Anyone else find this irritating? like if a guy straight up says he wants something casual I can respect that. Recently though, I've come across a lot of profiles that say something along the lines of "lets have fun but open to a relationship if there's a real connection". Like wtf isn't the point of dating to literally see if there's a real connection? to me this translates to "let me waste your time as a placeholder so I can have sex while I look for someone I actually like". yeah good luck finding a connection when you are wasting so much time having "fun". no thanks sir being a placeholder is not "fun" to me.