Feminism is slowly destroying the black community

OldEgalitarianMRA · 2021-09-15T11:16:39+00:00

Singe motherhood rate in the black community was less than 5% in the 1950's. Today it's over 80%. Radical feminism has already destroyed the black community.

And the fact that you don't see this on the news every day is an example of the political power of organized radical feminism.

quijote3000 · 2021-09-15T14:53:49+00:00

"I’m not sure if this is the place to talk about it but if I were to mention this anywhere else on Reddit I would get downvoted or banned"

This is MensRights, you can talk all you want here.

You are welcome

MrRonchito · 2021-09-15T09:23:54+00:00

Feminism is destroying our society as a whole, not only feminism tho, but yeah it's one of the causes.

Comfortable_Ad_9154 · 2021-09-15T11:11:38+00:00

"It has advanced to the point that we are viewed as the “straight white males of the black community”… whatever that means."

I can't really comment about that, but I have noticed this concept elsewhere, where the concept of privilege is causing a wedge between or even within groups. I believe it has become increasingly socially acceptable to attack or vilify individuals with "privilege" because of their "privilege" and that's where stuff like that comes from.

djc_tech · 2021-09-15T12:08:48+00:00

I would also add the courts are very unfair to black men. I mean the family courts.

So where I’m living I went to coparenting classes - which is usually required. What I also did was go to classes about being a present father and other things on why you should be a dad ( it was somewhat of “it’s important for a father to have a role in their kids life as it is the mothers” but it was a lot of “you should love paying child support and just shut up about it and don’t argue for more custody”). So there was usually about 20-30 of us in class at any given time as they only do then every couple of months and you have to register like months in advance. But there was a lot of black men who got royally screwed over by their custody agreements. One was told by a judge “boy you’re lucky you get then every other weekend”. In the groups I was in I heard a lot of similar stories. These men just wanted to be with their kids and it seemed to me the family courts targeted them with angst more than anyone else. I felt bad for them honestly as most were people like me (same field, military background, served country or community, civil servants, cops, firemen you get the gist). I often wondered if I was in their shoes would I have been beaten down so badly? I mean I spent 70k just for somewhat equal access to my kid, these men barely got anything. So fucked up

OutlawMayne · 2021-09-15T09:22:56+00:00

I just lost what little custody I had and the only reasoning is cause I have demanding job hours and she wanted to move with her transgender fiancé and be a dependent

ramaga · 2021-09-15T14:43:17+00:00

Black women routinely refer to black men as "trash," "bullet bags," and "the weakest links," and then have the nerve to be upset when successful black men like me avoid them like the plague and date/marry women of other races. After all, the only way to win a game rigged against you is to not play.

Non-black men see how black women are and avoid them too. At least for relationships--men of all races will pump and dump a black woman if she's hot enough. But few are hot as eighty percent of them in the U.S. are obese/overweight.

Because of their behavior which repels men with an iota of sense, black women are the least likely group of women to get married. And when they do marry, they are the most likely to file for a divorce.

Feminism isn't slowly destroying the black community; feminism has already destroyed the black community. At least in the US--I can't speak to black communities in other nations. There needs to be a radical paradigm shift in the black community for things to turn around. But there are exactly zero signs of that happening. Both black men and black women need to get their acts together and learn to cooperate with and support one another, but the culture encourages them to do the opposite.

The depravity and degradation is worsening. No one in a position of power is willing to speak up and/or do anything about it because he would immediately be attacked as a racist even if he's black.

0utsid3r1620 · 2021-09-15T10:08:41+00:00

Are you right? FUCK YEA YOU ARE!!! Is this the place to talk about it? No but it seems impossible for black men to have a safe space in social media to talk about these types of things. They always get invaded. Usually by the type of women you're talking about. Look what happened when HBO adopted "Between The World and Me" black feminists "what about us" 'd their way into what was written as a conversation between a black man and his son on the things he'll face in this fucked up world.

