychiatrist free of charge, and get free medication. The program is sponsored by the federal government. Good luck friend! :) Go on their website and talk to someone SAMHSA’s National Helpline. https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/prevention
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:52 PM
1

She thinks you will never change whatever caused the fall out. She is living in the present, and you in the past.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:49 PM
1

That's understandable. Women love improving themselves for men. There has to be something she can do to earn your validation. Give her some breadcrumbs. Tell her friend you ignore her because she is annoying. Watch her being alot nicer to you so you give her attention. Also what she is doing is called "gas lighting".
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:45 PM
5

They think men are like loot boxes in a video game, and your're the"legendary" weapon that's super rare and extremely valuable. They want to claim you so they can show their friends, "look at me I have a legendary guy and you bitches don't! I'm special!"
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:37 PM
2

She want's you to tease her back, and to stop being so nice and safe with her. Her friends know this, so of course she gets butt hurt you don't even try. Probably getting fussy that you are acting like she isn't attractive. Call her out playfully. For example, when she said, "But you'll have to edit those out in Photoshop later on", say "I gotta edit that ass of yours too, i love bubble butts". .Even if she has a boyfriend she still wants to feel sexually attractive. Tease her back, maybe you wi…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:26 PM
2

We're in a pandemic so she might want a beta provider just in case things get really bad. Also she wanted to be in a serious relationship and you didn't. So of course she goes back with the dude that wants a relationship with her. That's what she wants. You don't. Mismatch of goals.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:16 PM
16

If she wants to keep the kid, (90% chance), start putting most of your disposable money in Savings. In nine months you can either take care of the kid's expenses or spend it on yourself. At least you're financially prepared. It would be wise to stay on her good side, (so she won't accuse you of stuff), so be emotionally supportive for now. She is feminine and submissive so be masculine and a rock. She makes good money so you don't have to worry about financials. I'm not saying to be emotionally …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:08 PM
1

Personally, weed is for people too weak minded to handle life and need an escape from reality. It's a depressant that lowers brainpower over time. Here's question. Why do you want to smoke weed, the honest truth?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 09:01 PM
2

This might be better posted in the "raisedbynarcissists" subreddit.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:57 PM
4

Listen to "The 10 Rules of Aaron Clarey" on Youtube. That's the raw red pill truth.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:54 PM
2

You can get her a $50 Promise Ring and tell her you will marry her someday. She will get over it and become happy again. You don't have to marry her, just imply that you will so she stays happy.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:37 PM
2

I cold approach. Women are a lot friendlier lately but also more socially awkward. They don't really know how to react. You have to seduce them with strong eye contact and playful banter. Their is also alot of mystery since they don't know what you really look like. Reminds me of loot boxes.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:35 PM
2

Could be malnutrition, (very low potassium, sodium, and calcium) from excessive excercise . Or hypoglycemia, (low blood sugar), since he might be depleting it too fast on a cut. Or Adrenaline Fatigue. That can cause depression. He should see a doctor ASAP, and if everything is normal...then he should see a therapist.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:22 PM
1

One major benefit of treated Bipolar Disorder with medication is "hypomania". That's slightly elevated mania that gives you a 10 to 25% increase in physical and mental energy compared to a normal person. Bipolar is increased electrical signals in parts of the brain, and mood stabilizers and antidepressants help "stabilize them". They have way different effects than a normal person taking them. You will also noticed the you can focus way longer than before, and your "frame" is a lot stronger due …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Could there be a chance you have developed Bipolar Disorder? It usually appears in the early 20s. You might have had mania,(very high mental energy and physical energy, doing many hobbies at once, low need for sleep, high sex drive, feeling like a king). Now you have depression,(very low mental and physical energy, sensitivity to light, low sexual drive, feeling like a failure, no enjoyment of life, social isolation). Disclaimer: I have Bipolar I, (in remission, highly stable). Please research B…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:19 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVrigRvgyX8 and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3QatjqP5Hw
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:22 AM
22

I don't believe the red pill will be banned, but it will stay quarantined forever. The mainstream, especially SJWs are not exposed to the manosphere as much as the past. Cancel culture is focused on calling out companies and celebrities at the moment. There has not been a major controversy that has brought SJWs to focus on the sub. People knowing about MGTOW, incels, and pickup artists has significantly trended down. The red pill moderators have been very strict about following the rules. The ma…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:02 PM
3

Normal behavior for FRIENDS, not for trying to have a sexual relationship.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:41 PM
3

They have some disadvantages, it's not all sunshine and rainbows like you may believe. Women hate each other. The one area most beautiful women have a huge disadvantage is in corporate america, even with this "you go girl" movement. Most of their uglier female colleges hate them, and most of the men don't want to mentor them for fear of sexual harassment allegations. Most businesses tend to have an older woman who is a mother hen type that look down on beautiful women. They constantly nag them t…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:38 PM
4

A famous person once said that marriage is, "betting half your money on being with the same person for the rest of your life". Marriage does have it's place for certain demographics but for most males under 40 it's a lose-lose situation. The main reason is the concept of hypergamy; women tend to want to want to find the best partner even if they are already in a relationship or marriage.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:01 PM
1

A+
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:57 PM
1

Use the STDCheck website and send him the anonymous text message that he should get tested for STD'S. Then he can take action. The message looks likes this. STDCheck.com - A sexual partner tested positive for an STD & recommends that you also get tested. For details, visit STDcheck.com/notify Text STOP = Opt-Out
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:22 PM
1

Works if you're the superstitious type.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:23 PM
2

Find a nurse or a teacher. You need a nuturing female that loves to help people.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:12 PM
1

Ask yourself if you have codependency issues my brother. Also realize that once you improve your life you will get better quality women.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:11 PM
1

They started dating and eating lots of high calorie foods from hangouts and going on "dates".
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:04 PM
2

Do kegels. You can do them when taking a piss.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:02 PM
3

Let me bring up to speed young one. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7vQSPBtwyc
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:33 PM
28

Yeah we gotta bring early-TRP back, it's too serious and academic these days.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:29 PM
24

Yeah she was asking her followers to buy her things from her Amazon Pantry wish list. Potatoes, Hot Cheetos. tomatoes, and cinnamon cheerios LOL.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:26 PM
17

I know, but women are women, and they think they deserve free money, even if it's $5.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:18 PM
2

Most of those hot girls on Instagram and porn are 5 foot 2 and are not as attractive in real life. Especially those with big tits. It's all camera angles, short girls look more busty on camera. Now girls that are talent agent represented models are usually over 6 feet and don't thot due to their contracts. You can usually find those girls in business networking events.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:26 AM
2

As someone who has Bipolar I have found out that 95% of people don't really care about it or stigmatize. From what you wrote it sounds like you might be a better candidate for borderline disorder BUT you have to talk to a doctor to get that result. Keep a mood journal, Daylio app, and see if there are any triggers.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:19 AM
3

Look up Preselection in the Red Pill handbook.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:18 AM
4

I recommend the books "When He's Married to Mom" and "Silently Seduced "by Kenneth Adams to learn how to escape Enmeshment ( what you refer to as emotional incest). Basically their are no boundaries between you and your mother and your emotions tend to be enmeshed together ; you're only happy when shes happy. Also it wouldn't surprise me if you have developed some sort of learned helplessness and attachment issues. Please read those books or google the term "enmeshment trauma".
/r/askTRP06/02/20 01:56 AM
5

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Peter Walker. Also recommend you read my posts at theredpill : "How to TheRedPill with ADHD" "The 4Fs: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn (The Causes of Oneitis, Approach Anxiety, and Procrastination) "
/r/askTRP02/02/20 10:25 PM
2

You have to find ways to stop the anxiety and being in your head.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:51 PM
1

Probably the algorithms placing you in the 18 to 35 category.. Delete account and put 28.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:49 PM
1

You might have Depression, well specifically anhedonia which is not being able to feel pleasure. Might want to talk to a doctor about it. https://www.webmd.com/depression/what-is-anhedonia#1
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:47 PM
2

I don't understand how you have problems talking to a girl when the chances of you being the sperm that crack the egg inside your mother is one in 600 hundred million. Nature wants you to talk to girls. Go up to the girl and say hello.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:43 PM
1

Reschedule, make it sound like no big deal.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:27 PM
1

If I don't give it my best I will eventually be less competitive in life.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:26 PM
3

Fancy cars are only important to gold diggers and girls that are into car culture.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:24 AM
1

Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:09 AM
1

I have things to do. If shes playing hard to get she goes down in rank on my fuck list.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:06 AM
1

If you're sexually attracted to her then yes.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:59 AM
1

Try fitonapp.com. They have free workout videos, no subscription needed. You can even view the videos on a Desktop.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:59 AM
2

Some of the hottest 18 -21 year old girls played a sport in high school which is why they had a great shape. Then they graduate high school and adopt unhealthy diets, drink alcohol, get lazy in a relationship, and don't exercise. Their metabolisms go to shit fast. I know an hb8 that put on 50 lbs in a a year and downgraded to an hb5. So yes, looks can change drastically in two years, heck even in a few months.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:56 AM
1

Don't fuck damaged girls, especially those with traumatic experiences. They will form a trauma bond with you that is very toxic because they mistake abuse as love. Also the fact that she is a virgin will create a nightmare for you because you will be the fist guy she forms a trauma bond with. https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/trauma/what-abusers-hope-we-never-learn-about-traumatic-bonding/
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:49 AM
1

Laugh it off and don't respond. Some guys have delusions that they must protect a girl from "douchebags". If you react they will instigate with drama.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 01:42 AM
2

Coach Greg Adams on Youtube.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:03 PM
3

Serious answer, the women are going to assume your homosexual and one of the girls.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:03 PM
3

Spectator culture is when the majority of people prefer to see the lives of other people rather then experience their own. They love to experience in the imagination through the feelings or actions of another person. It's a symptom of consumerism and social media.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:01 PM
1

I'm concerned that she will want you to be an orbiter while you catch feelings for her.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:07 AM
2

You need Anger at first in order to get disciplined enough that your routine change it to Passion. Ask yourself why bother with university if you're just wasting your time and not having passion to do good. Also instead of taking it easy go workout. Find out what deficiencies are in your life and get angry about them.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:09 PM
1

You have to keep your abundance mentality up which means you have to interact with other girls sexually. If shes the only one you're fucking then you might pair bond and get oneitis.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:04 PM
1

Keep working out.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:02 PM
5

Bipolar here who is stable due to medicine. Sometimes untreated bipolars have a manic high with symptoms of extreme happiness, physical energy, and hypersexuality where the sex drive is increased by 200% for like few days. Then when they're in the depression stage their libido goes down to like 20% due to hyposexuality (not interested in sex). If she has her bipolar stable with medication she probably stable and just really likes you. Medicated bipolar girls usually have normal moods and don't h…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:00 PM
1

She is trying to keep it professional with you. Only business.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:52 PM
1

They're not interested in scheduling a dick appointment with you because they already have a guy for that. It's like not wanting to buy a Mercedes if you already have a Corvette. An example is you may love to have a Mercedes but since you already have a car its not worth the resources to acquire it. In conclusion your hot but there is already a hot guy shes seeing.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:49 PM
1

She doesn't text you like her friends because you're probably a plate at the moment. I wouldn't make a big deal about this. If she constantly textd you about her life then I would worry about you entering the friend zone.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:47 PM
2

Intrusive thoughts are usually a symptom of anxiety that are caused by the fear of the unknown. A fancy word for this is called rumination. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rumination_(psychology)
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:43 PM
1

It's possible that our existence might just be a mathematical formula that we as a human civilization might not have the capacity to currently solve. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KT5Sk-62-pg
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:41 PM
9

The cause is the high obesity rate, the Prussian model of education in schools that reward compliance and nonindependent thinking, the escapism and spectator culture of social media/mobile games, and a decade of social conditioning. Combined with feminism, social anxiety, and lack of male role models these are the causes of why most guys are infected with the Beta virus.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:39 PM
1

They love the emotional roller-coaster they provide and their unpredictable nature.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:51 PM
0

IT support, work on getting your A+ certification.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:30 PM
1

