Curious what everyone here's stand is on the porn/OF industry

VasiliyZaitzev · 2023-04-01T20:49:13+00:00

Porn/OF, dating apps and Insta and the like have FUBARed dating/relationships.

RatchedAngle · 2023-04-01T20:01:16+00:00

I’m not a fan of it.

But I have been told not to police men’s sexuality. So if women want to sell their pictures/videos, and men want to purchase them, it’s not my problem.

If men are angry that women can make so much money simply by getting naked, then they should stop consuming porn and encourage other men to do so. If men dislike promiscuous women, they should stop gifting those women with sexual validation (and contrary to popular redpill theory, women do desire sexual validation).

It’s not my responsibility to police other women for men’s benefit. The only people who can put a stop to this business are its customers: and that’s primarily men.

I found a husband who rarely watches porn and would never pay for it. I don’t watch porn. So we will stay in our own little world and watch everyone else fight about it, I suppose.

Sailoress7 · 2023-04-01T22:22:10+00:00

I have my own moral and religious problems with porn. But coming strictly from a RedPillWomen perspective, it’s also horrible because when men are given sexual engagement or gratification (like porn) without any commitment or self-improvement required — essentially not earning it — then they have no incentive to better themselves or treat women well.

_trixie_firecracker_ · 2023-04-01T23:40:54+00:00

My husband used to do nonprofit criminal defense, and after representing sex workers, he now believes there is no ethical way to be a male consumer in the sex industry - whether it’s going to a strip club, watching porn, soliciting prostitutes, or subscribing to OF - because you can never be 100% sure the woman is doing it of her own free will and not out of coercion or to support an addiction.

Karlor_Gaylord_Cries · 2023-04-01T20:21:03+00:00

I think it has desensitized men, and has put all women in a competition. Why do you think some women get their feelings hurt and feel worthless when their guy watches porn?

We shouldn't have to be in a a permanent competition like that. That's just my view.

From my experience, the only guys who watch porn or actually pay for only fans have an addiction to it. Young handsome confident men don't need porn. They can have who ever they want when ever.

That's the only thing that bothers me about porn. If you HAVE to or NEED it then I'm good. I don't need to compete with that. I'm out.

sunlitroof · 2023-04-02T04:09:38+00:00

Its disgusting

Some-username9 · 2023-04-01T23:17:16+00:00

Porn is trash, is my stance. It’s like a drug, harmful and addictive.

I’ve never looked too closely at OF, but I assume it’s something like porn but with a kind of pretend/imaginary relationship that fools the viewer into thinking they have something that they don’t actually have. If so, sounds even more harmful than porn.

armywife81 · 2023-04-02T00:28:15+00:00

Agree with you 100%.

Foxrhapsody · 2023-04-01T23:58:11+00:00

It’s disgusting

astrologyadviceplzz · 2023-04-03T05:56:12+00:00

Porn dehumanizes women but this isn’t a new phenomenon by any means. Modern porn has more access because of the internet but this kind of thing has always existed

SurrealDreamerHere · 2023-04-01T20:13:39+00:00

You are right! It’s a disgrace. It has destroyed healthy, happy and subtle romance. For context, I’m a male here.

barmitzvahmoney · 2023-04-02T12:05:33+00:00

Completely agree. How on earth can you respect women when you go home and jack off while watching them get raped? How can you have a healthy loving relationship when watching women experience pain and humiliation excites you? It sickens me, truly.

LateralThinker13 · 2023-04-02T01:44:33+00:00

OF is great! It tells me as a man who to AVOID. Unless I'm just trying to get laid - they'll be easy.

As a Redpill woman nothing horrifies me more than a society where women are seen as fetishized objects to be degraded.

As it should. Women degrading the value of all women is not a market force you want even tangentally affecting you.

kaliflower77 · 2023-04-02T17:56:39+00:00

100% hate absolutely everything about it. I have zero respect for women who do it and I wish it didn’t exist.

inhaledpie4 · 2023-04-02T23:42:54+00:00

Super harmful in more ways than I can think to write down at the moment. For both men and women

Morphiadz · 2023-04-03T00:27:35+00:00

It destroys the healthy relationship between men and women. Men these days (and women) are so sexualized, it is like everything is about sex and what you look like, everyone has casual sex with friends, it's just gone too far. These men also mistreat women, I have personally never felt special or loved by a man who is sexual/consumes pornography. My partner is religious and anti-pornography and treats me so well. Men like that are hard to come by these days, but their outlook on life and relationships is so different, and you can actually trust that they can talk to a woman (client, coworker, etc) without it being sexual or without desiring them.

redditactuallysux · 2023-04-01T20:19:21+00:00

You know that women were seen that way by men before internet porn, right?

Unfortunately, cat calling didn't start when OF became popular.

My stance is similar to u/ratchedangle's, and reflects most of my feelings about things that I don't like: I mind my own business, and give my energy to the people who believe what I believe.