Glum-Pen-728 · 2021-09-15T11:53:48+00:00

slowly? It was over and done in the 70s and 80s.

liebestod0130 · 2021-09-15T13:17:55+00:00

Destroying white community too.

yoitsericc · 2021-09-15T13:15:13+00:00

Just watcha few callers on Kevin Samuels show and you'll see this analysis is spot on.

Men and women were not made to war with one another, but that's exactly what you have in the black community thanks to 3 waves of radical feminism and misandry.

durianscent · 2021-09-15T12:41:50+00:00

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NohoTwoPointOh · 2021-09-15T13:50:13+00:00

Slowly?

It has all but destroyed it. Once you get over a 75% fatherless home rate, it's damn near terminal. White America is catching up, sadly.

Feminism is a race to the bottom.

2021-09-15T10:59:19+00:00

At least they aren't denying the issue of disposability. It's good, more ammo.

SuspiciousMeat6696 · 2021-09-15T12:19:50+00:00

Kevin Samuels is doing his best to reverse this.

rainbow_bro_bot · 2021-09-15T14:56:53+00:00

Jesus. Everyone with Twitter please report that and if you are in the local jurisdiction area report her to the cops as well.

TheClinicallyInsane · 2021-09-15T13:07:58+00:00

Hey man, I can't think of another place better to talk about this. We aren't "r / whitemensrights". I'm not a genius about this stuff, I just sit and listen to people and make my honest judgements. So here we go...

I've grown up right outside Baltimore, I know this scene too well. Bullet bag is a new term for sure, but I think it's about some perceived role in society...black men are expected to act or be a certain way. But that way isn't always real nice or respectful, as a result, many black men haven't been so good to black women. Now, the other side is that I've met so many black men who are real good guys and caring and really compassionate about relationships and are too romantic for their own goods haha, the issue is that these men aren't the "standard expectations" I guess?

What do we do here?? Really? Basically...we help men, we help each other, we hold each other to higher standards and act as brother's and father's for each other. I hold any man to lift himself higher.

I think for now there's no major changes we can do to stop this. Black gals who have been with a few bad black guys are gonna do the same as white gals who have been with a few bad white guys, they'll lump them all together and scream they hate men.

However, I think on an individual scale we can try and support our friends and men, make sure we all try our best and be respectful even if we don't like how some women treat us. Either with time, women will step away from the "hate all men" ideology. Or we can score some wins and hopefully attract the women who are kind and loving and supportive.

TLDR: We are here for you man, black, brown, Asian, white, whatever. Your problems as a black man facing misandry and racism are my problems as a white man.

TZ879 · 2021-09-15T13:12:08+00:00

Feminism is designed to destroy all families and communities, regardless of color.

boringcarpets · 2021-09-15T14:26:33+00:00

Yes, and it's not just in the US, we see the similar in the UK (pretty much inspired by the US). Western black women are probably the worst supporters of black men I've ever seen and have the nerve to talk about "our/us" and claim victimhood for the men they've put in courts or in harm's way.

The demands placed on us, the culture of treatment, the sheer lack of respect coupled with the entitlement is unreal. Then to exacerbate further how black women treat black men who date other (non black) women it really is shocking.

And I don't think it changes with socio-economic strata - I grew up poor in London and I like to think I experienced a decent amount of social mobility, and I haven't seen much difference in how black women treat black men

Where i do see a difference though is in the older generations, where black men and women work together and have clear support for each other and their families and communities. This in my opinion is down to values, and the shift to, well, what seems to be US "black culture"

Francis_Dollar_Hide · 2021-09-15T12:45:16+00:00

Check out Kevin Samuels on youtube, he's got a lot of smart things to say on this nuanced issue.

djc_tech · 2021-09-15T11:59:42+00:00

I’m a white guy, but my mom remarried and I have siblings who are multiracial . Half white and half black, they’re half siblings but we don’t do that in my family; you’re a full sibling regardless.