Past ex girlfriends you had pre-TRP are going to be really mad at you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:21 PM
17

Because of office politics make up a fake long term girlfriend, and put her picture on your desk. That will let the Mother hen known that she needs to keep the women from flirting with you. Say blue pill stuff like shes the love of you life yada yada. An added benefit is that you will not be considered a threat and the women will open up and be alot more comfortable around you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:19 PM
1

Don't provide evidence that your seeing her. If he doesn't live with you how would he know your activities?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:15 PM
2

Well i used to think I had ADHD until they changed it to Bipolar I. As soon I as got the right medication being redpill became quite easy because I wasn't distracted and actually got stuff done. I'm very calm and very confident but with the added benefit of not being in my head all the time. I developed a dont give a fuck attitude and an even more sense of fearlessness and unemotional. Approaching women is way easier and I care alot less about their shit. If your truly Bipolar you definitely nee…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:04 PM
2

You have to do things out of your comfort zone that give you fear.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:04 AM
1

Let her contact you and go talk to other women.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:14 AM
0

This is no different than a text based clinical vignette that is used in psychology classes. Your response is an anecdotal logical fallacy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vignette_(psychology)
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:05 PM
8

This is classic Narcissistic-Codependency trauma bond. She won't leave you because trauma bonds are very addictive to codependent people.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:01 PM
2

This is more of codependency issues, which might be BPD. The concern I have is that her high will come down and OP will be dealing with a psycho bitch.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:52 PM
6

Harsh truth brother.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:45 PM
0

Was it bad enough to take her to the Emergency Room?
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:30 AM
2

My first question is why do you feel you have to do nice and good things for girls?
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:01 AM
5

PhilosophersNotes provides a summary review on most self help books.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:49 PM
1

Get an STD test before you infect your other plates. You never know what she may have given you. She is also fucking other dudes raw not just your homie.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:42 PM
1

Depends on WHY exactly you are in the anger phase. Specifics.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:39 PM
5

Well first you have to solve your general social anxiety problem with a therapist or a CBT book. That will be the most beneficial thing you can do at the moment. Gynophobia is an immediate, overwhelming fear or worry or terror when you see or think about women. You also have to figure that out. In your case you will probably have to make female friends to get used to being around women before you even attempt trying to get laid.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:38 PM
2

Approach 50 more times, you're at level 1. The more experience you get the more natural it will become.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:35 PM
1

When she gives you a blowjob guide her to the way you like it.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:34 PM
2

Don't tell them. Realize it or not they can become your competition if the girl is in your social circle. You won't believe what friends can do for pussy.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:32 PM
1

She probably meant aggressive as in hostile because they were playfully asking your age and you took it as an attack.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:29 PM
2

Join business networking events.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:04 PM
4

Hip hop culture.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:14 AM
4

They might be on mood stabilizers that allow them to be in the present and fearless. I know a buddy of mine that takes them and becomes quite confident, charismatic, and tuned to the now. When he doesn't take them he is hyperactive and can't focus.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:13 AM
1

Your post history is interesting lol.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:44 AM
2

Why would i need pics of random girls on social media? Social proof / Preselection.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:17 AM
1

I would hangout with girls and take plenty of pics so you can post them on social media. The friend are probably blocking because they don't want the girl to fall in love when they know you will be leaving soon. Yes, its girl solidarity.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:11 AM
2

First..you should have multiple social circles. Second..maybe the girl only wants to drinks with friends to meet people and doesn't want you to get jealous.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:58 AM
5

Text "Yes me too, lets hangout again this week"
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:34 AM
1

You will be unbreakable when you get abundance mentality. Keep getting experience.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:14 AM
0

Well..why do you overthink around girls so much that you get an anxiety attack?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:46 AM
0

You have Anxiety.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 01:42 AM
1

You didn't cause, you can't control it, and you can't change it. Syay strong brother!
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:45 AM
4

According to the predict-hair.com calculator website the chances are 0% if both the mother and father have black hair. I don't know how scientifically accurate that site is thou.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:29 AM
2

I realized that Life is not a markov chain where the past influences the future. You can always change the future.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:21 AM
1

I have read about attachment theory. I believe that most people who came to the Red Pill started as anxious-avoidant, then transition to avoidant and then over the years transition again to secure.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:20 AM
1

You will more than likely be prescribed mood stabilizers than antidepressants. Go see a doctor, you need medicine. Stop playing in make believe land where you feel like you can handle "crippling" depression.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:15 AM
1

sounds good!
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:10 AM
3

If its a slight improvement is the cost worth it?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:07 AM
1

Well Sweden probably has a different culture than Los Angeles so your probably right. Who knows?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:07 AM
1

Well do you live?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:59 PM
1

It sounds like you're developing an abundance mentality and want to see if its true. Her finding out Red Pill Women might help you or hurt you. Also she is probably reading this very sentence, make a new account.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:55 PM
6

Plastic surgery will not change how you feel about yourself. There is a famous book called Psycho-Cybernetics that explains why plastic surgery doesn't work to improve your self image. I would read that book or watch a book review on Youtube.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:52 PM
3

The opposite of anxiety is serenity. Serenity means being in the state of calmness, peace, untroubled, and stable. Not giving a fuck is actually being in a state of serenity were words and actions don't affect you. The only real way to achieve serenity is to accept that you control your reality and not other people. Validation comes from your actions, not from the reactions of others. In psychological terms this is called locus of control, and the higher it is the more you don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:40 PM
3

homeboy lives 500 miles away now She might love the attention but I doubt homeboy is a threat. 500 miles away is a logistics nightmare. The only opening is if he can get her attracted again which is going to be very hard since she can't see him in person.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:23 PM
15

Took me about three years. The point I realized my beliefs have changed is when I stopped trying to gain validation from women. Yes I do approach women but I realized that they just an accessory. It's like in ancient times when most warriors saw a sword as a sword instead of some magical accessory that wins fights. Women are seen as pragmatic for getting pussy and not something sentimental or romantic.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:18 PM
2

Expect to be her father figure after a while which can be a positive or negative. The positive is that she will look up to you, the negative is that you might feel like you have to "rescue her".
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:05 PM
2

Tell people your're a tourist and this is your first week in the city. Someone will introduce you to their group.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:00 PM
1

Sounds like Catastrophizing and Dichotomous Thinking which are very common in borderline personality disorder. Basically you have a fear that life will end. I recommend you google "Catastrophizing bpd" to understand what is happening. You more than likely need to talk to a therapist for treatment. If it's intense go to the emergency room. Take care!
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:56 PM
1

Always keep it a secret if you're fucking a girl in your social circle. If you tell people she will defend her "integrity" by playing the victim. Shhhhh...
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:48 PM
1

I highly recommend you watch the bodyweights videos on the FitOn website because they're practical and free. If your're going to do bodyweights i also recommend you get a resistance bands set. Whatafit on Amazon is about $20 for an 11 piece set.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:45 PM
1

If the world was an RPG game you are like a Level 17 warrior killing Level 4 monsters. Yes you will get some experience from killing but it won't be as satisfying killing monsters your own level. If you want to improve fuck quality girls...if you just want to have fun go fuck 4/10s lol.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:38 PM
1

Work on your master thesis because that should be priority #1. Tell her you will see her in three weeks, and go get yourself a side chick.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:34 PM
1

The main question, does she live near you? The first thing you need to figure out is logistics.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:31 PM
4

You probably are going to have to find a regular girl to fuck, and fuck her on federal holidays once a month.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:29 PM
2

Use the website Meetup and find a Chess club , business networking, or Magic The Gathering group you can join.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:28 PM
1

Can you fuck her on the weekends perhaps?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:26 PM
2

Might be worthwhile to tease them a little more, but in most cases it best to ignore arrogant girls. They will assume you have a girl and they will try to compete for attention.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:22 PM
2

Develop glutes.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:18 PM
1

Approach girls at a university campus if you want intellectual discussions.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:17 PM
1

Fuck a big tit chick on the side.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:16 PM
1

Helping him will take resources like time and energy that is better focused on yourself.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:36 PM
1

She sees your girlfriend as competition for attention and wants you back in her orbit again.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:27 PM
5

Be proud that you recognize that you were an orbiter and move on.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:22 PM
1

Could your sister possibly have some sort of mental illness where she can't control her emotions?
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:21 PM
1

It was your turn, now its her boyfriends turn.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:13 PM
1

Most people want to be spectators. https://www.dailykos.com/story/2004/9/7/49121/-
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 09:30 PM
2

Find people that share your hobbies.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:19 PM
1

I spent the whole time overthinking, or having a severe feeling of frustration that I can’t fall back asleep. Sounds like anxiety, what are you thinking about?
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:19 PM
1

Oneitis is having nostalgia for the unknown and longing to fulfill an achievement that you believe you can't have. The achievement you want is to help this girl out with her problems so that you can feel like a hero. Your're getting emotionally attached attached because you starting to feel responsible for her well being.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:17 PM
2

Discover what you really feel insecure about.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:11 PM
1

Might be adrenal fatigue.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:46 PM
2

Covert contracts assume that the other party is aware of the responsibility of fulfilling the contract. It is also a manipulation tool that some people don't appreciate because they don't want to assume the responsibility of having to give something back. "If he gives me something, I don't want it to be awkward to say no ".
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:43 PM
1

I felt like seeing his ex created a ptsd flashback that triggered an anxiety attack.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:39 PM
4

Sounds like she triggered an anxiety attack and questioning if their is danger. Emotional danger.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:55 AM
5

Have an alibi and don't be home
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:11 PM
2

The section on Ambivalence and Subcommunication, and how to use them to communicate with women is an eye opener on how to be extremely seductive to women. They are proof why Agree and Amplify tactics work. Thanks for this great read!
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 04:38 AM
1

I used Xodo to read PDFs.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:10 AM
2

She wanted someone she could control and be lazy with, A person that has no ambition to improve themselves and will never leave her.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:08 AM
1

Most guys tend to think a girl is busy or doesn't want to talk because she's wearing headphones. A girl wearing Airpods is usually not listening to anything most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 09:42 PM
3

Yes, I just find it strange how people can wear wireless headphones most of the day.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 07:05 PM
9

...and in the age of women there is a desire for real men.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 05:25 PM
2

Use tanning lotion.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:38 PM
70

I completely agree with this post. Also foreign women tend to be sweet and genuinely nice to almost everyone, and make an effort to dress feminine.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:32 PM
1

No, negative thinking is called Rumination and is psychologically unhealthy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rumination_(psychology)
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:39 AM
15

If she doesn't have an engagement ring she is Single.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:38 AM
1

This sounds like a comfort shit test. When is the last time you something romantic or sentimental like get her flowers?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:17 PM
9

You need to approach new women.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:07 PM
3

You might have a high degree of neuroticism and probably need to work on it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroticism
/r/askTRP02/09/19 06:59 PM
17

The main problem with nice guys is that they don't understand the balance between Competition and Collaboration. Nice guys excesively fawn in an attempt to be percieved as collaborative caretakers when most girls want a guy who is a natural competitor. The reason is that girls have plenty of people to collaborate with, (girlfriends, orbitors, etc..), but have very few people they can be competitive with and win. For girls, winning is taming an Alpha and they want the challenge of competing with …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 06:55 PM
2

Do you want to be exclusive?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:17 PM
1

Do you consider yourself attractive?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:42 AM
4

An excellent book titled "The Body That Keeps Score" describes how trauma/emotional baggage stays in the body as tissue memory.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 04:41 PM
29

I've seen dudes buy girls free pizza on Snapchat and all they get in return is a shout out.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:46 PM
5

Basically there's a 23—33% that a girl will only use you for free food. Especially if she sends you nudes without asking. For both groups, those that engaged in foodie calls scored higher in the "dark triad" personality traits. Several dark traits have been linked to deceptive and exploitative behavior in romantic relationships, such as one-night stands, faking an orgasm, or sending unsolicited sexual pictures, ...
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:26 PM
1

She wants to get pregnant by you so she can get U.S citizenship.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:46 PM
27

