Assuming the individual takes personal responsibility, what are the legitimate intersexual grievances today?

NockerJoe · 2022-06-08T23:38:00+00:00

All grievances are legit to the person grieving. People downplaying them just haven't lived that life. FFS just let people bitch.

Ambassadior · 2022-06-09T01:58:49+00:00

People who desire stable attachments in a dating scene thats increasingly unstable. This is the universal one for both men and women. Women with unfettered hypergamy, and phantom men that can vanish as soon as they got their sexual release. Social atomization is the direct cause.

toasterchild · 2022-06-08T23:41:53+00:00

I am interested in the fact that so many women refuse to date conservative men and a lot of men around here list that as something that causes them major trouble in the dating world.

hsvgamer199 · 2022-06-09T00:15:21+00:00

If you're not interested in kids, marriage carries a lot of legal, emotional and financial risk. More and more people seem to be doing unmarried cohabitation.

Kentucky_Supreme · 2022-06-09T00:42:13+00:00

The 80/20 thing kinda puts the brakes on everything if you're an average guy.

Pigeon_of_the_sea · 2022-06-09T01:05:04+00:00

Disabled people. Frequent doctor visits, bad days, physical or mental limitations....all things that are hard for a partner to deal with.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-06-09T02:08:03+00:00

Mental illness and trauma. This is what I learned from watching Soft White Underbelly on YT.

bloodthirsty_emu · 2022-06-09T04:24:29+00:00

I can only add myself and the few in my category - "people with appearance affected by illness".

I've made a few comments setting out my experiences so won't repeat them, but the simple issue is that it's taken until my mid thirties for me to even be recognised as a human and a possible dating option

Throughout my teens and twenties my sole experiences involved being flat out ignored or less commonly abused and even physically assaulted.

All for things I can't change etc.

We're a very small group of more commonly men but also women who absolutely deserve better than the contempt and hatred we experience in trying to date.

Patrickstarho · 2022-06-09T00:47:09+00:00

Most problems can be solved by an ancient technique called masturbation. Look into it

fjfjjrbtvrvbsj · 2022-06-08T23:38:33+00:00

Grievance: Women are allowed/encouraged to act narcissist.

pop442 · 2022-06-09T02:00:54+00:00

Depends on the level of autism. Certain forms are more manageable than others when it comes to developing social skills.
Conventionally unattractive is pretty subjective when it comes to women. But if a woman loses weight and maintains a pleasant attitude and demeanor, that'll work wonders for her when trying to get dates even if she'll never become a dime or a "Stacy."
Rural areas often have a strong sense of community and being poor is fixable. People may not become financially stable overnight but the key is to at least work towards the process. If there's no viable work where you're at, you'll find a way to move just off of survival.
Unless you work 2 jobs or a super taxing job, there's still places and venues where you can go and meet people outside of work life. I do accounting work while also doing an online course and I still find at least some time to go to places to meet people.
If they're living in that society and that's a societal norm to them, is that even a real grievance? Or are you talking about immigrants?

Overall, I'm of the mindset that there's always room for improvement with the exception of severe disabilities or deformities. But it's gonna take effort and putting yourself out there.

welcometothejl · 2022-06-09T00:54:15+00:00

Divorced dads who are alienated from their kids, and then forced to pay child support.

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whitemonster_enjoyer · 2022-06-09T03:27:32+00:00

men on the autism spectrum who want a relationship but can't get past the dating phase

I don't think it's reasonable to blame women for not wanting to date someone who is severely socially impaired. It's unfortunate for autistic men but it is what it is. No different than people born with physical deformities.

conventionally unattractive woman who can't get any guy to commit and give quality time

Unattractive women absolutely can get a guy to commit. They're just bitter because they can't get chad to commit LMAO.

eyesayhello · 2022-06-09T06:45:16+00:00

I have problem finding/getting/keeping women. I'm just so damn tired of paying for everything the man "is supposed" to pay for. Cost-to-benefit reward isn't what it used to be.

AelfredRex · 2022-06-09T13:23:43+00:00

That last question just sums it all up, don't it? "I'm not Chad, so how do I pump-and-dump supermodels?"

That's the kind of thinking that keeps so many young men alone. Hopefully, they grow out of it.

Title	Assuming the individual takes personal responsibility, what are the legitimate intersexual grievances today?
Author	chancetolive
Upvotes	12
Comments	44
Date	June 8, 2022 11:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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