Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…

shedipity · 2021-10-23T08:20:03+00:00

See, I struggle to read stuff like that. Men are horrible and disgusting so that doesn’t shock me, it’s the WOMEN being despicable pickmes. Why any woman would side with scrotes over a vulnerable woman is beyond me. No one is there for us in society and so I just hate when women turn against women.

aquietsword · 2021-10-23T10:29:53+00:00

She said she didn't want his creepy ass company multiple times. This is peak women communicating while MEN DON'T FUCKING LISTEN. Fuck that intrusive, predatory scrote and every pickme defending shit behavior. Honestly could he be more creepy and annoying? I wish she caught his face on camera, women should see what trash looks like.

asupernova91 · 2021-10-23T07:36:02+00:00

Im so mad at this. I’m even more mad at the WOMEN in the comments telling her she should’ve shut him down sooner. That is how women end up dead. Bluntly rejecting psychos like this guy. My heart was racing with hers. And of course the scrote wouldn’t back off until she used the good ole “I have a boyfriend”.

oi_oi_oink · 2021-10-23T13:25:36+00:00

First of all, she rejected his advances multiple times. She was just being civil. And all the people blaming her would've been equally outraged had she been rude or disrespectful. I've heard things like, "get off your high horse, you're not that pretty", "not everybody is a rapist" or " you're too aggressive" when women react strongly in such situations and then they create their own "crazy woke bitch" narrative.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Better save your 3-4 minutes and energy by being "rude".

Kalypso989 · 2021-10-23T11:59:06+00:00

I commented on several things said there and I'm still shaking with anger. The deeply rooted misogyny is killing me and the women victim blaming saying she "should have done this..." is making me want to scream.

Muffcakelord · 2021-10-23T08:23:38+00:00

Believing that women can shut down men is hard cope. The only way women are free to shut down men is by learning juijutsu or something to a better degree than any police officer is expected to learn whatever they're learning, or by working out so god damn much they actually exceed the average male body muscle mass + explosive energy the male muscle contain. We expect women to work out/train 10-20 hours/week when women don't even have time for themselves since they're also expected to do free labour when in reality all we have to do is finally make it legal for women to wear certain self defence weapons while also punishing men for assault

pureFLsugar · 2021-10-23T13:46:21+00:00

😡

I dropped a few nuggets of wisdom in the comments.

This kind of aggressive approach is more common than some might imagine. At least in my area anyway. They will not accept a “no” sometimes.

Most recently I had a guy come hmu in a diner where I was taking a break. There I am minding my own and this guy does a similar pitch to this video scrote. This guy picks up my check and goes and pays for my lunch and sits back down at my table. 👀👀👀 uninvited and (in any reasonable persons mind) made it clear I wasn’t interested.

Not only did this man completely ignore my wishes he literally forced his way into my world. What makes it more complicated is that I’ve experienced some pretty extreme abuse from a man so I kinda freeze up and I hate it.

It’s hard to help decent people understand the dynamics of that kind of situation. If you get angry or have an attitude it really could be at the peril of your own safety. If he’s willing to steamroll my boundaries from get go he’s dangerous ⚠️.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-10-23T11:57:32+00:00

People defending this are full of shit and lying. If that guy botherd the victim-blamers the same way he did to this girl, all of those people would see it as harassment.

AnniaT · 2021-10-23T15:01:31+00:00

That scrotes are mad guilt tripping her was already expected, but pick me comments from women like this one makes me even sadder:

"... I dont understand why having conversation and actually just being normal is so taboo these days. Everybody is so uptight and incredibly annoying. Just say "yeah I'm not interested right now and I am just enjoying the solitude. But thank you anyways. I hope you have a good day." And freaking get on with your day. People are always complaining that they dont make friends and how they are so lonely and dont know how to meet people and yet... This is what happens when people try to talk... Not everybody is socially awkward.. And if you want to be then just politely but clearly tell them you're not interested."

machiavella_89 · 2021-10-23T18:46:12+00:00

She is obviously intensely uncomfortable and frightened, to the point that her hand is shaking. I wouldn't be surprised if she's been in this situation before and ended up dealing with an angry scrote or a full-blown stalker. She's having to weigh her words so carefully to toe this invisible, incomprehensible line between avoiding encouraging him and avoiding pissing him off, and it's still not enough to get him out of her hair until she mentions another man in the picture.

The people suggesting it's somehow her fault are either psychopathic or are living in a bubble in which they never have to deal with hostile, aggressive behavior. Just because this man isn't yelling or saying crazy shit doesn't mean he isn't a threat to her. He's ignoring her distress, ignoring her clear "no," and trying to get information about where she lives and works.

He's either a predator or so inept or out of it he has no idea how to avoid appearing like one, in which case he's a total wildcard and might do anything. But yeah go off on her because it's soooo easy for a young woman to be a ball buster in that situation.

nolongerhume · 2021-10-23T14:22:24+00:00

"She's supposed to do this this and that"

NO. She shouldn't have to do shit, she should just be able to enjoy her coffee by herself and not have to engage with some dusty scrote. It's absolutely maddening that women are expected to deal with this behavior just because they're women.

I dont know why men won't get this through their heads. You finding me fuckable doesn't make me interested in talking to you. I don't know you, and I don't want to get to know you. Shoo.

23eggz · 2021-10-23T18:24:28+00:00

I hate how "I have a boyfriend" is often the only thing that works... men really respect other men's property more than they respect women

AstrydRyder · 2021-10-23T17:35:06+00:00

I have no words. Just awful.

Meredeen · 2021-10-24T20:26:46+00:00

"Hey sir I have some pepper spray, would you mind if I try it out on you? No? Bugger off then."

Title	Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…
Author	asupernova91
Upvotes	312
Comments	31
Date	October 23, 2021 7:33 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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