Women always want something new with one man; men always want the same thing with someone new

greedyleopard42 · 2022-09-01T15:17:27+00:00

pretty oversimplified take, but i understand the purpose of making it in a concise statement.

i think both men and women have a bit of both sentiments. i’ve felt the same way in relationships and i’m not a man. probably varies a lot from person to person

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-09-01T15:57:22+00:00

I don't understand your post beyond the headline. What does your emotional and sexual aspects being separate have to do with girls in the past feeling like soulmates? Why do they feel like soulmates? Are you saying women don't feel like that? Because they don't separate emotion from sexuality? I'm confused.

Ohyarlysmiles · 2022-09-01T17:26:26+00:00

Who else finds this fascinating and frustrating at the same time?

Generalizations and stereotypes are always fascinating and frustrating.

It's fascinating because what you've done here is accept a proposition as true based solely on gendered expectations rather than any demonstrated factual basis. From there you "take it to natural conclusions."

Intelligent-Term · 2022-09-01T17:18:15+00:00

NAMALT and NAWALT, but it's a pretty good generalization for a lot of people.

Just not me. As a man, I noticed that the woman I married years ago (and eventually divorced) did indeed keep expecting new things from me. But I never wanted the same thing I had with her with another woman. I was loyal and dedicated to a fault. Simply put: She changed, I didn't. I wanted things to be the way we were when we first met and dated, but she kept wanting bigger and better things both financially and emotionally. I think she eventually realized her mistake after we got a divorce, but she would never admit it.

ruboyuri · 2022-09-01T15:39:53+00:00

Generalizing broadly will always help you deal realistically with individuals, is that right ?

Capable-Resolve-2001 · 2022-09-02T12:09:25+00:00

There’s evidence that women’s desire for their long term partners wanes with time, and they start desiring new partners. Men, on the other hand, show no such waning desire and if they seek new partners, it’s usually an addition to the one they have, not a replacement.

2022-09-01T16:31:21+00:00

They left their last relationship for a reason. Isn't it logical to then find a man who's an improvement on the relationship that ended ?

Flightlessbirbz · 2022-09-01T21:08:39+00:00

I don’t know that this applies to all, or even most, men and women. I guess it’s a riff on the idea that women go into a marriage/relationship expecting the man to change, while men go into it expecting the woman to stay the same? And the idea that men are less monogamous than women? Regardless, this post comes off as rather personal, more so than a general rule.

daddysgotanew · 2022-09-02T21:37:03+00:00

Yep. Men can love a woman and want to fuck the brains out of some other hot chick we see at the store. The dick knows no bounds lol.

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Hungry-Nebula · 2022-09-01T17:03:54+00:00

Your view is wrong because it is generalising entire groups of people based on an extremely small sample size. Even if you've met, talked with, and fully understood what thousands of men and women wanted in a relationship, that would be a minuscule amount of the population.

250umdfail · 2022-09-01T15:17:25+00:00

Speak for yourself. Maybe you struggle meeting the very basic needs in a relationship. Therefore, go around seeking the same thing in every woman.

Women on the other hand have far more options, and find it way easier to satisfy their basic needs. So they can afford to look for exciting things with a new partner. You would be too, if you were the proverbial Chad.

rurunoa · 2022-09-01T15:26:16+00:00

then don’t get into committed relationships

2022-09-01T19:15:59+00:00

All the idiots that lack discernment stay seething in the comments section. Shocking.

doggiedoc2004 · 2022-09-02T02:30:47+00:00

Pithy sayings do not equal reality. This may be your individual experience but I doubt this equals a truth.

TedHynes · 2022-09-02T11:17:01+00:00

you have to constantly supply new shiny things (verbal, material, personal) to women or else their inner jackdaw will bid them go elsewhere

Psych_FI · 2022-09-06T04:01:27+00:00

So vague and meaningless. Some would argue men prefer variety and want multiple women whereas women just want one man…

Might just be your experience which is still valid but should be the basis for any sweeping generalisations.

Title	Women always want something new with one man; men always want the same thing with someone new
Author	edjohn88
Upvotes	22
Comments	80
Date	September 1, 2022 2:52 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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