I don't understand why we must be "reeducated" because a person decided to artificially change their gender.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:30 AM
61

When a toddler sees another toddler having fun with a toy they usually want to play with that specific toy too. Women tend to want a specific man if they see another woman is playing with them too.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:25 AM
2

Your thinking of borderline, bipolar has to do with energy levels.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:41 AM
2

She can have the type of biopolar where her moods are stable but her energy levels go up and down. For a week she's really energetic and for the other she's tired. I see it as a yellow flag.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:40 AM
1

Just move on, they're not going to give you the validation you're looking for.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:32 AM
3

They usually have to pay child support.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:24 AM
1

Increase Serotonin levels.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:36 AM
5

Oneitis is simply confusing salt for diamonds and is similar to Stendhal definition of love. Thus, according to Stendhal, the moment one begins to take interest in a person, one no longer sees him or her as they really are, but as it suits one to see them. You see diamonds when in reality you're seeing salt crystals. According to this metaphor, one sees flattering illusions created by a new interest; illusions perceived only by the eyes of the one falling in love. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:19 PM
1

First of all breathe. Second of all she is probably busy with life. Give her a day or two to reply back.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:01 AM
1

She isn't special, your giving her the quality of being special.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:00 AM
5

Do you find this 21 year old attractive?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:59 AM
1

Soft nexts are common in the business world. If a vendor won't agree to a contract you soft next them and make business with their competition. Women work the same way. If one won't give you pussy you simply find another one that will.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:58 AM
4

I used to have a shitty gold colored 20 year old car that I nicknamed "Gold Digger". My buddies would sometimes borrow it on first dates to test if a chick was a gold digger. Many laughs!
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:57 AM
1

Yes give up, we don't need another person to find their potential and become our competition. But seriously you will not notice much gains the first month of gym.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:55 AM
2

priority number one == gym!
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:53 AM
3

Time to go super beta mode on her.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:09 PM
3

You would have to show that your SMV is alot higher than hers in order to make her feel insecure. Not worth it though because you will face a stream of shit tests.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:05 PM
1

Checkout meetup.com or facebook groups
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:24 PM
1

You probably need to focus on speaking louder.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:24 PM
1

What are you hobbies?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:36 AM
2

Aaron Clarey
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:39 AM
2

met this girl at my work What type of work?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:38 AM
1

Let her go.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:36 AM
1

"We are wired differently, we set a goal, and then when we finish it, we feel unfulfilled". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWW-5Q_EzKM
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:14 AM
9

Well of course shes gone cold, she thinks she will be rejected if she chases you.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:13 AM
1

. I mostly just felt like i shouldn't keep fucking someone that young. Why?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:11 AM
2

Ask her what you should have for dinner.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:10 AM
1

When is the last time you had communication with her?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:09 AM
1

I know it can be hard to overthink when you have feelings but my advice is to literally make yourself busy. Then when you see her in two weeks, take a deep breath, and enjoy your time with her. :)
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:08 AM
1

I have been rejected about half the time when approaching women. When I get rejected I just move on. Usually the rejection is that she has a serious relationship, too busy, or just wants to be friends. Yes it does hurt a little bit but I don't take it personally since their are so many women everywhere. The trap is thinking that a specific women is special; she is only special because we give her the value. Your 10/10 rejecting your dinner probably doesn't have much to do with you, she probably …
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:06 AM
2

Then tell her that you will see her in 2 weeks, and focus on yourself in the meantime.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:01 AM
1

What do you mean by "getting very physical"?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:00 AM
2

She is saying she isn't available for a long term relationship because she won't be near you much. The barrier is distance.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:59 AM
1

Yes, but it depends how often you see your LTR in person.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:58 AM
1

I believe you need to have a phone conversation with her to figure this out instead of relying via text. The reason s text can easily get misinterpreted.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:54 AM
1

When is the last time you have gone up to a women you don't know and talked to her?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:53 AM
1

When is the last time you had a conversation on the phone or in person with her? I have the feeling this conversation was done over text.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:48 AM
1

"Hey I love your outfit"...and after they say thank you ask about their day.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:46 AM
2

When you don't have to deal with other people you will notice that your productivity increases. Your mind is like a computer and people are like programs that use part of your "RAM". The more you "RAM" is used up , the slower your mind becomes. Alphas need all the "RAM" available in order to get their stuff done.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:52 PM
3

Laughed!
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:45 PM
14

They get attracted with indifference and teasing.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:41 PM
1

You need to enter the wonderful world of Monk mode and work on yourself. Get angry and left her suffer alone.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:38 PM
1

The best way in my opinion is to get rejected a few dozen times. Then you will slowly become indifferent to want to connect emotionally to women.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:36 PM
3

Assume everyone wants to use you.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:05 PM
2

Yes! Daddy issues, especially her feeling like she wasn't good enough.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:04 PM
1

Going up and talking to girls. Usually open with "I love your outfit"
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:02 PM
1

You must have the mentality that there is zero chance you will get back with her. She wants you keep you for free validation. You cannot be friends with her. I've seen the "let me withdraw to see if he cares" scenario many times in the past, and the reason the girl does it is to make you seem like the bad guy. The only move you have is to not contact her. It's over brother. She doesn't care, she just wants to keep you around like a pet that will make her feel good. I would highly suggest you bec…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:52 PM
1

You might have a seratonin imbalance.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:49 PM
2

Very good answer. If they can't control a guy they become insecure.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 06:56 PM
1

It's called Gaslighting.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:29 PM
2

Usually the hottest girls are extremely insecure.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:15 PM
2

Ahhh classic lovebombing. I usually see this from women who are approaching the wall and want babies.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:37 PM
1

Awwww.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:35 PM
2

Could it be thats why your so angry?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 03:05 PM
8

I would keep quiet. They are infected with the blue pill, and are on a different planet than you. You might as well speak French to them. Also be care you don't fall for "crabs in the bucket " mentality.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:39 AM
2

Yes, that's why I said last resort. OP will obviously have to go see a psychiatrist and discuss his addiction.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:32 AM
3

Well, try to find a male role model, Could be an uncle, teacher, counselor, coach etc. They will provide you with masculine guidance when you feel insecure or have questions about life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 02:27 AM
1

Guy Perspective. 1. Grow your hair long. 2. Spend time with your father. 3. Find something you love and make it a hobby.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 02:20 AM
4

"I have big lungs".
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:13 AM
0

If you have a serious addiction, as a last resort ask your doctor for Zoloft.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:13 AM
6

She wants you to bring some sexual tension. Tease her and escalate. She's insecure that you don't find her attractive.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:10 AM
2

Check out Jason Stephenson on Youtube. Highly recommend!
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:09 AM
6

Im not entirely sure he is completely innocent.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 02:08 AM
1

Ah, I remember love bombing.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:20 PM
1

Guy Perspective. I believe its okay for him to follow them, as long as he isn't sending them heart emojis as comments. The bigger question is why is he friends with strippers?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 10:11 PM
1

How about you call her. She probably thinks you aren't interested and is protecting herself by saying she is "really busy".
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:00 PM
1

It sounds like you're a traditional woman who might be a "hopeless romantic", that falls in love easily and loves monogamy. You probably only give a chance to the guy that you feel you have the highest emotional connection with.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:54 PM
1

Keep completely ignore her. Pretend she is radioactive. She will eventually start chasing you.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:47 PM
2

Please never message a girl " I thought you were single". If they have a boyfriend and want to see you that's their problem. Your goal is to make it easy for her to have sex, not harder.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:45 PM
1

I wouldn't worry about it. Besides, the guy has a lived in girlfriend who is probably around when they smoke.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:41 PM
1

You need to create an emotional connection with her; which we call teasing, mystery, flirting, and sexual tension. Are you doing this with the hot ones?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:35 PM
1

Some require some sort of emotional connection and trust, while others just want dick. I would say the more materialistic the girl the higher chance she will fuck a guy based on his looks.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:32 PM
1

Alot of times READ can mean that she got a notification, but hasn't actually read the message. This is common on Snap and Instagram. The app assumes she read your message because it was shown on the screen briefly. Wait for her to message back.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:31 PM
4

Your welcome, please let your new girl handle it. Don't ever mention the old girl, unless your new girl brings it up. Your new girl will handle it for you, girls love defending their territory.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:27 PM
2

Tell your new girl that the old girl is a stalker, and that you don't want anything to do with her. Your new girl will understand and take care of it OR keep an eye on her.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:22 PM
2

How is your relationship with your father?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:18 PM
2

Is the girl from the past blocked? If not, why not?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 09:15 PM
1

Alot of comfort in the beginning, never mention her beauty. Telling her that she genuine and compassionate will be best. You will have to make lots of eye contact and hold her hand, kiss on cheek when saying goodbye..etc..
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 03:02 PM
1

You need to talk to university girls in the STEM fields.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:56 PM
1

I understand that its a preference, but I'm not into that.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:54 PM
1

Yes!
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:17 AM
11

One word: Borderline?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:37 AM
4

Let her make it official.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:43 PM
1

Sometimes "Read" means that her phone showed her a notification, but she hasn't actually read your message. I know this is true for Instagram.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:42 PM
2

Might have to pull away for a bit. She might be getting too comfortable with you.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:49 PM
1

Correct!
/r/askTRP13/03/19 08:47 PM
2

She doesn't want an LTR, and her decision probably doesn't have to do with you.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:49 PM
1

You need to go no contact on her for like two weeks.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:47 PM
16

Women should be your #5 Priority.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:45 PM
5

I think those jobs tend to attract extroverts that are highly charming.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:06 AM
1

She started narrating her exoneration after we fucked. Today I learned a new word! Exoneration! The action of officially absolving someone from blame. Thanks OP!.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 03:24 PM
2

Yes! Preselection is powerful.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:05 AM
1

Get to 195 and then worry about getting laid. Should take you a few months.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:17 AM
5

NO. Find a plaything outside of work.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:40 PM
2

Soft next until she contacts again.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:37 PM
6

Should have let her sleep on your bed, I think this was a shit test and you overreacted by telling her to sleep on the couch.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:36 PM
1

Do you have a life mission?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:42 AM
1

Applies to 99% of women.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:39 AM
1

At work you might have situational confidence that doesn't happen outside of work. Are you more dominant at work?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:38 AM
2

Take her to the backseat. Have her be in sitting lapdance position facing you.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:31 AM
3

Why do you feel you need external validation by seeking accomplishments?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:30 AM
1

Ask your other girl,( you have other girls right?)
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:29 AM
1

Get the Instagram. Turn off Notifications so you don't text her all day. DM her on there, and absolutely no commentting on her stuff.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:28 AM
6

Just tell her to meet you an hour earlier than planned. Women have horrible time management skills.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:26 AM
0

Because they don't want to disappoint their parents. She cares about what her parents think.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:24 AM
4

Shes blocked right?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:27 PM
1

I can speak from personal experience that close female friends will try to sabotage any serious relationships. For example if I'm hooking up with girls they don't care because they know those girls are temporary. But as soon as I mention that I'm falling in love with a girl, they start getting anxious and insecure that the girl is going to be a threat to their attention and affection. I don't under how a close female friend won't fuck you but at the same time doesn't want you to be in a serious …
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:19 PM
2

"No worries, your good [kissing emoji]"
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:45 PM
2

It's a good thing to keep them guessing WHEN they arent physically around you. When they're with you one-on-one you should use sexual tension to get them attracted to you.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:40 PM
3

Something might be off with your eye contact, maybe your visually analyzing her too much and she feels like "What is he thinking about"?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:30 PM
1

Usualy it means to go hide in a cave and focus on yourself. Find solitude. No social media, and no girls. Focus on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:34 PM
1

I think she wants you to make a move and fuck her already. She gets tired of the suspense and the tension, and wants you to make a move.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:30 PM
1

When is the last time you contacted her?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 07:44 AM
1

What types of toxic comments has she made?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 07:42 AM
22

They may claim its "women only" but I'm confident they can't legally discriminate men. Wouldn't be surprised if a troll joins and starts chaos.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 09:40 PM
1

Play along. Keep your mouth shut. The true test comes when they start talking about the "toxic masculinity".
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:26 AM
1

