Okay. If you're reading this, it's likely because you at least partially understand and agree with RPW ideas, so I won't go too far into the basics. But here's why N-Count matters for women. Yes, it's stuff already covered in the sidebar, but fresh threads to discuss this stuff are helpful, and everybody has a slightly different view.

1 - Every partner makes you harder to please sexually. Once you've ridden the carousel and had many men, you have a plethora of past experiences to measure any current/future partner against. Steve lasted longer. Bruce was bigger. Rick was amazingly talented at oral. Kevin could make out for hours. And so on. What does your current partner excel at? Nothing, compared to that. So instead you long for the past - and that puts you one foot out the door instead of committing to your present partner. (Alpha widow, anyone?)

Also, do you know a major reason why men don't wife up perceived 'sluts'? Because they've been there and done that, and the men can't compete with the smorgasbord of sexual experiences those women have had so they don't even try. (Also, see reasons 3 and 4) A man will have sex with a slut because she's skilled, or because she's easy and he's horny, not because he's looking for a wife.

2 - Shared Wonder. Do you have any fond memories of first times? A first french kiss, quick and coy behind the bleachers? Being naughty in your room with a boy while your parents slept in the other room? Or simply bathing with a partner for the first time, slow and luxurious and wondering as you explore each others' soapy, wet bodies for the first time?

There are a million 'first times' for interacting with partners in life, in different activities. So the more you do with throwaway partners, the more you're not going to share with whomever you choose as a 'keeper'. Remember: men want to lead. So if you've already done everything sexually, or are even more sexually experienced than he is, it's hard for him to lead in the bedroom. It can be emasculating.

3 - Sexual fitness. Okay, maybe you're the 1 in 1000 woman who knows what kegels are, says she'll do them, and then actually does them. Congratulations. But for everybody else who isn't lying to herself, hear this: your sexual organs are like any other biomechanical device. They wear out. They get loose. They can get damaged. And if you have a lot of partners, or even just one vigorous one, and don't do your kegels to counter it, you're going to get looser. It's kind of like slow-motion damage from having a kid. This means you may feel less pleasurable to him during sex. And men do value sexual pleasure from their partners.

4 - STDs. It's 2022, you all know this. But STDs are still around, and while some are curable, some are not. Every new partner is a new potential spread. And some spread orally (gonorrhea), or through skin-to-skin on areas not protected by condoms (herpes), and it may not be apparent to you, or to the man, that he is infected. But congratulations, you now have the gift that keeps on giving. And then you're faced with either disclosing this to future partners, or lying and saying nothing and being that woman.

And yes, I know the Clap is curable for now. But multiple-resistant strains are a thing, and these are only two things out there. You know what's up; you should know about HIV, syphilis, etc. Point 4 stands.

I could continue, but these are the primary reasons why a high N-count for women is bad. And especially for reason number 2, which I just don't see enough people appreciate. Having wonderful experiences instead of charging ahead and thinking quantity makes up for quality, is a thing.