If average women have nothing or very little to offer, why do you, the "average man" even want to be with them?

cowfishAreReal · 2022-10-15T15:09:30+00:00

You know that average men and average women have partners all around the world right, in fact most average men, and most average women, are dating or married.

Most people don't see their partner as a way to brag to other people that they have the best partner. Most of the "negatives" you talked about aren't even related to the relationship you'll have with that person but what other people will think, and why the fuck should I care about what other people think?

The whole point of a partner is someone who shares the same interests and values, someone who you can have fun with, someone that understands you and you can understand back. All you did with this post is tell everyone you've never been in an actual relationship

Noodles_R · 2022-10-15T14:47:21+00:00

I think you’re thinking of below average here. Average people aren’t ‘meh’. They’re just normal. And from my experience, normal people are still fun, can have some good looks, be social, have hobbies etc.

NockerJoe · 2022-10-15T15:00:09+00:00

If you can only be arou d exceptional people and be happy that says way more about you than anyone else. I can't believe how many times it needs to be explained on reddit most interpersonal relationships happen because people like spending time around each other and trying to categorize it by utilitarian spreadsheets makes you look like a weird crab person.

richard_golbes · 2022-10-15T14:51:04+00:00

Very few “average” people are precisely average along each and every metric. People are a constellation of attributes, each of which may be more or less appealing to a potential partner depending on the circumstances.

Play_Muted · 2022-10-15T18:14:03+00:00

being alone is bad. they offer company

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-10-15T19:01:21+00:00

I live in Portland, a self absorbed hipster town. Everyone here is a super quirky artist. Or very emo and caught up in their feelings. Meeting someone "average" is actually refreshing. Anybody who tips the scales towards optimism rather than pessimism is probably above average in the personality department.

childish_badda_bingo · 2022-10-15T14:44:15+00:00

The average men I know always have something interesting going on. They have a hobby or career or personality trait that’s in some way captivating. Are you thinking below average men? The ones that sit around and play video games and smoke weed all day? Even they have girlfriends because there are a lot unambitious partners out there.

Warm_Gur8832 · 2022-10-15T14:44:11+00:00

Average women have plenty to offer average men and the ppl shouting otherwise are afraid of that.

jeralte · 2022-10-15T14:55:40+00:00

Yikes. Other than the fact that this post sounds salty as hell and belongs right in fds,

Most happy couples I know don't think that way. Idk what you mean by average, but people generally meet within their own league. Is this what you mean by average? Then people who are unhappy that their partner is 'average' are unsatisfied with their own league. I'm sure once they move up leagues (if they even make an effort to) they'll switch partners, don't get why you're so worried about them lol. Honestly such a waste of a post to bitch about idiots who think they 'deserve better' but don't put any effort into improving themselves, this applies to both men and women.

2022-10-15T23:20:11+00:00

He hasn't got lots of money or even a job that others will be fascinated by.

Why the hell would I need others to be be fascinated about my woman's job? One must be pretty narcissistic to find that being an issue not insulting and gross. Hell this whole post is gross.

SincereJustice · 2022-10-16T01:06:16+00:00

Sex

The answer is sex

cassowaryy · 2022-10-16T01:26:42+00:00

Because the main thing all men want is sex and every woman has a pussy… they don’t have a long laundry list of requirements to get with someone like you have lol. It’s really not hard to understand

2022-10-16T20:56:30+00:00

That’s the general question on here: men seem to hate everything women say or do but still want to be with them? If it’s only about sex, than go and pay for it. But that’s not what they want, they want little dolls admiring and desiring them but without their own personalities or opinions

pan3639 · 2022-10-15T15:24:52+00:00

Average men just want to fuck. Other than that, they're just as bored as the women you're describing.

What your post basically boils down to is that men are less shallow, so in a way, you already answered your own question.

Neptune-Jr · 2022-10-15T16:27:55+00:00

Because I'm not asking for much. I just want someone whose company I enjoy. I don't understand why I have to be superman and do 50 things at the same time just for that.

JumboJetz · 2022-10-15T15:08:08+00:00

Sex. Humans have a drive to have sex.

Big pharma has kindof eliminated womens sex drives through birth control, anti-anxiety medication, depression medication - all things disproportionately taken by women - but healthy unmedicated people have sex drives and are willing to put up with an average person for sex.

toasterchild · 2022-10-15T16:47:56+00:00

Good question that many women ask men here all the time, why not be more choosy? Being more selective would make you more desirable to women as a bonus.

Leather-Creme2611 · 2022-10-15T14:49:08+00:00

I identify as 6'11, and naturally, I'm gigastacysexual. It's time to start respecting peoples height identities.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2022-10-15T15:20:45+00:00

Ok, Mr Meh, WHY do you want to be with her then?

Pussy is a powerful drug. But for that, most men wouldn't even talk to women.

cmvmania · 2022-10-15T14:45:08+00:00

when an asset/commodity is overvalued, something has got to give in order for a market correction to occur. same goes with a stock market bubble.

its like when a giant multinational company seizes the whole lake for its bottled water company, everyone strikes

MAGA-Latino · 2022-10-15T16:07:43+00:00

Many women I know regret not getting with one of those guys when they had the chance. Many women couldn't do as good as they thought and ended up blowing their chance with the best guys they had.

Don't forget that men tend to actualize and appreciate in value. After you been passed around a little bit and start getting older, all those so-called opportunities start drying up. You also get older before they do.

Bad_texter · 2022-10-15T22:46:00+00:00

You may be confusing the avg guy who is usually fine with an avg woman with a guy on PPD who just hates women yet cannot stay away.

That said, i have no idea why he married me. I’m so boring. Literally avg in everything, tempermental, and my fav hobby is watching tv shows or playing phone games.

And i married some future soon to be world renowned surgeon. 😂😂☠️🥹

My best friend said i was a 6, and i was like meh ok. Then next month, she said she defined avg as a 7… she basically said i was below avg. 😂😂

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MAGA-Latino · 2022-10-15T14:42:36+00:00

You didn't mention an age range for the average men your referring to.

alphasupremacy5555 · 2022-10-16T04:14:46+00:00

An average man will go for being with an average woman because it's preferable to him than loneliness. To him average is better than nothing. Average is better than no woman. An average woman has it easier and has more power in the dating world because she can get a slightly above average man. It's hard for most average men to even get an average woman. He might get her time and company but for damn sure certainly not any free enthusiastic wild monkey sex.

Ohms2North · 2022-10-16T05:02:58+00:00

Titties

ZippNex · 2022-10-16T06:22:39+00:00

FDS material

igotthechinesevirus · 2022-10-16T15:23:50+00:00

Here is a piece of knowledge from mans behavior: Man, including very atractive ones, would sleep almost with anyone as long as its someone new. Thats why average or a little above avg girls can have one-night stands with super-hot dudes on tinder, these guys think "ehh she's meh looking but she's new" then they hit it and the next day they're so disappointed with the experience... and then they go and do it again.

Title	If average women have nothing or very little to offer, why do you, the "average man" even want to be with them?
Author	Cjaylyle
Upvotes	3
Comments	95
Date	October 15, 2022 2:38 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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