Does your girlfriend know she is your ex?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:22 AM
6

Toxic masculinity has been pushed hard here in California. It's "cool" for soyboys to say this shit on social media. It's like Whiteknighting 2.0.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:27 PM
1

HIIT Running, Bodyweights, and 40 min cardio.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:08 PM
1

Tell them you have a girfriend and just focus on work. If you hve to do happy hour to network keep it professional. Read the book "The Pence Principle".
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:07 PM
2

When you have multiple women in your life, (even close female friends), you will understand they're not the goddesses you think they're.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:04 PM
3

Pretend the person is 5 feet farther away. Your voice should become louder.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:58 PM
2

Physically intense excercise and fasting. Love will be the last thing on your mind
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:28 AM
1

Im suggesting he finds girls to fuck around with because these types of girls are very rare.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 12:15 AM
18

Like 15 percent of women are Idealists, (Kiersey psychology). They goal in life is to search for their version of their ideal true love. They hate superficial conversation and fucking around. Those are the women that want deep connections, serious attention, and long term relationships. The good news is 85% of women are not like this, and love to fuck around.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 06:41 PM
1

Raising seratonin levels blocks sexual addiction. The medical route is to take Zoloft, but the natural route is to do intense cardio, mediate, and find ways to have inner peace.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:30 PM
1

I've been doing this for almost a year. Some people here call it Monk mode.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:17 PM
4

Girls don't care about it.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:15 PM
-1

OP how's your hygiene? Maybe she was crying from the smell
/r/askTRP19/01/19 09:15 PM
67

If Gillette tried to run this ad in male dominant cultures like Latin America they would have been laughed at.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 04:28 PM
1

I wonder if the demographic of her channel is mainly 18 to 24 women. Her 700k followers of Instagram are probably mostly men.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 03:11 AM
18

women prefer stability to discovery Women do prefer stability over discovery, and I believe stability is one of the foundations of femininity. The reason women love stability is that they seek a partner that will stay around to raise her kids.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 03:05 AM
1

I agree with the "I already have plans" strategy.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:56 AM
15

It's about making many small moves instead of preparing to make one large move. Play with her hair, hold hands, tease her, kiss her neck, etc.., and then when you get a boner kissing her will come naturally.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:49 AM
1

How do you know her?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:30 AM
1

Addiction is caused by very low serotonin levels. You need to raise serotonin by doing exercise, yoga, and meditation. A psychiatrist can probably offer you Zoloft but you should try to raise it by yourself. Learn more about the role of serotonin below: https://www.evergreendrugrehab.com/blog/serotonin-role-plays-addiction-withdrawal/
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:21 AM
1

In America only psychiatrists and psychiatric nurse practitioners can prescribe psychotropic drugs. Psychologists, therapists, and counselors cannot prescribe drugs.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 12:36 AM
0

Maybe find a course on Edx and learn something new. Are you a STEM major?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:47 PM
1

Call Adult Protective Services if you live in America. They will come to her house and take her for evaluation.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:45 PM
2

The same way you would react if they compliment your car.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:43 PM
3

Just go. You don't need permission to go somewhere.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:42 PM
2

Vanessa Van Edwards on YouTube.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:41 PM
6

The American Psychiatric Association made the DSM, and is made of people with docorate degrees. The American Psychological Association is a different independent body who argues that toxic masculinity exists.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 07:40 PM
12

How old are you? Individuals under 25 tend to care what people think about them due to the brain still growing.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 03:37 AM
1

Tease them.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:43 PM
2

You need mental stimulation. Get a mentally challenging hobby
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:37 PM
0

Take Zoloft and it will die in a day. /s
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:34 PM
1

You sound like your suffering from depression.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:16 PM
1

Practice my programming skills. Plenty of learning to do always.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:49 PM
2

You got Android or IPhone?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:48 PM
1

Your "friend" doesn't lift does he.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:47 PM
4

I was about to say the same thing. Definitely Borderline or Bipolar.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 02:33 PM
1

At college with girls in your class, especially if you have small class sizes.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:26 AM
1

By not texting her you are now a challenge to her self esteem.. For some reason.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:55 AM
2

On Monday just pretend that conversation didn't happen.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:53 AM
1

Ask your psychiatrist to double check your medications. The dosage might need to be adjusted.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:17 PM
1

See a therapist for anxiety and panic attacks and then you will probably get referred to a psychiatrist.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:15 PM
3

Join Extra-curricular activities or clubs at school.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 10:13 PM
1

It could be possible that Jackie is attracted to you OR doesn't want you fucking her friends.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:23 PM
1

Possible Irritable Depression, Possible developing bipolar disorder 2. Talk to a therapist.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:40 AM
1

Cole Weather?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:59 PM
36

Tell them you love your girlfriend. If you don't have one make one up. It will make your work environment more peaceful and the old women will prevent any of the younger women from hitting on you.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:58 PM
2

You probably have Social Anxiety Disorder and the lifting causes a serotonin boost which makes you more social and less anxious. You probably have low serotonin before you lift which makes you appear intimidating and not want to be social. Test this theory out by being consciously aware if you're way more social after you lift weights. Also test this theory by asking if your really introverted when you wake up, but extroverted before you sleep. If it's true, talk to a therapist because you might…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:52 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:46 PM
2

Ive been in this situation. Usually its because she is way too innocent or somehow I see her like a little sister.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:45 PM
2

Mention that you think a popular female celebrity is really hot and wished she was your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:43 PM
1

You should read my post "How to TheRedPill with ADHD". You might have to discover that you will have to take medication because of brain chemistry. Bipolar is just serotonin definanecy.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:13 PM
1

Have you thought about school? Perhaps you qualify for financial aid
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:06 PM
2

Field reports may seem exaggerated because the person who wrote it is talking about an event that is noteworthy or rare. They don't mention the dozen of times they have average conversations, got rejected, or something common happened. It's like a scientist writing a report of seeing a comet fly by when he usually doesn't see anything happen when looking at the sky.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 10:43 PM
8

I have written several posts about mental stimulation, (what you call mental fitness). I truly believe that mental stimulation / mental fitness is required to prevent oneitis, have a sense of purpose, and achieve greatness.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 04:01 AM
18

I will not forgive my father. I will not visit his funeral when he dies. My childhood was full of abuse, artificial poverty, and domestic violence.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:00 PM
4

I believe that young men today need to find their "becoming a man" ritual individually. The days of earning the ritual from society is over. Young men need to have a goal that will make you them feel like they're no longer a child. This can be bench pressing 225 lbs, graduating from college, saving 10k, or establishing associate status in a hobby.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 07:52 PM
156

12.Metacognition. Understand how you think, and figure out why you think that way you think. Metacognition is thinking about one's thinking. More precisely, it refers to the processes used to plan, monitor, and assess one's understanding and performance. Ask why do I have this habit, or what should I do to not be needy? The stronger your metacognition that harder it is to be manipulated, and the easier it is to keep frame.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:07 AM
1

Who here actually approaches in the day? If I see a really cute girl I will usually approach her, but I don't plan my day to go day gaming. It is quite rare to have a girl be mean to me, they're either reject me in a neutral manner or are very flirty back. Has it made much of a difference to your life? It has made a huge difference in my life because I have met some quality girls that would have rejected me online. And do you freeze up when daygaming? No, I rarely get butterflies anymore as well…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 03:47 PM
113

Most young men need a hobby that they're passionate about. Having a hobby encourages you to focus on improving yourself or your skills.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 04:12 PM
3

Leave the girls alone and focus on your school.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:10 PM
1

Long term plates only. Be very secretive.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 04:08 PM
1

I wonder if you have Adrenal stress. What is your college major?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:32 PM
2

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2017/jun/20/turning-smartphone-greyscale-attention-distraction-colour
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 12:20 AM
2

I am an extrovert and highly social. For me I have to be careful of trying to make friends with everyone and getting distracted.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:39 PM
1

Have you made any changes in your life?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:11 PM
10

I have taken that course on Coursea! Highly recommended it.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:10 PM
7

Yes! Only use your bed for sleeping.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:10 PM
1

This is the Chore chart I use. I write my classes and check which days of the week I studied for what class. Perfect to keep on the wall on top of the toilet. https://www.amazon.com/Board-Dudes-Magnetic-Rewards-DFB55/dp/B00114UCYS?ref_=fsclp_pl_dp_12
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:09 PM
5

You can technically build a huge white board for cheap using parts. I just put a 4 x 6 Marker Board on the wall. https://thriftdiving.com/how-to-make-a-big-diy-whiteboard-get-organized/
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:05 PM
5

Check out MIT Introduction to Computer science starting in August 30th. It's on EdX and instructor led.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 07:28 PM
6

I have removed that section. Collaboration is very important to aquire new opportunities and networks.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 07:12 PM
6

I Agree, collaboration has many benefits. I have changed my perspective and have striken that part away.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:49 PM
4

I have changed my mind and have stricken that section away. Thank you for your observation!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:48 PM
2

I think you make an excellent point. There are many benefits to collaboration and my perspective might be counterintuitive to gaining networking opportunities. I have stricken that section.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:47 PM
1

The brain is capable of neuroplasticity, (learning new things), until your 40s and 50s.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:39 PM
2

I didn't want to mention NoFap because it can be a controversial topic. In my personal opinion Porn should be avoided, and one should try to jerk off a maximum of once a day or every few days.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:37 PM
5

I recommend the book "Barrio Nerds" by Juan F. Carrillo, especially the Chapter on scholarship masculinity. Majority of the concepts and observations from that book apply to all first-generation college students. In many latin american cultures, it is accustomed for the men to work with their hands and the women with a pencil. Studying is seen as a feminine activity for the working class. The elders make fun of you because they believe reading books are selling out and "acting white". The book "…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:35 PM
7

As a CompSci major I also was a heavy daydreamer. In my case, I had to channel my imagination into doing digital art using Photoshop. Studying using Mindmaps also helped me keep focused on learning material.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:30 PM
3

The best scenario for you is to study for 2 of your classes a day, and alternate days with 1 or 2 Rest Days. Sunday : Class A, Class B Monday: Class C, Class D Tuesday:Class A, Class B Wednesday: Rest Thursday: Class C, Class D Friday: Class A, Class B Saturday: Rest For this system to work you have to divide the amount of studying required for a Class into 3 Parts. Of course you should chose your Rest Days on appropriate days. Do you know what days you will be a TA?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:28 PM
104

Thanks! I'm Mexican American and I love the Chinese mentality when it comes to academics.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 07:44 AM
70

That part is geared more to social butterflies who want to be friends with everyone. Edit: I have removed that section.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 07:43 AM
1

Maladaptive Daydreaming has alot of similarities with Schizoaffective Disorder, which psychatrists tend to misdiagnose as Depression or Bipolar Disorder.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 06:34 PM
13

There is some feminist at a HR Department who be thrilled to send her employees to this retreat.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 06:30 PM
1

Block her ass already.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:17 PM
2

Are u sure your buddy isn't lying to you?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:16 PM
0

Sunk Cost Fallacy!
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:11 PM
1

This sounds like trauma. I think this is deeper than just heartbroken and more into traumatic experience territory. It wouldn't surprise me if this event triggers some deep depression and he will need therapy. Please monitor his mood and take him to the ER if he mentions suicide talk.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 06:56 PM
0

They ask you to help pay their bills.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 06:44 PM
5

Have you seen a therapist?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:18 PM
3

Like 80 percent of the time it's simple scarcity mentality. Yes, to ADHD men BPD women are like crack cocaine.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:16 PM
473

She has daddy issues and wanted you to be Daddy.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 03:09 PM
3

Use the free app "Let's Meditate".
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:03 PM
12

Oneitis is an ADHD style hyperfocus in that you spend most of your time thinking of scenarios, ideas, formulas, and plans on how to get or keep a specific girl. It's a self inflicted addiction caused by scarcity mentally, a strong people pleaser fawn response, or putting her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:02 PM
1