Anyway to my point. Yes they would probably say there is a disproportionate amount of hatred in the community like this. Most have left that camp and lean more center or center-rightish. While they would contend feminism was something needed it’s morphed into something nefarious now. I could go on about what they’ve told me and why they make the decisions to date who they date (most have gone on to date either white folks or Central/South American folks long term with prospects of marriage). The fact remains they have made decisions to not only bypass people in their respective groups they’ve bypassed Americans altogether. At least for the long term relationships they’re all currently in

AggressiveProblem654 · 2021-09-15T15:41:37+00:00

The black community is simply 20 years ahead of the rest of the USA. As more and more men walk away from traditional long-term relationships and marriage the same stats will apply to other women of other races as well. Most children will be born to single mothers but honestly I don't blame men for walking away because family court is biased against men. The game is rigged against men.

Men long-term will probably end up better off though because of how badly men are hurt financially in terms of divorce.

Term_Fetten · 2021-09-15T14:58:14+00:00

Title still holds without the word "slowly"...

apx_rbo · 2021-09-15T15:15:31+00:00

It's gotten to the point where I no money find bw attractive which might come as a blow to the rest of my black family.

DavidByron2 · 2021-09-15T22:54:51+00:00

I’m not sure if this is the place to talk about it

100% it is.

The black community tends to run a few years ahead of the rest as far as gender war goes. Like the canary in the coal mine. The early warning system. What's happening there will likely happen elsewhere soon enough.

we are viewed as the “straight white males of the black community”… whatever that means

the enemy

GunOfSod · 2021-09-15T10:41:44+00:00

Twitter is cancer.

OutlawMayne · 2021-09-15T09:20:41+00:00

Slowly??

UltimaterializerX · 2021-09-15T16:08:31+00:00

“Slowly?”

lmao why do you think black men are refusing to marry black women? Black men are the most anti-PC, anti-woke people in America.

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2021-09-15T15:02:15+00:00

Feminism causes women to indulge in a power trip of the worse kind that makes them unsuitable for relationships.

slimytruth · 2021-09-15T15:48:05+00:00

Agreed. Just look at those three innocent Black men who were recently cleared of false allegations of rape by a white teen. They'll never have good jobs or any chances at normal lives, thanks to her.

hottake_toothache · 2021-09-15T13:13:13+00:00

It is sad to hear, but not surprising.

reddut_gang · 2021-09-15T18:45:59+00:00

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cyruszane · 2021-09-16T22:38:51+00:00

Black men are treated like trash, more so in their own communities.

That is a fact, I have seen it with my own eyes. They get emasculated, trashed on, treated like dirt and yes by black women. They get it from the outside of the community too, its not just cops as they would like to you to believe but it comes in so many other ways, and by other types of women from all over, not just black.

Black men, and all other men for that matter, no matter a sexual orientation, have more in common with each other in a struggle for rights then they realize but, we keep getting told that guy is this or that cause he is Asian, that white man wants to do you in, or that black man is evil.
I can go on and on forever.

We need to realize this, simple fact. Stand with your brothers, or fall with out them.

Phandroid1991 · 2021-09-15T12:41:01+00:00

As someone from an ethnic background, one thing I've never understood is why non-white women are referred to "Women of Colour", but men are simply; black men, Hispanic men, Pakistani men etc ....

TheChocolateBarsGuy · 2021-09-15T17:42:50+00:00

Slowly? Feminism destroyed the black community in the US.

rockafault · 2021-09-15T18:03:21+00:00

Wean them off welfare. Put the father back in the home, working an honest job. If the mother insists on working, then train her husband to be a homemaker. Let the homemakers coordinate with each other in the communities on how best to raise their children collectively so they aren't getting picked up by pedophiles, traffickers, and gangs. Restrict electronic entertainment and emphasize a life of chores, sports, education, and whatever else is needed.

The government has become the husband and it's clearly an abusive relationship.

rok1982 · 2021-09-15T19:42:06+00:00

They talk about "toxic" masculinity when masculinity is literally the thing Black communities need. Turns out boys without fathers or solid role models go haywire and many turn to gangs in search of a father figure. Who knew!