Boolzay · 2023-04-02T13:35:33+00:00

The problem isn't porn it's porn addiction. Some of you like to read fifty shades or listen to erotic audios, nothing wrong with a bit of fantasy, it becomes problematic when it's a habit, real sex will feel boring by comparison. No man with an ounce of self respect would throw money on OF.

madeline3510 · 2023-04-02T13:42:58+00:00

There are NO benefits to that industry. It is detrimental and disgusting

seasaltyblondie · 2023-04-03T20:54:51+00:00

Porn ruins the development of the brain, I’m completely against it on both ends

a_tall_amanda · 2023-04-02T08:13:14+00:00

Porn is a disgrace and in my opinion it should be banned, it is a tool of control, bestialization of men and objectification of women.

rescadora · 2023-04-02T11:17:02+00:00

I find porn to be incredibly unethical and exploitative of women. There’s no way to make porn empowering, not because of my ideas of purity, but because the porn industry contributes to domestic violence, sex trafficking, etc. OF keeps being presented as easy money to young girls which I have an issue with as well; I feel it stunts their potential. It also fails to consider that if one wants a career or something in the future, an employer digging up their OF wouldn’t be very hard

TheBunk_TB · 2023-04-02T01:24:25+00:00

Many paths in life, it is up to those that travel to understand the costs/benefits.

(Btw, I think that porn and OF flooded the market, made “it” cheap)

32vromeo · 2023-04-02T04:09:50+00:00

I think the main thing I have against porn/OF is it’s ease of access. I think many guys will get lazy. Kinda like, how do you teach a man to cook when DoorDash is so easy and convenient? Many women force themselves to see it as a win-win and society insists this as female empowerment

pnw4anr · 2023-04-01T21:35:35+00:00

I think online dating and apps are way worse for interpersonal relationships than porn or OF.

And I do think that porn is bad for the brains and that OF is a horrorshow. But I can simply not simp on OF and choose to not watch porn and then it's "affects" are not affecting me. But the affects of dating apps hurts us all whether we're on them or not (and I think a man would have to be seriously stupid to be on a dating app unless he's in the top 5% anymore).

Aromatic_Ad5473 · 2023-04-02T01:48:18+00:00

Before internet pornography there were photos before photos there were drawings. It’s always been here and it will always be here

Charles_Sebastian · 2023-04-02T02:28:30+00:00

Porn is like herion. Used everyday its one of the least noxious and most effective sources of pleasure and stress relief available. If an old person has been on drugs their whole they've been on heroin because its one of the few drugs that doesn't damage your organs from chronic use.

All these properties stem from the fact that it so closely mimics your body's natural painrelief mechanism. And, for that very same reason it, along with its opiod cousins, are the most soul destroying substances on the planet.

There are no free lunches. Pain, heartache and despair existbfor a reason. Endorphins kick-in only under certain stress patterns for a reason. Its not a perfectly perfect system but its more miraculous than any human mind could comprehend or control. The more precisely you're able to hack its the more deleterious that hack will be.

WishGullible5142 · 2023-04-02T00:10:10+00:00

I hold the same view with the exception of genuine sex work/prostitution/escorts as I view it as a two-sided coin that does as much good as it does bad.

cheesmanglamourghoul · 2023-04-02T03:47:31+00:00

I just wish the age was 21

kenjiurada · 2023-04-02T14:25:04+00:00

Don’t you think maybe, just maybe, you might be a little uptight?

the_Disagreeable_Man · 2023-04-02T07:59:04+00:00

Yes and no. Before porn, there were sex education books, which were opposed by the many. Before those books and the first sexual “revolution” in 1920’s the brothel was every man’s place, married or not. It is because women were told absolutely nothing about sex, and to their husbands great disappointment. After all, a marriage without erotic dimension must be frustrating and shallow, and so most married men in those times would be visiting brothels or had mistresses. Although porn certainly messes up peoples heads and their erotic expectations, I don’t think it destroys a romance. The latter it an effect of imagination and emotional sensitivity rather than sexual preferences.

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Title: Curious what everyone here's stand is on the porn/OF industry

Full text: I personally think its a disgrace to humanity. It has destroyed romance and healthy sexual intimacy between a man and a woman. Of course this is my opinion so feel free to disagree.

I would like to find a reset button and go back to the time before internet pornography was a thing. It would be nice to never have seen those horrible internet memes of degenerate women and men and everyone thinking its comedy.

As a Redpill woman nothing horrifies me more than a society where women are seen as fetishized objects to be degraded.

Call me old school but it would be nice to walk down the streets without being creeped on by porn addict perverts and actually have a decent man romanticize me.

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weezy-13 · 2023-04-14T08:53:29+00:00

I think porn has its problems but every human has the right to choose what they engage in, I think there needs to be more education on the harm porn can cause e.g erectile dysfunction.

But I believe some people would actually go out and rape women if they didn't have an avenue to release their frustrations.

I personally got addicted to porn and realized the harm it was doing to me and decided to stop engaging all together, my life has drastically improved.

I think the problem isn't that it exists but how easily accessable It is and how unregulated the industry is.

Sex trafficking is so prominent in the industry and people aren't aware they are watching real life sex slaves and lots of them are minors.

Title	Curious what everyone here's stand is on the porn/OF industry
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Date	April 1, 2023 7:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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