She is trying to let you know that someone thinks she is desirable and wants you to be proud of her. The guy is probably going to be an orbiter work buddy who she has to see everyday. Don't get jealous, don't mateguard. Don't be sarcastic and say they want each other. They might become good friends and have each other's numbers. The red flags are if they ever hangout alone together after work. At my old job I had the husband of a female coworker call the office the second week she was hired. It …
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:56 PM
1

If she makes eye contact and smiles I do.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:26 PM
33

If you don't see her for 6 months and have a drastic improvement in fitness.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:24 PM
1

Ask her if she just wants to hangout. She is probably scared of going to a full fledged date. You never know maybe she just wants a hookup first.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:23 PM
1

You need to go No Contact. Do you have contact with her family?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:12 PM
1

Some blood pressure medicine can cause erection issues!
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:04 PM
1

Don't let the name scare you, it's not as bad as it sounds! Just ask the doctor to double check if you might have it.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:00 PM
1

Easy way for them to sue you for sexual harassment Mr.Owner.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:46 AM
1

Hood girls who listen to rap.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:45 AM
1

"We can meet at Starbucks first. Lets have lattes"
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:41 AM
2

People do this "stupid shit" because they're trying to raise their dopamine levels!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 05:33 AM
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The 4th Truth: They Have Scarcity Mentality and put women on a pedestal. Care too much about what they think. Treat her way too good and think she is a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 05:30 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:27 AM
2

It's from the high-stress levels. I wonder if you have high blood pressure.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:11 AM
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Have a five-minute conversation. Mention that you should hang out. Ask for the number.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:09 AM
1

Convince her to go to therapy.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:08 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:05 AM
3

In America, people have pride in being lazy and dumb. Those that are smart or talented are seen as having an unfair advantage.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:04 AM
2

You ex-Best Friend is very jealous of the fame and accomplishments you're making. I predict that back in the day he probably tried to bring you down "crabs in the bucket" style but you somehow escaped his manipulation. He probably ghosted you after you came back from tournaments because he felt very insecure around you. He has insecurities because in his mind he believes that both of you started from square one but you're the one that is so far ahead of him. The teammate who gives you shit for s…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:02 AM
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They believe that possessive and extremely jealous means their man is truely in love.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:42 AM
2

A spectator sport. It's basiclly 3D pornography if you don't touch them.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:15 AM
2

I go to Zumba class so most of my dancing is Latin based. People assume it's techno.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:14 AM
5

My last post last week was about ADHD which got 3 Reddit gold three times.. I was thinking of writing about how to stay productive since School is starting. What topics do you personally want to read about?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:10 AM
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It's acceptable for the girl to tell you to do small things. I just had a plate asked me to get her a fork from the kitchen when we were having dinner. No one is one hundred percent alpha all the time. You sound like you have severe narcissistic tendacies OR are still in the Anger phase.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:05 AM
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Just make sure you're improving your life. Don't get complecent just because pussy is easy to get.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 01:58 AM
1

Then take melatonin and fix your sleep schedule. No more staying up late.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:29 PM
3

This.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:26 PM
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I envy you. Here in America we have to put in work to get pussy.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:24 PM
2

Mindfulness meditation and going on hippy retreats is not Mental Health. Mental Health is attend counseling sessions with a licensed therapist who do CBT therapy and refer you to a psychiatrist if needed.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:03 PM
3

I would recommend you listen to sexualized crunk rap instead like Ying Yang Twins or Lil Jon. We don't love these hoes.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:57 PM
2

I would say try to find ways to increase sexual tension like keeping eye contact.Let them catch you checking them out. If they ask if your gay just say your an Artist. Wear Vnecks without graphic designs and see if the perception changes.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:55 PM
1

What you need to do is start putting on muscle. If many girls think your gay then you must be sending out a gay vibe. Do you wear lots of accessories or wear exotic colors?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:22 PM
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First of all stop listening to the sadboy music like the weeknd and Drake. Second, if someone isn't making you money don't listen to them.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure he is myself!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 09:46 PM
1

She just needs alcohol to be in the mood.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:26 PM
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Read my TheRedPill post called "Pt 2 : Mental Simulation and You". I listed like 30 mentally challenging hobbies. Basically, if you keep your brain busy with a mental hobby it should be a lot harder for it to overthink about a girl. It's like making a kid who is hyper in class run a few miles. The scientific reason is that you're getting dopamine, (feel-good chemical), from many sources instead of just a girl. The more sources of dopamine, the less you get an addiction for one specific thing; li…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:17 PM
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You can have ADHD and be introverted. That type of ADHD is the Inattentive type. Try the following. Go run, and do HIIT training. This means you run at top speed for 30 seconds and then rest 2 minutes. Do 5 cycles of it. See if it helps prevent over thinking. You also probably need a hobby that is mentally challenging. Your brain needs to work out.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:01 PM
2

Wear a black muscle shirt and sweats.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:54 PM
2

Have you ever wondered if you have ADHD? You could be getting in a hyperfocused state around a particular girl. In hyperfocus one hundred ideas, scenarios, or "what ifs" concerning her happen in a minute.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:51 PM
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Ask your doctor to check you for schizoaffective disorder. The maladaptive daydreaming can be the schizophrenic part, and the depression can be the mood disorder part. I would recommend you try a creative hobby like Art or Photoshop because you can channel your imagination into it.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:46 PM
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Why do you have a lack of sleep? Have you ever been tested for sleep apnea?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:42 PM
3

Where are you going to meet her at?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:40 PM
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I would leave your wallet in the car if you stay over at her place. She will wake up at 3 am to look at your driver's license. Her goal is for her and her girlfriends to fish information so that they can "track" you. They want to know where you might be at certain times of the day. The reason she is doing this to prevent you from breaking up. If she has your work or home address she can show up and cause drama.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:38 PM
2

Pomodoro technique. Basically, focus for 30 minutes and then take a 5-minute break. There are plenty of Pomodoro timer apps you can download. As times go on then you can increase the timer to 1hour focus and 10-minute break.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:27 PM
2

Use a fake last name and don't let her know where you live. Be prepared for her to guilt trip into spending money on her and commitment.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:02 PM
2

I'm getting the vibe that you have possible anger issues. You are cockblocking yourself and It's probably scaring them away.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:00 PM
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Women are like watching a television series like Altered Carbon or Entourage . You may be immersed into the the episodes, characters, and the h plot but once the series ends you move on.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:50 PM
1

Have you ever done anal with her?
/r/askTRP18/08/18 11:05 PM
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Almost all of my friends are women. I flirt and tease them all like little girls. My best friend is male and like a brother to me. He is the only real male friend I have. The reason is that most guys are boring, depressed, unmasculine, care too much, and have alot of drama with their women. At least women seem happy and excited around me. The few guys at the gym that are aquintances are highly masculine, redpilled, and very competitive.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 11:00 PM
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I'm working on a post called Getting it Done (How to TheRedPill with your ADHD Part II, III, IV). It will have sections 16 to 45. Goal is post it this Friday.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:41 PM
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Yes, females tend to be more "in their own world", chatty, and appear random. They tend to be tomboys or social butterflies. You shouldn't get upset ADHD females to tend to have issues following social rules which makes them anxious BUT can appear normal with people they trust alot.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 06:03 PM
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This is especially true for Latinas. They go from innocent catholic girls in high school to Kim Kardashian clones in college.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 06:12 AM
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Always assume attraction until proven wrong.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:10 AM
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Actually I was a dummy bragging that I had ADHD and HR assumed I was on medication.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 12:45 AM
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"Most people act stupid because they are physically addicted to boredom." The idea that people are addicted to boredom seems ridiculous, but let's consider it for a moment. Boredom is an unpleasant sensation that occurs when your mind is unoccupied. Supposedly, repetitive and predictable activities are boring, while novel and unpredictable events are exciting. Given this understanding of boredom, the way people act seems a little strange. Consider the phrase: "we are creatures of habit". We get …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:45 PM
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Thank you! This post was created to create a foundation for the 4 to 7% of people who frequent TheRedpill and have ADHD, or may think they have it. I want them to understand that ADHD has specific challenges and strategies, and that standard RedPill advice might be too broad for them For example, it's easy to tell a person with ADHD to go approach 100 women to get over their oneitis. What would also be beneficial for them to understand how RSD, (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria), multiplies the eff…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:00 PM
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I believe you basically always have to be stimulated by something you enjoy just to keep a certain amount of dopamine inside the brain. OCD and ADHD are like brother and sister, and many times both of them appear together because they're both impaired "executive function" conditions. With OCD there is too much chemical activity, and in ADHD there is too little chemical activity. You might be the type of person that can have both OCD and ADHD depending on your mood and time of day. I highly recom…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:44 PM
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I'm Moderate ADHD-C (Combined) !!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:33 PM
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Many of the treatments for CPTSD,( Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), are also highly effective for RSD. I would recommend you read my here on TheRedPill called ,"The 4Fs: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn", and read the section on The Fawn response.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:33 PM
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Instead of "edging" at work by yourself a Rubik's cube and try to solve it on breaks. You will probably get a dopamine rush because you always seem to be so close to solving it lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:26 PM
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I wonder if you get a big whiteboard OR buying post-it notes and have your wife write down what she wants to be done can help you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:23 PM
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ADHD does seem to get forgotten about after childhood, and most people tend to be misunderstood how it applies to dating. I am glad this post helped you understand something about yourself. I recommend you get over your recent breakup by 1.) taking an online class at Edx or Coursera that highly interests you 2.) Exercising hard daily.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:18 PM
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Social butterflies who are always cheerful are the best for ADHD!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:13 PM
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Excellent post. I see the treatment of ADHD as doing daily intensive exercise and having strong sources of mental stimulation. The benefits of ADHD are definitely extra physical energy and being your best in "emergency mode" during a crisis. I call drinking with friends, texting girls, and watching television "spectator activities" that bore me. What stimulates me socially is loud techno nightclubs, approaching hot women, and dance classes with women. I believe that most cases of people having a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:11 PM
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It sounds like your OCD is a "Checker" or a "Doubter". Checkers repeatedly check things, (oven turned off, door locked, etc.), that they associate with harm or danger. Doubters are afraid that if everything isn’t perfect or done just right something terrible will happen, or they will be punished. I think in your case you have a fear that she is going to run away if you don't check on her; aka having control. OCD is also a Dopamine imbalance just like ADHD. In ADHD our living room lights switch t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:57 PM
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What shuts my brain off completely for me has been Photoshop and digital art. I have to set alarms to remind me to take breaks.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:40 PM
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Sometimes the RSD from ADHD is connected with C-PTSD, (Complex Traumatic Stress Disorder). It can be argued that childhood abuse rewires the CPTSD brain towards an ADHD brain as the child becomes an adult. The child experiences of flashbacks, hyperviligence, and sound/light sensitivity evolve towards ADHD symptoms of a lack of focus and low attention span. I highly recommend you read the book, "Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving" by Peter Walker. It's on Libgen.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:38 PM
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All types of perspectives are welcomed. In France, they don't believe in ADHD. French psychologists are extremely against ADHD, and they recommend changes in behavior and social settings instead of medication. Majority of them hate the American DSM-5 which is used to diagnose psychiatric disorders. You can learn more at : www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/suffer-the-children/201203/why-french-kids-dont-have-adhd
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:30 PM
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Talk to your doctor about taking a nonstimulant like Strattera or specific low blood pressure medicine like Clonidine.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:16 PM
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I have been described as "living on another planet" from parents and teachers growing up. I remember I could read a 300 page book about medieval history in a few hours, because I loved Age of Empires II, but struggle with reading 10 pages for English. Do you take preworkout when Lifting? That could be the source of the focus since its a stimulant. When I take an energy drink it calms me down into a stable focus.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:14 PM
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Google the name of the scientist and add +ADHD to it. You can also Google the phrase "famous scientists with ADHD". Leonardo daVinci was known to have an attention span of about 2 minutes which was known as "Leonardo style" at the time.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 05:49 PM
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A good number of scientists, inventors, and engineers can hyperfocus on a calculus problem like if it's an addiction or life mission. On top of my head their is evidence that Einstein, Thomas Edison, Michael Faraday, and Harvard Cushing, (Neurosurgeon) had ADHD and hyperfocused on equations. Leonardo de Vinci and Mozart also had ADHD which at the time was known as "absent minded".
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:36 AM
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You will be surprised what Hyperfocus can do. Someone with ADHD will read this whole post and the comments just to avoid doing laundry lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:26 AM
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I can make a later post on tips for ADHD. I highly recommend you check out the "How to ADHD" YouTube channel for great advice!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:22 AM
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Medication like Adderall is useful as a last resort with Severe ADHD or as recommend by a person's licence psychiatrist. Medication should be used only as prescribed by a medical doctor because specific doses and stimulants do different things to the brain. People who use Adderall who don't have ADHD are just getting themselves addicted to a high that will slowly burn out their motivation. My personal reason for not using medication is that I can regulate my dopamine by adjusting my lifestyle. W…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:22 AM
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I'm actually an IT Consultant. My major was Computer Science. I did work for a Behavioral Health clinic for a number of years managing patient records. Cognitive Neuroscience and Abnormal Psychology are one of my pet passions, specifically PTSD and ADHD. I am knowledgeable about PTSD and ADHD because I spent years trying to understand myself. My therapist first thought I had PTSD due to a very rough poverty filled childhood but changed the diagnosis to ADHD. I read many books, research papers, a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:36 AM
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Do they make fun of you for being forgetful OR for being hyper?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 07:01 AM
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Personally I drink an energy drink two days of the week to get stuff done. I try to wait a few days in between each energy drink to not build up tolerances. I highly recommend you read the book "Smart but Scattered" to get advice on how to manage low executive functions. I know that book is on Libgen.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:08 AM
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There are ADHD women. They tend to be not as diagnosed as men, (about 50 to 75 percent of them are undiagnosed). The problem is that ADHD in women tends to be perceived as part of their personality. Almost all ADHD women are the ADHD-I (Inattentive) type. These girls might be thought of as a daydreamer, forgetful, chatty, ditzy, or has her head in the clouds. Always daydreaming and random thoughts. They tend to hate social activities and dating because they get confused by social rules. An examp…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 05:42 AM
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Thank you! I edited the grammar!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 05:07 AM
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Someone that has ADHD-I (Inattentive) definitely has to do different things than someone who has ADHD-HI (Hyperactive-Impulsive). ADHD-I (Inattentive), would have to improve their "executive functions" like starting tasks, keeping attention, and not being distracted. An excellent book for treating ADHD-I is the book "Smart but Scattered". In practical terms the best things that help improve executive functions in ADHD-I are keeping automated lists like "Any.do", using a Pomodoro timer app to lea…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 05:05 AM
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You might! It could be one of your personal life discoveries that changes everything. Look up "How to ADHD" on Youtube if you want to find out.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 04:52 AM
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A 'trap' hobby that might seem like its mentally stimulating but really isn't has to be playing brain games like Luminosity. You may get trained to be better at one of their brain games but it doesn't really provide any tangible benefit. Luminosity has been sued by the American government for false claims. Other similar 'trap' hobbies are doing crossword puzzles and word searches. Another class of trap hobbies that in my personal opinion might seem mentally stimulating but arent are telescope as…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 04:51 AM
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I have a simple ADHD test that's about 70% accurate. Drink a Rockstar Sugar Free energy drink. It has to be sugar free. Wait 30 minutes and record your state or mind. If you're really calm, focused, chill, and meditative more than likely you have ADHD. If you have physical energy and hyper you probably don't. This is not a medical test in any way.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 03:44 AM
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I have an outside the box idea. Have you ever thought about doing math for fun? I think your the type the can get addicted to math and leave video games behind. I recommend doing College Algebra, MAT 117, on EdX. It's sponsored by Arizona State University. They use an AI program called ALEKS to teach math. Enroll for free and see if math is can be addictive to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 03:38 AM
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I think it's 28,000 words. I remember I saw 12 pages in Microsoft Word. If they hyper focus they can get thru it lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 03:36 AM
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I agree that some of the ADHD-I [Inattentive] symptoms definitely do mimic those of Sleep Apnea or Hypoglycemia, (low blood sugar). Those two conditions should be checked first before attempting to diagnose ADHD.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 02:56 AM
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Great observation. For laughs, the song Naggin' by Ying Yang Twins describes the female OCD /male ADHD relationship perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 02:39 AM
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More like three cups of coffee! Took me six hours straight lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 02:35 AM
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Basically what ever my mind thinks of, it locks on like a fucking pitbull. That's classic hyperfocus. You have to learn ways to control it so you can turn it off on and on like a light switch. The Pomodoro technique helps when you have to do a task but are focused on another thing. Another thing you might have is the Impulsive symptom of ADHD that must be tamed with intense gym time like you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 02:01 AM
2

