Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktard

NAthrowaway0613 · 2021-09-11T12:15:59+00:00

The dude recommended withholding sex? Hahaha. I will gladly hold out longer. That’s the dumbest recommendation I’ve ever heard.

But yes, I liked what you said here. I like to think of anything women do that pisses the patriarchy off as a mini protest. So keep it up, ladies :)

BasieSkanks · 2021-09-11T13:57:38+00:00

Let men withold sex. Most women will relish not having to enjoy shitty, two-minute pumping where she doesn't even cum. Men will fuck a coconut or a sandwich if they are horny enough, so the idea that they would sex strike over body hair is laughable.

modernmedusaa · 2021-09-11T14:10:52+00:00

Yeah women are not accepted as they are in their natural state and the AUDACITY of men to hold us to these unnatural standards yet expecting women to pay for them to lie to and use women when women spend FAR more on their appearances than men and they show little appreciation for it or continue to belittle the woman’s effort or nit pick at her supposed flaws.

They have no idea how much effort women put into their appearances such as:

Eyebrow waxing every few weeks

Waxing down below

Hair removal on legs & arms (whether through waxing, electronic treatments or shaving)

Manicures and other nail treatments (gel or acrylic nails)

Hair treatment and hair products for washing or styling, curling and straightening

Teeth whitening - $100s

Eyelash treatments or false eyelashes (very popular these days….a set of full lashes would cost around $150 at least and need replacing in a month or so)

Skincare (moisturiser, cleanser, serums, toners, spot treatment, anti ageing products- this can get very expensive)

Facials , Brazilian butt lifts and other professional skin treatments

False tan or spray tans

Body creams

Perfumes

Makeup (which can get pretty pricey & include mascara, blusher, bronzer, eyeshadow, foundation, concealer, makeup brushes etc)

If I were to add that up it would run into the $1000s

That’s not even getting onto plastic surgery which frequently runs into the $1000s

Women are shamed for the hair that naturally grows on their body as if it’s ‘unhygienic’ & ‘disgusting’ which just shows men know jack shit about the female body

When actually it’s medically considered less hygienic to shave down there.

Shaving your vagina opens the skins pores up to more bacteria getting inside & irritates your vagina since there are more nerve endings down there - the hair serves a purpose to stop friction and bacteria getting inside.

So if anything shaving puts you at more risk to bacterial infections and STIs.

But please go off about how your girlfriend is dirty for not shaving when you only have a rotten bar of soap in your shower!

Yet women are expected to do this to look like a ‘sexy thirteen year old’ to pedophilic men

It’s ridiculous women are made to feel they have to keep up with these practices- like they’ve failed as a woman or done something wrong if they forget to constantly remove their hair before sex. Why aren’t men expected to do this?

They’re allowed to keep dirty unkept beards with bits of food and god knows what else in it but a woman is disgusting if she keeps hair on her vagina which serves to stop bacteria getting in?

I honestly find the whole shaving the vagina process extremely tedious in a relationship. It’s actually one of things that makes me loathe longterm relationships with men. It’s like you’re never allowed to relax at all meanwhile he’s accepted in his natural state.

Waxing hurts and I find that embaressing- never understood the hype around that. But being expected to hide any sign of hair growth is just ridiculous. For most women it starts to grow back within 1-3 days max so it’s like you can never beat it unless you get that expensive electronic hair removal therapy but who knows how that could affect your hair elsewhere - I don’t really trust that technology either.

Men expecting our vaginas to be smooth as a baby’s butt every time they have sex is ridiculous. And unrealistic. And also creepy because they’re having sex with a woman not a girl. Because it grows back the next fucking day- so what it is the actual point of doing it. Having sex during regrowth is even more unpleasant and uncomfortable. I understand keeping it trim but the act of shaving it completely is a pointless exercise.

Shaving down there is painful let’s be honest, it’s even more painful shaving through regrowth. One slip and you could easily scar your vagina. The skin around your vagina is extremely sensitive.

It also stings having sex after shaving bc the skin is irritated. I absolutely HATE having sex right after I shaved clean for that reason. The friction stings more. And I will usually tap out much sooner bc of that.

Also you’re not meant to put scented products like soap near your vagina because it’s a self cleaning organ - you’re meant to use water & a ph balanced product at most if anything.

