So after months of back and forth arguing, little to no communication and not being allowed to see our son. The stbxw and finally opened up some lines of communication. I finally got a court order allowing me every other weekend visitations and go to 7on/7off when negative drug tests come back (she's divorcing me off allegations I'm addicted to Marijuana) oh and she has to pay for the drug tests, I have to reimburse her if they're positive.

Anyway, after months of this bs and waiting on the drug tests to come back we finally started talking. Our son is having a really tough time with this and was acting out and saying some weird shit when he came over. I reached out and we started talking. Both wanted this to be over and to move on. She confessed her attorneys bill was getting way more than what she could handle and she wanted to solve everything at our upcoming mediation. I had previously heard that we could draw up a settlement agreement and skip mediation all together if we could get on the same page and make an agreement that worked for both of us. And holy shit guys!! We did it. We went back and forth over texts and a phone call and lined out all the terms of our separation. I gave a little, she gave a little and we came up with a pretty good deal for both. This was 3 weeks ago. Last week she finally talks to her attorney and the next day proceeds to yank the plug on the whole settlement. Her attorney convinced her I'm screwing her over and she's loosing out by agreeing. She now thinks I manipulated her into the whole thing even though the texts clearly show we both took and gave a little bit for what the other wanted. We're now back to zero communication and she's blocked me from texting her. Got a few replies over email but nothing with an explanation. So yay..

Just wanted to vent.