The first step is to discover what genre of video games are you addicted to. Shooters? Strategy games? etc..
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 01:57 AM
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Yeah, you have to keep ADHD a guarded secret at work. At one of my old job, I ended up doing 160% of the work compared to everyone else. When I told the HR lady that it wasn't fair she didn't understand. She said, " Well you take medicine that makes your brain super fast so it should be normal for you. Other people don't have that advantage. That's your normal speed".
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 01:55 AM
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Try HIIT running and see if helps!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 01:49 AM
6

A clean beard to me means you probably work at an office or are in sales. Doesn't mean your gay at all.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:43 PM
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Ask him if he has very been interested in seeing a financial advisor. That's all you can do.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:29 PM
2

On mobile forgive formatting.. I recommend the following: *1. learn Audrino microelectronics with an Elegoo Most Complete kit($45). *2. Take Harvard's CS50s Intro to Computer Science on EdX, (free, $90 with certificate) . *3. Take Cisco Network Academy Linux Essentials class (70 hours and free). *4.Take Cisco Network Academy Cybersecurity class (30 hours and free). *5. Take Arizona State University College Algebra MAT117 Or Precalculus Mat170 on Edx ($45). *6. If they are too easy take MITX Calc…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 08:13 PM
2

When your 18 next week go to the club.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:32 PM
2

Men that put them in their place
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:29 PM
1

Most girls are lazy, have low self esteem, and insecure. If they think you have alot of girls they sometimes don't feel like making an effort to lock you down. Sure they may be highly attracted to you but they are also scared of the effort its going to take to compete for your attention. I think a metaphor is a guy that wants to drive a sports car but is too lazy to work hard enough to buy it.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:34 AM
1

Run 2 hours everyday. Get rid of that oxytocin.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:53 PM
2

Go to r/autism. They have alot of resources.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:51 PM
1

They reject for thousands of reasons. A girl said "no thanks" because I told her I don't eat pizza. Another rejected me because I didn't want to fix her MacBook for free. Many auto reject themselves because they think you're talking to many girls. Others auto reject because they don't want to catch feelings. In general don't worry about rejections. The more you girls you see, the more pussy you will get.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:46 PM
2

Designing men's clothing is masculine. You can practice with the program Marvelous Designer.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:07 PM
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Fuck them both. Time is too short and both of them will get even more turned on even if they pretend they don't.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:29 AM
2

Do it.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:26 AM
1

This points to low blood pressure. Try eating more Salt.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:23 AM
5

Welcome! The Red Pill can help you become a stronger man. Feel free to visit r/r/altTRP if you need specific advice about homosexual game and tips.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:22 AM
1

If she likes you she will smile and look down.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 09:03 PM
1

Something that I have noticed is that most people encourage you to not value your time. Most seem to just want to "chill" and gossip about nonsense. I am so happy that I cut out social media four months ago. The only social media I recommend is Linkedin Groups for career empowerment, and Slack if you're taking an online course on EDx. I highly recommend the book "The Attention Merchants".
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:40 PM
1

It's alright to use Reddit for a few minutes a day to learn things.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:34 PM
1

Sometimes the struggle helps us appreciate the little things. This reminds me of the time my "father" didn't let me go to the gym years ago when I was a teenager. I built a gym under a tree using construction junk, which I called Africa gym. In the summer I had to lift at dawn because it would get humid outside. I remember making a squat rack with two old laundry machines and using a metal pipe as a barbell and buckets of rocks as weights. I used saw horses to build a bench press. My father was …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:29 PM
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A settlement of 13 months of salary + compensations is a great deal and I'm glad you took it. I bet that the boyfriend found out about you accidentally and the girl told him some story about you harassing her. Then to continue her false story she had to file harassment to keep the boyfriend happy.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:14 PM
2

I can't remember the last time a plate asked me for my facebook or Instagram lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 11:10 PM
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Agree 100%. I have been social media free for 4 months. I am so focused and my stress levels are super low.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 07:35 PM
1

Most women want something for you. It could be as simple as attention to as complex as having their kids.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:58 PM
2

Where did you get this data?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:38 AM
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Im waiting for an Endorsed Contributor to get real angry and post a long "don't shit where you eat" call out post.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 07:38 PM
1

The fundamental question; do you lift weights?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:32 PM
1

What do you do for Glutes?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:30 PM
1

If it worries you get to know her friends. I remember I had a FWB who was 18 and I was in my late 20s. Met her at gym. Her friends thought I was "old player " when they found out. I took all of them to the club and they saw me dancing with randoms. Now I'm the "cool guy" and they bug me to workout with them.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:26 PM
2

Try doing 1 hour of class work every day. I think spreading it out won't seem like a large task and you will retain the information better.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:21 PM
3

How many hours a week do you have to dedicate to studying a week? Maybe do the coursework on the weekends?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:01 PM
4

You need more exposure to beautiful women. Join the yoga class at gym.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:21 AM
2

Talk with an immigration lawyer. Many are pro bono,(free).
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:20 AM
1

Get a fake girlfriend. Take a picture with a girl and put that picture frame on your desk.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:19 AM
5

I would recommend at least 45 minutes a day everyday. It may feel uncomfortable or like a chore in the first week but eventually your brain will adapted to this new habit and find it enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:40 AM
3

This is a great perspective.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:46 PM
1

You need to have a hobby or two.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:04 AM
2

friends should have similar mindsets and ambitions. I completely agree. Over time you need to make new friends and leave old friends behind.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:03 AM
5

The main thing to do is never reveal TRP. Go along with the flow publicly. Not every girl you meet is in the music and social scene so you can get discrete lays without your social group being aware of them.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:01 AM
1

She can also just be rejected you in the nicest way she knows how. I would just move on.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:57 AM
1

Some of them are attracted to men who are controlling, get jealous easily, and are possessive. They think that man is "really in love with them".
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:55 AM
1

They get depressed because the Chad they live doesn't even know that they're alive. Another reason is that they are trapped at home after school and have nothing else to do.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:53 AM
2

Tell him that you need to finish your workout before your body cools off. If he keeps bugging you tell him that he should see a therapist. " Hey man, I need to go finish my set or else I'll want to go to sleep" "I think you should talk with a psychologist or someone, maybe they can help you out to see your kids"
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:52 AM
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Get an IT Certification on Cybrary Learn to Type 80 words per minute at Typing.com Learn Math on Khan Academy
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:46 AM
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I recently asked a girl at church The only thing you can do is meet her parents at church but is going to require a lot of patience and time. Also realize that she has never had a boyfriend before and that scenario brings a whole set of relationship problems. The first boyfriend experience tends to move at a very slow pace. An example is that it may take months for her to get comfortable to get kissed.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:44 AM
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Most people are not confident at all. Sometimes you have to be directly in front of them a few feet to receive eye contact.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:40 AM
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The problem is that very few people want to hear audio unless its a famous podcast. There is also the security issue that your voice can be recognized by others by accident.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:36 AM
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I don't believe that women will ever infiltrate the Manosphere or TheRedPill because those communities are based on merit rather than having a feel-good system.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:35 AM
1

Have you ever seen those porn movies where the dude asks the girl what she wants for her birthday and she says "I wanna try Anal"?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:24 PM
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Ask her if she wants Anal.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:04 PM
3

Your dad is right. I predict that your friend is going to message you for money in a few months or years.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 07:02 PM
1