It’s just silly we’re expected to keep up this myth that women shouldn’t grow hair.

Also if you’re in a ongoing close relationship with a man 24/7 he is going to see you with hair at some point and needs to get over it. You are not a fantasy thirteen year old plastic doll.

Also grown men who are skilled in the bedroom….really don’t let that stuff get in the way. They don’t care.

It’s only the immature insecure childish guys with limp porn sick dick who care. They can only get off to incest or 12 yr olds.

*** and to the scrote that said ‘no one makes you do any of that shit’ ….that’s interesting because all the male media moguls who publish female magazines frequently hound us into doing this shit and paint us as masculine, unkept or ugly if we don’t.

The same propaganda is not launched at men.

Why isn’t porn full of natural looking women with body hair lol???

Let’s see your reaction if all women stopped shaving and doing all this. I guarantee you would complain and mock them & say they’re not feminine enough

The AUDACITY of guys who do jack shit to their appearances and wash their balls with a rotten bar of soap demanding we pay half to be used for sex and therapy by them . Pfftttt

Sweet_Bee_8839 · 2021-09-11T14:14:13+00:00

There was a time in my life when razors were mildly triggering (I used to self harm regularly). But I would shave anyway because I thought I had to until I read an article about women protesting men’s expectations for their body hair. So I didn’t shave. Interestingly it was my mom and sisters who would call me out on it and be disgusted by me. I would wear pants or leggings or long skirts, or sometimes I would wax my legs. Waxing my armpits wasn't something I was able to figure out how to do myself. The angles are too weird. So I just had hairy pits. It was fine. Everyone survived.

This October I’ll be celebrating two years without SH and also closing on my first home. Im at a point now where I can keep the razor in my shower and I’ll shave some times. But I’m also at a point where I’m going to do it for me and nobody has a right to tell me what to do.

throwaway-fds · 2021-09-11T09:35:29+00:00

Men will gaslight you by telling you "you don't have it worse these women in OTHER countries so stop complaining" to keep you away from making any more progress. Societal pressure to remove all your body hair so you resemble a prepubescent child solely targeted at your gender IS an issue. It's an attack on society and the rising attempt to normalize pedophilia. (No hate, I shave, but I have issues with certain textures and my own body hair rubbing against me is one of them. If you do it for cosmetic reasons as long as it's for YOU, that's important. Not some scrote)

UnderstandingOdd1092 · 2021-09-11T13:03:22+00:00

If body hair is not a big deal why do ads for razors show hairless legs? Why would you recommend withholding sex until women shave?
Their logic is always so flawed it's embarrassing.

electroloop · 2021-09-11T13:03:54+00:00

Some more proof that men are attracted to prepubescent girls.

AbbyDean1985 · 2021-09-11T15:43:00+00:00

It took me years to be comfortable not shaving every. Goddamn. Day. I applaud the women who are taking back their bodies in this way. I love thus post and I want to buy it fancy drinks with umbrellas.

kitnb · 2021-09-11T18:12:58+00:00

P.S. I stopped removing body hair, mostly. I let my pubic hair start growing back and let me tell you, it’s taking MONTHS and growing in like your auntie’s eyebrows, all patchy with bald spots because of all the waxing, plucking and lasering I’ve done since the age of 15! 😱 I might have to pencil in hairs just like your tee-tee does, too! 😳😭

Anyway, I don’t like it when my armpit hairs get a little too long because it feels odd so I trim or randomly shave it and start over. Same thing with my pubes, lol. But I’m doing whatever I feel like doing with MY BODY. If a guy doesn’t like it, he can get pussy from somewhere else. Boy bye! 💩🤡

Stuffnthings1840 · 2021-09-11T15:43:51+00:00

They can shave. Enjoy ingrown hairs.

Peak_Tree · 2021-09-11T18:32:09+00:00

A wise woman once said on the ( defunct) GC that "Most men are atracted to feminity, not to women" and as time passes I'm getting more and more convinced of it.

