Feminists complain constantly about how men "fetishize" lesbians (a fetish is a sexual fixation on a nongential body part or nonliving object so you can't fetishize lesbians) and how that's bad just because men happen to like lesbian porn even if men don't sexually harass lesbians.

Well guess what? Women actually watch MUCH MORE lesbian porn than men, AND studies show that many women won't date bisexual men but both straight and gay men are willing to date bisexuals. Why don't women wanna date bisexual men? Because they worry they will eventually become gay or are promiscuous womanizers who will cheat. They also perceive them as unmanly, and women are attracted to traditionally masculine men (talk about "toxic masculinity" perpetuated by women).

In a survey by Glamour of 1,015 women aged 18 to 44, 63% said they won't date a man who has had sex with another man. Other research showed that women refuse to date bisexual men. In the study "Swipe Left on the Bi Guys: Examining Attitudes Toward Dating and Being Sexual With Bisexual Individuals":

In qualitative research conducted in a midsized American city, Callis (2013) found that the many nonbisexual participants would not date a bisexual person, and that important differences emerged along gender lines. For example, eight out of 13 heterosexual women versus only two of 13 heterosexual men stated that they would not date a bisexual man or woman, respectively. Among the seven lesbian-identified participants, only one indicated that she would not date a bisexual woman; however the majority reported knowing lesbians in their community who refused to date bisexual women. This aligns with the experiences of bisexual women in the study who reported particular difficulty finding lesbian women willing to date them. Four out of eight gay male participants shared that they would not date a bisexual man. Callis (2013) noted that participants’ rationale for their decisions closely aligned with well-documented stereotypes about bisexual people. For example, heterosexual women reported concerns that bisexual men would be more likely to have an STI or be unfaithful. Heterosexual male participants, however, cited stereotypes about hypersexuality in their willingness to date bisexual women, noting the potential for “more sex” or the opportunity to experience a threesome with another woman.

In a quantitative, online study of heterosexual men and women, Armstrong and Reissing (2014) also found evidence for gender differences in attitudes toward engaging in casual sex, dating, or a committed relationship with a bisexual person. All participants expressed negative attitudes toward engaging with bisexual people, and this negativity increased with the commitment level of the relationship. However, across all three relationship types, women reported more negative attitudes than men about partnering with a bisexual person. Specifically, women endorsed concerns that reflected stereotypes about hypersexuality and the presumed instability of a bisexual orientation, such that a bisexual male partner may “become gay in the future,” would be unsatisfied with a female partner, and would cheat on them with, or leave the relationship for, a man. Such results parallel the work of Mohr and Rochlen (1999), who found that cisgender men were more accepting of female bisexuality than cisgender women, and the work of Yost and Thomas (2012) who found that cisgender men were less accepting of bisexual men than bisexual women.

In the research paper's experimental design of 224 straight women, 120 straight men and 96 gay men:

rather than asking participants to self-report attitudes toward dating and being sexual with bisexual individuals in general, this study utilized minor deception to assess attitudes toward dating specific hypothetical individuals. Participants were asked to complete a survey about online dating in which they were shown dating profiles of men and women randomly depicted as either straight, gay, or bisexual. They were then asked to rate the profiles on how sexually and romantically attractive they found the individuals, how much they would like to date and have sex with the individuals, and how masculine or feminine they found the individuals.

To measure whether participants attended to the sexual orientations listed on the profiles, they were asked at two points during the survey to report the sexual orientation listed on the profile they previously viewed (one question came after a male profile, and one after a female profile). Results indicated that 12.5% (n=28) of heterosexual women and 20.8% (n=20) of gay men failed to report the correct sexual orientation of the male profile, and 22.5% (n=27) of heterosexual men failed to report the correct sexual orientation of the female profile. However, removing these participants did not ultimately change the significance of the MANOVA analyses for heterosexual women, (F(10, 2726)=7.61, p<.001; n2=.03, heterosexual men, F(10, 1288) = 5.34, p < .001, n2 = .04), or gay men, F(10, 1034) = 1.21, p = .28; n2 = .01. Therefore, the decision was ultimately made to include these participants in the analysis.

Here's the abstract:

Dating and maintaining romantic relationships can often be difficult for bisexual people due to binegativity and related negative stereotypes. The current study utilized an experimental design to investigate attitudes toward dating and being sexual with bisexual individuals. A convenience sample of 440 participants, including 224 heterosexual women, 120 heterosexual men, and 96 gay men was recruited to complete an online survey. Participants were shown seven cisgender male and seven cisgender female dating profiles with various sexual orientations. Participants rated each profile on measures of attractiveness and masculinity/femininity. Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men. No such differences were found for heterosexual and gay men’s ratings of female and male profiles, respectively. These results support previous research findings that indicate more negative attitudes toward dating bisexual men than bisexual women. The current study also provides further understanding as to how negative attitudes influence sexual and romantic attraction to bisexual individuals. Areas for future research are discussed.