I think you're schizotypal. "People with schizotypal personality disorder are often described as odd or eccentric and usually have few, if any, close relationships. They generally don't understand how relationships form or the impact of their behavior on others."
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:30 PM
1

Why do you think your depressed?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:28 PM
4

Soft next him. You shouldn't be friends with a high school dropout and he is doing you a favor by not hanging out. It's time to make new friends.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:45 PM
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Start by losing 50 lbs. You can do that in 6 to 9 months. You will feel like a different person. I used to be 5'10 and 250 lbs. Now at 190 lbs I feel so alive and everyone is friendlier.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:42 PM
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Have no idea. It's 96% approved and like 7000 people have read it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:33 PM
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Agree. Always challenge yourself physically and mentally. Life is too short to be a spectator that just watches television in your free time.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:28 PM
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It's a wonderful feeling when girls think you just lift 5x a week and they find out you are actually a nerd. I describe it as finding out a hot girl knows how to cook and barbeque really well.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:26 PM
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We're are living in a time of over stimulation but not the deep stimulation that strengthens the connections between brain cells. The stimulation of dopamine from phones is shallow and repetitive. Stimulation from hobbies is deep and spontaneous which is why it challenges you. Phones are like being able to do an addition like 2+2 once every five minutes, while a mentally stimulating hobby is like doing a calculus problem once every hour. The reason is that phones don't require much energy to tex…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:24 PM
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You might enjoy brain games like Luminosity. like an RPG makes it more fun and rewarding. There are so many hobbies you can do to "level up" in many skills. Some are fun while others provide a sense of accomplishment when you complete milestones. I recommend you try to do a course at Edx since they do a good job of making them feel like they are games.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:18 PM
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The "mental antivirus" are the Redpill concepts of having Frame, Abundance Mentality and having a DGAF attitude. Basically, the "mental antivirus" is to have healthy narcissism, high confidence, and master the ability to remain stoic in emotional situations.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:15 PM
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I don't have a personal website or blog. I will be posting a Part III about this in a week that goes deeper and explains the science alot more. I recommend you google "neuroplasticity", "neurobics", and "cognitive neuropsychology" on Wikipedia to get a deeper understanding of mental stimulation.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:12 PM
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It depends if the strategic video game is mentally stimulating enough. Do you feel mentally exhausted after playing your video game? Lifting 5 days a week is excellent as a physical hobby. The best creative hobby I recommend is learning Photoshop because it's both technical and creative at the same time. Phlearn on Youtube has free tutorials.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:07 PM
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When you realize that the less serious you take them the more fun you have.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:11 AM
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Whats with the last emoji? If she agrees to see you then you should probably reward her with a smile emoji instead of a frown emoji.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:09 AM
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I got ever my fear of rejection by approaching hundreds of women. after the first 50 you realize the worst thing they do is either ignore you or tell you they have a boyfriend. The fear is irrational.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:06 AM
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You're not fulfilled because you have climbed the Maslow pyramid of needs. Your basic needs, (food, water, shelter, sex), are met and now you must do things that bring a sense of personal accomplishment. You need to get a hobby that brings you a personal challenge. It has to be something that will take months to accomplish.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:04 AM
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Single mothers have extreme entitlement issues and will learn to lower their standards. They will get pumped and dumped.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:59 AM
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Captain save a hoe or being a "simp" means that you're spending too much attention or resources on a woman. You can help your wife but you need to have a balance between her needs and your needs.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 05:55 AM
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If you have a great body, have your life together, and cant gets girls the next step should be to work on charisma.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:51 AM
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This is a great benefit. Also, women who are strangers tend to be friendlier.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:44 AM
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Thanks. Just like you water a seed and have it grow into a tree, if you stimulate your mind long enough it will grow into a large and wonderful creation.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:29 AM
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12 pages in Microsoft Word. My plate thought it was homework when she stopped by out of nowhere lol.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:25 AM
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Exactly!
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:23 AM
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Cognitive psychology textbooks and dating /plating dozens of girls. I lift weights and women do love a good body. They seem more attracted when they discovered I have hobbies, especially hobbies that are usually done by nerds like computer science and math. It's the craziest thing. I think due to hypergamy they get happy they found a rare guy. They know plenty of orbiters but if your the only one who does yoga and digital art you stand out. They use plausible denibility to want to fuck you...lik…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 04:21 AM
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I'm a Sigma male. What do you want to know specifically?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:54 AM
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Find a way to talk to her on the phone or have video chat.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:54 AM
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The human brain is known as the triune brain and is made up of three parts. One of those parts called the reptile brain or limbic system needs mental stimulation. Animals get mental stimulation by "aggressive acts, dominance, territoriality, and ritual displays" while modern humans get it by pursuing mentally challenging hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:39 AM
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Thank you. My goal is for men to lift and to also have a love for learning. To recognize that you must workout your muscles and your mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:33 AM
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On top of my head is A Mind For Numbers by Barbara Oxley. She goes into detail about diffused mode VS focused mode in regard to how to learn.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 03:30 AM
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Agree. Be smart but don't brag about being smart.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 06:52 PM
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It's fine to go out with her but understand that there is no formula, algorithm, parameter, blueprint, or pattern that can help you predict with high certainty what a women is thinking about. Women base decisions on moods and alot of what they do is spontaneous. You may analyze but it's a waste of time because you cannot accurately predict everything.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:51 PM
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The girl usually sees it as really desperate behavior.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:48 PM
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I don't care what they do. If they want to leave they can leave. She is just a plate.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 06:47 PM
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Get a restraining order. Find the free law clinic in your city and talk with a lawyer. It may sound counter productive but let her communicate with you over text. The text messages can be used as proof later to prove she is crazy. Bonus points of you can get her to admit that she wants to file a false rape report.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:08 PM
2

The old friend sounds super insecure about something. Is he a fatass?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:04 PM
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Look up athlean x on YouTube. He has a great video about it.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:00 PM
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It's summer time. More than likely she is gonna want a break. Single Summers, Wifey Winters.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:58 PM
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Do you exchange pics or phone numbers?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:57 PM
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Would be 10x easier to meet a girl at a Discord server. Plenty of NSFW ones.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 11:03 PM
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I have never heard of anyone meeting a girl in real life that someone met from an IRC chat. Especially in 2018. This is so rare lol.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:58 PM
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Waste of time. You're going to be her orbiter because you analyze way too much. Why do you want her so bad?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:46 PM
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Your gonna have to go on a 6 month monk mode and lift like your life depended on it. Possibly see a therapist to prevent depression. Oneitis level 9.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:38 PM
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Majority of the chicks I've banged have no idea what my social media is lol.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:33 PM
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People that use roids tend to have liver and, heart, kidney issues way later in their 50s and 60s. You may look good in your 20s, but decide if you want medical issues in your later years. Rich "5%" Piana just died, and Arnold just had emergency heart surgery in April.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:28 PM
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Catcalling is beta af and the success rate is really low. Best to approach and have a conversation.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:07 PM
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It depends on your hypothalamus the amount of sexual stimulation you need. Dopamine plays a huge part in this.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:44 PM
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NO NO NO. Are you trying to get fired?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:30 PM
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They probably have like 100 friend requests before yours. Send them a message.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:28 PM
1

Some don't get the hint and keep trying harder to get the Alpha the less he cares.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:26 PM
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She is probably at the hospital. Text her a "get better soon" and then see her next week. It's not a big deal. Work on your insecurities.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:23 PM
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In California, psychological/emotional abuse can be seen as domestic violence. Domestic violence is not always physical abuse.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 05:23 PM
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They want something from you.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:41 PM
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Boyfriend material?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:40 PM
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She was studying to be a marriage and family therapist. I think she was talking about me to her coworkers in social work or something. Nurses are way better if you want a nurturing plate or LTR.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:35 PM
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Can the blackmail she is using get you in legal trouble?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:32 PM
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Learn about internal locus of control.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:29 PM
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Face pulls work wonders. Yoga moves like chaturanga, chair pose, bridge pose, and clamshells work great. Ass to grass squats. Strengthen yourr Glutes and hamstrings because it helps with the muscle imbalances in the body the spine caused by rounded shoulders .
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:27 PM
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I am reading this on the toilet. Great read.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:15 PM
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Where to start lol. She was on a mission to fix me because she said that I had problems "falling in love". Going to the gym was "substitution for an undeveloped ego". Said that me not wanting kids was a "biologically unhealthy". It was a trainwreck. Antisocial Disorder, intimacy issues, commitment issues, sociopathy, narcissistic Disorder, schizotypal disorder., (social hermit), Every week was something new. She even tested my personality type; it was ENTP. She said I need to learn to care about…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:10 PM
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Latino here. You need Machismo, (strong frame and dominance). You have to treat them like they are 5 years old. Emotional rollercoasters. Always lead. Overt displays of flirting with no bullshit. Straight to the point. Flirt with them and let them know from the first eye contact that you want them romantically. Be prepared for shit tests galore and stay in amused mode. Make them feel like their dreams are gonna come true.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:58 PM
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You might have codependency issues. How is your relationship with your parents?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:51 PM
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Why havent you blocked her? She probably thinks you both are friends and that you enjoy seeing her snaps.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:49 PM
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Call 1-800-273-8255 Please give them a call. I think the death of your mother is causing you to have a severe depression and you need to talk to someone urgently.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:47 PM
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They love to gossip about who is potentially fucking who. I once had the Executive Assistant at my old job try to convince me to teach her how to work out at the company fitness center. No way am I shitting where I eat, especially at the company gym with the other coworkers there. She was 31 years old and the queen bee of the building. She was athletic and pretty good looking. I obviously don't shit where I eat but the old hags thought it was "adorable" how she would bring me the extra food the …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:43 PM
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If you're her first boyfriend be prepared for codependency to the extreme. She will be very insecure about her body usually.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:34 PM
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Your mother might be a Narcissist. I would check out the Raised by Narcissists subreddit. Your immediate solution is to cut off contact for a month. She may never change but you should do it for your mental health.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:31 PM
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When they disrespect I stop giving them attention for a few days. That is how they learn. The person who cares the least about the relationship has the possible.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:28 PM
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We don't blame women. We learn how to improve ourselves so we have the best lifestyle possible. OP is saying to avoid single mothers because they truly are full of red flags.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:27 PM
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Psycology and sociology majors are the worst because they over analyze every little thing you do. Masters of manipulation. I dated a chick who was a social worker and she woulnt shut up about trying to diagnose me with every little thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:25 PM
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Single mothers treat you like a King in the beginning to trap you. They are the masters of codependency and gaslighting. Basically, they will try to get you to get rid of your individualism so you only spend time with them. They will gaslight you to emasculate you. I have a buddy who gets yelled at all the time by some fat single mother. He pays her bills, she lives at his home, and he gets treated like shit. He won't leave her because he is "in love with her kids". She basically controls him an…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:22 PM
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Most guys only work out their arms and chest and neglect their legs. Also very few do compound lifts like deadlifts or squats. I believe the reason is that they assume they only need to do arms to attract women. The number of fatties wearing tank tops showing off arms with 25% body fat and chicken legs is big at my gym.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:15 PM
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You have to warm them up like an oven. Make something happen the next time you are over her house.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:10 PM
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You fuck in the backseat. Go on Youtube and search "How to have sex in a car". Plenty of information.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:02 PM
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I will make a post and post it in a few days. It will be about how to learn easier and how to get in a hyperfocus state of mind.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:00 PM
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BTw if you need books google "Libgen". I got most of my training materials from there. Feel free to PM me if you need an ebook you cant find.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:57 PM
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Find a secluded place with a nice view and fuck them in the car. Tell her she is going on a picnic.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:57 PM
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They shit test you to make sure you're the real deal. Your mother will shit test you unless you either make a lot of money or have a wife. I would keep your mouth shut when they shit test you. Treat the situation like if a 5 year old girl called you a dummy. Since you have your own place cut contact from your mother for a while.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:56 PM
1

Do you have a car?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:51 PM
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Lift and get to 15% Body Fat. You will look at least 5 years younger. It's time for you to enter Monk Mode.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:50 PM
1

Check out cybrary IT , they have a free 43 hour A+ Certification course. Join the Comptia reddit for resources.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:46 PM
1