StudentOfTheTruth0 · 2021-09-15T20:58:29+00:00

What's exactly wrong with straight while males? And what do straight white males have to do with these gender wars within the black community?

Just wondering because straight white males are so casually demonized by everybody and used as somehow the synonym of "evil", like "bogeyman" used to be. Not acceptable.

Kenznottz · 2021-09-15T12:46:46+00:00

Feminism is affecting black women more than black men. They broke family and women had to raise kids alone this lead to their daughters going fuck men. And I’m independent I don’t need no one mind set hurting them more we see this with Kevin Samuels

reddut_gang · 2021-09-15T20:33:21+00:00

A lot of people don't realize how much men's rights issues intersect with racism. It's a real shame they think we're all "white supremacist nazis" or whatever. The unfortunate reality is that when it comes to one of the cornerstone issues of our movement, false accusations, it is overwhelmingly African Americans who suffer from this injustice, at least in the States. And this side of it is never talked about in the media, unsurprisingly.

WeaknessTechnical654 · 2021-09-15T23:57:52+00:00

Yes, the racism faced by black people is often faced most by black men, but everybody conveniently ignores that fact.

0utsid3r1620 · 2021-09-15T09:30:26+00:00

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chris_dreamer2 · 2021-09-15T18:45:46+00:00

As a black man. This isnt true and utter nonsense.

Feminism isnt the issue. Extremist feminists are just like with any group. This group used to be about supporting men and furthering mens support in the world.. now its just bashing feminism, women and generalizing massive groups of people anytime someone posts something we dont like. Stop being snowflakes and actually advocate for mens issues (i.e. mens mental health support) not just whinning about nonsense like tweets and tiktok posts.

We dont need more incels

Blutarg · 2021-09-15T13:47:48+00:00

I did not know that, but it sure doen't surprise me!

CoNoelC · 2021-09-15T19:52:42+00:00

With all due respect, black women are intense af.

ThePigmanAgain · 2021-09-15T22:28:17+00:00

Got news for ya -- our women hate us just as much, they are just more polite about it. Identity Politics is about dividing the peasants, and no better way to do that than to pit the women against the men.

DavidByron2 · 2021-09-15T22:49:12+00:00

Maybe it's because I'm white myself but I saw very few black based men's rights groups. But I have seen one or two. And this stuff has been happening for at least the twenty years I've been watching.

Anyway this site is a bit racist and a bit sexist and it's basically like a black Muslim tradcon position but it's interesting (on the waybackmachine). Looks like they had a black men's webring(*) going at the time.

http://web.archive.org/web/19990125093713/http://blacktown.net/

(*) hot 1990s web technology ;) a series of similarly themed web sites that linked to each other

Estarossa86 · 2021-09-15T23:33:20+00:00

Not my problem is my solution if that’s how they want to act they can protect themselves simple as that

user-and-abuser · 2021-09-16T01:29:32+00:00

Kevin Samuels talks about this often on you tube

RandomHuman2354 · 2021-09-16T02:14:15+00:00

How can they assume that the man wouldn't stand for them. Its like assuming a random person as a killer. They just shouldn't think about all men like that.

fanclockbedsheet · 2021-09-16T19:08:14+00:00

Same with all other races and religious demographics too. Feminism is a man hating movement, race or religion doesn't really matter.

Being a south asian Muslim, I've noticed this in our communites too.

yasinpain · 2021-09-20T18:53:53+00:00

Fine

Yungblood78 · 2021-09-15T12:35:53+00:00

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MercurysonofJupiter · 2021-09-15T13:15:12+00:00

Calling anyone a bullet-bag is horrible. But your evidence for both your specific and general (very broad) claims seems scanty. A single screenshot of a single comment without any context. Why not post more of the thread so we can see it and judge for ourselves? Also, you might want to rethink your tone. The "our women" language is a little disturbing.

dark_disaster · 2021-09-15T12:11:55+00:00

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Title	Feminism is slowly destroying the black community
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