Here's the results:

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In this table, it is shown that women are less willing than both straight and gay men to date a bisexual and they perceive bisexual men as less manly.

In another study, they found the same exact results:

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Many women might not outright admit they won't date bisexual men because they might get called biphobic or homophobic. Here's how they dug into her subconscious or her true colors:

However, rather than asking participants to self-report attitudes toward dating and being sexual with bisexual individuals in general, this study utilized minor deception to assess attitudes toward dating specific hypothetical individuals. Participants were asked to complete a survey about online dating in which they were shown dating profiles of men and women randomly depicted as either straight, gay, or bisexual. They were then asked to rate the profiles on how sexually and romantically attractive they found the individuals, how much they would like to date and have sex with the individuals, and how masculine or feminine they found the individuals.

Taken together, these results support previous research indicating that heterosexual women dem- onstrate more negative attitudes toward bisexual men than heterosexual men do toward bisexual women.

In case you assume participants didn't notice the sexual orientation of the dating profiles, read this:

To measure whether participants attended to the sexual orientations listed on the profiles, they were asked at two points during the survey to report the sexual orientation listed on the profile they previously viewed (one question came after a male profile, and one after a female profile). Results indicated that 12.5% (n=28) of heterosexual women and 20.8% (n=20) of gay men failed to report the correct sexual orientation of the male profile, and 22.5% (n=27) of heterosexual men failed to report the correct sexual orientation of the female profile. However, removing these participants did not ultimately change the significance of the MANOVA analyses for heterosexual women, (F(10, 2726)=7.61, p<.001; n2=.03, heterosexual men, F(10, 1288) = 5.34, p < .001, n2 = .04), or gay men, F(10, 1034) = 1.21, p = .28; n2 = .01. Therefore, the decision was ultimately made to include these participants in the analysis.

This shows that straight women are a lot less willing than straight men to date bisexual men and less willing to date bisexuals than even lesbians. It even finds lesbians are less willing than gay/bisexual men to date bisexuals of the same gender. It also finds that bisexual women are less willing than bisexual men to date or have sex with or engage in sexual/romantic activities with bisexual men although slightly more willing than bisexual men to enter relationships with bisexual men. It also finds that bisexual women are more willing to date/have sex with/enter relationships with/engage in romantic or sexual activity with other bisexual women than with bisexual men whereas bisexual men are more willing to date/have sex with/enter relationships with/engage in romantic or sexual activity with bisexual women than with other bisexual men.

It's women who have homophobic dating preferences (i.e.: many of them won’t date bisexuals but men usually will). They worry bisexual men are womanizers who will cheat on them or will eventually become gay. They also think bisexual men aren't masculine enough and want a masculine men (sounds like "toxic masculinity" to me). Nonetheless, feminists ignore this and instead will complain about men simply watching lesbian porn. At the same time, women watch lesbian porn much more than men. They actually watch more lesbian porn than men.

According to PornHub statistics, lesbian porn is, by a long shot, the most popular category among women, and lesbian porn is 151% more popular with women than men.

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Women are proportionately 281% more likely to view the ‘Pussy Licking’ category when compared to men, 197% more likely to view ‘Solo Male’ videos and 151% more into ‘Lesbian’ videos. Dr Laurie notes that “women continue to favour lesbian porn. They get to see acts they enjoy on themselves – that’s why ‘pussy licking’ is popular. They also seem to enjoy simple eye candy (‘solo male’) performing just for her, perhaps in her ‘fantasy’.”

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Note: just because women are more likely than men to watch bisexual porn doesn't mean they like bisexual men. They only like him for porn, but nothing more.

Pornhub statistics are linked here and here.

So women watch far more lesbian porn than men and often refuse to date bisexual men and see him as a red flag or see him as not a "real man" whereas men have no problem at all dating bisexual women and even many gay men won't mind dating bisexual men, but feminists are mad at men for "fetishizing" lesbians just by merely watching lesbian porn or being aroused by lesbian sex, even if men don't go out of their way to sexually harass lesbians yet they say nothing about what women do?

This is like how feminists condemn men for being attracted to Asian women yet they don't complain about how way more Asian women are obsessed with white men than white men who are obsessed with Asian women.