Yes there is a time and place for everything. Intellectual conversations are best online or with other Intellectuals.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:43 PM
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Yes, you must do everything you can do be physically and mentally superior to others. If you have the talent and discipline then intellectual pursuits are your birth right. Intellectual pursuits are allowed you to brainstorm and develop new ideas alot easier. The main reason is that you can dominate your competition easier financially and you gather new perspectives. Intellectualism also leads to higher quality pussy and its a grand avenue to greater social circles like you mentioned. I see read…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:42 PM
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I can definitely make another post about the Mental aspects again. Perhaps a post on how to learn easier.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:34 PM
1

This is a very interesting perspective. I would love to learn more about how Blacks are indoctrinated by the Eurocentric perspective. The only source I have is the current "Apeshit" music video by The Carters where they challenge Eurocentric art.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:33 PM
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These are valid arguments and I have made some generations. I agree that office workers tend to be effeminate and most tend to be dramatic like the women. Also I agree that in this scenario that manager would indeed be a massive faggot. He would need to get off his chair, roll his sleeves, and help the team out.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:30 PM
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Alot of modern sexual strategy stems from consumer culture that started in the 1950s. The main goal in our society is to encourage its people to spend as much money as possible. We are encouraged to do things that "make them feel good" rather than improve their current situation. With the rise of smartphones, many people are addicted to Instagram and Snapchat. They are on their phones all day in a hypnotized state looking at fashion models or food. The redpill is to recognize that you need to be…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:27 PM
1

Yes, intellectualism leads to individualism because in most scenarios to be an intellectual means to be in solitude. Solitude is needed to have the hyperfocus needed to brainstorm ideas. Most inventors, scientists, and academics throughout history tended to live by themselves and shun society. The book "Deep Work" by Cal Newport goes into great detail about this.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:19 PM
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Only one piece of advice for intellectuals / nerds- remember to ALWAYS speak less and leave people wanting for more. NEVER speak more than absolutely necessary, and only calibrated to your audience. 100% Agree. I tend to speak in normal English with most people and only use higher syllable words with needed. Another word of advice I agree with you is to never speak more than absolutely necessary. Most people don't appreciate it when us nerds try to offer them solutions, advice or try to give the…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:14 PM
1

Have you ever considered talking with a therapist? I wonder if your mother is a narcissist and you are also going thru a PTSD scenario.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:06 PM
1

I see so many girls sitting down on benches eating lunch and no one talks to them.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:05 PM
1

It's starting to become really common. Nonlifters see going to the gym as some sort of obsession or religion and call you a "gym rat" or "gym bro".
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:04 PM
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It's a good place to meet women. The first month you must be quiet and not approach them. Then you can say hello and ask the one you like to hangout or workout together.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:03 PM
2

Mothers think its a waste of time because they don't the results and it doesn't make money. They will always see you as their little boy. Keep lifting!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:01 PM
1

Your ex could have dumped you for many reasons, mostly out of emotion. Should get dumped at least ten more times before you lose confidence. Like the old saying goes, "Just because I fell off a horse once doesn't mean I stop knowing how to ride".
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:00 PM
1

Once a week is fine. I wonder if you can replace it with vaping instead. Tell them you heard at work that they are doing random drug testing soon.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:58 PM
1

The best advice I give you as a Latino American is to keep studying hard, go to the gym, and limit how much alcohol you drink. Majority of the family are not good role models, and just because someone is your cousin doesn't mean you have to help or hang out with them. Many of the elders are losers who only surround themselves with family and other losers. The way to escape the hive mind is to limit contact with people who are lazy, stupid, or unlucky. In our culture, the concept of family is ver…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:56 PM
3

Wow. You look better than most of the guys at my gym. You can actually pull off the bald look if you ever do start balding.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:39 PM
11

Just like you lift weights to build muscle you need to keep going to social gatherings to build social confidence.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:34 PM
1

Smoking pot is for losers. Why do you want to slow down your brain for?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:31 PM
2

Did you send her a picture of you?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:20 PM
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Fitness girls especially yoga chicks tend to be more sober than average.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:18 PM
1

You need more sexuality. Start flirting more and building sexual tension. More eye contact and let them catch you checking them out. Walk like your the man. Chest out and straight back.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:50 PM
1

They think standing there is all they need to do to have a good time.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:46 PM
1

Look up Richard Grannon on YouTube. Most nice guys are the victim of childhood abuse and have Complex Post Traumatic Disorder. The biggest thing you have to change is your locus of control from external to internal. This means that you decide that you're in control of your life instead of external events, people, disadvantages controlling you.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:44 PM
1

You can but you will also Develop PTSD. Not a fun thing at all.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:34 PM
2

If your Aspie then your gonna have to learn to express your emotional side which can be hard. Yoga and dancing might help you express what you feel on a physical level because it trains the parasympathetic nervous system. The more you feel the easier conversations can be. Study Vanessa Van Edwards stuff on YouTube to learn body language.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:25 PM
1

Aaron Clarey and Terrence Poop are great ones.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:20 PM
2

You can take online classes at Coursea and get a degree about what you're passionate about. If you can't dance start by learning dance moves on YouTube. I think your going thru a "quarter life crisis" and you need to discover your own identity imstead of living to the expectations of your parents. You can have a metamorphosis after 25; your still young.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:18 PM
3

Only like 5% of guys cold approach in person. The majority use social media or mutual friends to meet girls.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:12 PM
2

Why even take them off when socializing? Wear glasses that are frame less on the bottom of the glass.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:09 PM
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I get fitness shamed sometimes. Get sarcastically called playboy or pimp by middle aged women because I lift . They assume I want to fuck every girl.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:02 PM
1

I have looks. I go to gym 6x a week.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:50 AM
1

Im 5'10 and I have not had a problem with it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:50 AM
1

I have slept with at least eighty college aged women. I don't play chess at all.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:49 AM
2

You need mental stimulation. How good are your math skills?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:48 PM
2

Go on a long outdoor walk and reflect on the changes you have made. What you're feeling is called Numbness due to a strong shock to your mental state similar to surviving a car crash.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:47 PM
6

Say "wow, that's crazy", and then change the conversation.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:45 PM
11

This is normal in monk mode, (currently 4 months). The more time I spend with women the less I care about chasing them. I have a higher calling for adventure and getting stuff done. I believe the reason this happens is due to an abundance mentality and that they are a distraction.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:44 PM
12

One of the most common LARP Alphas I see in my daily life is the "anti-intellectual" who brags about not being smart or a nerd. This is the guy that mocks people that love to read books or learn things. They tell you to speak english when you use middle school words and have the attention span of a gold fish. The type that says they are street smart and not book smart. They are usually emotional and walk like they want to fight. Obese and wear muscle shirts. They put on an aggressive persona so …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:39 PM
1

He sounds like a liabilty and has negative status right now. You mentioned that he would feel like a stranger. If he is lonely im sure he can talk with his family. Remember that he ignored you and your friends when you messaged him. He basically told you that your status was too low for him to even say hello. You dont owe him anything and it was his personal choice to ignore you and your friends. You have raised your status and now he wants to be part of the group again.i would not welcome him b…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:42 PM
1

What kind of date activity do you want? If you dont want a dinner date then suggest another activity.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:32 PM
1

Not your duty but it does feel good.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:35 PM
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The struggle is what makes caterpillars into butterflies. The same applies to men. To have a metamorphosis you must challenge the uncomfortable. Depression in my experience is being afraid of being uncomfortable. A fear of failure and a sadness that life is not going as planned.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:30 PM
1

For women those classes are great to build up confidence in working out. You're thinking logically, most women who have never worked out before need a social atmosphere to keep coming to the gym.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:41 PM
1

There are great codependency books on Amazon.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:58 AM
4

If you havent already disable social media. Use the time to learn something new on Khan Academy, Lynda, or Coursera. Have a creative outlet as a hobby is also beneficial. It can be digital painting, writing. A technical hobby like coding(myfreecodecamp) or math (khan academy) can help you develop your logic skills.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:55 AM
4

Personally, as long as she is 18 she can plated BUT if she tells me she has never had a boyfriend or is really innocent I would move on. My reasoning is I am an asshole and I wouldn't want her first sexual relationship to be a bad one. This is just me and many in TRP will probably disagree.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:52 AM
1

Does your gym have classes? Maybe they have a belly and butt class for her.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:47 AM
27

Ive done Zumba classes. Its a great IDGAF builder because you will be the only guy. Usually only dude out of 50 women and most would stare at me. The first session the women were confused of why I was there, because Im a big muscled dude and they didnt know if I was gay. It was super easy to meet women when they realized I was straight. I did it by telling the class that I started doing Zumba because an ex girfriend introduced me to it. Mentioning the word "ex girfriend" caused the women to give…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:40 AM
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I recommend Yoga classes because I go 3x a week. The class is around 40 women and Im usually the only guy. Recommend you sit in the corner front and wear black running shorts. Highly recommend you dont say hi to women until the third time you're there. They have this weird radar that only guys that want to pickup chicks do yoga. Only look at the instructor. After a week or month many of them will open up and the preselection is intense. They will make eye contact after yoga and you can approach.…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:32 AM
3

If there is an empty chair in the table sit down. If she takes off her headphones or isnt wearing any 75% chance she will want to talk.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:23 AM
1

I went 4 months No Contact. I love my life and even thou she used to be oneitis material i just dont care.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:21 AM
5

Agree. Makes it easy to play with her hair and kiss. As a tip, try to sit closest to the wall so she has doesn't feel trapped.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:56 AM
1

Tell them you feel really sad and need to see a doctor.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:53 AM
1

To get you jealous??
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:53 AM
2

Slyvester Stallone and Arnold.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:54 AM
3

They will be their friends if you invite her to a bar or nightclub.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:52 AM
5

Time for No Contact. You need to cool off before you do something you will regret.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:50 AM
1

How does a long distance boyfriend find out she spent the night if he is very far away? She probably told him.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:44 AM
19

Most TRP men need more self compassion. They need to understand that they dont have to be perfect. Perfectionism leads to performance anxiety and low self esteem. They also need to learn how to have self kindness so they stop being so hard on themselves for events they cannot control.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:59 AM
3

It just means your moods are unstable. You are happy for three days and then sad for two days, and then happy for three days. You definitely need to talk to to a doctor or psychologist about this.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:31 PM
1

Strong evidence for cyclothymic disorder.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:08 PM
4

Tell her you found someone and she will move on.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:14 PM
3

Friendly banter is how some tough guys communicate and bond with other guys. You should banter back. If he makes fun of sports you played just laugh and ask if he even played sports.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:09 PM
1

Agree. They probably think OP is way too attractive to be straight.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:58 PM
2

Resonator by RSD. You can find it online.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:19 AM
1

You lost her when you said you havent seen a girl with lingerie.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:44 PM
4

Depends on the type of relationship. Is she your girlfriend?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:35 PM
1

Codependency issues.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:06 PM
2

WTF. Do Not Shit Where You Eat.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:05 PM
2

You praise them by giving them sexual attention.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:03 PM
6

The only way would be if there was no contact for at least 6 months and it was a significant change in SMV , (at least 3 points).
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:33 PM
4

Drink some beer together and the chances are high you will fuck. If you are able to fuck her then she will let you have the dominant role. I think this roomshare might open up a good learning experience for you to see if you can handle living with a female. Since you will share the same bed she will unconsciously see you as "hers" so don't be surprised if she cockblocks.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:53 AM
1

relapsing always starts with JUST ONE cigarette. Just realized my sugar addiction might relapse. I had birthday cake today and ice cream yesterday. I went two months without sugar. Thanks for reminding me that relapses start with few events.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:32 AM
13

Same room roommate with a hot girl who your not fucking is going to bring some concerns. She is going to act like a wife without any pussy benefits soon. What are plates going to think when they see girl stuff everywhere when you bring them home? Does she have sexual attraction towards you?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:28 AM
13

Those fat 6 - 6'2 dudes probably used to be athletes and they have the confidence and high self esteem from playing team sports.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:22 AM
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