I mean I'm atracted to men and men don't need to prance "sexily" , acrylic nails, makeup, "sexy" super short and flimpsy and uncomfortable clothes, butt implants, an*l bleaching or to shave 100% or their body hair for it to happen. And basically all hetero women I know would agree with me on that. That what seems to be most hetero men can't say the same for themselves....that's very telling.

ashcantcatchabreak · 2021-09-11T20:14:13+00:00

I’m so sick of hearing libfems parrot the same party line - “it’s my CHOICE to shave my body hair and wear makeup!” Yeah sure Jan, but why is it ALWAYS women choosing this? And not men? Why is it men don’t feel pressured to shave their armpits? Why is the cosmetic industry marketing to women? It’s not a “choice” made in a vacuum. It’s behavior conditioned by a patriarchal society. And going against that is brave

Protoetype · 2021-09-11T12:36:48+00:00

I cannot be bothered to shave any of my body hair. I used to shave my calves to occasionally wear shorts but thanks to Covid, I haven't used a razor in years. Also, getting ate out by handsome men has been my primary form of sexual intimacy so clearly it doesn't bother all of them ;)

Body hair is a non issue in my romantic relationships. The idea of being with a man that spends his time bitching about women's body hair is as laughable and utterly inconceivable to me as marrying a goat.

spectacledskeptical · 2021-09-11T16:09:15+00:00

I'm a woman who dislikes body hair on myself AND on men- but I don't remove my body hair and my SO doesn't either. Why? Because I don't get to dictate what men do to their bodies, and men don't get to decide what I do to mine, so I keep things hairy. I think it is absolutely ridiculous that men think they can tell women not removing body hair is "gross" while not removing their own. If I, a woman who showers daily and uses a lot of products to look and smell good, is gross for not removing their natural hair, then what is a man that showers with a 3 in 1 product and doesn't even wipe his ass? The double standards are horrendous.

I'll continue to not remove my body hair and take the ridiculing comments from men about it, because I want to show other women that it's okay to not conform to patriarchal standards. If someone wants to make a comment, I say "get used to it." Might as well let them know that we're taking back our own autonomy-they're going to see women with hairy legs whether they like it or not.

sacchilax · 2021-09-11T16:37:20+00:00

As someone who recently stopped shaving I love this. It’s hard AF to not shave anymore bc we have been trained that hair is gross. My mother has been struggling with the fact that I stopped shaving. 😂 not shaving my armpits, legs, pubic area or gasp my upper lip. 😂 it’s been a trip— but a good trip.

kitnb · 2021-09-11T17:50:00+00:00

A scrote withholding sex who’s covered in hair because a woman refuses to shave hers? Here, let me help you with your fucked up entitlement and hold the door open as I kick your scrote ass the hell out!

GTFOH clowns! 🤡

A woman’s body is a woman’s choice. Not a man’s! Men know how powerful we are and how powerful our bodies are which is why they are ALWAYS trying to control it and make it theirs. Nah, scrote.

Do whatever you want with your body, Queens. If a guy doesn’t like it, good, one less abusive n*gga to get pussy. Next!

s_slayer · 2021-09-12T06:46:52+00:00

I've been sick and just taking a shower can be a challenge at times. The last time I shaved it took me like 5 minutes and a lot of work, I was exhausted and you know, my bf doesn't even care about that really. He has a full bush and a hairy ass and I'm not in the least bit turned off by it. I'm also not pornsick and sex with him is very beautiful so all these guys requiring waxed pussies can keep jerking off cause likely that's all they're getting. Let's see them wax their privates. For 1000s of years men desired UNSHAVEN women. They need to get off their damn porn kicks and learn what true desire is. I will go for weeks without shaving if I feel like it. I've entirely had enough of the demands placed on women in order to deem us sexually attractive. Over it!

I_know_right_AS_IF · 2021-09-11T17:02:22+00:00

Men don't think not shaving is brave because they think body hair on women is gross 😑

littlealien12 · 2021-09-11T14:35:57+00:00

this is so cringe lol

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Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-09-13T11:04:09+00:00

After a breakup I grew out my body hair and wore only giant conmfortable underwear....and not a single man commented on it, nor did impact my sex life in any way.

If a guy had made a single negative comment I would have simply walked away and never seen him again. They can sense it, I swear.

Title	Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktard
Author	fierce_and_mighty
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Date	September 11, 2021 9:08 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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Do whatever you want with your body, Queens. If a guy doesn’t like it, good, one less abusive n*gga to get pussy. Next!